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Ever thought 'Oh no, this is it, I'm dead' and really thought you were going to die?

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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 5,092 ✭✭✭catbear


    There was these ten minutes on a toilet in Mandaley when I thought the world had fallen out of my bottom. I really did think that was it. Twenty minutes later, sweating passed and I see life from a new perspective.


  • Moderators, Sports Moderators Posts: 28,897 Mod ✭✭✭✭Cass


    On the job one day and a t**t with no sense decides to tip a load of wet sand off the embankment i standing at. I'm 6 feet away and 5 feet under the height of his machine. The sand starts to fall out then it stops. The weight tiips the machine forward and all i see is the skip, driver and engine compartment of one of these ...................

    6-tonne-dumper-hire.jpg

    ............. coming down on me. I try to turn and run but the loose soil i'm on keeps falling under my feet. Luckily the machine has a pivot joint and it "twists" and falls to the side missing me by a couple of meters instead of coming down on me.


    You know all that "my life flashed before me" talk. Well i call bullsh*t on that one. All that flashed before me was a big fecking yellow dumper. Nearly poked my eye out trying to smoke a cig after it happened. Felt like puking, and my heart was beating out of my chest.
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  • Business & Finance Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators, Paid Member Posts: 17,009 Mod ✭✭✭✭Toots


    When I was about 4 I went to my very first swimming lesson. There was me and a load of other little kids lined up on the side of the pool and the teacher told us to get in. Now for some reason all the other kids had armbands and I didn't, so all the other kids were getting in and kinda bobbing around in the shallow end, and it never occurred to me that the only reason their heads were above water was that the armbands were keeping them afloat.

    So I get about halfway down the ladder and then let go, and sank like a stone. I started sorta flailing my arms and legs, but I didn't panic, in fact I was quite proud of myself, I thought I was swimming and doing great. I was extra chuffed with myself when I realised that I could breathe under water, and I was all delighted thinking I was the best in the class. The next thing I remember is being kinda thrown over the swimming teacher's shoulder and there was just torrents of water coming out of my nose and mouth. She'd had to jump into the pool in her clothes to save me :o I found myself some armbands and then got back in and finished the class, totally unaware that I'd nearly died. My poor mother, who was watching from the seats on the side, was definitely not the better for it though.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,619 ✭✭✭LaVail


    Got rolled over by a tractor a few years back, was the scariest sh1t I ever experienced. Everything happened in slow motion, at least that's what it felt like. Kept thinking that the wheel was going to roll over my stomach (it ran up just short of my wedding tackle) and at that exact moment in time I actually thought that I was about to die. Lost a good amount of my leg in that accident but thankfully I'm able to walk around now and finally feel like all that is in the past.

    Was getting panic attacks for a long time after that and still wake up the odd night in panic thinking that I can't breath or my heart is about to stop, those things were nearly worse then the accident itself.

    Had another brush with good old death when I was driving to work in my transit a and managed to flip it without wearing a seatbelt, all I remember was the sound of the windscreen breaking and flying around the inside but didn't feel like I was going to die or anything.

    You haven't lived unless you've diced with death IMO, changes your whole outlook on life and stupid crap that used to bother you before doesn't seem as important after you've spent a month in hospital with a tube stuck up your knob.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 58 ✭✭yogi beer


    I only ever had one (thank god), and it was the most bizzare thing ever!
    I was on a ****ty little motorcross bike and decided to make a makeshift ramp in a field near my house.
    i had a good run up, and wanted to make sure I cleared the ramp incase it broke from the weight while going up it, so i floored it. as i got closer i realised i was going pretty damn fast! so what i did was start to slow down as i was approaching the ramp, and by the laws of physics the front started to tip down on leaving the ramp.
    For what seemed like an eternity I was completely weightless flying through the air without a care in the world. and then everything went black.
    I remember waking up and feeling absolutely nothing. physically or mentally. I was lying down with my head to the left and I remember thinking in my head "My arm looks a bit funny". I sat up and looked at it again and thought "yeah, that bone should be inside my arm".
    So I was sitting there for a good length of time (at least in my head anyway), before the sudden realisation that a motorbike has just landed on my upperarm, a foot away from my spine, my head was sore where I had hit the ground head first, protected by the helmet and that I couldn't stand up because my knee was bent the other way.
    So here I am in a field with all this happening when I see some pissed off aul one shouting down from her gaff to "stay out of her farm or she'll call the guards".
    She called the guards , thank f*ck!


