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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 22,479 ✭✭✭✭philologos


    Ciaran500 wrote: »
    Those figures are not accurate. My dad filled in our cencus and put down my mother, brother and me as catholic and none of us believe in god. Same story in my friends house and I seriously doubt these are isolated cases.

    I doubt they are isolated either, hence why I gave quite a generous margin of error (100,000).


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1 eoghank


    I defected last week.

    This week, I feel happier, fitter.. Like a huge burden has been lifted. My mind is clear and I feel like I've done something that will make a difference to the range of problems will live with in Ireland. If you don't see yourself as Catholic, then I ask you; Why would you not defect?

    The priest wanted to meet me for "dialogue and clarification". I sent him a reply telling him that I respectfully decline his offer, but if he really wanted to begin dialogue with me I offered him 15 reasons why I was leaving the church, inviting him to reply to any one of them. He replied only with the request that I send him the 15 reasons, signed.

    He did not reply to a single reason I gave him. Not one! What sort of dialogue is that? I assure you, the priests do not want to meet you to fairly discuss anything, I have a feeling they will just try to use fear to stop you defecting- i.e. bring up the issue of marraige and funerals and try to press our more sensitive buttons.

    I would be interested in seeing exactly how many people actually went through with the defection after printing it out.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 6,609 ✭✭✭Flamed Diving


    eoghank wrote: »
    I defected last week.

    This week, I feel happier, fitter.. Like a huge burden has been lifted. My mind is clear and I feel like I've done something that will make a difference to the range of problems will live with in Ireland. If you don't see yourself as Catholic, then I ask you; Why would you not defect?

    The priest wanted to meet me for "dialogue and clarification". I sent him a reply telling him that I respectfully decline his offer, but if he really wanted to begin dialogue with me I offered him 15 reasons why I was leaving the church, inviting him to reply to any one of them. He replied only with the request that I send him the 15 reasons, signed.

    He did not reply to a single reason I gave him. Not one! What sort of dialogue is that? I assure you, the priests do not want to meet you to fairly discuss anything, I have a feeling they will just try to use fear to stop you defecting- i.e. bring up the issue of marraige and funerals and try to press our more sensitive buttons.

    I would be interested in seeing exactly how many people actually went through with the defection after printing it out.

    Well done. Good for you.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 14,598 ✭✭✭✭prinz


    eoghank wrote: »
    The priest wanted to meet me for "dialogue and clarification". I sent him a reply telling him that I respectfully decline his offer, but if he really wanted to begin dialogue with me I offered him 15 reasons why I was leaving the church, inviting him to reply to any one of them. He replied only with the request that I send him the 15 reasons, signed.

    He did not reply to a single reason I gave him. Not one! What sort of dialogue is that? I assure you, the priests do not want to meet you to fairly discuss anything, I have a feeling they will just try to use fear to stop you defecting- i.e. bring up the issue of marraige and funerals and try to press our more sensitive buttons.

    The 15 reasons, signed is evidence of your "defection" which the priest requires. If you had met him in person you would also be asked to sign something attesting to same. You declined his offer of dialogue, and then act suprised that he doesn't enter into one... thanks for opting out. I feel better.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 576 ✭✭✭pts


    prinz wrote: »
    The 15 reasons, signed is evidence of your "defection" which the priest requires. If you had met him in person you would also be asked to sign something attesting to same. You declined his offer of dialogue, and then act suprised that he doesn't enter into one... thanks for opting out. I feel better.

    But from his post it seems like he did offer dialogue (a written one), he just didn't want to meet in person.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 14,598 ✭✭✭✭prinz


    We are not confused. In Ireland, defecting from the church, and separating the church from the state are inextricably linked.

    I'd love to know where you studied politics.
    If I was a Catholic I would feel immeasurably saddened, angry and let down by the actions of the hierarchy over the years. I would love to see a groundswell of movement within the church which would attempt to right all the wrongs which have been committed.

    As would I. Unfortunately a groundswell of movement within the Church cannot be instigated by those outside the Church. Presumably if these wrongs were all righted in your eyes you would set up a website to countmein.ie?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 14,598 ✭✭✭✭prinz


    pts wrote: »
    But from his post it seems like he did offer dialogue (a written one), he just didn't want to meet in person.

