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Women-What attracts you to men on a night out?

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  • #122
    wudangclan
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,883 ✭✭✭wudangclan


    grandmaster wrote: »
    Haven't got a clue what you are on about :P

    A swift smack on the head with the ban-hammer will sort that out.:p


  • #123
    Cupcake_Crisis
    Closed Accounts Posts: 21,448 ✭✭✭✭Cupcake_Crisis


    grandmaster wrote: »
    Haven't got a clue what you are on about :P

    Tsk tsk tsk!! I hope your hanging your head in shame....SHAMEEE!!!


  • #124
    wudangclan
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,883 ✭✭✭wudangclan


    OutlawPete wrote: »
    Flasher Mod from Galway :)

    http://www.boards.ie/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=2055730639

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=h-Xb_V0PAdU

    :D:D:D


  • #125
    G-Money
    Closed Accounts Posts: 8,199 ✭✭✭G-Money


    Cupcake_Crisis wrote: »
    Tsk tsk tsk!! I hope your hanging your head in shame....SHAMEEE!!!

    Aye I might be. But sometimes ignorance is bliss. That reminds me, I must go top up my phone credit. I'll expect your PM with the hour :D


  • #126
    Cupcake_Crisis
    Closed Accounts Posts: 21,448 ✭✭✭✭Cupcake_Crisis


    grandmaster wrote: »
    Aye I might be. But sometimes ignorance is bliss. That reminds me, I must go top up my phone credit. I'll expect your PM with the hour :D

    Oh, thats reminds me, arrogence is also a huge turn on ;)


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  • #127
    G-Money
    Closed Accounts Posts: 8,199 ✭✭✭G-Money


    Cupcake_Crisis wrote: »
    Oh, thats reminds me, arrogence is also a huge turn on ;)

    Don't worry about it, you'll be grand.


  • #128
    G-Money
    Closed Accounts Posts: 8,199 ✭✭✭G-Money


    Actually, to be honest, I'm probably the least arrogant person who has ever existed. I can actually come across as quiet and shy.


  • #129
    Prof.Badass
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,931 ✭✭✭Prof.Badass


    A club is about the worst place to find a partner.

    For starters there is a significant amount of guys looking for one night stands. Their standards are not particularly high, as they are not looking for the best they can get, they're just looking for something that will do for the night.

    Now, many girls who get attention from these guys make the mistake of thinking they could get a guy would even consider choosing them as his girlfriend. WRONG.

    Then to further confuse things you have beer goggles. A phenomenon i think affects men far more than women. Thus in clubs, girls get attention from guys who wouldn't dream of going with them sober. To make things worse any guy with dignity would have to be pretty locked to just walk up to girls and let them know he fancies them. So, the number of drunks chatting up girls is even greater increased (i.e guys who wouldn't go with them sober).

    Then you have the worst of all, the drunk one-night stander. As he gets rejected by more and more women he eventually gets so desperate he starts chatting up almost any female who isn't deformed/clinically obese. He scores one of these girls to soothe his battered ego, and now THEY think that this guy would even consider loving them. Again, WRONG.

    The best place to meet a partner is out in the real world. Apparently the relationships with the highest succes rates are those that had a short period of increasing friendship before the relationship. I can understand how some people don't have much contact with the opposite gender, so for them clubs are a neccesity. But for the amount of effort people put into them (and for the unnaturally high proportion of tossers to genuine guys doing the chatting up) I'm inclined to think it's a waste of time.

    Someone on this thread described clubs past a certain age as "meat markets", is internet dating really any worse then? At least on the internet you could cut through all the bullshit (i still think meeting someone out in the real world would be best though).

    The fact that so many people on this thread seem to have loads of experience of meeting people at clubs but still have yet to find "the one" kinda proves what I'm saying.


  • #130
    Shane732
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,965 ✭✭✭Shane732


    Senna wrote: »
    Thank feck i'm not single, trying to meet people in clubs is just a pain in the arse.

    So very true... It really is a bitch!!

    I've almost given up at this stage. I sometimes wonder where I will find the love of my life - it clearly won't be in a night club! For some reason I think that someone who is genuine (I'd regard myself as being genuine) is at a serious disadvantage in a night club situation.

