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Does anyone feel insulted by the abortion proposals?

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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 7,484 ✭✭✭username123


    GalwayGuy2 wrote: »
    I wasn't defending those viewpoints, I was musing aloud why people may vote no to abortion on demand.

    I think, and I could well be wrong on this, that the population is probably a large majority of "abortion in certain circumstances"(65%), a small percentage of "never never never never never" (maybe 15%) and a slightly bigger percentage of "on demand" (maybe 20%).

    Just my opinion. I could be well skewed - particularly with the never crowd - it could be a lot lower.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,124 ✭✭✭wolfpawnat


    I think, and I could well be wrong on this, that the population is probably a large majority of "abortion in certain circumstances"(65%), a small percentage of "never never never never never" (maybe 15%) and a slightly bigger percentage of "on demand" (maybe 20%).

    Just my opinion. I could be well skewed - particularly with the never crowd - it could be a lot lower.

    Sadly I think that would be about right. I remember one day passing the GPO in Dublin and there was a pro-life group there that had banners saying things like "An abortion is never necessary to save a woman's life" I asked them what about cases where it is a case of her or them both, and the woman in charge said both. "It's God's will" :rolleyes: I asked her why her God would give us the power to save a person and not use it. She went off about the commandment "Thou shalt not kill" So I said she is twice the murderer killing both.

    I would love to see what an honest national figure would be. The polls done these days are too bias IMO. Pro-life groups seem able to get polls where they are the clear winners, same with pro-choice. It makes you wonder.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2, Paid Member Posts: 8,446 ✭✭✭Morag


    wolfpawnat wrote: »
    I would love to see what an honest national figure would be. The polls done these days are too bias IMO. Pro-life groups seem able to get polls where they are the clear winners, same with pro-choice. It makes you wonder.

    Polls cost money to have run the pro life runs polls but the pro choice side doesn't, when ever you see stats like those from the Red C poll/MRBIwhich says apros 85% of people want more then X case legislated for they are run by newspapers and not any pro choice/abortionrights orgs.

    The ifpa does have a page linking to the out come of polls over the years.

    http://www.ifpa.ie/Hot-Topics/Abortion/Public-Opinion


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,162 ✭✭✭AK333


    Just as an aside, I heard on Newstalk this afternoon a FG TD from Cork, Tom ??? that prolifers picket his office on a Monday (he presumes they picket different offices on the other days) which he said its their democratic right and as long as its peaceful he has no problem BUT they have started putting up posters with his face on them and pictures of babies, calling him a murderer - that's just sick.

    I'm appalled that adults would act in such a way. Rational debate and discussion doesn't seem to enter their psyche and any tactic goes. Its frightening that this is happening in the 21st century.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2, Paid Member Posts: 4,771 ✭✭✭Pretzill


    It is an emotive issue but it is long before time we took the emotion out of it as a collective nation - it is a singular decision and regardless of polls etc many women have had to face up to that decision against a god fearing barrage of antiquated tut-tuts who have no idea how that affects the person going through it - It's a sign of immaturity on the pro life agenda but it is dangerous too. For all the women who had to get the boat and face that journey with this added judgement on top of all else that is going on my sympathy is with them because they do not deserve that misplaced judgement, they deserve support at home in safety. For the women that have died because the recent leglislation hasn't even been ratified after years of being voted in by the public I am f**king outraged. Barbaric is the right word used recently in awful circumstances. How can any so called pro life person ignore that barbarism in the 21st century. Still angry sorry for my ***


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,440 ✭✭✭cdaly_


    wolfpawnat wrote: »
    I would love to see what an honest national figure would be. The polls done these days are too bias IMO. Pro-life groups seem able to get polls where they are the clear winners, same with pro-choice. It makes you wonder.

    That's easy:

    'Pro-Life' poll:
    • Do you think murder is wrong?
    • Do you think it's awful to murder a defenceless innocent?
    • Do you think people should be allowed to murder somebody just because they're inconvenient?


    'Pro-Choice' poll:
    • Do you think women should have lesser rights than men?
    • Do you think a woman should have no say in her own health?
    • Do you think a woman should have the right to decide what is the right course of action for her?

