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The Online Dating Thread Part II **Mod Warning** Read First Post/or Post 7389

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  • Administrators Posts: 54,256 Admin ✭✭✭✭✭awec


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 249 ✭✭managerman


    Ah that's a good attitude to have, head out with the friends and have the craic, you won't be long meeting someone! I've got 3 weddings in the next 2 months to go to so I'll be watching Wedding Crashers to refresh my style! :D

    Haha LOVE that film, so funny! Wouldn't mind crashing a few weddings myself, a possible event to bump into your future partner ;)
    We could set up some kind of forum about that... How and where to crash weddings!! Just a thought!!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 249 ✭✭managerman


    awec wrote: »
    Larianne wrote: »
    School disco night out???? Maybe?
    Oh, no way. An actual photo in school uniform. :pac:
    What age are we looking here?


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  • Registered Users Posts: 587 ✭✭✭fat__tony


    mood wrote: »
    Were you not online also? Otherwise how would you know she was? Why had you not discussed taking down profiles etc?

    No, I had removed my profile about 10 days ago. I knew because I did a quick search of her username of the site and she popped up.

    I kinda hinted at it on Saturday last but she didn't really engage with me on it.

    I think Ive made up my mind, Ill probably end it pretty soon.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 249 ✭✭managerman


    awec wrote: »
    Shes 18 so a bit younger than me.

    Didn't send me a message like, just viewed. :)
    She could still be in school!! Snatcher ya!!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,877 ✭✭✭stripysocks85


    managerman wrote: »
    Ah that's a good attitude to have, head out with the friends and have the craic, you won't be long meeting someone! I've got 3 weddings in the next 2 months to go to so I'll be watching Wedding Crashers to refresh my style! :D

    Haha LOVE that film, so funny! Wouldn't mind crashing a few weddings myself, a possible event to bump into your future partner ;)
    We could set up some kind of forum about that... How and where to crash weddings!! Just a thought!!


    Count me in for that,always up for a bit of devilment! :-)


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,019 ✭✭✭davycc


    Hi I better introduce myself here: Im a refugee from AH and Soccer etc forums.
    Im out of a nasty long term relationship early last year.

    I signed up for POF around a year ago and did get to meet some lovely women and go on some mad dates too. But I put no effort into my profile and Id say it looks sh1te:D .

    Ive not signed into any other dating sites as the only ones I came across were the pay type which i was unsure about.

    Anyways I hope to get on a few dates and meet some new people:cool:

    Dave.;)


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,040 ✭✭✭Armaghmagic


    managerman wrote: »
    Ah that's a good attitude to have, head out with the friends and have the craic, you won't be long meeting someone! I've got 3 weddings in the next 2 months to go to so I'll be watching Wedding Crashers to refresh my style! :D

    Haha LOVE that film, so funny! Wouldn't mind crashing a few weddings myself, a possible event to bump into your future partner ;)
    We could set up some kind of forum about that... How and where to crash weddings!! Just a thought!!

    Yeah definitely count me in for that! It's on "the list" of things I have to do before I die!!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,535 ✭✭✭Raekwon




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  • Registered Users Posts: 82 ✭✭SEEMagazine


    I was going to post the OkGopid video but I'm sure everyone here has already seen it...

    On the topic of weddings and crashing: A friend and I... he a respected playwright and actor, I a respected writer (though neither of us at the time) knew a few lads working at a wedding venue... So, threw on the penguin suits, off up we went, sat at the end of the bar, free beer for the night. When anyone asked we just said we were with a different wedding party and were waiting for our own function room to open.

    Utterly soused we were. Legendary times.


  • Registered Users Posts: 8,247 ✭✭✭Maguined


    fat__tony wrote: »
    No, I had removed my profile about 10 days ago. I knew because I did a quick search of her username of the site and she popped up.

    I kinda hinted at it on Saturday last but she didn't really engage with me on it.

    I think Ive made up my mind, Ill probably end it pretty soon.