    On another note here's the ultimate dancing moves to attract the women (for all the wrong reasons) -

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Noq_oR1a0gs&feature=related

    embedding is disabled for some reason!!


  • #131
    Cupcake_Crisis
    Closed Accounts Posts: 21,448 ✭✭✭✭Cupcake_Crisis


    grandmaster wrote: »
    Actually, to be honest, I'm probably the least arrogant person who has ever existed. I can actually come across as quiet and shy.

    No pm for you so!!!


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  • #132
    G-Money
    Closed Accounts Posts: 8,199 ✭✭✭G-Money


    Cupcake_Crisis wrote: »
    No pm for you so!!!

    Ah well, such is life. Who gets the children and the house in the divorce?


  • #133
    Cupcake_Crisis
    Closed Accounts Posts: 21,448 ✭✭✭✭Cupcake_Crisis


    grandmaster wrote: »
    Ah well, such is life. Who gets the children and the house in the divorce?

    You get the children and i get everything else, including the dog :D she never liked you anyway!


  • #134
    G-Money
    Closed Accounts Posts: 8,199 ✭✭✭G-Money


    Cupcake_Crisis wrote: »
    You get the children and i get everything else, including the dog :D she never liked you anyway!

    That's not what she told me. You should have heard some of the stuff she'd say behind your back. It would make a sailor blush.


  • #135
    Cupcake_Crisis
    Closed Accounts Posts: 21,448 ✭✭✭✭Cupcake_Crisis


    grandmaster wrote: »
    That's not what she told me. You should have heard some of the stuff she'd say behind your back. It would make a sailor blush.

    Congratulations! You made me laugh :) victory is yours!!


  • #136
    G-Money
    Closed Accounts Posts: 8,199 ✭✭✭G-Money


    Cupcake_Crisis wrote: »
    Congratulations! You made me laugh :) victory is yours!!

    Thanking you Ms Crisis


  • #137
    Cupcake_Crisis
    Closed Accounts Posts: 21,448 ✭✭✭✭Cupcake_Crisis


    grandmaster wrote: »
    Thanking you Ms Crisis

    Your welcome :D enjoy it! It may never happen again


  • #138
    G-Money
    Closed Accounts Posts: 8,199 ✭✭✭G-Money


    Cupcake_Crisis wrote: »
    Your welcome :D enjoy it! It may never happen again

    Don't be so negative :P


  • #139
    Shane732
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,965 ✭✭✭Shane732


    grandmaster wrote: »
    Don't be so negative :P

    get a room!!!


  • #140
    Cupcake_Crisis
    Closed Accounts Posts: 21,448 ✭✭✭✭Cupcake_Crisis


    Shane732 wrote: »
    get a room!!!

    We dont need one, we have an entire thread :)

    Im actually quite a positive person ill have you know!! Which is also quite attractive in a guy


  • #141
    G-Money
    Closed Accounts Posts: 8,199 ✭✭✭G-Money


    Cupcake_Crisis wrote: »
    We dont need one, we have an entire thread :)

    Im actually quite a positive person ill have you know!! Which is also quite attractive in a guy

    I'm positive I will win the lotto. I won 63 euro on Friday and about 5 euro on Wednesday. A round of Magnum ice creams are on me. Not literally though as that's a bit messy.


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  • #142
    Cupcake_Crisis
    Closed Accounts Posts: 21,448 ✭✭✭✭Cupcake_Crisis


    grandmaster wrote: »
    I'm positive I will win the lotto. I won 63 euro on Friday and about 5 euro on Wednesday. A round of Magnum ice creams are on me. Not literally though as that's a bit messy.

    How about a tub of b&j's and i keep the change?? :D


  • #143
    Stella777
    Closed Accounts Posts: 585 ✭✭✭Stella777


    cheeky grin
    appears to be enjoying himself, smiles
    well groomed and nicely dressed (but not flashy)
    not falling down drunk
    twinkle in his eyes
    smells nice (does not mean gallons of cologne!)

    Those are the things that would first attract me. If we started to talk, then things like intelligence, sense of humor and good manners would become important


  • #144
    stovelid
    Closed Accounts Posts: 27,252 ✭✭✭✭stovelid


    It's hard to analyse properly. I can try and help, but in my experience it just seems to...happen.


