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Honestly...Do you ever feel like you will be alone forever?

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  • 10-10-2012 11:45pm
    #1
    PaurGasm
    Registered Users Posts: 197 ✭✭


    I know this thought is crazy, but jesus christ, there is couples everywhere and I feel like I will be alone forever... It honestly annoys my happiness when I see a couple...

    So will you be alone forever?


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    #2
    cherryghost
    Moderators, Technology & Internet Moderators Posts: 17,133 Mod ✭✭✭✭cherryghost


    Don't you mean Forever Alone?


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    #3
    PaurGasm
    Registered Users Posts: 197 ✭✭PaurGasm


    cherryghost wrote: »
    Don't you mean Forever Alone?


    I tried to keep my 4chan antics out of boards.ie but yeah...

    foreveralone.jpeg

    haha


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    #4
    Pottler
    Closed Accounts Posts: 5,073 ✭✭✭Pottler


    Get married and have kids, you will then long to be alone, if only for twenty minutes of bleedin peace.


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    keith16
    Closed Accounts Posts: 8,061 ✭✭✭keith16


    PaurGasm wrote: »
    I know this thought is crazy, but jesus christ, there is couples everywhere and I feel like I will be alone forever... It honestly annoys my happiness when I see a couple...

    So will you be alone forever?

    How old are you OP? Sometimes the best company is your own. Enjoy it :)


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    TeddyTedson
    Registered Users Posts: 10,758 ✭✭✭✭TeddyTedson


    keith16 wrote: »
    How old are you OP? Sometimes the best company is your own. Enjoy it :)
    But, but...this is AH. And you being so nice. Teddy confuseballs:confused:


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    keith16
    Closed Accounts Posts: 8,061 ✭✭✭keith16


    TeddyTedson wrote: »
    But, but...this is AH. And you being so nice. Teddy confuseballs:confused:

    *Hugs Teddy


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    #8
    Where To
    Closed Accounts Posts: 5,455 ✭✭✭Where To


    I love being alone. I'll eat when I'm hungry. I'll drink when I'm dry.

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Du8Naz_iAg4


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    [Deleted User]
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    Possibly.


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    1ZRed
    Closed Accounts Posts: 7,293 ✭✭✭1ZRed


    Depends. Are you Hans Moleman?


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    admiralofthefleet
    Closed Accounts Posts: 15,515 ✭✭✭✭admiralofthefleet


    PaurGasm wrote: »
    I know this thought is crazy, but jesus christ, there is couples everywhere and I feel like I will be alone forever... It honestly annoys my happiness when I see a couple...

    So will you be alone forever?

    im married with a 1 year old. trust me, you like your alone tine in the evening when you can just be yourself and relax for a while


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    keith16
    Closed Accounts Posts: 8,061 ✭✭✭keith16


    1ZRed wrote: »
    Depends. Are you Hans Moleman?

    Because if so, also watch out for stray footballs to the groin.

    Hurts in a more meaningful, immediate kind of way than loneliness.


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    TeddyTedson
    Registered Users Posts: 10,758 ✭✭✭✭TeddyTedson


    keith16 wrote: »
    *Hugs Teddy
    ***** Keith16 off :eek:


    *I'll get my your pants

    :o


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    keith16
    Closed Accounts Posts: 8,061 ✭✭✭keith16


    TeddyTedson wrote: »
    ***** Keith16 off :eek:


    *I'll get my your pants

    :o

    Do you see what you have done OP? The mere mention of your insufferable loneliness is enough drive strangers into eachothers pants!

    Sucks to be you!

    *I'll get that Teddy (honestly that's enough now)


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    PaurGasm
    Registered Users Posts: 197 ✭✭PaurGasm


    keith16 wrote: »
    How old are you OP? Sometimes the best company is your own. Enjoy it :)


    Ah I am only 21 and Im sure Ill meet someone but seeing couples sicken me haha

    I probably should have named this thread "Seeing couples annoys me" haha


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    hatrickpatrick
    Registered Users Posts: 17,797 ✭✭✭✭hatrickpatrick


    Yeah, in more ways than just in terms of having / not having a girlfriend.

    But I subscribe to the multiverse theory, that is that our universe is one bubble of an infinite number, and that somewhere in each of them, everything that could be possible, has happened.

    Therefore, there is no doubt another "version" of Paddy out there somewhere - exactly like me, except he made all the right decisions. :D

    Really makes it easier to enjoy life I find. Follow your instincts and if everything gets f*cked up it doesn't matter. You did everything right and you got everything you ever wanted out of life - just not necessarily in this particular universe. And honestly who says ours is the most important one? Don't be afraid of making horrible mistakes sometimes, because somewhere out there, you didn't.


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    1ZRed
    Closed Accounts Posts: 7,293 ✭✭✭1ZRed


    keith16 wrote: »
    Because if so, also watch out for stray footballs to the groin.

    Hurts in a more meaningful, immediate kind of way than loneliness.

    Are you sure?




