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Opinion on Abortion in Ireland??

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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,919 ✭✭✭Einhard


    A woman's body is her own, it doesn't belong to the moralisers in the church or any other institution. Abortion is not and shouldn't be a social issue, it should be an individual and private issue based on circumstance.

    The problem with this, and one that proponents of abortion fail to understand, is that many opponents see the unborn child as a human individual, and therefore deserving of rights. To them, it cannot be "an individual and private issue" as there are two individuals involved.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,919 ✭✭✭Einhard


    ronano wrote: »
    jesus christ you're coir aint you

    Great contribution. Anyone who has qualms about legalising abortion is a right wing, fundamentalist nut. And anyone who wishes to see the procedure legislated for is a ickle baby murderer...
    I'm sick of this bs,abortion is happening,we send women off to another country to get it done which even if you think it's right or wrong shows it's happening. I really don't see on purely practical point why it shouldn't be introduced ignoring any 'moral' bs of course.


    If you had a hope of actaully stopping abortion at least i could understand but you don't,it happens in ireland with resources and therapy if needed for women or you send them on a plane adding extra stress and no provisions afterwards for their mental health.

    So basically, we should give up our own parliament and simply adopt the laws that are introduced elsewhere? I can see how this might save some money alright, but I'd prefer not to legislate purely on the basis that said laws exist elsewhere. Do you also propose we introduce euthanasia to save people going to Switzerland, legalise hash simply to save people going to Holland etc?

    grrr grrr grrrr indeed...


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 57 ✭✭luv-eirexx


    It's nice to hear other's opinions on this and although I'm against abortions i'm starting to see it's a very difficult decision to make.

    I also now think it should be allowed in cases of rape or where the child has no hope of surviving or puts the mothers life at risk.

    My personal Opinion is

    Who are we to decide on some one else future for our own beliefs..
    Its completely unfair that, decisions are made based on personal opinions....
    QUOTE

    Umm I know you are arguing the case of the mother and pro choice when you wrote that but that is sort of my opinion on why abortions are wrong. Who are we to decide on someone elses future by taking it away from them through
    abortion. I realise going through with a pregnancy will have a huge effect on a womans life but there is always adoption ... I dunno but going through 9 months of pregnancy seems not too bad if it means a child can live a long and happy life with their adoptive family. (sorry if you thought I was rude nit picking your post!! :0)

    ...[/]


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,508 ✭✭✭ElaElaElano


    Einhard wrote: »
    The problem with this, and one that proponents of abortion fail to understand, is that many opponents see the unborn child as a human individual, and therefore deserving of rights. To them, it cannot be "an individual and private issue" as there are two individuals involved.

    It's a vicious circle- forcing pregnancy upon a girl who's been raped could/is likely to cause her severe psychological damage, effectively ruining her life, with a high possibility of suicide; let's imagine she carries through with the birth, but the relentless feelings of shame and disgust don't subside- one year into the child's existence she kills herself. You then have a child without a mother who, at some point will learn of her/his mother's trauma, and will feel that same psychological burden that her/his mother felt- feelings of guilt perhaps, and go on living through those feelings, and all because

    (a) some disgusting parasite took advantage of the mother and

    (b) the institution of law, under the influence of the pro-life brigade, disabled her right to terminate that pregnancy.

    That termination could have effectively saved one life, and perhaps given that life the opportunity to have children at the right time, with the right person, as opposed to potentially destroying two lives.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 26,928 ✭✭✭✭rainbow kirby


    luv-eirexx wrote: »
    Ok I just wanted peoples opinions and thanks to people who are actually giving them and not just saying " o god" or " abort this thread" ... Great contributions right there.*sarcasm*

    This is AH. What did you expect?

    On-topic: I'm pro-choice. Abortion should be safe, legal and rare.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,889 ✭✭✭tolosenc


    Abortion is bad.

    Sticking one's nose in someone else's business is worse.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,320 ✭✭✭Teferi


    Abortions should be legal.

