Turn ons/offs in the opposite sex

czechlin · 17-01-2014 12:34PM

ivytwine wrote: »

Ambidextrous, eh? Sounds intriguing...

It's bizarre! The only explanation I can think of was one of my first crushes back in the dawn of teenage time was a left-handed guitar player. Must have imprinted on me like I'm some kind of baby duckling

Musicians though, I think everyone can agree they're sexy!

Mine goes back to my teens too but I really don't know why. I don't remember having a crush on any particular left handed fella I just remember finding it kind of sexy. Guess I'm just weird :rolleyes:

My dad is a musician, I grew up surrounded by musicians and I like them. But I don't think I have the obsession like some women do. Thanks to my upbringing. They can be very sexy or not. No matter if they're (bass) guitarists, drummers, singers... Except sax players, they're a special kind...

czechlin · 17-01-2014 12:36PM

GalwayGuy2 wrote: »

To cut a long story short, perhaps the catholic guilt of the left hand being the hand of the devil is a remnant of that?

I was brought up in a non religious environment. No guilt here

ivytwine · 17-01-2014 12:38PM

GalwayGuy2 wrote: »

Hmmm, some people think sexuality explores the taboo. Which explains the teen, pigtail, thing in pornography and the, er, 'extreme' nature of some erotica. It's rather interesting that many countries that have massive amounts of stigma against gay people have massive amounts of man on man porn being viewed.

To cut a long story short, perhaps the catholic guilt of the left hand being the hand of the devil is a remnant of that?

Ah I doubt it. Very little Catholic guilt with me, even though I was brought up Catholic. I'm very happy with my sexuality :P

I think the first thing you see and get turned on by lingers. Which probably explains the school uniform thing. That feeling when you're a teenager that you've never felt before is very powerful. Most people get over that and their sexuality matures, but some don't.

czechlin · 17-01-2014 12:43PM

GalwayGuy2 wrote: »

Sounds silly, but how can you tell?

I read up on it a bit. The majority of ambidextrous people are the one who were originally lefties and were taught to write with their right hand. But still prefer to use their left for other acts.

Maximus Alexander · 17-01-2014 12:45PM

czechlin wrote: »

Hmm you sound very handy, any facial scars?
On a serious note, are you naturally ambidextrous? Because that is quite rare.

I have an almost imperceptible scar on my forehead where I got hit with a golf club. I mean uhh... fought a lion with my bare hands.

Yeah, naturally ambidextrous. Although I use both hands for different tasks, I'll usually use the same one for a given task all the time. For example, I always play right handed guitar, but always write with my left, and so on.

GalwayGuy2 · 17-01-2014 12:50PM

I think the first thing you see and get turned on by lingers. Which probably explains the school uniform thing. That feeling when you're a teenager that you've never felt before is very powerful. Most people get over that and their sexuality matures, but some don't.

Hmmm, that could be true. A lot of women seem to be reading Twilight to recapture that youthful thing.

But I still think there's a bit of a taboo involved. Eh, the left handed thing was probably pushing it though. :P But it could stand for the nun/priest/interasial/BDSM realm of pornography. Correct me if I'm wrong, but isn't Japan one of the most searched for phrases in china?

When I was younger it creeped me out that middle aged men were watching actresses dressed in school uniforms, but I wonder is that actually a healthy facet of sexuality.

Meh, the teen thing isn't my cup of tea, but I try to keep my philosophy about sexuality as the phrase: People are ****in' weird.

EDIT:

The majority of ambidextrous people are the one who were originally lefties and were taught to write with their right hand. But still prefer to use their left for other acts.

*Giggles*

Paulie Gualtieri · 17-01-2014 12:54PM

czechlin wrote: »

Hmm you sound very handy, any facial scars?
On a serious note, are you naturally ambidextrous? Because that is quite rare.

I have a facial scar on the left side of my face does that count . its not that noticible to be honest . also a scar on my left arm very noticible .

But other than that I've face only a mother could love

czechlin · 17-01-2014 12:57PM

GalwayGuy2 wrote: »

Hmmm, that could be true. A lot of women seem to be reading Twilight to recapture that youthful thing.

But I still think there's a bit of a taboo involved. Eh, the left handed thing was probably pushing it though. :P But it could stand for the nun/priest/interasial/BDSM realm of pornography. Correct me if I'm wrong, but isn't Japan one of the most searched for phrases in china?