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,981 ✭✭✭Caliden


    When I was 5 I was in the rear seat of a car with my dad driving and aunt in the passenger seat.
    We were driving home from a family occasion and I was tired, so took off my seatbelt and lay across the seat in the back.
    Our car went over the crest of a hill where there was a junction just on the right.
    A car was stopped waiting for a break in oncoming traffic to turn and there was a tractor driving on the hard shoulder.
    Dad tried to brake in time but there was enough room so he had to choose to hit the tractor, car or oncoming traffic.
    He chose the car.
    I only remember bits and pieces but I remember walking up on the floor of the back of the car with my dad screaming at me to wake up.
    Then I remember being in the back of another family's car (strangers by the way) with 2 kids in the back staring at me as I'm pumping blood from my face and my dad trying to stop the bleeding.
    Next thing I remember I'm on a hospital bed with a doctor giving me a general anaesthetic to get stitches.
    I ended up with a large scar on my forehead and a small one near my right nostril. Thinking back on it now I'm seriously lucky to be alive and the scars themselves are barely visible.
    The junction where we had the crash has since been changed so there is now a lane for cars turning right.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,274 ✭✭✭flas


    a car crash where my brother was driving, bad country roads up in mayo somewhere near knock, came around a bend that went down into a hill with a bend on it, it must have only been 10 seconds it all happened in but seemed like 10 minutes, car just started spinning, fast, then we hit a pole, went straight through it and went heading for the concrete fence! the fence was like a normal fence but made of concrete, the bottom of which came straight through the door of the car and just cut my leg a bit, nothin much, the top of it along with one of the pillars came in through the window and was centimetres away from hitting me on the head.

    i had my car seat back a good bit because we were just after getting off a flight from knock airport and it was early in the morning, if i had not off pushed my seat back i would have got a concrete pillar straight into the head at 50 mph! dead basically. we rang our parents to come up and collect us and went to a little cafe in the nearest town while the guards got the brothers car got towed to a local garage, it was wrote off. when the parents came down to pick us up we drove to the garage to make arrangements to get the car dropped down to our house, the lad in the garage wanted to know which hospital the passanger was brought to, i was standing there still in shock and started laughin for some reason and just go i was the passanger, he looked at me and just said "your one lucky bastaRd"! i felt blessed!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,773 ✭✭✭madma


    Me?

    Yep, once.

    I woke up at a friends gaf wheezing heavily (I'm asthmatic) I had no money in my pockets so decided to walk home about 2 miles to where my inhaler was.

    The wheezing turned into seriously restricted breathing and I was beginning to feel kinda scared. There's a hospital (CUH) on the route home and I thought 'just need to make it to the hospital' but my breathing was becoming more and more difficult.

    I was about 300 meters from the hospital (on the Wilton Road) when the restriction in breathing became so great that I stopped on that road with the intention of flagging down the next car to help me make it to the hospital as I really thought I wouldn't make it without my windpipes closing completely - the stress on my heart at this stage must have been pretty bloody severe. Unfortunately it was like 6am and the roads were empty.

    So I'm leaning against a wall 300 meters from the hospital thinking 'I won't make it' my breathing now was so laboured that my vision was starting to get blurry around the edges. My chest felt like it was being crushed under a hundered tons of sand.

    So there I am struggling to get breath and the world gets all fuzzy and grey because I can't get enough oxygen to my brain... and then I say to myself 'this is it, this is where I die.. 2 mins walk from a fucking hospital' so I kinda collapse against the wall and if feels like I'm trying to breathe through a tiny staw.. the world is now grey and I'm struggling to survive..

    Then it happens.. my body gets an immense release of adrennalin trying to fight of it's demise, at this point it's just animal instinct kicking in, my mind is useless.

    Somehow the breathing becomes less laboured and the greyness lifts and I can physically feel my lungs relax and allow the cool morning air back in. Could - not - believe - it - there I am breathing in through the pipes which had all but closed just seconds before.

    I begin to recover - no.. I'm feeling more alive than ever - I'm drinking in the beautiful cool morning air like a newborn. I feel the oxygen making it's way back into every cell in my body and it feels oh so good... I'M ALIVE!

    I pick myself back up and I'm able to breathe without any restriction and I feel just fine and am able to walk home easily.

    I never go anywhere now without an inhaler in my pocket and I always leave the last few puffs in an inhaler and leave them lying around my car and home etc.

    TL;DR Thought I was dead from an asthma attack but survived.

