Women-What attracts you to men on a night out?

Abi · 07-12-2009 03:11AM #1

Well? What is it for you?

It's someone who isn't afraid to lock eyes and hold it with you. On the dancefloor he's the guy that works well with how I dance and is dangerously close to me always.

Your turn girls.

/salute

marko91 · 07-12-2009 03:16AM

com on ladies im going clubbing tomorrow well tonight...i want the tips:pac:

FearDark · 07-12-2009 03:18AM

Ive got a massive WANG, it helps.

opinion guy · 07-12-2009 03:20AM

FearDark wrote: »

Ive got a massive WANG, it helps.

Virgin alert.....

loglogbarkbark · 07-12-2009 03:24AM

confident and a talker.

TheKells · 07-12-2009 03:28AM

marko91 wrote: »

com on ladies im going clubbing tomorrow well tonight...i want the tips:pac:

Waaay past wanting here...I NEED the tips

MizzLolly · 07-12-2009 03:29AM

Someone well dressed. Who's not eyeing up every woman he thinks he can have a shot of. He needs to be genuine and willing to chat. None of that groping, cheesy crap that they sometimes do. And don't be too drunk. But .. most importantly, talk to me like I'm a real person and not just another woman in a club. Do not stare at me with those ''will you come home with me?'' eyes. I don't like that. Chat like a real person!

loglogbarkbark · 07-12-2009 03:30AM

or really shy thinking now I can't make up my mind....Interesting.

FearDark · 07-12-2009 03:31AM

opinion guy wrote: »

Virgin alert.....

You caught me

And now I will reveal my true identity, for it is me BRUMMYTOM!

opinion guy · 07-12-2009 03:33AM

MizzLolly wrote: »

Someone well dressed. Who's not eyeing up every woman he thinks he can have a shot of. He needs to be genuine and willing to chat. None of that groping, cheesy crap that they sometimes do. And don't be too drunk. But .. most importantly, talk to me like I'm a real person and not just another woman in a club. Do not stare at me with those ''will you come home with me?'' eyes. I don't like that. Chat like a real person!

All right ladies I have a question on this one. I find when I don't try to dress up I tend to get more attention than when I do. In other words when I go out wearing whatever I happened to be wearing beforehand I tend to get more attention than when I make the effort to put on a decent shirt or whatever. I don't get it - when I feel like a slob I get more attention than when I feel like I've spruced up. Explain ur crazy ways please!!!

Alicat · 07-12-2009 03:36AM

An honest, confident smile.

Don't leer and don't act the eejit trying to 'pull'

OutlawPete · 07-12-2009 03:38AM

MizzLolly wrote: »

Someone well dressed.

MizzLolly wrote: »

He needs to be genuine and willing to chat.

MizzLolly wrote: »

don't be too drunk

MizzLolly wrote: »

talk to me like I'm a real person

MizzLolly wrote: »

Do not stare at me with those ''will you come home with me?'' eyes. I don't like that.

Doh!!!

MizzLolly · 07-12-2009 03:39AM

opinion guy wrote: »

All right ladies I have a question on this one. I find when I don't try to dress up I tend to get more attention than when I do. In other words when I go out wearing whatever I happened to be wearing beforehand I tend to get more attention than when I make the effort to put on a decent shirt or whatever. I don't get it - when I feel like a slob I get more attention than when I feel like I've spruced up. Explain ur crazy ways please!!!

When I say 'dressed well' I don't mean suit, ties etc. Far from it. I suppose what I meant was clean, neat, tidy etc. Like don't come chatting me up with bolognaise sauce on your chin and week old sweat patches!

You probably get more attention when you're dressed 'normally' because you feel more comfortable in yourself. And there's nothing more attractive than a man who's happy and at ease with himself.

Senna · 07-12-2009 03:39AM

Thank feck i'm not single, trying to meet people in clubs is just a pain in the arse.

Professey Chin · 07-12-2009 03:40AM

Senna wrote: »

Thank feck i'm not single, trying to meet people in clubs anywhere is just a pain in the arse.