When I was younger it creeped me out that middle aged men were watching actresses dressed in school uniforms, but I wonder is that actually a healthy facet of sexuality.

Meh, the teen thing isn't my cup of tea, but I try to keep my philosophy about sexuality as the phrase: People are ****in' weird.

EDIT:

*Giggles*

I knew it. I just knew you're going to pick on that! :rolleyes:

czechlin · 17-01-2014 01:08PM

Paulie Gualtieri wrote: »

I have a facial scar on the left side of my face does that count . its not that noticible to be honest . also a scar on my left arm very noticible .

But other than that I've face only a mother could love

Them mothers... Aren't they great!

czechlin · 17-01-2014 01:12PM

Maximus Alexander wrote: »

I have an almost imperceptible scar on my forehead where I got hit with a golf club. I mean uhh... fought a lion with my bare hands.

Yeah, naturally ambidextrous. Although I use both hands for different tasks, I'll usually use the same one for a given task all the time. For example, I always play right handed guitar, but always write with my left, and so on.

That's very interesting! There's a musician that pops into my mind, her name is Sarah Blackwood and she plays guitar either way. Thought that was quite cool too. I tried to play with my left once and it was very awkward.

Maximus Alexander · 17-01-2014 01:16PM

czechlin wrote: »

That's very interesting! There's a musician that pops into my mind, her name is Sarah Blackwood and she plays guitar either way. Thought that was quite cool too. I tried to play with my left once and it was very awkward.

I reckon I could play with my left, but it would take a bit of practice. All the muscle memory I've built up for it is with my right at this stage. I've had a go on a few left handed guitars in music shops and I was able to play, but only like a beginner! Left handed strumming was fine, I just didn't have to muscle memory to make quick chord changes.

Mariasofia · 17-01-2014 02:10PM

Paulie Gualtieri wrote: »

I have a facial scar on the left side of my face does that count . its not that noticible to be honest . also a scar on my left arm very noticible .

But other than that I've face only a mother could love

It could be worse you could have a face not even a mother could love....... :-D

czechlin · 17-01-2014 02:19PM

Galwayguy35 wrote: »

A nice arse in either a skirt or jeans would be a turn on for me.

You're easy... :rolleyes:

Hagar the Nice. · 17-01-2014 02:23PM

Wotsername wrote: »

Fisherman?:D

Well,you know what they say about women and fish.:pac::pac::pac:

Wotsername · 17-01-2014 02:36PM

Hagar the Nice. wrote: »

Well,you know what they say about women and fish.:pac::pac::pac:

Ha, Indeed i do, Though my reply was meant for Sky88. I kinda fecked that one up.

Hagar the Nice. · 17-01-2014 02:36PM

Mariasofia wrote: »

It could be worse you could have a face not even a mother could love....... :-D

They say that whenever Winston Churchill was born,the midwife slapped his mum's bum instead of his.

Hagar the Nice. · 17-01-2014 02:38PM

Wotsername wrote: »

Ha, Indeed i do, Though my reply was meant for Sky88. I kinda fecked that one up.

I'm with Virgin myself.......I'll fetch my jacket.

Hagar the Nice. · 17-01-2014 02:44PM

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Anyone wishing to join my site shall send,via Paypal,( no,not the one in the Vatican you idiot) the sum of 100€,anyone over the age of 99 gets in for free,thank you.

--Kaiser-- · 17-01-2014 02:50PM

Hagar the Nice. wrote: »

Laydeez and Gentlemen,courtesy of boards.ie,i am starting a new dating site.
Anyone wishing to join my site shall send,via Paypal,( no,not the one in the Vatican you idiot) the sum of 100€,anyone over the age of 99 gets in for free,thank you.

Nice one. Here's my ad:

"Man with high standards seeks woman with low ones"

salacious crumb · 17-01-2014 03:28PM

Maximus Alexander wrote: »

I reckon I could play with my left, but it would take a bit of practice. All the muscle memory I've built up for it is with my right at this stage. I've had a go on a few left handed guitars in music shops and I was able to play, but only like a beginner! Left handed strumming was fine, I just didn't have to muscle memory to make quick chord changes.

I knew a guy when I was younger who was a leftie, but played a right handed guitar strung correctly upside down....

Makes absolutely no sense to me at all, and as far as I can remember he wasn't very good :pac:

Maximus Alexander · 17-01-2014 03:30PM

salacious crumb wrote: »

I knew a guy when I was younger who was a leftie, but played a right handed guitar strung correctly upside down....

