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Man Rape

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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,910 ✭✭✭Sisko


    If that was a serious belief then the guy has the empathy of a serial killer.


  • Posts: 1,060 ✭✭✭ Brixton Howling Pail


    jeep37 wrote: »
    The whole 'rape is worse than murder' idea can be quite puzzling indeed. It's important to take into consideration that only recently in history has it become the norm for women not to retain their chastity until marriage. Before, (and still currently in some Asian and middle-eastern cultures) men refused to marry women who weren't virgins. So being raped would essentially be denying a woman financial support and the chance to have a family. In this context you can certainly see how getting raped might be 'worse than murder' for a woman. As for it being so for first world women, many first world women are mentally unstable and develop severe depression for no reason at all. So I think it's more to do with how overly sensitive they are in the first place.

    Are you for real ??? Some thoughts are really best left in your head

    No they aren't. The above appears to be a genuine belief, If you think they are wrong then why not discuss it.

    Probably cause they have just been banned for trolling


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 3,144 ✭✭✭Scanlas The 2nd


    jeep37 wrote: »
    The whole 'rape is worse than murder' idea can be quite puzzling indeed. It's important to take into consideration that only recently in history has it become the norm for women not to retain their chastity until marriage. Before, (and still currently in some Asian and middle-eastern cultures) men refused to marry women who weren't virgins. So being raped would essentially be denying a woman financial support and the chance to have a family. In this context you can certainly see how getting raped might be 'worse than murder' for a woman. As for it being so for first world women, many first world women are mentally unstable and develop severe depression for no reason at all. So I think it's more to do with how overly sensitive they are in the first place.

    Are you for real ??? Some thoughts are really best left in your head

    No they aren't. The above appears to be a genuine belief, If you think they are wrong then why not discuss it.

    Probably cause they have just been banned for trolling

    The reply was before the ban and I don't think they were trolling.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 793 ✭✭✭jaja321


    The reply was before the ban and I don't think they were trolling.

    Perhaps the other poster did think they were trolling, hence they didn't want to discuss the issue with this person any further? Not sure really why you're taking issue with it tbh


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,943 ✭✭✭wonderfulname


    The reply was before the ban and I don't think they were trolling.

    That's what makes them so darn good!


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  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 3,838 ✭✭✭midlandsmissus


    Well all I can say is you're a very lucky person to understand so little about pain and trauma.

    I'd rather not answer the specifics of your post, I've a funny feeling you wouldn't believe me...

    Wonderful name would you care to share your story, or even how you felt? If not, it's fine.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 44,079 ✭✭✭✭Micky Dolenz


    MOD note

    since this thread has developed. Please report posts you find offensive and not to rise to it.

    Thanks


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 906 ✭✭✭Dontfadeaway


    44leto wrote: »
    I don't believe it, you are also implying that a man has no control over his sexual response which is complete rubbish. Outside stimulus is important but if you are not turned on it wont happen, all you have to do "is think about the baseball".



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 43,313 ✭✭✭✭K-9


    If someone says homelessness is the worst thing that can happen someone my reply is cop on don't be over dramatic.

    If someone says rape is the worst thing that can happen someone my reply is cop on don't be so over dramatic.

    Both are obviously not even any where close to the worst thing that can happen someone.
    Saying rape is the worst thing that can happen someone is obviously not true. How can any sane person disagree with that.

    Jaysus, I thought you were a poster who was interested in male rights, this thread should be something you should be highlighting how male rape is a serious, serious issue.

    Its a shame. A poster who should be adding something substantive to the thread from a male perspective but just wants to attack, be pedantic and employ lawyerism about a rape victims experience of rape.

    My suspicion is this was a female poster and the first thought was to dismiss it, without an after thought for the OP and the thread topic.

    Have you addressed male rape in any of your posts?

    Mad Men's Don Draper : What you call love was invented by guys like me, to sell nylons.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,559 ✭✭✭Millicent


    K-9 wrote: »
    Jaysus, I thought you were a poster who was interested in male rights, this thread should be something you should be highlighting how male rape is a serious, serious issue.

    Nope, this is the poster who said he actually didn't really care about men's rights issues but thought that feminists should be doing more to fix them.

    I agree; it is disappointing that he would not offer something more to the thread. There need to be more male voices speaking out against rape and domestic violence.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 43,313 ✭✭✭✭K-9


    Millicent wrote: »
    Nope, this is the poster who said he actually didn't really care about men's rights issues but thought that feminists should be doing more to fix them.

    I agree; it is disappointing that he would not offer something more to the thread. There need to be more male voices speaking out against rape and domestic violence.