    Is that not a bit harsh? I don't think I would ever end anything with someone without having a proper talk about it, hinting at it is not the same as sitting her down and discussing it properly with her.

    You could be throwing away a good thing over nothing to be honest.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 5,844 ✭✭✭Honey-ec


    awec wrote: »
    Shes 18 so a bit younger than me.

    Didn't send me a message like, just viewed. :)

    What the hell are 18-year-olds even doing on an online dating site? I find that a bit sad, tbh.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 51,342 ✭✭✭✭That_Guy


    Honey-ec wrote: »
    What the hell are 18-year-olds even doing on an online dating site? I find that a bit sad, tbh.

    How so?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 249 ✭✭managerman


    Honey-ec wrote: »
    awec wrote: »
    Shes 18 so a bit younger than me.

    Didn't send me a message like, just viewed. :)

    What the hell are 18-year-olds even doing on an online dating site? I find that a bit sad, tbh.
    I wouldn't call it sad, but younger people that age definitely have more opportunities than older lads, if this girl is still in school she should be able to find somebody in there, unless it's an all girls school, then I'm just talking ****e!


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 5,844 ✭✭✭Honey-ec


    That_Guy wrote: »
    How so?

    Cause at that age they should be out living their life, not so jaded with the whole social scene that they've given up on it already.


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  • Moderators, Category Moderators, Music Moderators, Politics Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 22,360 CMod ✭✭✭✭Dravokivich


    Honey-ec wrote: »
    What the hell are 18-year-olds even doing on an online dating site? I find that a bit sad, tbh.

    Don't think it's a bad thing at all myself. As there'd be others around 19/20 on it as well.
    Honey-ec wrote: »
    Cause at that age they should be out living their life, not so jaded with the whole social scene that they've given up on it already.

    All online dating is, is a medium to meet people interested in dating. It doesn't mean anything to do with a lack of a social life. That's to be determined on the individual, not the age nor the medium that they choose to use to meet other people interested in dating.
    managerman wrote: »
    I wouldn't call it sad, but younger people that age definitely have more opportunities than older lads, if this girl is still in school she should be able to find somebody in there, unless it's an all girls school, then I'm just talking ****e!

    If I had more opportunity at 18 I was ignorantly unaware of such. :(


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 249 ✭✭managerman


    awec wrote: »
    Honey-ec wrote: »
    Cause at that age they should be out living their life, not so jaded with the whole social scene that they've given up on it already.
    Just cause she is on online dating doesn't mean she isn't out living her life or that she has given up on the social scene. :)
    Probably hasn't had any social scene at that stage!! We all want to know did you mail her tho??


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 9,463 ✭✭✭KTRIC


    Raekwon wrote: »
    This is for you guys! :D

    OMG !!! she is soooo cute :D Great vid, laughed my head off.

    I just disabled my accounts, I'm happy dating the lady I met last week and hopefully it'll develop into something more. :)


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 51,342 ✭✭✭✭That_Guy


    Honey-ec wrote: »
    Cause at that age they should be out living their life, not so jaded with the whole social scene that they've given up on it already.

    I only use online dating as an aside to socialising with people "in real life". I go out at the weekends and use POF maybe during the week once or twice.

    It's not a case of using POF as an alternative to social life. It should be used in conjunction but not to a point whereby it becomes excessive.


  • Registered Users Posts: 779 ✭✭✭ChannelNo5


    I just got my first willy picture from a 25 year old :eek:

    Not bad, seen bigger though:D

    Really, what does he expect from me now?... "Ooh I love your willy pic baby! Lets get together and admire it close up!":rolleyes:

    Boys are silly :p


  • Administrators Posts: 54,256 Admin ✭✭✭✭✭awec


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  • Registered Users Posts: 8,247 ✭✭✭Maguined


    ChannelNo5 wrote: »
    I just got my first willy picture from a 25 year old :eek:

    Not bad, seen bigger though:D

    Really, what does he expect from me now?... "Ooh I love your willy pic baby! Lets get together and admire it close up!":rolleyes:

    Boys are silly :p

    Send a picture of another lads willy back, logically they would love that.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 35,954 ✭✭✭✭Larianne


    awec wrote: »
    Is this like a landmark moment during the time a lady is a member of POF?