Makes absolutely no sense to me at all, and as far as I can remember he wasn't very good :pac:

I once met someone who did this too, although he was fairly good. I think he said it was because they had a right handed guitar in the house when he was growing up. It was all he had, so he went for it. Have to say, he won my respect.

salacious crumb · 17-01-2014 03:35PM

Maximus Alexander wrote: »

I once met someone who did this too, although he was fairly good. I think he said it was because they had a right handed guitar in the house when he was growing up. It was all he had, so he went for it. Have to say, he won my respect.

I'd imagine so alright. I can't fathom trying to play an upside down C#add9 :pac:

Maximus Alexander · 17-01-2014 03:37PM

salacious crumb wrote: »

I'd imagine so alright. I can't fathom trying to play an upside down C#add9 :pac:

Yeah, I actually don't know how he did it! Surely it would be easier just to learn to play with your weaker hand? Mad stuff altogether.

Knex* · 17-01-2014 03:45PM

Always had a suspicion, but recently confirmed;

Turn off:

Anyone who feels the need to update their Facebook status on a regular basis, coupled with millions of exclamation marks, the word/term (hehehe), and 9 times out of 10, the post is something utterly mundane, unfunny, and cringe worthy.

It probably annoys me more than it should, but that's a deal breaker.

Turn on:

I'm an absolute sucker for intelligent women. I don't particularly mean book smart, either. Although often they go hand in hand, for some reason more so with women than males I feel, but that's a different matter. Just someone who thinks deep about issues, will call me on my bull****, and will have more to say than, "Did you see X-Factor or Corrie last night?".

Edit: ****, I may need to edit this post properly when I've time to stop me sounding like a dick

Hopefully ye know what I mean!

Hagar the Nice. · 17-01-2014 03:59PM

--Kaiser-- wrote: »

Nice one. Here's my ad:

"Man with high standards seeks woman with low ones"

Oi,you have paid me yet !!!:mad:

--Kaiser-- · 17-01-2014 04:26PM

Hagar the Nice. wrote: »

Oi,you have paid me yet !!!:mad:

Discount for first customer?

Hagar the Nice. · 17-01-2014 04:34PM

--Kaiser-- wrote: »

Discount for first customer?

Dirty deeds done dirt cheap.:)

czechlin · 17-01-2014 04:43PM

Knex. wrote: »

Always had a suspicion, but recently confirmed;

Turn off:

Anyone who feels the need to update their Facebook status on a regular basis, coupled with millions of exclamation marks, the word/term (hehehe), and 9 times out of 10, the post is something utterly mundane, unfunny, and cringe worthy.

It probably annoys me more than it should, but that's a deal breaker.

Turn on:

I'm an absolute sucker for intelligent women. I don't particularly mean book smart, either. Although often they go hand in hand, for some reason more so with women than males I feel, but that's a different matter. Just someone who thinks deep about issues, will call me on my bull****, and will have more to say than, "Did you see X-Factor or Corry last night?".

Edit: ****, I may need to edit this post properly when I've time to stop me sounding like a dick Hopefully ye know what I mean!

I can't stand people messaging me 'hehehe' as a reply to almost everything! Wth, you tried to spark a conversation so make an effort I've no patience for this nonsense. Wasters.
I've no idea what Corry is but I get your point when it comes to X-factor. Thankfully my friends, who watch it don't bother me with it and I as a repay don't make fun of them (I wouldn't anyway). Each to their own.

Knex* · 17-01-2014 04:54PM

czechlin wrote: »

I can't stand people messaging me 'hehehe' as a reply to almost everything! Wth, you tried to spark a conversation so make an effort I've no patience for this nonsense. Wasters.
I've no idea what Corry is but I get your point when it comes to X-factor. Thankfully my friends, who watch it don't bother me with it and I as a repay don't make fun of them (I wouldn't anyway). Each to their own.

That was me abbreviating Coronation street like a plank, really. I've it edited to the more recognised, "Corrie".

Its not that I would mind an OH watching these shows, or whatever, just that I don't particularly want to talk about them, so if that's all you have when it comes to social conversation, its not going to work.

Similarly, if I bored the pants off them by talking about Liverpool or American Football all the time, and had nothing else to offer, I'd be thrown to the curb rather sharpish, I'd imagine. Rightly so, too.

Paulie Gualtieri · 17-01-2014 04:58PM

czechlin wrote: »

Them mothers... Aren't they great!

I didn't say who's mother

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