    Priests have more to be doing than getting into a paper war. As the poster stated the priest offered to meet for "dialogue", poster rejects idea and then goes on to complain about the lack of dialogue.... hmmm. If he has that little respect for the man I wouldn't reply to his letters either. The priest requires signed written evidence AFAIK, he got that, end of story.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 6,609 ✭✭✭Flamed Diving


    prinz wrote: »
    I'd love to know where you studied politics?

    Obviously somewhere where they teach it correctly.

    Unless lobby/pressure groups, especially 'moralistic' ones, have found a way to exert influence without some assumed mandate?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 14,598 ✭✭✭✭prinz


    Obviously somewhere where they teach it correctly.

    Really? Unless it was a course in the poltical theory of the Soviet revolution, I doubt it. Judging by what the poster said, all our TD's shoud defect upon entering the Dáil.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 576 ✭✭✭pts


    prinz wrote: »
    Priests have more to be doing than getting into a paper war. As the poster stated the priest offered to meet for "dialogue", poster rejects idea and then goes on to complain about the lack of dialogue.... hmmm. If he has that little respect for the man I wouldn't reply to his letters either. The priest requires signed written evidence AFAIK, he got that, end of story.

    No one is saying the priest has to get into a "paper war", all I am saying is that it is disingenuous to claim that the poster didn't offer to have a dialogue.
    It seems like that type of dialogue wasn't what the priest wanted or was able to have.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 14,598 ✭✭✭✭prinz


    pts wrote: »
    No one is saying the priest has to get into a "paper war", all I am saying is that it is disingenuous to claim that the poster didn't offer to have a dialogue.
    It seems like that type of dialogue wasn't what the priest wanted or was able to have.


    I didn't make any such claim. Priest offers face to face dialogue, poster rejects it. Priest says 'ok, I just need your signed evidence of defection ta'..... Poster gives it. End of story. If the poster wanted a dialogue he should've met the priest face to face. It is disingenuous to complain about a lack of dialogue then. Priest was under no obligation to reply or acknowledge or attempt to counter his 15 reasons etc.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 6,609 ✭✭✭Flamed Diving


    prinz wrote: »
    Really? Unless it was a course in the poltical theory of the Soviet revolution, I doubt it. Judging by what the poster said, all our TD's shoud defect upon entering the Dáil.

    Unless lobby/pressure groups, especially 'moralistic' ones, have found a way to exert influence without some assumed mandate? That was his point, wasn't it? If you are unhappy with the Catholic Churches cosy role within public life, then the obvious choice would be to remove yourself from their statistics, and hence, their assumed mandate.

    I thought this would be blindingly obvious.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 14,598 ✭✭✭✭prinz


    We are not confused. In Ireland, defecting from the church, and separating the church from the state are inextricably linked.

    Presumably those involved in the State apparatus and system of Governance should only include those who have defected then? :confused:. If you have a Catholic or Jewish or Protestant Taoiseach, then under the above assertion Church and State are not separated. Perhaps only those who have defected should be allowed to vote, otherwise there'd be a 'moralisitc pressure group' influencing the outcome of the vote... etc etc etc


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 6,609 ✭✭✭Flamed Diving


    prinz wrote: »
    Presumably those involved in the State apparatus and system of Governance should only include those who have defected then? :confused:. If you have a Catholic or Jewish or Protestant Taoiseach, then under the above assertion Church and State are not separated. Perhaps only those who have defected should be allowed to vote, otherwise there'd be a 'moralisitc pressure group' influencing the outcome of the vote... etc etc etc

    Nonsense. Absolute nonsense. Drawing correlations where there are none and making spurious assumptions.

    It's almost as if you make this a way of life.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 54 ✭✭Daisy D


    Okay.....so I read the first two pages of the thread . . . BLAH BLAH BLAH! Here's my tupence...

