Women-What attracts you to men on a night out?

Abi

Well? What is it for you?


It's someone who isn't afraid to lock eyes and hold it with you. On the dancefloor he's the guy that works well with how I dance and is dangerously close to me always.



Your turn girls.



/salute

marko91

com on ladies im going clubbing tomorrow well tonight...i want the tips:pac:

FearDark

Ive got a massive WANG, it helps.

opinion guy

FearDark wrote: »

Ive got a massive WANG, it helps.

Virgin alert.....

loglogbarkbark

confident and a talker.

TheKells

marko91 wrote: »

com on ladies im going clubbing tomorrow well tonight...i want the tips:pac:

Waaay past wanting here...I NEED the tips

MizzLolly

Someone well dressed. Who's not eyeing up every woman he thinks he can have a shot of. He needs to be genuine and willing to chat. None of that groping, cheesy crap that they sometimes do. And don't be too drunk. But .. most importantly, talk to me like I'm a real person and not just another woman in a club. Do not stare at me with those ''will you come home with me?'' eyes. I don't like that. Chat like a real person!

loglogbarkbark

or really shy thinking now I can't make up my mind....Interesting.

FearDark

opinion guy wrote: »

Virgin alert.....

You caught me And now I will reveal my true identity, for it is me BRUMMYTOM!

opinion guy

MizzLolly wrote: »

Someone well dressed. Who's not eyeing up every woman he thinks he can have a shot of. He needs to be genuine and willing to chat. None of that groping, cheesy crap that they sometimes do. And don't be too drunk. But .. most importantly, talk to me like I'm a real person and not just another woman in a club. Do not stare at me with those ''will you come home with me?'' eyes. I don't like that. Chat like a real person!

All right ladies I have a question on this one. I find when I don't try to dress up I tend to get more attention than when I do. In other words when I go out wearing whatever I happened to be wearing beforehand I tend to get more attention than when I make the effort to put on a decent shirt or whatever. I don't get it - when I feel like a slob I get more attention than when I feel like I've spruced up. Explain ur crazy ways please!!!

Alicat

An honest, confident smile.

Don't leer and don't act the eejit trying to 'pull'

OutlawPete

MizzLolly wrote: »

Someone well dressed.

MizzLolly wrote: »

He needs to be genuine and willing to chat.

MizzLolly wrote: »

don't be too drunk

MizzLolly wrote: »

talk to me like I'm a real person

MizzLolly wrote: »

Do not stare at me with those ''will you come home with me?'' eyes. I don't like that.

Doh!!!

MizzLolly

opinion guy wrote: »

All right ladies I have a question on this one. I find when I don't try to dress up I tend to get more attention than when I do. In other words when I go out wearing whatever I happened to be wearing beforehand I tend to get more attention than when I make the effort to put on a decent shirt or whatever. I don't get it - when I feel like a slob I get more attention than when I feel like I've spruced up. Explain ur crazy ways please!!!

When I say 'dressed well' I don't mean suit, ties etc. Far from it. I suppose what I meant was clean, neat, tidy etc. Like don't come chatting me up with bolognaise sauce on your chin and week old sweat patches!

You probably get more attention when you're dressed 'normally' because you feel more comfortable in yourself. And there's nothing more attractive than a man who's happy and at ease with himself.

Senna

Thank feck i'm not single, trying to meet people in clubs is just a pain in the arse.

Professey Chin

Senna wrote: »

Thank feck i'm not single, trying to meet people in clubs anywhere is just a pain in the arse.

Fixed

OutlawPete

marko91 wrote: »

com on ladies im going clubbing tomorrow well tonight...i want the tips:pac:

Tomorrow night is Monday.

Nurses night out.

Coppers ftw

Tar.Aldarion

Senna wrote: »

Thank feck i'm not single, trying to meet people in clubs is just a pain in the arse.

terrible place for it imo. although not for the sex

GLaDOS

Senna wrote: »

Thank feck i'm not single, trying to meet people in clubs is just a pain in the arse.

Aye, lots of you saying he has to be able to talk, yet it's nigh on impossible to talk in clubs with the horribly pumped up music

K-Ren

Let ZZ show you the way.

BLACK TIE!

Professey Chin

ScienceNerd wrote: »

Aye, lots of you saying he has to be able to talk, yet it's nigh on impossible to talk in clubs with the horribly pumped up music

WHAT?