    No mention of abortion, killing babies or religion. But each side gets answers to fit their agenda...


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,716 ✭✭✭LittleBook


    FouxDaFaFa wrote: »
    That piece by Olivia O'Leary is great. Scathing but necessary. Creighton's response is disappointing. Very much a "no, everything's fine" wishy-washy response.

    She thinks it's a "tolerant" society.

    Yes. So tolerant that we tolerate the unnecessary death of a woman because of a technicality.

    So tolerant that we tolerate women having no say in whether they continue a pregnancy or not.

    So tolerant that we tolerate women being told that their baby will not be born alive. Tolerating them going home and waiting for that baby to die, all the while receiving congratulations on their bump from unknowing strangers. As one woman this happened to described it, a "human coffin".

    Ireland is a great country but it is also barbaric.

    I found this excellent open letter to Lucinda Creighton through Broadsheet.
    Dear Ms. Creighton,

    As a non-national resident of Ireland, I do, as you recommend, reflect on the privilege I enjoy every day in this country, particularly as an educated caucasian woman with a loving husband. But when you use that collective "we," you assume that every woman in Ireland is like you. A short walk around Dublin will prove otherwise. Women in poverty, migrant women, asylum seekers, women in abusive relationships being controlled by their partners, and women too ill to travel live here too. Is it not the duty of us privileged people to ensure that they have the same access to their rights as we do?

    You mention that we live in a "free" society here in Ireland while simultaneously trying to argue that women shouldn't be allowed to have bodily autonomy, which in my opinion is the most basic human right there is.

    Furthermore, I am disappointed that you felt the need to claim you have "no respect" for the "hysterical" opinions of Olivia O'Leary in such a public manner, claiming her arguments are not rational. These are the exact ways in which patriarchy has been characterising women's opinions as invalid for centuries. To accuse another woman of hysteria rings of self-hatred and serves to give the world permission to dismiss vocal women, including yourself. How can you "respect the right of everyone to speak freely and honestly" immediately after you've just said you have no respect for someone else's honest opinion?

    I myself have been trying to conceive a child for nearly two years. However, I would never allow my experiences with infertility colour my views on how other women view their pregnancies. Your implication that because some women can't become pregnant, women who are pregnant need to carry those pregnancies to term is slightly outrageous, particularly since adoption laws in Ireland are so restrictive. If a disabled person can't run, she doesn't demand that all able people should take up running.

    But perhaps the most alarming statements in your blog are about late term abortions. You and I both know that the overwhelming number abortions happen in very early stages. I believe your misleading comment comparing late term abortions to premature births was meant to whip up people's emotions. I suppose that's what politicians do. But it doesn't reflect the rationality you claim to own. We're supposed to be talking about the current proposed bill, which is supposed to put into place measures to save a pregnant woman's life. Conjuring up images of baby killing helps no one. It only makes you look like you don't understand the issues. Have you even bothered to read the Heads of Bill?

    Women should be guaranteed effective acces to their right to termination when there is a risk to their lives. Suicide is a real risk to a person's life. I don't know if you have ever suffered from mental health issues, or if you have ever known someone who has committed suicide, but I do, and I feel strongly that a suicidal woman would not survive the scrutiny outlined in this proposed Bill. If a woman, to avoid this exploitive evaluation process, doesn't have the "privilege" of traveling for an abortion, she effectively hasn't been guaranteed her right.

    Furthermore, criminalising women who self-induce abortions is unacceptable because it would result in women in medical crisis being afraid of seeking medical attention for fear of prison time. Did you know that the average prison sentence for a rapist is 5 years? A woman who is impregnated by her rapist who takes the abortion pill (which, by the way, can only be taken in the earliest stages of pregnancy) could spend more than twice the time in jail as her rapist. So instead of "protecting life," the Bill puts the health and lives of women who have self-induced abortions dangerously at risk.

    We all get the privilege you feel, Ms. Creighton. You have shouted it from the rooftops. But to claim that Ireland is serving all its population to the best of its ability is frankly a false claim and makes you sound like you don't recognise others' experiences of living here which are vastly different to your own. I wonder, how can you be a representative of the people if you don't even acknowledge their realities?

