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will i tell?

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  • #62
    [Deleted User]
    Posts: 6,321 ✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    Yeah, you just believe that, keep believeing all the bad about her.Must make you feel better in some way.

    Poor kid sounds seriously F***** up.
    Cant your Mother do anything?


  • #63
    aoibhebree
    Closed Accounts Posts: 467 ✭✭aoibhebree


    useful_contacts wrote: »
    The doctor SAID it was stress that brought it on

    Stress caused by that little monster

    And exactly what positive steps have you or your family taken to help your sister? (i.e. apart from Ignoring her/Using her as a scapegoat for everything that goes wrong/Punishing her/Calling her names etc.)


  • #64
    Rented Mule
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,154 ✭✭✭Rented Mule


    This is why this country needs more strip joints.

    Something for these wayward girls to shoot for in life.


  • #65
    Maddison
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,594 ✭✭✭Maddison


    useful_contacts wrote: »
    The doctor SAID it was stress that brought it on

    Stress caused by that little monster

    He has been healthy all his life, doctor said he v healthy, then she starts her crap and he has a stroke. Hmmmm

    But honestly OP has anything been done to get to the root of the problem??Like has she had the opportunity to voice what may be causing her to behave in the way she does?


  • #66
    aoibhebree
    Closed Accounts Posts: 467 ✭✭aoibhebree


    useful_contacts wrote: »
    The doctor SAID it was stress that brought it on

    Going by your logic, you probably shouldn't "tell on her" ... it might stress him out more and cause another stroke, no? :rolleyes:


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  • #67
    johnny_knoxvile
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,022 ✭✭✭johnny_knoxvile


    useful_contacts wrote: »
    She went for him with a glass bottle and shoved him down the stairs- my brother was there and had to bring him to hospital. And she did it because he told her she was grounded for coming home drunk

    She was caught on CCTV burning the car

    i urge you to let her go to the party. Bring a camcorder, the resulting video may net you 200 pounds on You've Been Framed.


  • #68
    useful_contacts
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,821 ✭✭✭useful_contacts


    Maddison wrote: »
    But honestly OP has anything been done to get to the root of the problem??Like has she had the opportunity to voice what may be causing her to behave in the way she does?

    she refused councelling, when dad suggested she move out(because he cant handle her) she went bezerk . Dad got the police to talk to her

    It did nothing

    She doesnt want help


  • #69
    Quazzie
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2, Paid Member Posts: 29,941 ✭✭✭✭Quazzie


    useful_contacts wrote: »
    she refused councelling, when dad suggested she move out(because he cant handle her) she went bezerk . Dad got the police to talk to her

    It did nothing

    She doesnt want help
    So your dad asked his own 17 year old daughter to move out of the family home, because she is going through a rebellious stage and he can't be bother to try help her?


    Dad of the year award anyone?


  • #70
    useful_contacts
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,821 ✭✭✭useful_contacts


    aoibhebree wrote: »
    Going by your logic, you probably shouldn't "tell on her" ... it might stress him out more and cause another stroke, no? :rolleyes:

    Hmmmm - police bring her home for having a fake i.d

    V

    her coming home pissed and attacking him

    It doesnt matter. I know what im going to do!!!


  • #71
    useful_contacts
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,821 ✭✭✭useful_contacts


    Quazzie wrote: »
    So your dad asked his own 17 year old daughter to move out of the family home, because she is going through a rebellious stage and he can't be bother to try help her?


    Dad of the year award anyone?


    Read the full thread- he has tried to help her and she wont accept it- Hes not ****ing superman


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  • #72
    [Deleted User]
    Posts: 6,321 ✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    wheres her Mother in all of this?


  • #73
    Chocoholic84
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 881 ✭✭✭Chocoholic84


    WTF?! PI is that way >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>


  • #74
    Relevant
    Closed Accounts Posts: 474 ✭✭Relevant


    She has gone from a 17year old trying to get a fake ID to a wild, violent, drinking arsonist in 50 posts!


  • #75
    Quazzie
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2, Paid Member Posts: 29,941 ✭✭✭✭Quazzie


    useful_contacts wrote: »
    Read the full thread- he has tried to help her and she wont accept it- Hes not ****ing superman
    I did read the full thread, and tbh I can understand why the girl is doing so much bad things. She is starved of attention and rebelling against your mother and father is her only contact with her family. Jeez I can even see that from reading a few posts online.


  • #76
    Carlow52
    Closed Accounts Posts: 2,389 ✭✭✭Carlow52


    She needs a holiday away from all you lot: maybe Indonesia


  • #77
    [Deleted User]
    Posts: 6,321 ✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    useful_contacts wrote: »
    Hmmmm - police bring her home for having a fake i.d

    V

    her coming home pissed and attacking him

    It doesnt matter. I know what im going to do!!!

    AGAIN, it is NOT the job of the police to do your fathers job! They are neither social workers nor her family.
    I hope the police give you a slap on the wrist for getting them to do your parents job.
    Sounds to me like your aul fella needs to pull his finger out and DO something, not this ''áh I tried, and nothing worked.. ****e


  • #78
    Loomis
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,692 ✭✭✭Loomis


    Quazzie wrote: »
    So your dad asked his own 17 year old daughter to move out of the family home, because she is going through a rebellious stage and he can't be bother to try help her?


    Dad of the year award anyone?

    Physically attacking your parent and burning out their car because they essentially tell you to behave is a "rebellious stage"?

    Jesus, I led a sheltered life.


  • #79
    Gummy Panda
    Closed Accounts Posts: 20,919 ✭✭✭✭Gummy Panda


    Relevant wrote: »
    She has gone from a 17year old trying to get a fake ID to a wild, violent, drinking arsonist in 50 posts!

    hehe

    It is AH. I'm waiting to see how original the godwin will be


  • #80
    Maddison
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,594 ✭✭✭Maddison


    useful_contacts wrote: »
    Hmmmm - police bring her home for having a fake i.d

    V

    her coming home pissed and attacking him

    It doesnt matter. I know what im going to do!!!

    Well whatever you do decide to do best of luck but I really think your sister needs help of some sort, rather than counselling would you not try to be her sister & talk to her.....she might find it easier to talk to you than a complete stranger. It would help if the people at home tried to be more like her family rather than her ememy.


  • #81
    Puddleduck
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,183 ✭✭✭Puddleduck


    Quazzie wrote: »
    I did read the full thread, and tbh I can understand why the girl is doing so much bad things. She is starved of attention and rebelling against your mother and father is her only contact with her family. Jeez I can even see that from reading a few posts online.

    You can only see it from the posts she has posted here. You dont know the full story. So calling her parents bad and making out that her sister is just rebelling when it could be any number of things.

    Altho I never got my shrink degree out of the cornflakes box. Not enough coupons


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  • #82
    [Deleted User]
    Posts: 6,321 ✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    useful_contacts wrote: »
    Hmmmm - police bring her home for having a fake i.d

    V

    her coming home pissed and attacking him

    It doesnt matter. I know what im going to do!!!


    You well knew what youd be doing before ye come on here drip feeding the info, and whining.
    Do what ye like.


  • #83
    Quazzie
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2, Paid Member Posts: 29,941 ✭✭✭✭Quazzie


    Mr. Anderson wrote: »
    Physically attacking your parent and burning out their car because they essentially tell you to behave is a "rebellious stage"?

    Jesus, I led a sheltered life.
    I might be wrong but I'm assuming that it didn't start this way and that part happened after the blanket ignoring by her family.


  • #84
    Loomis
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,692 ✭✭✭Loomis


    Quazzie wrote: »
    I might be wrong but I'm assuming that it didn't start this way and that part happened after the blanket ignoring by her family.

    I might be wrong but I'm assuming they didn't stop talking to her the first time she didn't clean her bedroom.
    Some common sense would tell you a hell of a lot went on before they decided not to speak to her.


  • #85
    dade
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,178 ✭✭✭dade


    where's she gonna be drinking?


  • #86
    [Deleted User]
    Posts: 6,321 ✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    You should call the police now, and book them for babysitting the child your family is ignoring, see how they are fixed. Im sure theyll be delighted to get the heads up in advance.
    Maybe this thread could get passed over to the police in Tipp,see how they feel about it, Im sure they have nothing better to do that round up wayward kids with fake IDs.


  • #87
    Puddleduck
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,183 ✭✭✭Puddleduck


    Jake1 wrote: »
    You should call the police now, and book them for babysitting the child your family is ignoring, see how they are fixed. Im sure theyll be delighted to get the heads up in advance.
    Maybe this thread could get passed over to the police in Tipp,see how they feel about it, Im sure they have nothing better to do that round up wayward kids with fake IDs.

    Dont be ridiculous. They have paper work to do!


  • #88
    [Deleted User]
    Posts: 6,321 ✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    Mr. Anderson wrote: »
    I might be wrong but I'm assuming they didn't stop talking to her the first time she didn't clean her bedroom.
    Some common sense would tell you a hell of a lot went on before they decided not to speak to her.


    Common sense, not to even get into the Morals of ignoring a child, would tell you not to IGNORE the problems, but to face them.


  • #89
    [Deleted User]
    Posts: 6,321 ✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    Puddleduck wrote: »
    Dont be ridiculous. They have paper work to do!


    LOL, yeah theres a lot of kids with fake ids ... busy busy..


  • #90
    Loomis
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,692 ✭✭✭Loomis


    Jake1 wrote: »
    You should call the police now, and book them for babysitting the child your family is ignoring, see how they are fixed. Im sure theyll be delighted to get the heads up in advance.
    Maybe this thread could get passed over to the police in Tipp,see how they feel about it, Im sure they have nothing better to do that round up wayward kids with fake IDs.

    She's either a child or not. The attitude here is she's the poor child being ignored by her family while the same people hold the view she's old enough to drink and the age should be lowered i.e. she's an adult.


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  • #91
    Quazzie
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2, Paid Member Posts: 29,941 ✭✭✭✭Quazzie


    Mr. Anderson wrote: »
    I might be wrong but I'm assuming they didn't stop talking to her the first time she didn't clean her bedroom.
    Some common sense would tell you a hell of a lot went on before they decided not to speak to her.
    Jake1 wrote: »
    Common sense, not to even get into the Morals of ignoring a child, would tell you not to IGNORE the problems, but to face them.

    What he said. Turning your back on your child should never be an option.


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