    :(


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    TeddyTedson
    Registered Users Posts: 10,758 ✭✭✭✭TeddyTedson


    keith16 wrote: »
    Do you see what you have done OP? The mere mention of your insufferable loneliness is enough drive strangers into eachothers pants!

    Sucks to be you!

    *I'll get that Teddy (honestly that's enough now)
    Yea true :D

    Back to the OP though,
    Hmmm, not no at all actually. Never thought it as far as I can recall.
    I'm lucky to have lots of friends and family and all of that rubbish:p
    And as far as relationships go, I perhaps wrongly think I have no problems dating someone if I feel like it. That sounds awfully big headed and I'm no male model (I wish:p) or anything close but that's how I feel, there's someone out there for everyone, if you choose to find them ;)

    Anyway don't sweat it, if you're actually worrying about it.
    If you want to find someone, you will.


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    hatrickpatrick
    Registered Users Posts: 17,797 ✭✭✭✭hatrickpatrick


    One of the most incredible people I've ever met sent me this song to cheer me up one day. If you're feeling lonely, have a listen.
    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FiQo6DoXknY
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FiQo6DoXknY


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    risteard7
    Registered Users Posts: 879 ✭✭✭risteard7


    http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_detailpage&v=w6Q3mHyzn78#t=41s


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    #21
    woodoo
    Closed Accounts Posts: 5,219 ✭✭✭woodoo


    Listen aul wooden Enda kenny even got himself a wife at 45. Don't write yourself off just yet.


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    #22
    pappyodaniel
    Registered Users Posts: 5,725 ✭✭✭pappyodaniel


    People are cunts anyway.


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    #23
    Where To
    Closed Accounts Posts: 5,455 ✭✭✭Where To


    hatrickpatrick wrote: »
    One of the most incredible people I've ever met sent me this song to cheer me up one day. If you're feeling lonely, have a listen.
    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FiQo6DoXknY
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FiQo6DoXknY
    Too cheer you up you say?:confused:

    It's not exactly La Bamba is it?

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Jp6j5HJ-Cok


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    nbar12
    Registered Users Posts: 1,381 ✭✭✭nbar12


    PaurGasm wrote: »
    Ah I am only 21 and Im sure Ill meet someone but seeing couples sicken me haha

    I probably should have named this thread "Seeing couples annoys me" haha

    21!?!?

    Jesus Christ man, you have your whole life ahead of you to worry about being alone!


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    #25
    Jhcx
    Registered Users Posts: 2,776 ✭✭✭Jhcx


    I shall not be alone if i hold on to this person *grabs said person beside me* Now sorted. wheres the tea? feck that wheres the party for the whatcha call ems, singles or young people all this relationship stuff making me thirsty.


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    bbm1
    Registered Users Posts: 32 ✭bbm1


    I'm 23 and single, it seems like most of my friends are going steady now! 1 of my friends got married this year! 1 of my friends counted that out of our year at school 12 out the 98 in our year are now engaged with 2 married and something like 8 have children! Seems crazy!


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    Where To
    Closed Accounts Posts: 5,455 ✭✭✭Where To


    bbm1 wrote: »
    I'm 23 and single, it seems like most of my friends are going steady now! 1 of my friends got married this year! 1 of my friends counted that out of our year at school 12 out the 98 in our year are now engaged with 2 married and something like 8 have children! Seems crazy!
    I'm not reading past the bolded underlined part until you tell us your sex.


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    #28
    Sauve
    Registered Users Posts: 22,646 ✭✭✭✭Sauve


    Being alone and happy is so much better than being with someone and unhappy, just for the sake of 'having someone'.
    Be content with your own company, you're your own best friend.

    I can see myself being single for a very long time, and that's not a bad thing. If I settle with someone long-term, it'll only be because they're so amazingly wonderful that I'll have no choice but to be with them, and want to have them around.
    That may sound very conceited, but it'll take a very special person to make me happier than I am now...


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    #29
    Rigol
    Registered Users Posts: 465 ✭✭Rigol


    You only fear being alone cause you were biologically preprogrammed to pair-bond/couple.

    its the basis of most of your social fears/behaviors.

    Over-ride your programming. (access via your hidden usb)


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    #30
    hooradiation
    Closed Accounts Posts: 3,922 ✭✭✭hooradiation


    PaurGasm wrote: »
    So will you be alone forever?

    With any luck.


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    #31
    It wasn't me!
    Registered Users Posts: 13,034 ✭✭✭✭It wasn't me!


    23 and single. It used to bother me more, and yes, the majority of my own friends have their own (at this stage) relatively long term relationships now, and once in a while, that seems like something I'm missing, but I've got a lot of stuff on, I'm pretty active and happy and such. It'd be nice to meet someone, really would, but if you spend all your time stressing about it, you'll be a miserable prick, and nobody's interested in a miserable prick in the first place. Be busy, do your own stuff and be passionate about it. Maybe you'll meet someone who likes that, or who's into the same stuff, but sitting around being miserable will quite definitely get you nowhere, and meanwhile, you've got some cool stuff to occupy your mind. If you don't have any now, go find some!


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