    If you don't like it, don't get an abortion.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 43,043 ✭✭✭✭Nevyn


    luv-eirexx

    If you want a more serious discussion on this try the humanities forum.
    http://www.boards.ie/vbulletin/forumdisplay.php?f=21


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,889 ✭✭✭tolosenc


    Einhard wrote: »
    The problem with this, and one that proponents of abortion fail to understand, is that many opponents see the unborn child as a human individual, and therefore deserving of rights. To them, it cannot be "an individual and private issue" as there are two individuals involved.

    Would there be any female opponents of abortion prepared to become a surrogate rather than have the baby aborted?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,919 ✭✭✭Einhard


    It's a vicious circle- forcing pregnancy upon a girl who's been raped could/is likely to cause her severe psychological damage, effectively ruining her life, with a high possibility of suicide; let's imagine she carries through with the birth, but the relentless feelings of shame and disgust don't subside- one year into the child's existence she kills herself. You then have a child without a mother who, at some point will learn of her/his mother's trauma, and will feel that same psychological burden that her/his mother felt- feelings of guilt perhaps, and go on living through those feelings, and all because

    (a) some disgusting parasite took advantage of the mother and

    (b) the institution of law, under the influence of the pro-life brigade, disabled her right to terminate that pregnancy.

    That termination could have effectively saved one life, and perhaps given that life the opportunity to have children at the right time, with the right person, as opposed to potentially destroying two lives.

    Easily solved: Allow abortion in circumstances such as rape, incest, and where the health of the mother is genuinely at risk.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 5,783 ✭✭✭Hank_Jones


    I was previously quite against abortion, but as I have got older and begun to view the world in a different light (church is the devil etc),
    I now think that a woman should be able to choose her own path regarding abortion.
    They are the ones who are going to have to live with their decision for the rest of their lives.

    If they want to abort a child, that is up to them.
    I do feel that there should be proper counselling in place and proper structure to make them think about what they are doing,
    before going through with the abortion.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,919 ✭✭✭Einhard


    Teferi wrote: »
    Abortions should be legal.

    If you don't like it, don't get an abortion.

    :rolleyes:

    I know it's AH and all, but seriously...


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 11,331 ✭✭✭✭bronte


    Sinead O'Connor is a disgrace.

    Sinead O' Connor spent time in a Magdalene asylum when she was a teenager.
    I can't say I remotely blame her for how she feels.

    On topic Rainbow Kirby said it best...safe ,legal and as rare as possible.

    The M.a.p. should be over the counter too.

    It's 2010 and it quite frankly makes me sick that this is not the case in my home country.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 262 ✭✭jordan..


    going by the filth in this country i remain pro life, if you dont like it well fcuk you :)


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 354 ✭✭lila44


    Pro Choice.

    And there is no wiggle room on my decision there.

    It's not as easy as to simply say "Sure, ya can put the kid up for adoption can't ya?!". There are life-long implications, and pain associated with that. Real pain. For the child AND the mother. I am not adopted but I speak from somewhat experience here.

    If you think that you cannot give a child the life, and love that it DESERVES, then abort. Sorry to be so blunt.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,919 ✭✭✭Einhard


    lila44 wrote: »
    Pro Choice.


    If you think that you cannot give a child the life, and love that it DESERVES, then abort. Sorry to be so blunt.

    What if you have the child and then realise you cannot give it the life and love it deserves?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 354 ✭✭lila44


    Einhard wrote: »
    What if you have the child and then realise you cannot give it the life and love it deserves?

    My opinion is basically that if you want to have a child, you make sure that you are financially and emotionally stable enough to have one.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 147 ✭✭xxchloexx


    Your own choice why should a woman have to be influenced by somebody else , its her own body nobody elses. Of course there are some extreme cases that abortion is the only option to the woman eg. rape. Some people seem to think it will be fine to just have the baby its not the childs fault , of course its not but its not going to be easy bringing up a rapists baby and whenever you look at the baby you are going to be reminded of the rapist , the child could grow up to look like him and you can only imagine how hard that would be to live with. Then there are other times when i think abortion is the best option , poor people who have no money to support a baby , easy to say give the child up for adoption but its not easy for a woman to carry her baby for 9 months grow attached and then just as its born give it up for adoption , she may want her child she can just not afford one but still does not want to hand it over to someone else. Also what about drug addicts , i dont think anyone who is a drug user and can hardly look after them selfs never mind a child shouldn't even be allowed have a child. I understand the people who fall pregnant should have used something to prevent a pregnancy but condoms can break and the pill is not 100% effective. So before people jump on their high horse (especially men who have no idea what it feels like to carry a child for 9 months) then think about this would you rather a child grow up to be neglected or abort something that has not even begun to form. Its not like shooting a baby in the heart , its killing cells yes but its not killing a baby" a baby is a human who has just been born.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,320 ✭✭✭Teferi


    Einhard wrote: »
    :rolleyes:

    I know it's AH and all, but seriously...