    As a young gay man, I will be defecting. Following the insults and remarks that the Pope has been making since becoming Pope I feel I now have a platform to say, "Who the hell are you to tell me I can't be myself!". God or whoever will still love me, now I don't go to mass etc...EVER, I was baptised, communion, confirmation but only in the last few years have I woke up to the power the church has over alot of people in Ireland (even people who don't go to mass, etc). I feel it is a very unhealthy hold that they have. As regards to Catholicism itself, the fastest declining Christian faith in the world. And although this site might not be significant in regards to the numbers using it etc...it is still a way out! :D


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 6,609 ✭✭✭Flamed Diving


    Daisy D wrote: »
    Okay.....so I read the first two pages of the thread . . . BLAH BLAH BLAH! Here's my tupence...

    As a young gay man, I will be defecting. Following the insults and remarks that the Pope has been making since becoming Pope I feel I now have a platform to say, "Who the hell are you to tell me I can't be myself!". God or whoever will still love me, now I don't go to mass etc...EVER, I was baptised, communion, confirmation but only in the last few years have I woke up to the power the church has over alot of people in Ireland (even people who don't go to mass, etc). I feel it is a very unhealthy hold that they have. As regards to Catholicism itself, the fastest declining Christian faith in the world. And although this site might not be significant in regards to the numbers using it etc...it is still a way out! :D

    Exactly. I imagine many people have considered officially leaving, but had no idea how. Now they have a resource, at least. That's all this site is. People running around, stomping their feet over it are only making fools of themselves, really.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,418 ✭✭✭JimiTime


    Daisy D wrote: »
    God or whoever will still love me

    I just found this amusing.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 6,609 ✭✭✭Flamed Diving


    JimiTime wrote: »
    I just found this amusing.

    I didn't.

    Share in the joke!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 14,598 ✭✭✭✭prinz


    Nonsense. Absolute nonsense. Drawing correlations where there are none and making spurious assumptions.
    It's almost as if you make this a way of life.


    Well perhaps he should've phrased it better, because that's exactly what he said... in order to fully separate Church and State, everyone must defect..:confused:.. Anyone with a background of studying politics would never have made that mistake.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,418 ✭✭✭JimiTime


    I didn't.

    Share in the joke!

    No.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 54 ✭✭Daisy D


    JimiTime wrote: »
    I just found this amusing.

    I should probably say, I believe in spirituality, I believe in presence, etc, I don't believe in a man called Jesus who has a dad that we call God etc....hence the
    whoever
    part of my previous post, I didn't have it at first but felt I should include it.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,418 ✭✭✭JimiTime


    Daisy D wrote: »
    I should probably say, I believe in spirituality, I believe in presence, etc, I don't believe in a man called Jesus who has a dad that we call God etc....hence the part of my previous post, I didn't have it at first but felt I should include it.

    Thanks for that, it just seemed by your previous post that you were leaving the Catholic church because the Pope was being offensive etc. The 'who the hell are you to tell me I can't be myself' thing. The fact that you don't believe in Christ or God etc, I'd wonder why the pope's comments actually mean anything to you anyway? I would have thought the fact that you don't believe in anything they teach would be the best reason to declare you aren't a catholic?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 22,479 ✭✭✭✭philologos


    Daisy D: What insults has the Pope made?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 54 ✭✭Daisy D


    Jakkass wrote: »
    Daisy D: What insults has the Pope made?

    This is the quickest and most recent I could think of.
    LINK "Pope says gays are threat to human existence"


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 54 ✭✭Daisy D


    JimiTime wrote: »
    The fact that you don't believe in Christ or God etc, I'd wonder why the pope's comments actually mean anything to you anyway? I would have thought the fact that you don't believe in anything they teach would be the best reason to declare you aren't a catholic?

    As someone who is apart of that faith and always will be I think I needed to distance myself from something I am fighting against. And therefore removing support for this faith is my way of saying "Sorry, I don't support the same things you do" this is where countmeout comes in. I didn't even know about being "allowed" to leave until this site. I thought you were always just stuck with the religion you picked!:rolleyes:


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 54 ✭✭Daisy D


    Jakkass wrote: »
    Daisy D: What insults has the Pope made?

