Waiting until Marriage.

Silverman11 · 04-08-2014 03:54PM

sovereign121 wrote: »

Stop being so defensive? How have I attacked your beliefs? It is acceptable for the Catholic Church to go around ramming fiction down people's throats but as soon as someone speaks out they immediately go on the defensive claiming to be attacked? Ya it doesn't wash with me. I just find it very narrow minded and quite sad for people to go around devouting there way of life to something that has been created by an organisation who's sole being is greed.

Can you not accept anyone with different beliefs to yourself?

JayRoc wrote: »

I don't think you understand what "sexual compatibility" means.

What type of sexual compatibility are you on about exactly? I'll try and explain how I think it will be fine.

RobertKK wrote: »

Greed like being the biggest providers of education and healthcare in the world after governments, all run by magic money one would think when they speak of this greed...

I am happy to be Catholic and I try my best to live a Catholic life, it doesn't remove freedoms because if you are happy with your beliefs you have freedom. Probably why there are so many different beliefs and none in the world, we all have to live in a way that gets us through life.
We can make life complicated or can live a life where we follow our conscience because that is what one does if they follow what they really believe. Following your conscience is freedom.
Sex before marriage is what some want.
Many people don't want sex before marriage but being a virgin is made out to be something alien and weird when it is not.
People are different and we in other areas of life are expected to accept the diversity and it should be the same in this area.

Good on you.

jonnny68 wrote: »

Religion =the root of all evil, the Catholic Church tell you sex before marriage is wrong yet you have paedophile priests buggering altar boys, frankly I'm amazed any younger people would subscribe to this vile church I'm not even young and can't stand them

There is no excuse for the paedohile Priests. They should be punished for their sins. However they don't stand for the Catholic Church in my eyes.

KERSPLAT! wrote: »

Opinions on sex before marriage or not having sex before marriage, he didn't ask for people to attack his beliefs and religion

Exactly, thank you.

Dowl88 · 04-08-2014 03:56PM

Every hole is a goal, and yes that includes susan boyle!

dar100 · 04-08-2014 03:56PM

catallus wrote: »

I did quote it correctly.

"You can't quote on this of as yet." I'm willing to wait for you to do so at your own convenience so you can walk me through it.

You certainly did not. My post is in relation to your question " what does this even mean" which you posted in relation to another's posters physically compatible statement. So my post was telling you what it means.

Now, you have brought in other posts belonging to me, which have nothing to do with this debate, in doing so creating a scare crow and misrepresenting what I'm arguing. If you cannot see that, you are either

A) trolling

not up to the debate at hand

JayRoc · 04-08-2014 03:58PM

Micky Dolenz wrote: »

The physical side is a given.

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Crikey, I hope that's a joke. If you think there's no such thing as a bad lay, even with someone you're physically attracted to, then.....eesh.

Silverman11 · 04-08-2014 03:59PM

pablo128 wrote: »

Well, you asked for peoples opinions.

I just stated that it was due to my Religious beliefs. I didn't say I wanted people to take my beliefs into it. I was asking about meeting a woman who would wait for me.

_Redzer_ wrote: »

Jesus, I'd find it awfully hard to do what the OP is planning on doing because I always sleep with someone and then decide if I want to have a relationship with them.

What if you ended up with a girl who would just lay there and didn't have an even remotely kinky bone in her body?

You've just shackled yourself to an absolute bore in that case. And no matter what anybody says, sex, and good sex, is hugely important in a relationship. It's not all of it, but it's a big important factor you can't brush under the carpet.

I know that I have a high sex drive and I would do anything for my future wife. I'm sure I will be able to say that to her too. Why can't I find a woman similar to me?

Silverman11 · 04-08-2014 04:00PM

PLEASE GUYS CAN WE STOP ALL THE ARGUING. There are Catholics and Atheists and probably more different beliefs. Can we stop attacking each other and stick to the point.

Balmed Out · 04-08-2014 04:01PM

Would you buy a pair of shoes without being able to try them on first?

Micky Dolenz · 04-08-2014 04:01PM

JayRoc wrote: »

Crikey, I hope that's a joke. If you think there's no such thing as a bad lay, even with someone you're physically attracted to, then.....eesh.

I've never had a bad lay.Keep practising though, you'll get there.

We aren't talking about a one night stand here.

If you plan on marrying someone, I assume there will be a lot of love and the sex to accompany it.

KERSPLAT! · 04-08-2014 04:03PM

Balmed Out wrote: »

Would you buy a pair of shoes without being able to try them on first?

Bought a pair of Cons online last week...

RobertKK · 04-08-2014 04:03PM

Balmed Out wrote: »

Would you buy a pair of shoes without being able to try them on first?

Yes online, they fitted me fine.

catallus · 04-08-2014 04:03PM

dar100 wrote: »

Now, you have brought in other posts belonging to me, which have nothing to do with this debate, in doing so creating a scare crow and misrepresenting what I'm arguing. If you cannot see that, you are either

A) trolling
not up to the debate at hand

I'm misrepresenting nothing.

The only scarecrow around here is the vapid argument about "physical" or "sexual" "compatibility" being a basis for marriage-breakdown, which is something a not very clever person might come up with.

dar100 · 04-08-2014 04:04PM

Micky Dolenz wrote: »

I've never had a bad lay.Keep practising though, you'll get there.