    "Do you remember the date you got your first picture of a lads todger?"

    Still waiting... :cool:
    Maguined wrote: »
    Send a picture of another lads willy back, logically they would love that.

    That is hilarious! :pac:

    I have to say, there's a lot of '30' year olds guys on these sites that were 30 a long time ago. Seems like guys lie about their ages too, or time has not been kind to their faces.


  • Registered Users Posts: 8,247 ✭✭✭Maguined


    Larianne wrote: »
    Still waiting... :cool:

    You don't have a photo on your profile, don't you know it's only those whores that upload photos of their slutty faces that are craving the phallus photographs.

    Upload a photo of yourself and you should get a willy within a week. :pac:


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 5,844 ✭✭✭Honey-ec


    Fair enough. Every single person I've spoken to on POF is on it because they're sick of trying to meet someone in a pub/club, but we're obviously in the minority. Doesn't mean we don't still go out, though!


  • Registered Users Posts: 8,247 ✭✭✭Maguined


    Honey-ec wrote: »
    Fair enough. Every single person I've spoken to on POF is on it because they're sick of trying to meet someone in a pub/club, but we're obviously in the minority. Doesn't mean we don't still go out, though!

    I think it's all part of the life cycle of online dating so far. At the start it was considered by the vast majority of people to only be for losers or weirdos. After years as technology and specifically the internet are becoming more mainstream (even the most technophobic people now have iphones) this has lessened the stigma so now it's not considered such a big deal however I do think there is a middle stage where most people on online dating would be older and as you said people who used it after exhausting more "real world" avenues of getting drunk in a pub.

    However I do think it is now into another stage where people are using it completely as an addition to their regular dating/socialising rather than as a replacement, as the younger generation take to technology quicker than the older generation I think it will be pretty "normal" in another couple of years for most late teenagers/early twenties to all be on dating websites in addition to getting ****faced in pubs and openely grinding on the sweaty dancefloor in coppers. :pac:


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 35,954 ✭✭✭✭Larianne


    Maguined wrote: »
    You don't have a photo on your profile, don't you know it's only those whores that upload photos of their slutty faces that are craving the phallus photographs.

    Upload a photo of yourself and you should get a willy within a week. :pac:

    I do have a photo up! :(


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  • Registered Users Posts: 779 ✭✭✭ChannelNo5


    awec wrote: »
    Is this like a landmark moment during the time a lady is a member of POF?


    "Do you remember the date you got your first picture of a lads t0dger?"

    Is is for me yeah! I've been waiting for this moment since i joined! I'm a little emotional here! ;)
    Maguined wrote: »
    Send a picture of another lads willy back, logically they would love that.

    That's genius! Only problem is i don't have a pic of another lads willy!! :(
    Any volunteers??, :D


  • Registered Users Posts: 8,247 ✭✭✭Maguined


    Larianne wrote: »
    I do have a photo up! :(

    Ooopps. :o

    I thought you always said you had no photo so you only messaged guys you were interested in? :confused:

    Fine to keep you happy I will send you a willy.


  • Moderators, Category Moderators, Music Moderators, Politics Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 22,360 CMod ✭✭✭✭Dravokivich


    ChannelNo5 wrote: »
    That's genius! Only problem is i don't have a pic of another lads willy!! :(
    Any volunteers??, :D

    I'm sure you could find a few on google. :p

    Or even PM him with a selection of a range you'd prefer.

    haha


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 35,954 ✭✭✭✭Larianne


    Maguined wrote: »
    Ooopps. :o

    I thought you always said you had no photo so you only messaged guys you were interested in? :confused:

    Fine to keep you happy I will send you a willy.

    Changed approach last week.