    Anyone else have near death experiences?

    this actually happened to me around 3 times when i was a teenager

    ive been using a preventitive the last few years so my asthma is more or less gone. lungs feel 100 per cent

    anyways 1 of the times i was so bad and at home i decide to walk to the local chemist to see if they'd give me 1 without prescription. when walking i had to stop every 3 steps to catch breath and kneel down.. felt horrible. i then collapsed a few times. and when i made it they gave me 1 without any questions as they seen how bad i was

    another time i was just as bad and my parents brought me to the doctors in which he put me onto a mask oxygen thingy while he went mad at my folks saying he never wanted to see me that bad ever again and referred me to a hospital

    basically i think all ashtma sufferes have gone through the pain of having a serious lack of breathing. absolutely horrible experiences


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 11,298 ✭✭✭✭later12


    Not me but my brother.

    So I was about 7 and my 8 year old brother was shifting this pony up a cattle crush (country kids & we had crap tv). The brother jumps in to shove the pony up from behind while I try talk him into the manoeuvre from the front. But the animal backs back, knocks over my brother tries to turn himself around in the crush and literally stomps all over my brother on the way out of the crush.
    My brother lies there bloody and silent, and then my mum who was watching all of this grabs my brother, launches him into the back seat of the car and tears off (my other siblings and I are convinced he's dead at this point).

    A neighbour came that evening to say he was in intensive care and had gone into shock after a ruptured spleen & cracked ribs, but for about 4 or 5 hours everyone at home thought he must have been dead (this was before mobile phones).

    Although it became something we could laugh about in recent years, I'll never forget the feeling of believing my brother had died, and that I was partially responsible.
    I put that down to the reason why I found it incredibly hard to spend time away from family in subsequent years, and even today if a sibling goes out of reach for an uncomfortably long period of time, I have this terribly morbid instinct that they've been killed in a horrible accident.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,114 ✭✭✭Pdfile


    sitting beside the dodder with my little brother when he was a toddler, my mother not paying any attention, he leaned back on the wall he's sittin on and well.. 2-3 year old kid... 15ish feet on his head... it all clicked in my head that Was gonna happen so i reached out at the last second without thinkin, took him up and plopped him gently back into the pram.


    my mother didn't notice but still i'm well proud of myself even to this day.


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  • Hosted Moderators Posts: 13,426 ✭✭✭✭Ginny


    Tyre blew on a twisty backroad just as I went around a bend so I ended up on the wrong side coming out of the bend to face a big white van, so I swung the car back into my lane, but with the blown tyre it overshot and headed to the verge with one of those black and yellow signs. I remember closing my eyes (not the cleverest) and thinking well I'm hitting one the van or the sign and swung the car right out of the path of the sign but back into the vans path then quickly left again so I ended up behind the sign in the ditch, managed to move the car into someones drive and shook for about an hour afterwards.
    another time I nearly drowned boogie boarding in America, somehow I got caught in some sorta undercurrent close to the shore, now the beach had quick a shallow decline to the sea but then there was a sudden drop of about 5 ft, so I got caught close to the shelf coming back to shore and the current just kept spinning me, I remember thinking it was like a washing machine, I finally managed to get to the surface and felt so embarrassed when I could see kids playing about 10 foot from my head in the shallows.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 404 ✭✭frank reynolds


    was in spain as a kid, and the pool in our hotel hadnt a shallow end - it was all deep water and i had just learned to swim properly. anyway, this other friend of the family was in the pool at the same time, and i was chancing my luck by swimming from one side of the deep end to the other - just practicing, and then for some reason i just said to myself "im in the deep end and i cant swim" and panicked, started to drag the friend under with me, then this went on for a minute or so, until i said "ah, i cant drag someone else down here" and though, ah this is nice, its not so bad actually, then nothing - in fairness though, when i passed out, it was VERY relaxing, and it seemed like i was out cold for a lot longer than i was. just remember waking up coughing up a good bit of water and my da said he just had a feeling to come back and check on us in the pool at that moment. weird.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 22,058 ✭✭✭✭Abi


    my first panic attack, obviously I didn't know it was a panic attack. felt something in my head go *pop*.. started shivering, trouble breathing, pains in my left arm and chest.
    for some reason instead of going to a hospital I just said '**** this, i'm going to sleep.. if I wake up, I wake up'
    I knew I wouldn't get far into the thread before someone would mention panic attacks. They really are horrifying, but your first one is the worst, you are convinced you are having a heart attack.

