Turn ons/offs in the opposite sex

Wotsername · 17-01-2014 01:54AM

Hagar the Nice. wrote: »

There's someone for everyone,trust me,keep your chin up.

Fisherman?:D

Aint Eazy Being Cheezy · 17-01-2014 01:56AM

aristotleirish wrote: »

belief in what?

Your own ability, usually.

Aint Eazy Being Cheezy · 17-01-2014 02:00AM

aristotleirish wrote: »

and what women can somehow tell when someone has or has not belief in their own abilthy?

It's usually pretty obvious. Some people show a lack of confidence in certain ways, maybe by being quiet and withdrawn.

Wotsername · 17-01-2014 02:03AM

aristotleirish wrote: »

belief in what?

Yourself and your ability.

Aint Eazy Being Cheezy · 17-01-2014 02:04AM

aristotleirish wrote: »

and how is confidence recognized exactly

By your demeanor. Being well spoken and assured would inspire confidence in a person on my behalf.

Aint Eazy Being Cheezy · 17-01-2014 02:11AM

aristotleirish wrote: »

and would cockiness then be bragging a lot???

Possibly yes.

podmu80 · 17-01-2014 02:13AM

aristotleirish wrote: »

ability in general or abilitys around people and or women

Around people and/or women???

Wotsername · 17-01-2014 02:15AM

aristotleirish wrote: »

and how is confidence recognized exactly

Off the top of my head, I would say you can't fake it. But you sure can gain it. Confidence does not necessarily guarantee results, Only a shot.

Wotsername · 17-01-2014 02:18AM

aristotleirish wrote: »

ability in general or abilitys around people and or women

Ability in any area of your life that matters to you. Also a sense of humor goes a long log way.

Wotsername · 17-01-2014 02:21AM

aristotleirish wrote: »

and what women can somehow tell when someone has or has not belief in their own abilthy?

Not just women.

Wotsername · 17-01-2014 02:52AM

aristotleirish wrote: »

well for the sake of arguement lets assume a heterosexual situation please elaborate though

Don't assume anything. Maybe that's part of it?
So can we establish something? Are you looking for a ride or a debate?

Oops! my mistake. Meant to say a Advice or a debate? slip of the Jung.

Aint Eazy Being Cheezy · 17-01-2014 03:00AM

aristotleirish wrote: »

well not a debate per se fact finding mostly i dont expect a ride from this forum more maybe more so a debate/information leading to the abilthy to get a ride

Did you ever look at anyone and think "the other half of them must have went down the leg of their father's pants" well that's a turn off for a lot of people.

Other hand, if someone is going about their business at their own pace, not stressing, look like they know what they're at. Friendly, approachable. They may be considered self confident. Some people like that, me included.

All of this is subjective, and we're way off topic anyway, so if you're mad for a ride I'd probably just go to a hooker.

Aint Eazy Being Cheezy · 17-01-2014 03:07AM

aristotleirish wrote: »

when you say "he other half of them must have went down the leg of their father's pants" well that's a turn off for a lot of people." do you mean going around looking serious or angry all the time???

No, not exactly. Carry on in an immature way, might be a better way of putting it.

Aint Eazy Being Cheezy · 17-01-2014 03:16AM

aristotleirish wrote: »

i hate to be pushing to issue but could you lay it out more clearly assume for a second i have aspergers and have no social skills and an inabilthy to understand social cues what is carrying on in an imature way

Ah jaysus, what am I at..

You got away with it cos I'm on the touch site, and I couldn't see your join date. I've just read some of your previous posts though. It's goodnight from me!

Wotsername · 17-01-2014 03:22AM

aristotleirish wrote: »

well not a debate per se fact finding mostly i dont expect a ride from this forum more maybe more so a debate/information leading to the abilthy ti get whatever. lets just say i have an open ear

O.k so, Are you looking for advice? Because if you are, when it comes to confidence I can tell you all you need to know, read on...............

End of lesson.

Turn off? yeah i thought so.

If you're really interested in somebody or something then try to get to know what it is they're about.
If you just want a ride it will probably be obvious, and maybe she will too.

Wotsername · 17-01-2014 03:32AM

aristotleirish wrote: »

see that goes over my head right there honestly ya might as well be speaking a different language

I know it's hard for you sweetie, but be patient, It'll come:p

emigrate2012 · 17-01-2014 03:44AM

turn ons: petite,intelligent,nice smile/eyes funny,not too serious, likes the odd drink

decent taste in music, Dark/red hair with green eyes?top of the list for you! Good kisser is a must (don't care how hot you are, bad kisser? It ain't happening)

Turn offs:idiots, loud obnoxious, sloppy drinkers, stuck up their own arse, can't hold a decent conversation? GTF.