    Sincerely,
    Angela Coraccio
    Dublin


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,016 ✭✭✭lilmissprincess


    Jerry Buttimer copied and pasted my name into the form email. I asked numerous questions of him and none were answered. That said he's the only TD to write back at all which makes it worse...


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,716 ✭✭✭LittleBook


    And as if we needed any further proof that the proposed legislation is at best useless, at worst regressive ...Lucinda Creighton indicates abortion bill support
    EUROPEAN Affairs Minister Lucinda Creighton is now indicating she will now vote for the abortion legislation when it comes before the Dail.

    Ms Creighton is the most senior Fine Gael figure in the Dail to have difficulties with the proposed abortion legislation and one of a number of TDs who party bosses feared could vote against it and lose the whip.

    But speaking in Dublin today she said she is “very hopeful” she will be able to support the bill.

    “It’s a long way until this legislation will be finalised and we have to go through the process with the committee,” Ms Creighton said.

    Obviously a number of ministers have made it clear there would be a willingness to look at amendments to the legislation so it’s a long way to go and I’m not going to predict or pre-empt the outcome of the process but I am very hopeful that ultimately it will be a bill I can support.”

    She also said Health Minister Dr James Reilly will take on board recommendations from the Oireachtas Health Committee, which begins its hearings on the heads of the abortion bill nextweek.

    We have a clear commitment from minster James Reilly that he will take non board the recommendations of the committee and concrete amendments that will be proposed. I take that in good faith.”

    So basically she's going to ensure it's abortion legislation which she can vote for which effectively means no abortion. :mad:


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2, Paid Member Posts: 8,446 ✭✭✭Morag


    Unfortunately, we will never get abortion rights in cases of rape or fatal fetal abnormalities or for the risk to the health of women never mind real 'choice' while the 8th amendment is in place.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 245 ✭✭Cosmicfox


    This is incredibly insulting

    http://www.broadsheet.ie/2013/05/10/meanwhile-in-wexford-7/

    Implying that women will start choosing abortions for a holiday or to fit into a dress.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,895 ✭✭✭nokia69


    Cosmicfox wrote: »
    This is incredibly insulting

    http://www.broadsheet.ie/2013/05/10/meanwhile-in-wexford-7/

    Implying that women will start choosing abortions for a holiday or to fit into a dress.

    but its more or less true, women have abortions for all kinds or reasons, every year millions of women have abortions because they want a boy and not a girl, thats their choice who are we to judge, and if a woman wants and abortion because of a holiday then thats also her choice

    you can't be semi pro choice, its all or nothing


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 26,928 ✭✭✭✭rainbow kirby


    nokia69 wrote: »
    you can't be semi pro choice, its all or nothing
    Define "semi pro choice".


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,895 ✭✭✭nokia69


    Define "semi pro choice".

    claiming to be pro choice, but then saying that some types of abortion should be stopped

    for example a while back a feminist writing in the guardian was saying that women should not be alowed to have an abortion based on the sex of the fetus, I can understand why people would be against this, and I don't like it myself, but if you have abortion on demand then some women will make choices that we don't like

    if you say you are pro choice, but only for the choices you agree with, then you are not really pro choice


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2, Paid Member Posts: 8,446 ✭✭✭Morag


    Seems that other women also feel insulted and patronized by the tone and types of discussion around the proposed legislation.

    http://www.irishtimes.com/life-and-style/people/as-a-woman-who-has-had-an-abortion-i-feel-patronised-1.1388904


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,162 ✭✭✭AK333


    I emailed four waterford td's on the 3rd May and heard from none of them. Today I emailed them again, requesting as a courtesy, a reply to my email - if I don't hear from them again, I'll write to them, or maybe the local paper - they have local constituency offices, which we the tax paying public pay for - they can damn well respond to a simple email.

    I can't shout as loud or for as long as the pro lifers - but I'll give it my best shot. :)


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,850 ✭✭✭FouxDaFaFa


    This story from El Salvador is sadly familiar (in fact Ireland is mentioned in the article). A 22 year old woman, "Beatrice", is carrying a foetus that will not survive and is experiencing serious health problems, including kidney failure, as a result of the pregnancy (and the fact that she has Lupus). It is illegal to terminate the pregnancy.