    Thankfully I havent had one in a while, and I know the signs before one kicks off, so I know how to deal with them. I hate when people casually drop "I nearly had a panic attack" into conversation. They probably have no experience of it, and how scary they can be.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,435 ✭✭✭TiGeR KiNgS


    I didn't sleep for about 3 days straight after playing internet poker. I was so mentally tired but I wasn't 'sleepy', I must of been on my third wind at this point.
    My brain felt like it was shutting down and leaving my body and floating away. I honestly felt like this is what its like when people say they see the light after an near death experience.

    I did think it was the end of TK :o


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,073 ✭✭✭Rubberlegs


    Woke up to a house fire at my sister's a few years back. Remember seeing the flames roaring, and just thinking FUUUUUUK! Adrenaline kicked in, and never went down a flight of stairs, and out a front door so quick in my life.
    Firemen said if we'd not woken up, we'd have been dead within 10 minutes, as the fire was caused by a neighbours oil tank exploding, setting fire to both houses. The fumes were deadly. On the plus side, though none of the firemen were hot, I got to sit in the back of the fire engine in my PJ's:p


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 440 ✭✭nicechick!


    73Cat wrote: »
    Woke up to a house fire at my sister's a few years back. Remember seeing the flames roaring, and just thinking FUUUUUUK! Adrenaline kicked in, and never went down a flight of stairs, and out a front door so quick in my life.
    Firemen said if we'd not woken up, we'd have been dead within 10 minutes, as the fire was caused by a neighbours oil tank exploding, setting fire to both houses. The fumes were deadly. On the plus side, though none of the firemen were hot, I got to sit in the back of the fire engine in my PJ's:p

    nice!!


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 9,533 ✭✭✭SV


    http://www.boards.ie/vbulletin/showthread.php?p=69726530


    had more or less accepted my fate when this happened.
    well in the second I had to consider what was happening


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2, Paid Member Posts: 31,693 ✭✭✭✭looksee


    I was driving on a good, open road, glance in the mirror and see a bright yellow artic behind me, good distance back. No problem. A few minutes later and glance again and it is a good deal closer. Hmm. Keep a half eye on him and suddenly its all I can see out of the back window. Car in front of me, I had a feeling I should not pull out, but could not see what else to do. Good hard shoulder so I eased towards it.

    Next think the lorry goes past me like a mad thing, past the next car and back into lane, then slows right down. I reckon he had fallen asleep at the wheel and roused just in time to see what was happening and pulled out. If I had pulled out or there had been anything coming there would have been a pile up. As it was we all survived but I'd say he got the fright of his life.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,572 ✭✭✭Canard


    I woke up having an asthma attack at my friend's house, I'd never had one before and didnt have my inhaler with me. I dont even know how I survived...I couldnt breathe at all and then my throat just slowly opened up again. Best feeling in the world at that moment, honestly.

    When I was 13 I was in CA with my parents and sister, and the car was swerving but my dad couldnt do anything about it. We came probably inches away from hitting a truck.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 199 ✭✭CD.


    Quoted from another thread, pics of the car at the bottom.
    happened just over a year ago
    CD. wrote: »
    last august, was on the M50 early morning, car starts swerving, think wtf?? i asked my sister what she was doing, she told me that she lost control of the car (she was holding the steering wheel straight/trying to right the car, the wheels just weren't responding to it or anythign), it swerved slightly, went straight, slightly, straight then wildly. car spun, saw the barrier coming at me, thought "oh ****, this is gonna hurt" put my hands up to protect my head/closed my eyes. car slammed into barrier, flipped and landed rightside up on the grass strip.

    if the car was going slower it would have hit into the cars behind us, faster and we would have missed the barrier (hit the very end) and gone straight across the meridian.
    window smashed in/covered in glass/stones which were also on the dashboard, there was glass in my mouth.

    my only injuries was a bruise from the seatbelt and a small cut on my leg. my sister had a bit of back pain for a few months and is fine now.
    had i tried to brace myself, my arm would have been torn to shreds by the glass. was told i could have lost my arm.

    the weirdest part was the doctors and nurses when they checked on us, went oh...i heard about you guys.

