my 14yr old sister has a boyfriend

BetterThanThou · 12-01-2014 08:59PM

Educate her on why she shouldn't have sex, that's all you should do, and even that's a bit too far in my opinion. There's no problem with a 14 year old being in a relationship, chances are they haven't even considered sex. Even the type of teenagers who go around from one girl/boy to the next rarely consider having sex until they're around 16/17.

efb · 12-01-2014 08:59PM

Walkin Talkin Stephen Hawkin wrote: »

I was in this situation before. Came home from work to see some little fcuker smoking outside my front door.

"Alright sham" he says to me. I stared back, went inside.

Saw my sister. "Who's that fella?"

"That's my bf. His nickname's Big fish"

"Big fish, yeah?" "Where's he from?"

Sis : "He's from lollipop lane"

Me: walk off shaking head muttering "big fish from lollipop fcuking lane"

I'm upstairs getting my football kit together, next I come down and I can hear my sis knocking the bathroom door and shouting "get out, we have to go."

I gave the door a kick and shouted "hurry up there you" and left the house.

Later on that evening I'm back home, and here comes lover boy, and my sister.

He sees me and says, aggressively enough, "did you kick that bathroom door whilst I was inside?"

Well I saw red! 14 years old, in my parents house, smoking too, calling me sham, getting in my face..

I grabbed him, feet left the floor. His €5 fake gold chain snapped off. "Out that feckin door quickly, don't come back"

My sis was standing there open mouthed.

"Your better off" says I "he'd never have made it with dad...."

Impressive in a wheelchair

Irishmale0399 · 12-01-2014 09:01PM

Have a sister, 16 years old and she is the youngest at home, younger brother is 21. Once I found out she had a fella i had a quick word with my ould lass (single mother), went down the chemist, bought a few boxes of condoms (mother would never do it) and told my mother to tell both of them in a moment when they were alone that the condoms were there to be used, would be replaced without any questions and not to be getting themselves or anyone else pregnant. She also explained about HIV etc. and the job was done.
When i meet the sister out with the boyfriend i take them for a coffee or whatever and act totally normal with them. If she knew it was me financing her sex life she would be motified, however as it is she is happy to talk to me and asks for the occcasional bot of advice.

LOTD · 12-01-2014 09:09PM

Tugboats wrote: »

Cheers I'll just sit idly by while her fanny gets smashed in the back of the cinema

Ah, that's why the floor in the cinema is always sticky.

kaimera · 12-01-2014 09:10PM

go out with his sister.

double date.

Czarcasm · 12-01-2014 09:10PM

TimeToShine wrote: »

14 year old girl with a boyfriend? And people here think they won't be sexually active?

It wouldn't be the first thing that'd spring to the minds of most mature people.

The world has changed. I just hope my kids are all boys.

Hmm, wouldn't be too sure about that either, my son's only 9 and he has three girlfriends, two that he's already decided he's going to marry. You'll still have to teach your boys about responsibility, the same as you would any girls you might have!

Gatling · 12-01-2014 09:10PM

MadYaker · 12-01-2014 09:18PM

Have you met the lad? If he seems like a nice kid then id say don't bother them. If he's weirdo/scumbag then I dunno, you can't really make them break up but you might able to scare him off if you can get him alone and have a "chat".

What does your mum think?

Conall Cernach · 12-01-2014 09:19PM

OP still hasn't said what age this boyfriend is. Anything over 16 and it should be leg breaking time.

Joe prim · 12-01-2014 09:31PM

It would be highly desirable that you take this gentleman aside, perhaps invite him to your country residence for high tea, in order to enjoy a modicum of privacy.Having enjoyed a friendly discussion on the topics of the day,you should gently but firmly turn the conversation to the matter of his intentions towards your sister.It is essential that you establish the extent of his estate; does he have a country estate as well as a city house? Has he at least four thousand pounds per year? Does he ride to hounds, and how many hunters does he stable?Does he shoot, or perhaps he is a military man, and has bought a commission in a good regiment? Having established these qualities ( or the lack thereof) let him know that consequent on a proposal of marriage by him, your sister will bring a dowry of at least two thousand pounds.Should this be unacceptable to this young man, I would immediately damn him for a cad, and possibly a bounder, and have him horsewhipped, and blackballed from your club.

Fox_In_Socks · 12-01-2014 09:59PM

Joe prim wrote: »

It would be highly desirable that you take this gentleman aside, perhaps invite him to your country residence for high tea, in order to enjoy a modicum of privacy.Having enjoyed a friendly discussion on the topics of the day,you should gently but firmly turn the conversation to the matter of his intentions towards your sister.It is essential that you establish the extent of his estate; does he have a country estate as well as a city house? Has he at least four thousand pounds per year? Does he ride to hounds, and how many hunters does he stable?Does he shoot, or perhaps he is a military man, and has bought a commission in a good regiment? Having established these qualities ( or the lack thereof) let him know that consequent on a proposal of marriage by him, your sister will bring a dowry of at least two thousand pounds.Should this be unacceptable to this young man, I would immediately damn him for a cad, and possibly a bounder, and have him horsewhipped, and blackballed from your club.

Quite! Make sure he isn't one of those damn RCs. Came across one too many of them in the Peninsular wars, and those are slippery rakes.

montyrebel · 12-01-2014 10:20PM

dont be jealous of her, 1 day you might get your own bf if you arent such a c*t

FudgeBrownie · 12-01-2014 10:29PM

Walkin Talkin Stephen Hawkin wrote: »

I was in this situation before. Came home from work to see some little fcuker smoking outside my front door.

"Alright sham" he says to me. I stared back, went inside.

Saw my sister. "Who's that fella?"

"That's my bf. His nickname's Big fish"

"Big fish, yeah?" "Where's he from?"