  • #145
    G-Money
    Closed Accounts Posts: 8,199 ✭✭✭G-Money


    Cupcake_Crisis wrote: »
    How about a tub of b&j's and i keep the change?? :D

    A normal tub or bathtub?


  • #146
    Cupcake_Crisis
    Closed Accounts Posts: 21,448 ✭✭✭✭Cupcake_Crisis


    grandmaster wrote: »
    A normal tub or bathtub?

    One of the mini tubs....and i STILL get to keep the change!! Ill buy myself something pretty :rolleyes:

    +1 on the smell part Stella777! Theres nothing worse than having your nostrils burned off by the smell of half a can of lynx or a bottle of joop! Yuck!!


  • #147
    scottledeuce
    Closed Accounts Posts: 208 ✭✭scottledeuce


    Cathy666 wrote: »
    I'd be inclined to go for guys with long hair, beards and tattoos. I'm not too picky. I love the Scandinavian look, especially Finnish men (hot!!!), but at the same time, I also like the tall, dark and handsome look.

    long hair: check
    beard : check
    tattoos: check
    Finnish: I'm Irish but resident here so I guess that counts.

    I'm home for Christmas on the 17th, PM me :)

    Whats funny is Finnish girls hate the fact that they are either really shy or drunk, whereas being Irish and drunk comes off in more of an adorable way for some reason :confused::confused:

    What someone said earlier about arrogance also makes sence, I came home for a week with no intention of wasting my time (no offence) trying to score girls at home, dressed casual, didnt shave and a girl I wanted to be with for ages ended up trying it on with me.


  • #148
    midlandsmissus
    Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 3,838 ✭✭✭midlandsmissus


    I defintely go for looks first, and I love a man that makes an effort and dresses well. I've a real thing for short men aswell. Don't know why, just keep going for them! I love that small muscly dude out of JLS, the band that was on X factor last year. Give me a short man and a tall man and I'd go for the small man any time.

    mmmmmm small muscular men.......


  • #149
    Any key?
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 533 ✭✭✭Any key?


    Tallness
    :)


  • #150
    Cathy666
    Closed Accounts Posts: 293 ✭✭Cathy666


    scottledeuce wrote: »
    long hair: check
    beard : check
    tattoos: check
    Finnish: I'm Irish but resident here so I guess that counts.

    I'm home for Christmas on the 17th, PM me :)

    Whats funny is Finnish girls hate the fact that they are either really shy or drunk, whereas being Irish and drunk comes off in more of an adorable way for some reason :confused::confused:

    What someone said earlier about arrogance also makes sence, I came home for a week with no intention of wasting my time (no offence) trying to score girls at home, dressed casual, didnt shave and a girl I wanted to be with for ages ended up trying it on with me.

    Haha. What are the odds of that?

    PM coming your way :)


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  • #151
    Fago!
    Closed Accounts Posts: 16,647 ✭✭✭✭Fago!


    Abigayle wrote: »
    It's someone who isn't afraid to lock eyes and hold it with you. On the dancefloor he's the guy that works well with how I dance and is dangerously close to me always.

    loglogbarkbark wrote: »
    confident and a talker.
    MizzLolly wrote: »
    Someone well dressed. Who's not eyeing up every woman he thinks he can have a shot of. He needs to be genuine and willing to chat. None of that groping, cheesy crap that they sometimes do. And don't be too drunk. But .. most importantly, talk to me like I'm a real person and not just another woman in a club. Do not stare at me with those ''will you come home with me?'' eyes. I don't like that. Chat like a real person! :)
    Alicat wrote: »
    An honest, confident smile.
    Stella777 wrote: »
    cheeky grin
    appears to be enjoying himself, smiles
    well groomed and nicely dressed (but not flashy)
    not falling down drunk
    twinkle in his eyes
    smells nice (does not mean gallons of cologne!)

    Those are the things that would first attract me. If we started to talk, then things like intelligence, sense of humor and good manners would become important

    I gotta hang with you lot more often. :)

    Kidding. I tick most of those boxes though. (I'm just ugly is all)

    Alot of that stuff is common sense anyhow. I'm sure any lad with a proper upbringing would tick most of those boxes.
    Bonito wrote: »
    The penis mightier than the sword darling ;)

    The George Michael album that never was...
    opinion guy wrote: »
    Virgin alert.....

    Ha ha. I lol'd.


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