    scariest part was getting the xray on my spine and heard the words "disc, exploded" and "fluid" told a few minutes later i was fine, did i want to try sitting up?
    also, those body boards they put you on? hurt like a mother****er. started getting back pain in it, didnt know if it was from the board or the accident (the board)

    later, going through the car wreck at where the car was taken to, i reached in teh window of the car, my sister opened the back door and the roof fell down, (we had to be cut out) was going to kill her. first she tried to kill me, then tried to sever my goddamned arm. my side of the car was pretty ****ed up, random holes from teh barrier piercing it, giant chunks just missing completely.

    was shaken up for a few days, worst part was trying to explain to the emergency operator what had happened because i didnt know where we were other than m50 (i'm **** with directions) and she kept asking what we needed. like not if we were hurt or anything, just "what do you need" i'm sorry, i dont have this expeirence often enough to know off hand what we require? i ended up thrusting the phone at my sister because i started shaking/couldnt talk, took a few seconds to calm myself.

    i think the firemen/police/other people were unnerved by how calm my sister and i were.
    though my memory of it is slightly fragmented i cannot remember hearing any sound, i know my hearing was off afterward, but during the accident i remember no sound whats so ever. apparently the sound would have been horrific

    my only thoughts through it all were that it was going to hurt and i wondered why the hell i could feel my hair while we were flipping.

    pretty pissed off i didnt get any epiphany or anything. i want my flash of insperation/total understanding in return for potentially dying!

    38013_146423902044123_100000295436643_365449_2593977_n.jpg

    daniscar.jpg

    still get kinda nervous on the M50, not suprisingly.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,229 ✭✭✭deirdre_dub


    I was hillwalking in Connemara National Park maybe 15 years ago with a bunch of friends.

    We came across this valley. It was narrow (2 or 3 metres?), and the sides of it were quite steep. At the bottom of the valley there was a shallow stream flowing over rock. The stream started at an elevation, then part of the way down it there was a waterfall where this stream lost a lot of elevation (maybe 15 metres), and hence the sides of the valley gained elevation. Then, the stream continued to the end of the valley.

    We started walking along the side of this valley well above the stream. It was wet, and the grass was long and slippery. Most of my friends were faster than me - I was the penultimate person in the line of people in the group. We came to a fork in the "track" - there was one "track" that went up, and another that continued on the same elevation. Everyone took the "upper" track - I decided to take the other track, so that I could pick up my pace and re-join the group somewhere other than at the back! The person behind me followed me.

    Then, I came across a tiny gap in the "track". I stepped over it, but next thing I knew, I was in mid-air, looking at the sky. I had slipped, and I was falling.

    First thing - what is below me?! OK - if we have gone past the waterfall, I'm going to have a short fall, and I should be OK. So I braced myself and waited for the landing. It didn't come. OK - we haven't yet reached the waterfall, and I have a fall of about 15 or so metres ahead of me, and I'm going to hit rock when I land.

    Time slowed. Even though the fall took about 2 seconds, it felt like 20. The first thing that crossed my mind, I'm sorry to say, was suicide. At the time, I was terribly depressed, and I realised that all I had to do was to crane my neck backwards, and it would snap when I hit the rock, and everyone would think that I had died in a terrible mountaineering accident - no-one would know the truth. So I craned my neck backwards.

    Then, I realised that I wasn't actually sure I wanted to die. It was actually a pivotal moment in my life - I had a decision to make. Either I take this golden opportunity to kill myself, or I never ever ever again entertain ideas of suicide. This was my golden opportunity - a gift I would never ever again see - and either I take it, or I reject it forever.

    I uncraned my neck, and I curled up into the foetal position.

    Then, I realised what I was actually afraid of. It wasn't death that I feared - it was becoming paralysed. But there was nothing I could do - all that I knew was that in the next very few moments, I would either die, or I would find myself waking up in hospital.

    People ask you if your life flashes before your eyes. Well, mine did, though in a very strange way. A word formed - it is as if it was spoken into the top of my head, and then permeated my consciousness. The word was "lie". I was being told that my life was a lie. Within a year, I had some understanding of what that meant, but it has taken me 20 years to fully appreciate the meaning of that message.

    SPLASH!

    I scrambled for the surface - surprisingly, I hadn't lost consciousness. I was wet, and I wasn't in any real pain that I could point to. After gaining my bearings, I realised what had happened.

    I had landed in the pool of water carved by the stream at the bottom of the waterfall. The depth of the water in this pool (about 1.3 metres) coupled with the pack on my back was enough to break my fall. I scanned my body for damage. My attention was drawn to my left wrist.

    There were tiny beads of blood on my wrist. I wiped them off. Slowly, they re-formed. It was the only injury I sustained. I still have the scar, and I still look at it from time to time, in memory.