Wotsername · 17-01-2014 03:56AM

aristotleirish wrote: »

i got that all right it seems like we are different species sometimes

So what does it for you?

Wotsername · 17-01-2014 04:34AM

aristotleirish wrote: »

what does what for me?, sorry if i come across a bit slow of whatever but i need precision with words otherwise i have difficulty understanding the meaning

What do you have to hear/see before the blood rushes to your penis and causes an erection? A diagram?
Or does a photo of Trinity do it for you?

Wotsername · 17-01-2014 05:22AM

aristotleirish wrote: »

he he i see oh well appearance is not as important as willingness to get stuck in. its a bit like a menu in a restaurant you go to all the time at some stage you would like to try everything at least once, in other words i would never rule a girl out based on superficial appearance. the only hangup i might have is drugs smoking or frigidity, who or what is trinity in this context anyway[/Q

Yes, appearance is the initial stimulant, but as most of us realize, That's the superficial. Visual attraction is the most obvious for most.
but it has to be backed up by a compatible personality.

Unless of course both parties don't just want a ride.

osarusan · 17-01-2014 05:31AM

The last 2 and a half pages of bickering turned me off completely.

Sir Arthur Daley · 17-01-2014 05:33AM

osarusan wrote: »

The last 2 and a half pages of bickering turned me off completely.

+ 1 what a load of dung.

Paulie Gualtieri · 17-01-2014 05:38AM

osarusan wrote: »

The last 2 and a half pages of bickering turned me off completely.

By bickering do you mean talking sh1te ?

Wotsername · 17-01-2014 05:43AM

Walkin Talkin Stephen Hawkin wrote: »

Ah jaysus, what am I at..

You got away with it cos I'm on the touch site, and I couldn't see your join date. I've just read some of your previous posts though. It's goodnight from me![/QUOTE

Ahh no! He's not is he? please go on phillis inn.

GalwayGuy2 · 17-01-2014 09:35AM

The last 2 and a half pages of bickering turned me off completely.

It ruined my morning.

*Zips up pants*

ivytwine · 17-01-2014 09:42AM

czechlin wrote: »

I just remembered... facial scar. When a man has a facial scar (nothing too brutal though) I find it incredibly hot.
And I used to have a thing for left handed guys, not really sure what that was about... :pac:

I had/have a thing for left-handed men too, no idea what that's about!

Maximus Alexander · 17-01-2014 10:49AM

ivytwine wrote: »

I had/have a thing for left-handed men too, no idea what that's about!

Woah, is this a secret trend?

Ambidextrous do anything for you ladies? Or would I be better off exclusively using my left from now on and pretending to be a thoroughbred lefty?

ivytwine · 17-01-2014 12:08PM

Maximus Alexander wrote: »

Woah, is this a secret trend?

Ambidextrous do anything for you ladies? Or would I be better off exclusively using my left from now on and pretending to be a thoroughbred lefty?

Ambidextrous, eh? Sounds intriguing...

It's bizarre! The only explanation I can think of was one of my first crushes back in the dawn of teenage time was a left-handed guitar player. Must have imprinted on me like I'm some kind of baby duckling

Musicians though, I think everyone can agree they're sexy!

czechlin · 17-01-2014 12:26PM

Maximus Alexander wrote: »

Woah, is this a secret trend?

Ambidextrous do anything for you ladies? Or would I be better off exclusively using my left from now on and pretending to be a thoroughbred lefty?

Hmm you sound very handy, any facial scars?

On a serious note, are you naturally ambidextrous? Because that is quite rare.

GalwayGuy2 · 17-01-2014 12:33PM

It's bizarre! The only explanation I can think of was one of my first crushes back in the dawn of teenage time was a left-handed guitar player. Must have imprinted on me like I'm some kind of baby duckling

Hmmm, some people think sexuality explores the taboo. Which explains the teen, pigtail, thing in pornography and the, er, 'extreme' nature of some erotica. It's rather interesting that many countries that have massive amounts of stigma against gay people have massive amounts of man on man porn being viewed.

To cut a long story short, perhaps the catholic guilt of the left hand being the hand of the devil is a remnant of that?

EDIT:

On a serious note, are you naturally ambidextrous? Because that is quite rare.

Sounds silly, but how can you tell?

Turn ons/offs in the opposite sex

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