    Well its a disappointing thread. Trolled the sh*t out of.

    I suppose the man having an erection can't be raped line is consistent, if you watch extreme porn and a woman orgasming during rape, that means she enjoys it, right?

    Therefore a man having an erection must enjoy it.

    I mean extremes are a perfectly reasonable position to form logical thoughts?

    Mad Men's Don Draper : What you call love was invented by guys like me, to sell nylons.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,559 ✭✭✭Millicent


    K-9 wrote: »
    Well its a disappointing thread. Trolled the sh*t out of.

    I suppose the man having an erection can't be raped line is consistent, if you watch extreme porn and a woman orgasming during rape, that means she enjoys it, right?

    Therefore a man having an erection must enjoy it.

    I mean extremes are a perfectly reasonable position to form logical thoughts?

    And the annoying part is, all the ones who show up for any feminist-leaning thread to say "All the feminazis and wimminz hates men" are nowhere to be seen on a thread like this. These are the things they should be getting outraged about but there's still the stupid attitudes abounding that a man can't be raped because his body betrays his will. It's sad is what it is.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,515 ✭✭✭LH Pathe


    Rape, pedofeelia, homosexuelle, bestialty seems anything goes in a womans world.. or rather is certainly not on a prosecutable par with a man? Rape me, my friend.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 43,313 ✭✭✭✭K-9


    Millicent wrote: »
    And the annoying part is, all the ones who show up for any feminist-leaning thread to say "All the feminazis and wimminz hates men" are nowhere to be seen on a thread like this. These are the things they should be getting outraged about but there's still the stupid attitudes abounding that a man can't be raped because his body betrays his will. It's sad is what it is.

    Men and women are different remember, but not on rape, apparently, pretty much the same on rape, quotas different, but on rape, that would be the same, rape we all feel the same.

    Mad Men's Don Draper : What you call love was invented by guys like me, to sell nylons.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,559 ✭✭✭Millicent


    LH Pathe wrote: »
    Rape, pedofeelia, homosexuelle, bestialty seems anything goes in a womans world.. or rather is certainly not on a prosecutable par with a man? Rape me, my friend.

    Did you just equate gayness with paedophilia, rape and bestiality? You've jumped the shark with the trolling. It's not even subtle any more. :(


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 18 alarmskippy


    I am new but from scanning through the rules it seemed to me that sexual kinds of topics would not be allowed. Will the moderators not remove/close this thread?


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 3,838 ✭✭✭midlandsmissus


    LH Pathe wrote: »
    Rape, pedofeelia, homosexuelle, bestialty seems anything goes in a womans world.. or rather is certainly not on a prosecutable par with a man? Rape me, my friend.

    Bizarre for some-one with 1000 posts, the other troll was a new reg.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 4,137 ✭✭✭44leto


    Millicent wrote: »
    Did you just equate gayness with paedophilia, rape and bestiality? You've jumped the shark with the trolling. It's not even subtle any more. :(
    Nasty, OK i ask, i am an attractive guy, I go walking along dollymount, that is my gym, you there, I lock my bike behind the men's swimming changing area, you could sneak behind me and rape me.

    Now there is not a chance in hell you will get your end away and leave me violated, no matter how many weights you have lifted. No matter how strong you think you are, I am stronger as is most men. You could hold a gun or a knife to my neck, and still I would snatch them during my chucking,

    But I ask, you are a feminist, as I am, a male one, why would you propagate this bollox when it is so obviously not true, or would you rather deal with the facts.

    The link you gave was from Columbia university, but no link to the actual thesis, because it is bollox A man rape is consensual. It has to be. A woman being raped is not, that is an invasion. The only time a man is raped is in a prison.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 43,313 ✭✭✭✭K-9


    44leto wrote: »
    The only time a man is raped is in a prison.

    Such a simplistic version of life, bless, 70/80's Ireland and all its innocence.

    It's almost near, kids can't be raped proportions, especially boys, sure they they don't have vaginas and all that.

    Mad Men's Don Draper : What you call love was invented by guys like me, to sell nylons.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 43,313 ✭✭✭✭K-9


    44leto wrote: »
    Nasty, OK i ask, i am an attractive guy, I go walking along dollymount, that is my gym, you there, I lock my bike behind the men's swimming changing area, you could sneak behind me and rape me.

    Now there is not a chance in hell you will get your end away and leave me violated, no matter how many weights you have lifted. No matter how strong you think you are, I am stronger as is most men. You could hold a gun or a knife to my neck, and still I would snatch them during my chucking,

    You seem to be looking at this from a female vs. male viewpoint, not that it even matters, but just going on that level, an inherently sexist view to me.