    The person who was behind me was the only one to see me fall. He ran over the top of the waterfall, and down the other side. He later joked that he saw me "splashing in the pool like a kid on holidays", though I could see in his face that he got a bigger fright than I.

    Everyone was really really nice to me for the rest of the day. :) And it was a pivotal 2 seconds of my life in more ways than one.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 4,986 ✭✭✭ottostreet


    I was hillwalking in Connemara National Park maybe 15 years ago with a bunch of friends.

    We came across this valley. It was narrow (2 or 3 metres?), and the sides of it were quite steep. At the bottom of the valley there was a shallow stream flowing over rock. The stream started at an elevation, then part of the way down it there was a waterfall where this stream lost a lot of elevation (maybe 15 metres), and hence the sides of the valley gained elevation. Then, the stream continued to the end of the valley.

    We started walking along the side of this valley well above the stream. It was wet, and the grass was long and slippery. Most of my friends were faster than me - I was the penultimate person in the line of people in the group. We came to a fork in the "track" - there was one "track" that went up, and another that continued on the same elevation. Everyone took the "upper" track - I decided to take the other track, so that I could pick up my pace and re-join the group somewhere other than at the back! The person behind me followed me.

    Then, I came across a tiny gap in the "track". I stepped over it, but next thing I knew, I was in mid-air, looking at the sky. I had slipped, and I was falling.

    First thing - what is below me?! OK - if we have gone past the waterfall, I'm going to have a short fall, and I should be OK. So I braced myself and waited for the landing. It didn't come. OK - we haven't yet reached the waterfall, and I have a fall of about 15 or so metres ahead of me, and I'm going to hit rock when I land.

    Time slowed. Even though the fall took about 2 seconds, it felt like 20. The first thing that crossed my mind, I'm sorry to say, was suicide. At the time, I was terribly depressed, and I realised that all I had to do was to crane my neck backwards, and it would snap when I hit the rock, and everyone would think that I had died in a terrible mountaineering accident - no-one would know the truth. So I craned my neck backwards.

    Then, I realised that I wasn't actually sure I wanted to die. It was actually a pivotal moment in my life - I had a decision to make. Either I take this golden opportunity to kill myself, or I never ever ever again entertain ideas of suicide. This was my golden opportunity - a gift I would never ever again see - and either I take it, or I reject it forever.

    I uncraned my neck, and I curled up into the foetal position.

    Then, I realised what I was actually afraid of. It wasn't death that I feared - it was becoming paralysed. But there was nothing I could do - all that I knew was that in the next very few moments, I would either die, or I would find myself waking up in hospital.

    People ask you if your life flashes before your eyes. Well, mine did, though in a very strange way. A word formed - it is as if it was spoken into the top of my head, and then permeated my consciousness. The word was "lie". I was being told that my life was a lie. Within a year, I had some understanding of what that meant, but it has taken me 20 years to fully appreciate the meaning of that message.

    SPLASH!

    I scrambled for the surface - surprisingly, I hadn't lost consciousness. I was wet, and I wasn't in any real pain that I could point to. After gaining my bearings, I realised what had happened.

    I had landed in the pool of water carved by the stream at the bottom of the waterfall. The depth of the water in this pool (about 1.3 metres) coupled with the pack on my back was enough to break my fall. I scanned my body for damage. My attention was drawn to my left wrist.

    There were tiny beads of blood on my wrist. I wiped them off. Slowly, they re-formed. It was the only injury I sustained. I still have the scar, and I still look at it from time to time, in memory.

    The person who was behind me was the only one to see me fall. He ran over the top of the waterfall, and down the other side. He later joked that he saw me "splashing in the pool like a kid on holidays", though I could see in his face that he got a bigger fright than I.

    Everyone was really really nice to me for the rest of the day. :) And it was a pivotal 2 seconds of my life in more ways than one.

    It's actually amazing how many thoughts can fly through your mind in two seconds...if even that.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,414 ✭✭✭LC2010HIS


    Yep!
    A year ago, I went to the cinema with the girls in Cork. The girl that was driving, thought she was the shít and started speeding, even dipped hard in a pothole. And you could feel every little thing in her banger.
    The music was blaring and I was cramped in the back. I knew if she crashed,which was likely, I would be crushed. I was then called a whinger over it cause I was cramping their style but she was fúcking dangerous!!!!
    Swerving in and out, speeding etc...
    :mad:

    Thankfully I got home alive and never got into a car with her again.
    2 months later, she mangled the car on the same Cork road.

