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havetoquit wrote: »

Yes, these are indeed wretched smutty verbals etc and not the sort of thing I enjoy. I cannot imagine that anyone else would gain much pleasure from it either, but let's be honest, this vile chatter was from a very angry, disturbed person aimed at her ex husband and was not meant for public airing.

If we are honest, I guess we would have to admit that she is not the only one who has hurled this kind of abuse down the phone or in person, if in a particularly bad state of mind, no matter how horrid it is.

Please do not misinterpret that I am trying to justify or condone this woman whom I do not know in any way, but I just feel that spouting vile words about her is somehow almost as dysfunctional as her behavior.

I guess if anything happened to her tomorrow God forbid, there would be many who would remember her for the good deeds she may have done, or maybe just that she made them laugh, whatever.

Does it make us feel better or can it be good for us as individuals to be so abusive about someone we do not know personally?

She has to live with herself and deal with any lies she has told or hurt or embarrassment she may have caused to others.

She comes across as someone who is a little unbalanced and perhaps her background, upbringing etc has contributed to the person she became.

I prefer to see people like that as being unfortunate and count myself lucky that I am not consumed with that kind of anger, desperation, or need for attention. When she said she had considered suicide, I honestly could not see her as anything, but someone who must have felt incredibly desperate, depressed, alone and worthless. No human being deserves to feel that way, regardless.

Has anyone considered that this woman or her daughters may well be subscribers to this board and how reading horrid comments could impact upon them?

It is so easy to write anonymously and even if the words are not written with the intent to hurt, they can badly affect the reader, depending on their stability.