    ...what?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 5,783 ✭✭✭Hank_Jones


    jordan.. wrote: »
    going by the filth in this country i remain pro life, if you dont like it well fcuk you :)

    Say a child is buggered by a paedophile priest?

    Or just a regular paedophile for that matter?

    The child of say...12 becomes pregnant, should they be forced to have that child?


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 133 ✭✭argonaut


    Einhard wrote: »
    Teferi wrote: »
    Abortions should be legal.

    If you don't like it, don't get an abortion.

    :rolleyes:

    I know it's AH and all, but seriously...

    I know you think the answer's a little crass but FWIW it's probably the best solution. It's not an issue that's going to be "solved", because it's fundamentally a matter of opinion, based on an essentialy arbitrary definition of when "life" begins.

    So, yeah, the sensible thing to do is allow those who want abortions to have them and those morally opposed to choose not to have them. You could even argue that most of the debate is a waste of time. But, since we're here... :)

    IMO, abortion's "murder" in the same way that mowing the lawn is "murder".

    I'm pro choice, unconditionally, and I find it a little embarassing that Ireland's so backward compared to the rest of Europe in this regard. The malign influence of the Church, I suppose.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 22,048 ✭✭✭✭Snowie


    luv-eirexx wrote: »

    Umm I know you are arguing the case of the mother and pro choice when you wrote that but that is sort of my opinion on why abortions are wrong. Who are we to decide on someone elses future by taking it away from them through
    abortion. I realise going through with a pregnancy will have a huge effect on a womans life but there is always adoption ... I dunno but going through 9 months of pregnancy seems not too bad if it means a child can live a long and happy life with their adoptive family. (sorry if you thought I was rude nit picking your post!! :0)

    I see your point, so what if the kids braught up in a bussive reletionship, where the father beats the mother every friday night after he's spent his pay cheack. down the local sub.. what if the girl was raped.... what if she had a one night stand? you know we can bring all these questions into the air but to be honest there not that important whats important is how the person who's thinking of abortion....

    Don't get me wrong if it was in the situation where I had a gf, who was thinking of it I'd make sure it was what she wanted to do, that would be my concern the person who's giving life. because its 20 years of responsibility or its watch your child grow up from a distance... Which in ways it think are as bad as abortion... why go threw all that pain for a child you may very rarely see.....


    I voted pro life. Maybe you should have a third option though as I can see why a woman should have an abortion under certain circumstances, for instance if her life is at risk. I don't agree with women having an abortion because they just don't want a child. I think the likes of Sinead O'Connor is a disgrace. I've seen women (mainly Americans) in other forums say they were happily married but they had an abortion because they weren't ready to have a child. Usually everyone responds to them saying how great they are.

    I definitely don't agree with aborting a child because they're going to suffer from a condition such as Downs syndrome or any other disability.

    I think this thread is a lot better than ninety percent of the discussions in this forum and I don't get what's going on with the hostility.


    exactly what affects does it have to your life?
    Out line them instead of this nice long speech.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 7,872 ✭✭✭strobe



    On-topic: I'm pro-choice. Abortion should be safe, legal and rare.

