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Charity - Concern

  • 30-09-2011 07:01PM
    #1
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 135 ✭✭


    Just signed a form to donate. But when the woman left my house I started to think about it and now I feel pretty annoyed because I realized how manipulated I was.... 1) I asked about online donating and she said its not possible and I can only donate by filling the form - totally not true 2) She asked to donate 11e - I asked where that figure came from but didnt get straight answer. Then she said if I donate 21e or more they will get another 18e from the government. I connected the dots later, 11 was only to make getting additional tenner easier! There is nothing about donating 11e on their website - there is another campaign about donating 7e.
    Did anyone experienced anything similar? I feel a bit like a fool now:( I know they have to get money but is lying and manipulating people a proper way to do this? I will defo think twice next time someone from charity knocks to my door:(


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,629 ✭✭✭jaykay74


    lo0kash wrote: »
    Did anyone experienced anything similar?

    My opinion on this matter will cost 44 euro (8 of which I will give to charity though).


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 8,702 ✭✭✭squod


    lo0kash wrote: »
    Just signed a form to donate. But when the woman left my house I started to think about it and now I feel pretty annoyed because I realized how manipulated I was.... 1) I asked about online donating and she said its not possible and I can only donate by filling the form - totally not true 2) She asked to donate 11e - I asked where that figure came from but didnt get straight answer. Then she said if I donate 21e or more they will get another 18e from the government. I connected the dots later, 11 was only to make getting additional tenner easier! There is nothing about donating 11e on their website - there is another campaign about donating 7e.
    Did anyone experienced anything similar? I feel a bit like a fool now:( I know they have to get money but is lying and manipulating people a proper way to do this? I will defo think twice next time someone from charity knocks to my door:(

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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 135 ✭✭lo0kash


    k, got it.


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 34,567 ✭✭✭✭Biggins


    Ring up the bank on Monday ASAP - or call in - and try cancelling any standing orders that might be applicable to you.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 135 ✭✭lo0kash


    Biggins wrote: »
    Ring up the bank on Monday ASAP - or call in - and try cancelling any standing orders that might be applicable to you.

    Yeh, was thinking about doing that. Or are you suspecting that was a scam?


    Edit: sorry I've read you just this DD, I think I can see sarcasm now.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 811 ✭✭✭cassid


    "Our pledge is to treat all our donors with respect, honesty and openness"
    sounds like the need to implement their own internal policy of ethical fundraising.

    http://www.concern.net/sites/concern.net/files/images/concerndonorcharterforfundraising.pdf


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 7,751 ✭✭✭Saila


    so you are..concerned then.







    the irony is delicious


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 135 ✭✭lo0kash


    Saila wrote: »
    so you are..concerned then.
    the irony is delicious


    :D

    Starting this thread really helped - I feel less annoyed now :)


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 11,581 ✭✭✭✭TheZohanS


    lo0kash wrote: »
    Just signed a form to donate. But when the woman left my house I started to think about it and now I feel pretty annoyed because I realized how manipulated I was.... 1) I asked about online donating and she said its not possible and I can only donate by filling the form - totally not true 2) She asked to donate 11e - I asked where that figure came from but didnt get straight answer. Then she said if I donate 21e or more they will get another 18e from the government. I connected the dots later, 11 was only to make getting additional tenner easier! There is nothing about donating 11e on their website - there is another campaign about donating 7e.
    Did anyone experienced anything similar? I feel a bit like a fool now:( I know they have to get money but is lying and manipulating people a proper way to do this? I will defo think twice next time someone from charity knocks to my door:(

    She's working as a rep with a professional fundraising company, they'll get your sign up money in commission along with your first months payment if you've completed a direct debit.

    Concerns CEO was on €140,000 a few years ago plus expenses. Source.

    I certainly wouldn't be donating my hard earned money to Concern.


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 9,463 ✭✭✭Celly Smunt


    who else is going to pay for the badly needed over staffed middle management?


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  • Moderators, Recreation & Hobbies Moderators Posts: 4,720 Mod ✭✭✭✭dory


    AKAIK they ring you after you've filled in the forms to be sure you meant to do it and that you still want to so you may get chance to stop the standing order if you're not happy with it.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 135 ✭✭lo0kash


    TheZohan wrote: »
    She's working as a rep with a professional fundraising company, they'll get your sign up money in commission along with your first months payment if you've completed a direct debit.

    Concerns CEO was on €140,000 a few years ago plus expenses. Source.

    I certainly wouldn't be donating my hard earned money to Concern.

    Thank you so much. I wanted to help but got a lesson.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 135 ✭✭lo0kash


    dory wrote: »
    AKAIK they ring you after you've filled in the forms to be sure you meant to do it and that you still want to so you may get chance to stop the standing order if you're not happy with it.