    By the by, totally off topic but I'm curious, has the Pope ever made a statement about the Ryan Report? (just wondering)


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 14,598 ✭✭✭✭prinz


    Daisy D wrote: »
    This is the quickest and most recent I could think of.
    LINK "Pope says gays are threat to human existence"


    Forgive me if my biology is a little hazy but hasn't he got a point? Firstly from a social point of view in a world with a fast aging population, where soon there will not be enough workers to support the retired encouraging and supporting the family and male/female relations is now seen as insulting? :confused: Secondly, there was no insult to gay people... none that I could see tbh. A warning against homosexuality but no insult. Thirdly I presume you'll be as quick to congratulate the Church on this...
    Earlier this month gay rights activist Peter Tatchell welcomed a leaflet from the Catholic Church in England and Wales urging greater respect towards gay people.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 36 countmeout.ie (Paul)


    prinz wrote: »
    I'd love to know where you studied politics.

    As would I. Unfortunately a groundswell of movement within the Church cannot be instigated by those outside the Church. Presumably if these wrongs were all righted in your eyes you would set up a website to countmein.ie?

    Why do you assume I studied politics? In fact, why does anyone have to formally study it to know about it?

    I fully understand that such a movement would have to come from within the church. And, rest assured, there's no danger of me setting up a countmein.ie, bapstising infants is an infinitely more effective method of signing people up, don't you think?
    prinz wrote: »
    Really? Unless it was a course in the poltical theory of the Soviet revolution, I doubt it. Judging by what the poster said, all our TD's shoud defect upon entering the Dáil.

    You have totally, and deliberately, misinterpreted what I said. My basic argument is this: you cannot wrest the church from the state if the majority of the population are members of that church. Formally defecting will reduce the numbers in the church and, thus, contribute to the removal of church from state.
    prinz wrote: »
    Presumably those involved in the State apparatus and system of Governance should only include those who have defected then? :confused:. If you have a Catholic or Jewish or Protestant Taoiseach, then under the above assertion Church and State are not separated. Perhaps only those who have defected should be allowed to vote, otherwise there'd be a 'moralisitc pressure group' influencing the outcome of the vote... etc etc etc

    Having a Catholic, Muslim or Jewish TD does NOT mean the church and state are not separated. They are not separated when those TDs use their religion in the discharge of their duties. Their personal faith should not impact on their role as legislators (in an ideal world).
    prinz wrote: »
    Well perhaps he should've phrased it better, because that's exactly what he said... in order to fully separate Church and State, everyone must defect..:confused:.. Anyone with a background of studying politics would never have made that mistake.

    Again, totally distorting what I said. I have addressed this point above. Oh, and again you have brought up the study of politics. I'll indulge you: where did you study politics?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 6,609 ✭✭✭Flamed Diving


    prinz wrote: »
    Well perhaps he should've phrased it better, because that's exactly what he said... in order to fully separate Church and State, everyone must defect..:confused:.. Anyone with a background of studying politics would never have made that mistake.

    Ok, I read that as meaning that by defecting, one can make a contribution to the weakening the Catholic Church's influence on political life in Ireland. That's all.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 6,609 ✭✭✭Flamed Diving


    Why do you assume I studied politics? In fact, why does anyone have to formally study it to know about it?

    I fully understand that such a movement would have to come from within the church. And, rest assured, there's no danger of me setting up a countmein.ie, bapstising infants is an infinitely more effective method of signing people up, don't you think?



    You have totally, and deliberately, misinterpreted what I said. My basic argument is this: you cannot wrest the church from the state if the majority of the population are members of that church. Formally defecting will reduce the numbers in the church and, thus, contribute to the removal of church from state.



    Having a Catholic, Muslim or Jewish TD does NOT mean the church and state are not separated. They are not separated when those TDs use their religion in the discharge of their duties. Their personal faith should not impact on their role as legislators (in an ideal world).



    Again, totally distorting what I said. I have addressed this point above. Oh, and again you have brought up the study of politics. I'll indulge you: where did you study politics?

    Paul, word of advice. In the Christianity forum, misinterpretation and straw-man arguments are a speciality of regular posters. I would suggest some names, but I would get a slap on the bum from PDN.


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