    What's different to the Hallapanavar case is that she knows she's dying and so does everyone else.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 769 ✭✭✭Frito


    "I want to live".

    It's horrific that she should even have to say it. There's a link to Amnesty to petition the govt in El Salvador to permit an abortion.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 669 ✭✭✭Fizzlesque


    FouxDaFaFa wrote: »
    This story from El Salvador is sadly familiar (in fact Ireland is mentioned in the article). A 22 year old woman, "Beatrice", is carrying a foetus that will not survive and is experiencing serious health problems, including kidney failure, as a result of the pregnancy (and the fact that she has Lupus). It is illegal to terminate the pregnancy.

    What's different to the Hallapanavar case is that she knows she's dying and so does everyone else.

    That is one of the most repulsive stories I've ever read. My blood is boiling over here - made worse by reading one of the comments at the bottom. And she's been waiting since the end of March - a month and a half ago! That's a long time to be waiting to find out if your life is about to come to a sudden end. Absolutely horrific story.

    30 years in prison for having an abortion in a country with a "significant unmet need for contraceptives which causes high rates of unplanned pregnancies" - that makes me want to tear my face off in frustration. I really hate this poxy world sometimes. :mad:


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,269 ✭✭✭GalwayGuy2


    claiming to be pro choice, but then saying that some types of abortion should be stopped

    for example a while back a feminist writing in the guardian was saying that women should not be alowed to have an abortion based on the sex of the fetus, I can understand why people would be against this, and I don't like it myself, but if you have abortion on demand then some women will make choices that we don't like

    if you say you are pro choice, but only for the choices you agree with, then you are not really pro choice

    Hmm that's a good point. I guess it depends on what society it is. If it's the individual women's decision I agree. But if the decision is based on ther family, or partner, then, depending on the society, it may be a good idea to disallow abortions based on gender. I think India disallow checking the gender of the child?


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 85 ✭✭nowanathiest


    AK333 wrote: »
    I emailed four waterford td's on the 3rd May and heard from none of them. Today I emailed them again, requesting as a courtesy, a reply to my email - if I don't hear from them again, I'll write to them, or maybe the local paper - they have local constituency offices, which we the tax paying public pay for - they can damn well respond to a simple email.

    I can't shout as loud or for as long as the pro lifers - but I'll give it my best shot. :)

    Well done, however it occurred to me recently, that with the proliferation of guerilla tactics being employed by pro-lifers, it's a possibility that the pro-lifers working in these offices may be tampering with emails and correspondence of the pro-choice constituents. How do we know that this is not happening?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 12,644 ✭✭✭✭lazygal


    Well done, however it occurred to me recently, that with the proliferation of guerilla tactics being employed by pro-lifers, it's a possibility that the pro-lifers working in these offices may be tampering with emails and correspondence of the pro-choice constituents. How do we know that this is not happening?

    I know the sister of one TD I contacted is involved in the anti choice movement and also works as his parliamentary assistant. I got a pro forma response to original contact with a request not to hesitate to contact him for further information. I haven't gotten any response to three further emails.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,162 ✭✭✭AK333


    Well done, however it occurred to me recently, that with the proliferation of guerilla tactics being employed by pro-lifers, it's a possibility that the pro-lifers working in these offices may be tampering with emails and correspondence of the pro-choice constituents. How do we know that this is not happening?

    If I knew this was actually happening, I would be furious and sad. :mad: Lots of people have worked in places where they don't necessarily agree with tactics taken in some instances, I know I have, but when you work you have to be professional, and carryout your work properly. If I thought some office clerk, being paid by my tax, was working to her/his own agenda, I'd be well p1ssed. :(

    I'm definitely going to follow up this this week - and I'll report back.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2, Paid Member Posts: 8,446 ✭✭✭Morag


    Often a letter or even a post card will get a better response then an email.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,162 ✭✭✭AK333


    Just heard back from John Halligan TD (Waterford)

    "Dear xxx,

    Apologies for not replying to your email sooner. On behalf of Mr John Halligan T. D. (Ind) Waterford I wish to acknowledge receipt of same and confirm the contents have been brought to the Deputy’s attention.