    I'm off to bed. I was just wondering Rainbow, is that yours or did you hear/read it somewhere? I don't think I have ever heard a more sensible position than that summed up in so many words.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,216 ✭✭✭Mrmoe


    I am pro life. However, I think it is acceptable to have an abortion if there is a genuine risk of death to the mother. People bring too many hypothetical situations in to whether something will happen in the future and this should be no way used to argue for or against abortion. I am curious though as to when people who are pro abortion consider it too late to abort a child? After 12 weeks? Personally, I think nothing should be done to abort the child post implantation.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 354 ✭✭lila44


    Mrmoe wrote: »
    I am pro life. However, I think it is acceptable to have an abortion if there is a genuine risk of death to the mother. People bring too many hypothetical situations in to whether something will happen in the future and this should be no way used to argue for or against abortion. I am curious though as to when people who are pro abortion consider it too late to abort a child? After 12 weeks? Personally, I think nothing should be done to abort the child post implantation.
    In my opinion, after the feoatus (sp?) has developed a heart beat. Before that it is simply a bunch of cells, not able to make decisions, decide if it wants to live or die


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,919 ✭✭✭Einhard


    argonaut wrote: »
    I know you think the answer's a little crass but FWIW it's probably the best solution. It's not an issue that's going to be "solved", because it's fundamentally a matter of opinion, based on an essentialy arbitrary definition of when "life" begins.

    A foetus may be entirely dependent on its host, but I would still argue that it is a living entity. I wouldn't go so far as to equate it with a child existing outside the womb, but I certainly believe it to be a form of human life, and therefore deserving of consideration in its own right when abortion is discussed.
    So, yeah, the sensible thing to do is allow those who want abortions to have them and those morally opposed to choose not to have them. You could even argue that most of the debate is a waste of time. But, since we're here... :)

    IMO, abortion's "murder" in the same way that mowing the lawn is "murder".

    Well, to tell the truth, I can understand and respect different opinions when it comes to abortion, but I find the above statement somewhat callous. Do you really mean to say you equate a four month old foetus, with heartbeat, reflexes, and signs of emotion, with some blades of grass? For the record incidentally, I don't view abortion as murder either.

    On a side note to the above, I always find it intriguing that when a pregnant woman dies tragically, the fact that she was carrying a child is always mentioned. For example, after the Omagh bombing, there were reports that 31 people died including two unborn children,and even now, it's common to hear that 29 died, including a pregnant woman. My point is, if the foetus is of no more value than blades of grass or, as some argue, any organ of the body, why is the death of a pregnant woman regularly treated with so much more pathos than would otherwise be the case? I think it's clear that most people view the foetus as more than a mere extension of the female form, which is interesting when one considers how those pro-choicers of syuch a persuasion reconcile it with their support for abortion.

    I'm pro choice, unconditionally, and I find it a little embarassing that Ireland's so backward compared to the rest of Europe in this regard. The malign influence of the Church, I suppose.

    I'd argue strongly against attempting to pigeonhole all those who hold a different opinion into a narrow, easily maligned group. I'm an atheist and I'm opposed to abortion on demand. I view it fundamentally as a moral issue, one entirely divorced from religious considerations. Also, you describe yourself as "pro-life unconditionally"- does that unconditional support include late term abortions?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 27,856 ✭✭✭✭Dave!


    I'm pro-killing babies, whatever form they take


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,216 ✭✭✭Mrmoe


    lila44 wrote: »
    In my opinion, after the feoatus (sp?) has developed a heart beat. Before that it is simply a bunch of cells, not able to make decisions, decide if it wants to live or die


    That's not too far away from my position either. The heartbeat begins in week 3 probably quite often before the mother would show any physical signs of pregnancy.
    the brain, backbone, and the cardio-vascular system – complete with a beating heart are beginning to form!

    http://www.amazingpregnancy.com/pregnancy-articles/159.html


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,919 ✭✭✭Einhard


    lila44 wrote: »
    Pro Choice.

    And there is no wiggle room on my decision there.
    lila44 wrote: »
    In my opinion, after the feoatus (sp?) has developed a heart beat. Before that it is simply a bunch of cells, not able to make decisions, decide if it wants to live or die

    Are you not creating wiggle room for yourself?

    Anyway, foetal heartbeats occur from the 6th week of gestation or slightly earlier. In the UK, abortions are legal up to the 24th weeks, which means foeti are aborted a full 18 weeks after developing an independent heartbeat. Also, even up to delivery, the foetus cannot make independent decisions as far as I'm aware.

    Incidentally, even after birth, a typical child cannot decide if it wants to live or die.


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  • Posts: 1,060 ✭✭✭ Grayson Moldy Harmonica


    pro choice or pro life hmmm limiting choice there must be great living in a black and white world good luck with that


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