    Mad Men's Don Draper : What you call love was invented by guys like me, to sell nylons.



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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,515 ✭✭✭LH Pathe


    Bizarre for some-one with 1000 posts, the other troll was a new reg.

    your wish is nobodys command for this thread in this place is nothing, but a man crying out to be raped. And where you failed I shall assume a womans duty, even if it requires a strap-on


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 9 PaleBlueEyes


    44leto wrote: »
    Nasty, OK i ask, i am an attractive guy, I go walking along dollymount, that is my gym, you there, I lock my bike behind the men's swimming changing area, you could sneak behind me and rape me.

    Now there is not a chance in hell you will get your end away and leave me violated, no matter how many weights you have lifted. No matter how strong you think you are, I am stronger as is most men. You could hold a gun or a knife to my neck, and still I would snatch them during my chucking,

    But I ask, you are a feminist, as I am, a male one, why would you propagate this bollox when it is so obviously not true, or would you rather deal with the facts.

    The link you gave was from Columbia university, but no link to the actual thesis, because it is bollox A man rape is consensual. It has to be. A woman being raped is not, that is an invasion. The only time a man is raped is in a prison.

    Christ, I actually cannot comprehend what the fúck you are spouting on about

    "A man rape is consensual. It has to be."

    No it doesn't have to br and no it isn't. I hope no one who has ever had to go through that ordeal reads your bull****.


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 3,144 ✭✭✭Scanlas The 2nd


    K-9 wrote: »
    If someone says homelessness is the worst thing that can happen someone my reply is cop on don't be over dramatic.

    If someone says rape is the worst thing that can happen someone my reply is cop on don't be so over dramatic.

    Both are obviously not even any where close to the worst thing that can happen someone.
    Saying rape is the worst thing that can happen someone is obviously not true. How can any sane person disagree with that.

    Jaysus, I thought you were a poster who was interested in male rights, this thread should be something you should be highlighting how male rape is a serious, serious issue.

    Its a shame. A poster who should be adding something substantive to the thread from a male perspective but just wants to attack, be pedantic and employ lawyerism about a rape victims experience of rape.

    My suspicion is this was a female poster and the first thought was to dismiss it, without an after thought for the OP and the thread topic.

    Have you addressed male rape in any of your posts?

    I'm no more interested in male rights than womans rights or animal rights. I hate meaningless bland superlatives, Simon Cowell is always doing it. Male rape is bad, not saying it isn't.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 4,678 ✭✭✭I Heart Internet


    This might be of interest:

    http://www.guardian.co.uk/society/2011/jul/17/the-rape-of-men

    A (last year) guardian piece on male victims of rape in war.

    It shouldn't matter whether the victim is a man or woman but, being a man, i read this and have never been able to forget it. Truely awful.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 23,315 ✭✭✭✭amacachi


    K-9 wrote: »
    It's almost near, kids can't be raped proportions, especially boys, sure they they don't have vaginas and all that.

    Just on that I was in a mate's a while back and his little brother had a friend over who refused to go and get a video game because in that room were my mate's little sister and her friend. Basically they like to mob fellas when they get them alone. Of course because they're girls it's really funny. Imagine if a couple of 14 year old boys did similar to 13 year old girls. It starts younger than that too, I'm sure I'm not the only one whose parents thought it was funny when a girl from the street would chase me and kiss me. There's photographic evidence as well, hilarious stuff altogether.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 241 ✭✭Paddycrumlinman


    Would I report male rape. Well several factors come into play.

    If it was myself who was raped by a male, and I was in Ireland, there would be no way I would report such an incident and put myself through all that ****. The Irish Justice system is one of the worst I can see in western society. If it happened in Ireland and I knew who my assailant was, I would take the matters into my own hands. I would find the nasty fooker, and chop his dick of and feed it to him. If I’m caught, given the Irish Justice system and circumstances, I could get off with a suspended sentence. I would not kill the rapist, but leave him d1ckless as a reminder for what a scum bag he was and for me that would be Justice.

    Now, if this happened to me in the States, where I’m located, I would have no hesitation to get the cops involved and bring the situation to their attention, if convicted, that Rapist would get some serious time in Prison which would be very deserving.


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 3,838 ✭✭✭midlandsmissus


    LH Pathe wrote: »
    your wish is nobodys command for this thread in this place is nothing, but a man crying out to be raped. And where you failed I shall assume a womans duty, even if it requires a strap-on

    :confused: Are you just trying to rile people with babble. How immature.


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