    I thank my lucky stars and Nan(rip) for keeping me alive *touch wood*


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 811 ✭✭✭cassid


    Was kept in Maternity hospital for observation (was not due baby for 3 months), it was 4.00am, could not sleep and was bored, listening to everybody else snoring.
    Starting getting really strange pains, like my whole bump was getting sucked in, went to the loo a saw a lot of blood. Panic stricken I went back to the bed and pressed the alarm for the nurse. Within seconds I could not breathe with the pain and I looked down on the floor and it was covered in my blood, nurse comes in, looks at me and runs out and presses an alarm. Feel like I am peeing myself but its blood running down my legs. A doctor runs into the room with 3 nurses and examines me and shouts” oh **** code red- quick, quick, quick”. I think I am dying and so is the baby. I felt something really odd on my thigh and am afraid to look. The bed is wheeled out of the room, and rushed down the corridor into theatre. I just kept shouting save the baby, save the baby (don’t even remember saying this). A man leans over my head and says he is going to do something that is not very nice but it’s necessary. He puts his fingers around my throat to induce unconsciousness, felt like he was choking me to death, I was knocked out.
    I had a rare complication in pregnancy, I has a placental abruption, caused the little baby to fall down the birth canal and his life support (umbilical cord) fell down cutting of his air supply ( cord prolapse). When this happened he had minutes left before he could have died. Thank God I was in hospital when this happened, the hospital saved his life. We both ended up in intensive care, I lost nearly 5 pints of blood, but we both lived to tell the tale. He was famous in the baby intensive care unit, he was called the cord prolapse for days, until I gave him a slightly more normal name.
    I can’t wait to tell everybody that story at his 18th, then his 21st and then his wedding day. His arrival put a stop to my baby making days for sure.:D


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,656 ✭✭✭somefeen


    Kayaking on the river fell out and got stuck in a weir. Was pinned to the bottom by the current. It was very weird because my eyes were wide open. I wasnt panicking at all but I remember trying to push myself up. Eventually I got spat out and was just standing in the water. but I still couldnt move got spat out again and then i realised I was ****ing exhausted when I tried to swim to shore.

    Never really thought about it before but no thoughts went trough my head at all except, how do i get outta this?

    Heres a weird one though.
    When I was about 6 or 7 my Dad took us out to a woods in I think east cork somewhere. Cant remember but it had a big waterfall. It was a pretty big drop. Me and my brother were throwing stuff into the
    stream to watch it fall down.
    For some reason or another I just started walking towards the drop with a stick in my hand. I wasnt stupid I knew the danger but i was still just ambling towards it for some reason my own sense of self preservation just wasnt kicking in. i was in a trance or something. Very very weird. I was about one more step away from falling to my death when I heard my Dad shout at me and that seemed to snap me out of it.
    I'll never understand what the **** was going on but I'm pretty sure if my dad hadnt seen me I'd be dead.

    When I was around the same age again I stepped out in front of a car he was only about ten feet away so I was ****ed, until my brother who is only two years older than me yanked me backwards.
    I was pissed off at him for pulling me down until I saw the car screech past. I feel sorry for driver.

    One of my earliest memories is sitting in one of them baby seats on the back of my dads bicycle and then falling towards the ground. I remember watching the ground getting closer and then black. A screw was after coming loose on the seat making it tilt sideways. My dad had to put me back in the seat, cycle to my grandads house, borrow his car and take me to A&E. I remember waking up getting an X-ray of my skull. Still have the X ray. dunno if I was close to death or not but since my skull wasnt damaged probably not very close.

    Latest I suppose is on a back road. I get a lift into work since the site is fairly out of the way. Theres 5 or us and we always get driven in by the boss in the company jeep.
    The man can't drive for ****. Think he's the dogs bollox but he cant drive safely for anything.
    Driving down a back ground, theres a van ahead an maybe 4 or 5 cars ahead of us.
    The Van starts slowing down and my boss decides **** this Im gonna overtake, completely ignoring the fact that
    1. None of the other 5 cars were going for it, there had to be a reason
    2. Theres a site entrance on the right hand side of the road.

    Boss tears down the right hand side past all 5 cars gets up to about 70 mph, then the van pulls out to turn right.
    I was in the front seat and I remeber trying to tell him before he even went for it that there was a van ahead who looks like he wants to go right.
    But no ****ing boot down.