    Um, I'm actually good for that.. or something. :pac:


  • Registered Users Posts: 8,247 ✭✭✭Maguined


    Larianne wrote: »
    Still waiting... :cool:
    Larianne wrote: »
    Um, I'm actually good for that.. or something. :pac:

    No pleasing some people. :p


  • Registered Users Posts: 779 ✭✭✭ChannelNo5


    I'm sure you could find a few on google. :p

    Or even PM him with a selection of a range you'd prefer.

    haha

    All of them bigger then his ha ha:D That might put a stop to his gallop!!


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  • Administrators Posts: 54,256 Admin ✭✭✭✭✭awec


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 35,954 ✭✭✭✭Larianne


    awec wrote: »
    But you're hidden are you not? :pac:

    Hidden on POF, not on OkCupid.

    OkCupid has a very small pool of people. Think I'll be going back to POF.


  • Registered Users Posts: 779 ✭✭✭ChannelNo5


    awec wrote: »
    But you're hidden are you not? :pac:



    Do you feel it was worth the wait? :D

    Weeellll i don't like to pick but... it could have been better! :D Good first attempt though:)


  • Administrators Posts: 54,256 Admin ✭✭✭✭✭awec


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  • Registered Users Posts: 8,247 ✭✭✭Maguined


    Larianne wrote: »
    Hidden on POF, not on OkCupid.

    OkCupid has a very small pool of people. Think I'll be going back to POF.

    I thought I saw someone on OKC that looked like you! But the sun was shining so it was hard to see on my phone so I decided to leave it rather than sending one of my usual "BOARDSIE!!!" emails as sooner or later I am going to send one to a non-boardsie and awkwardness will ensue.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 35,954 ✭✭✭✭Larianne


    Maguined wrote: »
    I thought I saw someone on OKC that looked like you! But the sun was shining so it was hard to see on my phone so I decided to leave it rather than sending one of my usual "BOARDSIE!!!" emails as sooner or later I am going to send one to a non-boardsie and awkwardness will ensue.

    Yeah, I know you viewed my profile alright! STUNG!!! :pac:


  • Registered Users Posts: 8,247 ✭✭✭Maguined


    Larianne wrote: »
    Yeah, I know you viewed my profile alright! STUNG!!! :pac:

    In fairness as you said OKC pool is pretty small, at this stage I think I have seen all the profiles!


  • Registered Users Posts: 779 ✭✭✭ChannelNo5


    awec wrote: »
    I'll have you know it took me at least 5 attempts to get that photo right before sending it, so be a bit more grateful!
    :P

    5 attempts at doing what Awec?... :D If i'd known it was you i'd had studied it with more intensity and interest :p


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    One of the best things I've done on POF is set the minimum amount of characters to 50. Sure, I'm probably not getting as many messages as I could potentially be, but the people that do actually make the effort to read my profile and have something to say. It's quite brilliant.


  • Registered Users Posts: 779 ✭✭✭ChannelNo5


    awec wrote: »
    5 attempts at getting it all in the picture. :cool:

    :pac:

    Ha ha Touché :D


  • Moderators, Category Moderators, Music Moderators, Politics Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 22,360 CMod ✭✭✭✭Dravokivich


    awec wrote: »
    5 attempts at getting it all in the picture. :cool:

    :pac:

    Various levels of zooming in was it?

    :P
    Maguined wrote: »
    In fairness as you said OKC pool is pretty small, at this stage I think I have seen all the profiles!

    I'd noticed people were still using profiles they would of had from years ago. *ahem* because I've had account on OKC since I was 19, when it was also setup as a social website. :o

    Anyhow, when it gets like that you really need to just wait it out every couple of weeks when theres waves of new registered people joining.


  • Administrators Posts: 54,256 Admin ✭✭✭✭✭awec


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  • Moderators, Category Moderators, Music Moderators, Politics Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 22,360 CMod ✭✭✭✭Dravokivich


    awec wrote: »
    Had to get the wide angle lens out in the end.

    Well look at you Mr Stephen Speilberg :D

    Bet if you were videoing it ya would of done that thing from Jaws too? :pac:


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