MizzLolly

I can't believe I forgot this in my first post. The most attractive thing in a man, for me, is humour. Irish men have a crackin' sense of humour for the most part!!

Latchy

If the both can dance that's a good start ,if you can have a conversation while doing so even better .:)

OutlawPete

MizzLolly wrote: »

I can't believe I forgot this in my first post. The most attractive thing in a man, for me, is humour. Irish men have a crackin' sense of humour for the most part!!

My post reminded you off that ;)

GLaDOS

Ultimate Chin wrote: »

WHAT?

*nods and laughs*

itsallaboutheL

Ultimate Chin wrote: »

WHAT?

DID YOU JUST SPILL A FUCKING DRINK ON ME..

I'LL KILL YA

Professey Chin

ScienceNerd wrote: »

*nods and laughs*

score :cool:

itsallaboutheL wrote: »

DID YOU JUST SPILL A FUCKING DRINK ON ME..

I'LL KILL YA

Ah not again

Senna

Senna wrote: »

Thank feck i'm not single, trying to meet people in clubs is just a pain in the arse.

I'll date you! I bet you'd let me call my first born Senninha.

OutlawPete

Latchy wrote: »

.. if you can have a conversation while doing so even better .:)

When ever I think of dancing while trying to chat someone up .. I think of this scene from Scarface

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cxCSJ3VZgyY

Valmont

Abigayle wrote: »

On the dancefloor he's the guy that works well with how I dance

???? I'm thinking of some cheesy J-LO movie with her flamboyantly dancing with some muscle man in leather pants who, shockingly, actually knows some dance moves.

I would take offense if I knew that someone thought I was a good "disco/club" dancer! Disco dancing is always horrible to watch- drunken writhing girls thinking they are like Julia Styles in Save the Last Dance while drunken lads try to dance in front of them going "wahehhhhhhhhhhhh". The whole thing is a rather undignified affair altogether.

I'll try my luck at the bar with the standing girls!

I just had a cringe. Even thinking about disco dancing kills me!

SligoBrewer

OutlawPete wrote: »

Doh!!!

Thanked cause of your class signature.

Abi

Valmont wrote: »

???? I'm thinking of some cheesy J-LO movie with her flamboyantly dancing with some muscle man in leather pants who, shockingly, actually knows some dance moves.

No, you're way off.

I would take offense if I knew that someone thought I was a good "disco" dancer! Disco dancing is always horrible to watch- drunken writhing girls thinking they are like Julia Styles in Save the Last Dance while drunken lads try to dance in front of them going "wahehhhhhhhhhhhh". The whole thing is a rather undignified affair altogether.

That wouldn't be my style of music at all, so way off the mark again

OutlawPete

Abigayle wrote: »

That wouldn't be my style of music at all, so way off the mark again

I reckon ya dance like this ..

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_AUIBt5Yt7k

Abi

OutlawPete wrote: »

I reckon ya dance like this ..

You're some man for the YT links Pete =P

OutlawPete

Abigayle wrote: »

You're some man for the YT links Pete =P

Love YouTubing me

Senna

Senna wrote:

Thank feck i'm not single

Moonbaby wrote: »

I'll date you!

The missus wont be too happy with that.

Moonbaby wrote: »

I bet you'd let me call my first born Senninha

Thats just.........actually i like that, little Senna.

Senna

Senna wrote: »

The missus wont be too happy with that.

Um oops :o:o

Senna wrote: »

Thats just.........actually i like that, little Senna.

It is mine now ya hear!

Warfi

In a club/pub, a nice guy gives you a bit of space. He talks to you long enough to find out if you click or not, gets your number and leaves you to enjoy your night with your friends. Shows confidence on his part, also shows that he values his friends by going back to them instead of spending the whole night with a girl he's just met.

In fact, I think that works for both sexes. There's no bigger turn off than meeting someone who, within in the space of a few minutes, has that look in their eye that practically screams 'We're just perfect for each other, sleep with me!!!!'


Edit: If you're out for a quickie, the above doesn't apply!!!

Ticktactoe

Warfi wrote: »

In a club/pub, a nice guy gives you a bit of space. He talks to you long enough to find out if you click or not, gets your number and leaves you to enjoy your night with your friends. Shows confidence on his part, also shows that he values his friends by going back to them instead of spending the whole night with a girl he's just met.