    As soon as the van saw us he jammed on and fair ****ing play to him considering he had no reason to expect us to be there. Unfortunately there wasnt enough room between him and the ditch so we ended up going into the site entrance and stopping right before the an artic trailer that was parked up.

    I remember thinking, Im gonna die cos my boss is a ****ing tool.:mad:
    Still have to make that journey tomorrow


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,718 ✭✭✭Hal1


    Epic first post. The boss sounds like a wnker.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 11,298 ✭✭✭✭later12


    somefeen wrote: »
    K
    Heres a weird one though.
    When I was about 6 or 7 my Dad took us out to a woods in I think east cork somewhere. Cant remember but it had a big waterfall. It was a pretty big drop. Me and my brother were throwing stuff into the
    stream to watch it fall down.
    For some reason or another I just started walking towards the drop with a stick in my hand. I wasnt stupid I knew the danger but i was still just ambling towards it for some reason my own sense of self preservation just wasnt kicking in. i was in a trance or something. Very very weird. I was about one more step away from falling to my death when I heard my Dad shout at me and that seemed to snap me out of it.
    I'll never understand what the **** was going on but I'm pretty sure if my dad hadnt seen me I'd be dead.

    I've often talked about similar sensation with friends, I think there is some strange perception of magnetism involved in cases like this.

    It's a similar feeling when a train passes close to you at high speed, or when you're out cycling and a lorry drives by you on a narrow stretch of road, the motion is almost hypnotic and you get drawn in as though you wish to be sucked in underneath the moving body, which of course you don't really.

    Has anyone else experienced this??


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,211 ✭✭✭eskimocat


    Once I was in Casualty with a blown disk, the pain was unlike anything I had ever experienced before. The nice doc was pumping painkillers into me but nothing was helping... the nurses were taking my blood pressure every few mins it seemed and there was a lot of nervous discussion happening just outside my curtain.

    The nice Doc explained that they really really needed to get my pain under control and as nothing was working so far, he may have to give me an overdose, (breaking the law he added, but he felt it was the only thing to do, things were that serious)... I felt that I had nothing to loose at that point and he actually agreed with me!

    Looking back now, I know it came very very close, curtains for Eskimocat... The x-rays showed that my spine had actually straightened out... it should be a nice curved s shape but mine was completely straight! Can't fake x-rays like them!

    Luckily the drugs started kicking in and the pain was finally reduced! The Doc was so pleased that I finally felt sleepy, (he told me that he had never been talking to a patient with as much painkiller in them as I had, as normally they were unconscious! ) as he could go home ... he had stayed on for ??? hours extra to see me through..
    Will always be grateful to that Doctor, I truly believe that he saved my life that night... God Bless You Sir!

    For those wondering about deaths door, my experience was quite existential, you are ultimately alone when close to death.. no matter who is with you in the room.. How you lived your life.. matters! and I wasn't scared, things seemed too far gone to be scared, although that last bit may have been the drugs talking!

    And because this is AH, this needs to be said: I am not advocating overdosing on painkillers!!!!!!! or medical malpractice.... The doc did what he hadda do!

    Cliff notes: Blown disc, brush with death, life saved!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,211 ✭✭✭eskimocat


    later10 wrote: »
    I've often talked about similar sensation with friends, I think there is some strange perception of magnetism involved in cases like this.

    It's a similar feeling when a train passes close to you at high speed, or when you're out cycling and a lorry drives by you on a narrow stretch of road, the motion is almost hypnotic and you get drawn in as though you wish to be sucked in underneath the moving body, which of course you don't really.

    Has anyone else experienced this??

    Yup, I have and so have quite a few of my friends and family. My ex used to get it when he was learning to drive! He would see a tree or something and feel drawn to drive towards it, in his head, not in reality. Scary stuff! It hasn't happened in years to me though, so I wonder is it something you grow out of? you know, learning to anticipate situations where it might happen and avoid them, consciously or unconsciously?


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,798 ✭✭✭Local-womanizer


    I have never had a near death experience I can remember but nearly died as a baby when my sitter rolled the car. I was unconscious for around an hour after I was told. Only got a broken nose mind you. I can't imagine what my parents felt though.

    But I have seen a man die before, and it is awful. I remember the whole moment exactly, even what he was wearing when the car hit him. But I remember thinking before "nah, the car will miss him sure" The moment he was hit was surreal, time did seem to slow and there was no noise, until he was hit, then just the noise of his body hitting the road again and again. The car was a write off.


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