We aren't talking about a one night stand here.

If you plan on marrying someone, I assume there will be a lot of love and the sex to accompany it.

Which means been physically/sexually compatible. Which you have already argued is a given, it's not but.

Silverman11 · 04-08-2014 04:04PM

What sexual compatibility are people on about? If I marry a girl then I will love her which will be a good start. I have a high sex drive and I would do anything for my future wife in the bedroom so I can't see me being the problem. I know all this without having sex so why can't the woman?

Silverman11 · 04-08-2014 04:04PM

Balmed Out wrote: »

Would you buy a pair of shoes without being able to try them on first?

I frequently buy shoes online

KERSPLAT! · 04-08-2014 04:05PM

Silverman11 wrote: »

What sexual compatibility are people on about? If I marry a girl then I will love her which will be a good start. I have a high sex drive and I would do anything for my future wife in the bedroom so I can't see me being the problem. I know all this without having sex so why can't the woman?

ANYTHING!?

Micky Dolenz · 04-08-2014 04:05PM

Potatoeman wrote: »

What if your sexually incompatible with your partner.

green_screen wrote: »

If you're a virgin, how could you possibly ever know whether you'd be sexually compatible?

dar100 wrote: »

Which means been physically/sexually compatible. Which you have already argued is a given, it's not but.

Have you ever broken up with a partner because you were sexually incompatible?

Adamantium · 04-08-2014 04:05PM

Silverman11 wrote: »

There is no excuse for the paedohile Priests. They should be punished for their sins. However they don't stand for the Catholic Church in my eyes.

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And yet they.....do. **** their sins, they did to human beings by human beings, of course no nuance is allowed in the church, no those pedo priests were different and yet they were cut from the same cloth as any of the good ones in every way possible.

You came to post this message because what you're doing is clearly not getting you where you want. You should be shockened awake, disturbed by these posts, not agreeing with them

Confirmation bias will destroy, destroy, destroy you

Sir Arthur Daley · 04-08-2014 04:06PM

Silverman11 wrote: »

I frequently buy shoes online

Apples and oranges.

Balmed Out · 04-08-2014 04:06PM

Silverman11 wrote: »

I frequently buy shoes online

Where you can send them back immediately if not to your liking, not so easy with a wife.

catallus · 04-08-2014 04:07PM

Sir Arthur Daley wrote: »

Apples and oranges.

Why would you buy apples or oranges online!?

KERSPLAT! · 04-08-2014 04:07PM

Sir Arthur Daley wrote: »

Apples and oranges.

Aye I've often bought those too without trying them.

Silverman11 · 04-08-2014 04:08PM

KERSPLAT! wrote: »

ANYTHING!?

My future wife comes before me. I would be more interested in pleasing her in the bedroom then myself. Same goes for everyday life with any women i'm in a relationship with.

Silverman11 · 04-08-2014 04:09PM

catallus wrote: »

Why would you buy apples or oranges online!?

Hahahahahahaha

Sir Arthur Daley · 04-08-2014 04:09PM

KERSPLAT! wrote: »

Aye I've often bought those too without trying them.

Tesco online are the best, ebay for the future wife. :rolleyes:

dar100 · 04-08-2014 04:09PM

catallus wrote: »

I'm misrepresenting nothing.

The only scarecrow around here is the vapid argument about "physical" or "sexual" "compatibility" being a basis for marriage-breakdown, which is something a not very clever person might come up with.

I've said nothing about it causing a breakdown of marriage, again a scare crow. It's quite clear you have to resort to personal insults to get your point across.

An intelligent person will be aware that intelligence consists of much more than been clever. Perhaps you should gain some understanding of the terms you utilise

johnayo · 04-08-2014 04:10PM

OP. You say that you have a high sexual drive, but if you are a virgin, then how can you be sure?

mickydoomsux · 04-08-2014 04:10PM

Silverman11 wrote: »

My future wife comes before me. I would be more interested in pleasing her in the bedroom then myself. Same goes for everyday life with any women i'm in a relationship with.

/tips fedora

"After you, M' Lady"

Micky Dolenz · 04-08-2014 04:10PM

Adamantium wrote: »

And yet they.....do. **** their sins, they did to human beings by human beings, of course no nuance is allowed in the church, no those pedo priests were different and yet they were cut from the same cloth as any of the good ones in every way possible.

You came to post this message because what you're doing is clearly not getting you where you want. You should be shockened awake, disturbed by these posts, not agreeing with them

Confirmation bias will destroy, destroy, destroy you

Mod

Enough already.

The preaching is not welcome on any side.

mickydoomsux · 04-08-2014 04:10PM

johnayo wrote: »

OP. You say that you have a high sexual drive, but if you are a virgin, then how can you be sure?

Yeah, it might just be indigestion or something.

catallus · 04-08-2014 04:11PM

Silverman11 wrote: »

My future wife comes before me. I would be more interested in pleasing her in the bedroom then myself. Same goes for everyday life with any women i'm in a relationship with.

You sound like a happy-out guy and I hope you find what you're looking for.

Waiting until Marriage.

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