Sis : "He's from lollipop lane"

Me: walk off shaking head muttering "big fish from lollipop fcuking lane"

I'm upstairs getting my football kit together, next I come down and I can hear my sis knocking the bathroom door and shouting "get out, we have to go."

I gave the door a kick and shouted "hurry up there you" and left the house.

Later on that evening I'm back home, and here comes lover boy, and my sister.

He sees me and says, aggressively enough, "did you kick that bathroom door whilst I was inside?"

Well I saw red! 14 years old, in my parents house, smoking too, calling me sham, getting in my face..

I grabbed him, feet left the floor. His €5 fake gold chain snapped off. "Out that feckin door quickly, don't come back"

My sis was standing there open mouthed.

"Your better off" says I "he'd never have made it with dad...."

I am going to get everyone to call me 'Big Fish' now. Badass.

Fox_In_Socks · 12-01-2014 10:31PM

You might as well buy these now.:pac:

http://image.made-in-china.com/2f0j00qvZTSdEhyBoA/Baby-Hat-and-Gloves-Knit-by-Hand-1453-.jpg

SCOOP 64 · 12-01-2014 10:35PM

Larianne wrote: »

How do you know she'll do that?

He remembers his first girlfriend:D

ScumLord · 12-01-2014 10:35PM

fergiesfolly wrote: »

Wouldn't worry too much op.
She's 14. They probably broke up since you started this thread.
And now they're back together.
And it's off again.
And now...

Pregnant.

MRnotlob606 · 12-01-2014 10:37PM

but them both a shiny apple.

caustic 1 · 12-01-2014 10:37PM

Tugboats wrote: »

Cheers I'll just sit idly by while her fanny gets smashed in the back of the cinema

Well aren't you a joy... your sister does not need your advice on boys, because if this is how you talk about girls and especially your sister I can assure you she can manage fine without your input. You sound like a jumped up little fecker who I would clip round the ear if you were mine and talking about any girl never mind a sister like that, get some respect you little git. :mad:

stoeger · 12-01-2014 10:47PM

biko wrote: »

Well, I lolled.

OP, tbh it's the time now when they start having boyfriends.
Don't you remember being 14 yourself?
Having a boy/girlfriend at that age is extremely fickle and quite innocent (hopefully).

It is in me bollox lost my virginity at that age .that was 20 years ago and didn't have a play station

jam_mac_jam · 12-01-2014 10:54PM

caustic 1 wrote: »

Well aren't you a joy... your sister does not need your advice on boys, because if this is how you talk about girls and especially your sister I can assure you she can manage fine without your input. You sound like a jumped up little fecker who I would clip round the ear if you were mine and talking about any girl never mind a sister like that, get some respect you little git. :mad:

Its actually a horrible way to speak about your sister, agree with you.

Hammar · 12-01-2014 10:55PM

caustic 1 wrote: »

Well aren't you a joy... your sister does not need your advice on boys, because if this is how you talk about girls and especially your sister I can assure you she can manage fine without your input. You sound like a jumped up little fecker who I would clip round the ear if you were mine and talking about any girl never mind a sister like that, get some respect you little git. :mad:

So can you answer the question many posters have asked,
What age is your boyfriend then?

jazz101 · 12-01-2014 10:57PM

Hey, weird unrelated coincidence but the OP's username is George Zimmerman's nickname.

whirlpool · 12-01-2014 11:40PM

caustic 1 wrote: »

Well aren't you a joy... your sister does not need your advice on boys, because if this is how you talk about girls and especially your sister I can assure you she can manage fine without your input. You sound like a jumped up little fecker who I would clip round the ear if you were mine and talking about any girl never mind a sister like that, get some respect you little git. :mad:

By the sounds of it, his sister is getting more action than you.

Chill!

PizzamanIRL · 12-01-2014 11:42PM

OP got what he wanted- a discussion about him imaginary sister.

Nobody would talk about their sister's fanny getting smashed in if they really had one.

Specialun · 12-01-2014 11:42PM

I have a 16 yr old cousin whos single if this one goes t!ts up

Femme_Fatale · 12-01-2014 11:45PM

whirlpool wrote: »

By the sounds of it, his sister is getting more action than you.

Chill!

They're only saying that's a vile way to talk about a 14-year-old girl (which it is), no indication whatsoever that that means they're not getting much sex.

But the OP has trolled numerous times before - people need to heed Whoopsa's stickied post.

jazz101 · 12-01-2014 11:47PM

PizzamanIRL wrote: »

OP got what he wanted- a discussion about him imaginary sister.

Nobody would talk about their sister's fanny getting smashed in if they really had one.

Exactly my thoughts. Sounds more like some weirdo getting off. No one would use those words about their sister.

bassy · 12-01-2014 11:48PM

could be worse it could of been georgie burgess

whirlpool · 12-01-2014 11:52PM

Femme_Fatale wrote: »

They're only saying that's a vile way to talk about a 14-year-old girl (which it is), no indication whatsoever that that means they're not getting much sex.

But the OP has trolled numerous times before - people need to heed Whoopsa's stickied post.

They weren't "only saying" anything. They were getting themselves completely wound up about some random idiot's post on a pointless thread on the internet. That is what my point was. Everyone needs to chill the F out and get over it.

And I think you'll find that people who have more sex tend to be less easily wound up. So.... yeah.

usersame · 12-01-2014 11:55PM

Talk about contraception (a GP can put her on the pill or other options like the bar which may be better seeing as she's so young), advise her not to send nude pictures over any program etc, aside from that it's probably just puppy love

Teenagers can have some pretty wacky views on how to avoid getting pregnant, make sure she understands the risks

my 14yr old sister has a boyfriend

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