    That is what she said. I'm going to give detailed description of the visit and how I was led to signing 21e donation.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 17,916 ✭✭✭✭orourkeda


    Fack off charity


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 18,239 ✭✭✭✭WindSock


    What's your problem? You agreed to donate the €21 per month, and it goes further with the taxback. You can stop the donations any time you want, you goddamn child killer :mad:

    Or you can reduce the monthly SO to whatever figure you can manage. Also, most of the donations don't go straight into the CEO or any others employees pockets but keep thinking that if it makes you feel better about it.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 11,581 ✭✭✭✭TheZohanS


    lo0kash wrote: »
    Thank you so much. I wanted to help but got a lesson.

    Don't feel bad, I'm familiar with their type of sales technique, it's all pressure sales, a proven formula that basically relies on NLP. A lot of people would fall for it.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,238 ✭✭✭humbert


    WindSock wrote: »
    What's your problem? You agreed to donate the €21 per month, and it goes further with the taxback. You can stop the donations any time you want, you goddamn child killer :mad:

    Haha, nothing like a bit of the old frothing at the mouth hyperbole to get your point across.


  • Moderators, Sports Moderators Posts: 43,009 Mod ✭✭✭✭Lord TSC


    I've not forgiven Concern since they chose not to let my debate team win few years back. Bastards. :mad:


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 7,510 ✭✭✭Hazys


    Ringing up the bank to sort this seems like too much hassle.

    Just rob 21 euro worth of stuff off poor people each month and you'll break even.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 135 ✭✭lo0kash


    WindSock wrote: »
    What's your problem?

    I'm not sure how serious you are but my problem is - as I wrote before - that I was manipulated and I was lied to.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 13,244 ✭✭✭✭bnt


    They try to get you to donate a specific small amount because of human psychology: people don't like open-ended commitments. They think people are more likely to donate if the donation is fixed. I saw this start all at once about ten years ago, so I bet that's when some marketing survey about that hit the mainstream. :rolleyes:

    Government resting upon the will and universal suffrage of the people has no anchorage except in the people's intelligence.

    — Grover Cleveland



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 44,079 ✭✭✭✭Micky Dolenz


    TheZohan wrote: »
    She's working as a rep with a professional fundraising company, they'll get your sign up money in commission along with your first months payment if you've completed a direct debit.

    Concerns CEO was on €140,000 a few years ago plus expenses. Source.

    I certainly wouldn't be donating my hard earned money to Concern.


    Who would you donate your hard earned cash to?

    And do you think Concern do any good work?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 5,482 ✭✭✭Kidchameleon


    If I won the Lotto tomorrow I wouldn't gave a cent of it to these bastards. OP, you were manipulated, I would first cancel any payments and secondly, complain about the chugger who called to your door.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 338 ✭✭MightyMighty737


    Yeah, the office wil ring you within a few days for feedback on the person who called to your door.

    What I was told was 11 quid was the minimum donation they accepted.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 4,012 ✭✭✭kincsem


    Concern: company; firm; business; enterprise.

    We are unconcerned by your dilemma.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 5,668 ✭✭✭nlgbbbblth


    It's a direct debit not a standing order. Big difference.

    Concern = pricks.

    The worst of all the chugger factories.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 11,581 ✭✭✭✭TheZohanS


    Who would you donate your hard earned cash to?

    And do you think Concern do any good work?

    The fr Peter McVerry fund that works with the homeless, I've fundraised for them before.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,900 ✭✭✭General General


    I just won't give my bank details to one of these guys, as it is too hard to verify whether or not they are genuine.

    So, one night, this guy calls, mid 40s, I'd say, says he is actually the team leader, goes through his sales routine, I sez, we do contribute, but not via direct debit ever, he asks why not, I say how I effectively cannot verify..., he points out some kind of charter promise, which I calmly point out makes no difference (actually, to point out where there is a written statement that you can trust the guy who is pointing it out to you tested my straight-faced-ness/patience)... again he tries, then I state: look, I don't want to waste your time... & that is what you are doing here, as we just won't give you the details for the dd.

    Then, he just gives up & walks away muttering... I've never seen such an ungraceful exit by a sales person. My wife was stunned by how unpleasant his reaction was, given how polite I'd been about it.

    He did his organization no favours that night, especially being a 'team leader'.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 135 ✭✭lo0kash


    TheZohan wrote: »
    The fr Peter McVerry fund that works with the homeless, I've fundraised for them before.


    What about trocaire?


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,069 ✭✭✭carlybabe1


    WindSock wrote: »
    What's your problem? You agreed to donate the €21 per month, and it goes further with the taxback. You can stop the donations any time you want, you goddamn child killer :mad:

    Or you can reduce the monthly SO to whatever figure you can manage. Also, most of the donations don't go straight into the CEO or any others employees pockets but keep thinking that if it makes you feel better about it.


    ehhh, over-react much :confused: I dont think the op is actually a child kill......

    oh wait....now i get it :D:D Doh!!


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