    I can confirm that Deputy Halligan is in favour of allowing access to abortion where the life of the mother is in danger and he is on public record supporting Deputy Daly's Private Members Motion, Medical Treatment (Termination of Pregnancy in Case of Risk to Life of Pregnant Women) Bill 2012. Deputy Halligan feels very strongly that to meet its international obligations the Government needs to immediately legislate for the X case and bring forward legislation to allow for the safe and legal abortion where a woman's physical or mental health is at risk. Deputy Halligan is actively engaging with the Government urging them to include cases of rape, incest and severe fetal abnormalities as well as the legalisation of medical abortion. Details of his most recent Leaders Question to An Taoiseach can be viewed on the Oireachtas website.

    Kind Regards

    Emer O'Neill BA (Law) IPAV QFA
    Parliamentary Assistant
    John Halligan T.D. (Ind) Waterford


    I was quite impressed with this reply, and told them so. I appreciate this is probably a generic reply to every pro choice email they receive, but still, it sounds like they've put a bit of thought into it, as opposed to saying "I'm meeting with my parliamentry group and making a decision" blah blah blah.

    I'll let you know if I hear from the other 3.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,162 ✭✭✭AK333


    Ok, here's another one. Waterford Labour TD, Ciara Conway. She sent me two emails today, the first one saying "I am meeting with my parliamentry colleagues blah blah blah" which I didn't bother sharing with you, and then this one.

    I'm really only interested in the last sentence - not enough, but something.

    A Chara

    Please see the schedule below, which may be of interest.
    This is a pre-legislative scrutiny at Heads of Bill stage which is a consultative process involving the Committee examining written submissions along with hearing from invited expert witnesses from the medical, psychiatry and legal fields.
    The Committee wishes to record its thanks to all those who offered to come before us and regrets that it cannot accommodate every request.
    The hearings will be broadcast live on Oireachtas UPC Channel 207, and webcast live on the Oireachtas website.
    We hope that the debate is conducted in a temperate and moderate fashion, and that the hearings make a considered contribution to the shaping of this significant piece of legislation.
    Committee hearings can be followed live over the three days via the Seanad webcast feed:
    http://www.oireachtas.ie/parliament/watchlisten/live-flashplayer/seanadeireann/
    I remain, as always, committed to legislating for X before the end of this Dáil term. I will be doing all I can, along with my government colleagues, to ensure this happens.Kind regards,

    Ciara.

    Deputy Ciara Conway
    Labour T.D. for Waterford
    Vice-Chair Joint Oireachtas Committee on Health and Children

    Contact : 01 618 4011
    ciara.conway@oir.ie

    Constituency Office:
    36 Mary Street, Dungarvan, Co Waterford
    Contact: 058 245 14

    Now I also have a copy of the Schedule as to who is speaking when, but its very long and if someone is interested I can PM you or someone can tell me how to reduce it to a link so that everyone can see it.

    If I hear from the other two TD's I'll let you know.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,818 ✭✭✭Lyaiera


    I e-mailed all five of my TDs a few months back. Only one responded and that was to state he and his party are firmly Pro-Life. It was FF so it's not like I was going to vote for them anyway. It pisses me off that four of them didn't respond though, not even a form letter. I e-mailed David Norris about something a while back, a trivial matter in comparison to this and he had written back to me within days.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 113 ✭✭elainers


    I'm a very irregular poster but felt I had to highlight this. It's an ad from the Independent.ie website which appears to invite you to take part in a poll on rights but actually when you click you are told that you have already voted. It doesn't say what exactly you voted for bar "for life". Has anybody else seen these and does anybody know who is running this? I'm disgusted in the underhanded tactics being used here!


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 390 ✭✭kat.mac


    ^ ugh. The money that cost doesn't bear thinking about... They're so shady!!


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 11,612 ✭✭✭✭meeeeh


    A TD that responds in non generic way has either too much money to employ staff or too much time. Either way I wouldn't trust them as a TD. Their actions are way more important than nicely worded reply.

    That questionar is absolutely despicable but it just seems that pro lifers (the hardcore ones) are a bit demented anyway. And very unchristian in their actions.


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