In fact, I think that works for both sexes. There's no bigger turn off than meeting someone who, within in the space of a few minutes, has that look in their eye that practically screams 'We're just perfect for each other, sleep with me!!!!'


Edit: If you're out for a quickie, the above doesn't apply!!!

Yes you see it depends on what the guy is looking for.....

In night clubs its the quickies and not relationship guys.

AckwelFoley

Ticktactoe wrote: »

Yes you see it depends on what the guy is looking for.....

In night clubs its the quickies and not relationship guys.

Be noted that i am keenly observing what YOU say in this thread.

Warfi

Ticktactoe wrote: »

Yes you see it depends on what the guy is looking for.....

In night clubs its the quickies and not relationship guys.

Although sometimes there are men who've been dragged into a club by their mates. They spend the night nursing their pint, watching their friends playing the nightclub game, using the nightclub lines...all the while waiting until it's time to go home! I wouldn't blame them, nightclubs are meat markets (when you get to a certain age that is!)

Killaqueen!!!

A guy who doesn't feel you up/grope you.

As mentioned a few posts up, someone who can chat to you but not cling to you the whole night. Not saying he should play hard to get, but I can't stand guys who keep annoying you when it's so obvious he's dying to get you in the sack. Just relax and enjoy the night

The obvious one here is guys who aren't too drunk, falling around the place, bumping into you. REALLY annoying when they're falling all over you!

Some people may disagree with this but I like a guy who will offer to buy you a drink. (After a while of talking) I'm not one to try and get free drink off guys but on the other hand, if you're clicking I think it shows a guys generosity. When I'm out with friends I'd always buy them a drink or two if I could afford it!!

Bonito

I've a better question.

What do you wimminz do to let us know that we've caught your eye?

As someone said the whole catch the eye and hold a good aul stare or gaze just says "yeh, i'd take ya home"

Soooo what do we do with yas? How do we know if yas are lookin' for a gent or a ride?

Cupcake_Crisis

I always tend to go for the quieter, shy guy on a night out. A lot of guys are a bit to...loud and lairy on a night out and that really gets on my nerves. I like a guy who'll just come and have a quiet chat. Sense of humour is something i pick up on really quikly too. They need to make me laugh or its a no deal!

Bonito

Ticktactoe wrote: »

Yes you see it depends on what the guy is looking for.....

In night clubs its the quickies and not relationship guys.

I resent that comment I never look for a quickie, if you think about it the ones in the club have probably came from the pub downstairs anyway or from up the road or whatever depending on the pub:club ratio of wherever you are, in my local pub the club is upstairs, i've had girls ask me in the pub "are you heading upstairs" and i'll reply with something daring like "oh is that an invite" but then i never find them upstairs or when i do they're off grinidin with someone like it's the last song!

Turd Ferguson

I dont go to nightclubs. I like to take long walks on the beach and then go home and curl up on the couch and read a Jane Austin novel or watch Greys Anatomy, but thats just on the nights that I'm not doing charity work for sick children or the elderly (I just love the joy on their faces as I am making them a full 4 course meal or cleaning up after them)


Sits back and waits for all PM's for the sex

Abi

Christ girls, you're desperate. You get a chance to have your voice heard and this is all you got? You don't have to ask the lads twice. With them you'd have a 10 page thread on tits and arses in the time it takes me to bottle the kettle



+1 on the funny thing Cupcake.

Warfi

Arse

A johnson the size of a gateaux cake (I don't think the advertisers saw that coming....mmmmm....coming)

Bill-e

I've got a question...

When's the correct time to launch at a girl?

I often find that if the conversation has gone south is a good time to go for it...

Warfi

Bill-e wrote: »

When's the correct time to launch at a girl?

I often find that if the conversation has gone south is a good time to go for it...

Do NASA not count you in?

Takk

Warfi wrote: »

A johnson the size of a gateaux cake (I don't think the advertisers saw that coming....mmmmm....coming)

I have nothing to add to this thread, but that ^^^ made me laugh out loud

Bonito

Warfi wrote: »

Arse

A johnson the size of a gateaux cake (I don't think the advertisers saw that coming....mmmmm....coming)

I don't know what to be more concerned about, someone having a johnson the size of a gateaux cake or, you being able to, "accomodate" a gateaux cake :rolleyes: