will i tell?

useful_contacts

I just found out my 17 year old sis(who no one in the family talks to ) is planning on going to a 21st in a pub that im going to at the weekend.

Shes been asking people i know for a loan of their ids and everyone said no, but now ive heard shes gotten a fake one made up.

my dads already has a stroke cos of her thats why no one in the family talks to her. She still lives with dad even though hes at his wits end with her.

Shes a very bad drinker and attacks people when she is drunk

Shes been drinking- attacked him drunk- being shagging everyone and is called a "bike"- being taken home by police -doing drugs and burning out dads car

Will i tell on her? to the pub in question or the police?

jim_bob

no you should cop on to your self and grow up

Princess Consuela Bananahammock

useful_contacts wrote: »

I just found out my 17 year old sis(who no one in the family talks to ) is planning on going to a 21st in a pub that im going to at the weekend.

Shes been asking people i know for a loan of their ids and everyone said no, but now ive heard shes gotten a fake one made up.

Will i rat her out? to the pub in question or the police?

Not the police. Pub, maybe, or parents. How likely is she NOT to come home safe? Is she normally ok at parties?

petes

Wow you are a nice relative!

Time Magazine

Not at all. She's not 12 ffs. The drinking age should be lowered.

battser

Dont be a DICK! Simple as. My brother is a little rat and will hang me out to dry every chance he gets. Its a sad state when you wish you didnt have him as a brother! Be the brother any sister would want! SOUND!

toiletduck

DONT BE A FOOKIN' GRASS

useful_contacts

jim_bob wrote: »

no you should cop on to your self and grow up

she is 17 she has no business being in a pub

useful_contacts

Insurgent wrote: »

Wow you are a nice relative!

i dont talk to her- so i dont care. but when she attacks people langers AGAIN my dad will have to pick up the pieces

battser

Worst type of people in the world are rats! cu*ts tbh! You wanna be one of them?

Relevant

useful_contacts wrote: »

she is 17 she has no business being in a pub

You are afraid she is going to score one of your mates aren't you!

useful_contacts

Ikky Poo2 wrote: »

Not the police. Pub, maybe, or parents. How likely is she NOT to come home safe? Is she normally ok at parties?

No she gets plasterred and was taken home by the police before

smk89

useful_contacts wrote: »

she is 17 she has no business being in a pub

but when she is a few months older at 18 she will. whats the difference between 17 and 18 anyway? a few weeks

Time Magazine

useful_contacts wrote: »

No she gets plasterred and was taken home by the police before

First of all, you should have mentioned this in your OP.

Secondly, if she hasn't learned her lesson then let her learn it the hard way.

Degsy

useful_contacts wrote: »

she is 17 she has no business being in a pub

I agree but then neither do the gaggle of three year olds you regularly see in pubs running amok on a sunday while the parents get pissed.

She doesnt need to hold it in a pub anyway,have a free house party and wreck the place instead.

Rented Mule

Rat her out?

Why not pull her hair and run away while you are at it.

toiletduck

useful_contacts wrote: »

she is 17 she has no business being in a pub

Did you ever drink underage? Tbh you do seem to have issues with her if you're contemplating ringing the gardai. Also fake id doesn't automatically mean she'll get in/served. I personally haven't seen a decent one in years.

ragg

yea, ruin her fun,why not :rolleyes:

Gummy Panda

Why does your family not talk to her?

petes

useful_contacts wrote: »

i dont talk to her- so i dont care. but when she attacks people langers AGAIN my dad will have to pick up the pieces

Ah well we didn't get that form your post.

Sean^DCT4

Gummy Panda wrote: »

Why does your family not talk to her?

Probably because the rest of the family are like the OP. The only normal one seems to be the underage sister.

Princess Consuela Bananahammock

useful_contacts wrote: »

No she gets plasterred and was taken home by the police before

In that case, possibly yes. Drinking age isn't the issue here, it's safety. If you're 17 and being taken home by the police, something needs to be checked.

If you were just being a bitch, I'd agree with everyone else here. Don't be a grass.
If you're doing it because you're worried for her safety, then do it.

useful_contacts

ragg wrote: »

yea, ruin her fun,why not :rolleyes:

ya while im at that why dont i bury my father

cos thats what ill have to do if she comes home floored, my dads already has a stroke cos of her, why ya think no one in the family talks to her?

r3nu4l

I assume you'll be there with friends of your own? How about just keeping an eye on her and asking your friends to do the same? If she starts getting drunk enough so people could take advantage of her just give me a call make sure to stick to her side like glue.

MIN2511

useful_contacts wrote: »

I just found out my 17 year old sis(who no one in the family talks to ) is planning on going to a 21st in a pub that im going to at the weekend.

Shes been asking people i know for a loan of their ids and everyone said no, but now ive heard shes gotten a fake one made up.

Will i rat her out? to the pub in question or the police?

Meh, do you not have anything else to do?

Like seriously....

Princess Consuela Bananahammock

The Economist wrote: »

First of all, you should have mentioned this in your OP.

Secondly, if she hasn't learned her lesson then let her learn it the hard way.

Insurgent wrote: »

Ah well we didn't get that form your post.

.... which is exactly why I asked!!

Rented Mule

This has suddenly turned into the Personal Issues forum....


It's THAT way >>>>

useful_contacts

Gummy Panda wrote: »

Why does your family not talk to her?

because her crap caused my dad to have a stroke already

r3nu4l

useful_contacts wrote: »

ya while im at that why dont i bury my father

cos thats what ill have to do if she comes home floored, my dads already has a stroke cos of her, why ya think no one in the family talks to her?

Your dad didn't have a stroke because of her! He had a stroke because he had cerebrovascular complications that resulted in compromised blood flow and therefore a lack of oxygen getting to the brain. Less of the melodramatics, pahleeeze!

EDIT: IF she really is such a problem then perhaps informing your parents is the best option but even still, her antics didn't cause the stroke.

johnny_knoxvile

If her fake ID says "Mac Lovin", she is legend. There is a legal loop hole which states if you grass on a legend you will have to serve hard labour, two years wallpapering Mary Harneys belly.

Don't make the same mistake i did, i implore you.

Maddison

Yours sister has to learn from her own mistakes, the only thing ratting her out is going to cause is further resentment between you both. As her sister should you not be trying to find out why it is that she acts the way she does?Mabey if she had a more supportive family she wouldnt be the way she is.....just my opinion based on what you have said, I dont know the background info.

Rented Mule

useful_contacts wrote: »

because her crap caused my dad to have a stroke already

Is she made out of pork fat and sodium ?

connundrum

This thread is quickly turning into a PI imo.

Honestly, if this is what she does anyway, there's no point ratting her out.

You'll get a quick few seconds of joy in seeing her thrown out of the pub/not allowed out/brought home by the cops, but then she's probably just as likely do do it again next week.

Without sounding too gay about it, if you want to help - find out why she finds the need to get bollocksed and disgrace herself. Maybe she needs counselling etc.

Short answer, rat on her, but if you don't care (as you say you don't) - whats the point?

battser

r3nu4l wrote: »

If she starts getting drunk enough so people could take advantage of her just give me a call make sure to stick to her side like glue.

LMAO. +1

Maddison

useful_contacts wrote: »

ya while im at that why dont i bury my father

cos thats what ill have to do if she comes home floored, my dads already has a stroke cos of her, why ya think no one in the family talks to her?

Sorry OP I didnt see this post(mabey this should be moved to PI?) Most teenagers rebel some do it just cause they want for others there may be underlying reasons?

useful_contacts

r3nu4l wrote: »

Your dad didn't have a stroke because of her! He had a stroke because he had cerebrovascular complications that resulted in compromised blood flow and therefore a lack of oxygen getting to the brain. Less of the melodramatics, pahleeeze!

Ya im sure her drinking- attacking him drunk- shagging everyone- being taken home by police - drugs and burning out his car had NOTHING to do with it:mad:

Quazzie

useful_contacts wrote: »

my dads already has a stroke cos of her,

There are so many things wrong with that statement, I can categorically state that alcohol consumption by your sister did not cause your fathers stroke.

There are obviously much bigger issues at hand here if your family have disowned a 17 year old girl. I'd try working on them rather than being a grass.

cichlid child

You should let get plastered at the party even buy her lots of drink.Then when she is really drunk bring her home tie her up have your wicked way with her (think of somebody else)that will teach her a lesson.
ps;use a condom

Black Swan

Why are you asking us? That's more "telling" than anything else?;)

Maddison

useful_contacts wrote: »

Ya im sure her drinking- attacking him drunk- shagging everyone- being taken home by police - drugs and burning out his car had NOTHING to do with it:mad:

Doesnt like your dad much does she?:eek:

Alessandra

Were you never in a pub before legal age? Heck it's part and parcel of growing up in Ireland, give the girl a break.
You are overreacting, leave the girl alone.

battser

She sounds like a fookin Cu*t so I am changing my opinion! You shudnt rat her out! You shud let her get in. Spike her drink throw her in a ditch and let her wake up in it with no phone bag or wallet. Let her think about that one the next day!

mobius42

To be fair to the previous posters, you should have mentioned the details about her previous behaviour and her father in the original post. Your OP just sounded like you were being spiteful towards you sister, but your subsequent ones change the situation completely. I'd suggest moving this to Personal Issues, honestly. There seems to be bigger issues here.

enda1

useful_contacts wrote: »

ya while im at that why dont i bury my father

cos thats what ill have to do if she comes home floored, my dads already has a stroke cos of her, why ya think no one in the family talks to her?

How the fcuk is anyone suppose to know why you don't talk to her.
Quit coming on here and dribbling your information out expecting some sort of understanding.

Maddison

mobius42 wrote: »

To be fair to the previous posters, you should have mentioned the details about her previous behaviour and her father in the original post. Your OP just sounded like you were being spiteful towards you sister, but your subsequent ones change the situation completely. I'd suggest moving this to Personal Issues, honestly. There seems to be bigger issues here.

I second that motion!

cichlid child

Were is the party I will look after her for you:cool:

hobochris

OP, Sounds like your a busy body/drama queen who should grow up and stay out of your sisters business.

these are the causes of a stroke:

* Hypertension, systemic
* Sneddon-Champion syndrome
* Coronary angiography
* Haemophilia type A
* Vasculitis
* Eclampsia
* Pre-eclampsia
* Myocardial infarction
* Atrial fibrillation
* Subarachnoid haemorrhage
* Mitral valve prolapse
* Ventricular aneurysm
* Decompression sickness
* Atherosclerosis
* Malignant hypertension
* Systemic lupus erythematosus
* Hereditary haemorrhagic telangiectasia
* Sickle cell crisis (thrombotic)
* Endocarditis
* Intracranial haemorrhage
* Hutchinson-Gilford progeria syndrome
* Thrombotic thrombocytopenic purpura
* Carotid artery dissection
* Migraine
* Lacunar stroke
* Vertebral artery dissection
* Sickle cell disease
* Bleeding tendency
* Cerebral haemorrhage
* Internal carotid artery aneurysm
* Embolism
* Posterior inferior cerebellar artery syndrome
* Dissecting aortic aneurysm
* CADASIL
* Pulmonary arterio-venous malformation
* Polycystic kidney disease, adult (autosomal dominant)
* Moyamoya disease
* Intracranial arteriovenous malformation
* Sturge-Weber syndrome
* Carotid artery stenosis
* Familial hemiplegic migraine

Now which of these did your sister manage to miraculously manifest into your fathers body? I think you'll find its your fathers lifestyle and/or pre-existing medical condition that caused his stroke not your sister.

portomar

useful_contacts wrote: »

ya while im at that why dont i bury my father

cos thats what ill have to do if she comes home floored, my dads already has a stroke cos of her, why ya think no one in the family talks to her?

we have no idea...enlighten us

MIN2511

Is it me or is this thread turning into a PI?

aoibhebree

For gods sake you CANNOT seriously be accusing a 17 year old girl of causing your father's stroke? If your family is openly blaming her for this its no wonder if she's completely messed up, the poor kid.

useful_contacts wrote: »

Ya im sure her drinking- attacking him drunk- shagging everyone- being taken home by police - drugs and burning out his car had NOTHING to do with it:mad:

Ah now the majority of that is fairly average teenager behaviour ... when you say attacking him, could you clarify that? As in, physically attacking him? The only thing I'd consider abnormal is burning out his car - but are you even sure that was her? And from the sounds of it, ye seem to be giving her plenty of reason to resent all of you and rebel in any way possible.

I'd really love to hear your sister's side of all this ...

Rented Mule

useful_contacts wrote: »

Ya im sure her drinking- attacking him drunk- shagging everyone- being taken home by police - drugs and burning out his car had NOTHING to do with it:mad:

That sounds like most of the Tipperary women that I know.