Fixed

OutlawPete · 07-12-2009 03:40AM

marko91 wrote: »

com on ladies im going clubbing tomorrow well tonight...i want the tips:pac:

Tomorrow night is Monday.

Nurses night out.

Coppers ftw

Tar.Aldarion · 07-12-2009 03:41AM

Senna wrote: »

Thank feck i'm not single, trying to meet people in clubs is just a pain in the arse.

terrible place for it imo. although not for the sex

GLaDOS · 07-12-2009 03:41AM

Senna wrote: »

Thank feck i'm not single, trying to meet people in clubs is just a pain in the arse.

Aye, lots of you saying he has to be able to talk, yet it's nigh on impossible to talk in clubs with the horribly pumped up music

K-Ren · 07-12-2009 03:42AM

Let ZZ show you the way.

BLACK TIE!

Professey Chin · 07-12-2009 03:42AM

ScienceNerd wrote: »

Aye, lots of you saying he has to be able to talk, yet it's nigh on impossible to talk in clubs with the horribly pumped up music

WHAT?

MizzLolly · 07-12-2009 03:42AM

I can't believe I forgot this in my first post. The most attractive thing in a man, for me, is humour. Irish men have a crackin' sense of humour for the most part!!

Latchy · 07-12-2009 03:42AM

If the both can dance that's a good start ,if you can have a conversation while doing so even better .:)

OutlawPete · 07-12-2009 03:44AM

MizzLolly wrote: »

I can't believe I forgot this in my first post. The most attractive thing in a man, for me, is humour. Irish men have a crackin' sense of humour for the most part!!

My post reminded you off that

;)

GLaDOS · 07-12-2009 03:44AM

Ultimate Chin wrote: »

WHAT?

*nods and laughs*

itsallaboutheL · 07-12-2009 03:44AM

Ultimate Chin wrote: »

WHAT?

DID YOU JUST SPILL A FUCKING DRINK ON ME..

I'LL KILL YA

Professey Chin · 07-12-2009 03:47AM

ScienceNerd wrote: »

*nods and laughs*

score :cool:

itsallaboutheL wrote: »

DID YOU JUST SPILL A FUCKING DRINK ON ME..

I'LL KILL YA

Ah not again

07-12-2009 03:50AM

Senna wrote: »

Thank feck i'm not single, trying to meet people in clubs is just a pain in the arse.

I'll date you! I bet you'd let me call my first born Senninha.

OutlawPete · 07-12-2009 03:51AM

Latchy wrote: »

.. if you can have a conversation while doing so even better .:)

When ever I think of dancing while trying to chat someone up .. I think of this scene from Scarface

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cxCSJ3VZgyY

Valmont · 07-12-2009 04:00AM

Abigayle wrote: »

On the dancefloor he's the guy that works well with how I dance

???? I'm thinking of some cheesy J-LO movie with her flamboyantly dancing with some muscle man in leather pants who, shockingly, actually knows some dance moves.

I would take offense if I knew that someone thought I was a good "disco/club" dancer! Disco dancing is always horrible to watch- drunken writhing girls thinking they are like Julia Styles in Save the Last Dance while drunken lads try to dance in front of them going "wahehhhhhhhhhhhh". The whole thing is a rather undignified affair altogether.

I'll try my luck at the bar with the standing girls!

I just had a cringe. Even thinking about disco dancing kills me!

SligoBrewer · 07-12-2009 04:02AM

OutlawPete wrote: »

Doh!!!

Thanked cause of your class signature.

Abi · 07-12-2009 04:04AM

Valmont wrote: »

???? I'm thinking of some cheesy J-LO movie with her flamboyantly dancing with some muscle man in leather pants who, shockingly, actually knows some dance moves.

No, you're way off.

I would take offense if I knew that someone thought I was a good "disco" dancer! Disco dancing is always horrible to watch- drunken writhing girls thinking they are like Julia Styles in Save the Last Dance while drunken lads try to dance in front of them going "wahehhhhhhhhhhhh". The whole thing is a rather undignified affair altogether.

That wouldn't be my style of music at all, so way off the mark again

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