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Women's rights under attack

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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2, Paid Member Posts: 304 ✭✭Mother Shaboobu


    When I mention healthcare, I mean there is women's healthcare and men's healthcare, and this is an example of why sex matters.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2, Paid Member Posts: 304 ✭✭Mother Shaboobu


    "Ah, yes. The good old days when silly women could go off and be hysterical in their "safe space" while men (real men) got on with smoking and running the world. Let me see, how well did that work out for women? Hmm … Magdalene Laundries ? The Tuam Babies and other Mother-and-Baby homes around the country ? Yeah, that was a really great time for women. Tyranical nuns in charge of teen girls, and Very Respectable Mothers standing by while their husbands raped their daughters … then shoving them on a boat to England so as not to bring dishonour on the family … Yeah. Bring back that social contract."

    @CelticRambler - putting words in someone's mouth diminishes an argument. Volchitsa isn't pining for those days and you know it. Those weren't all-female spaces anyway - girls experienced sexual assault in them by priests and workers. Like you say, they were raped in their own homes - not even there was a safe space from male violence.

    We're just talking about women's toilets, changing rooms and prisons. Talk of "cloistering" is dishonest, and kinda gas-lighting. Nobody is saying women should live like nuns. Most spaces are occupied by both sexes.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2, Paid Member Posts: 18,182 ✭✭✭✭Goldengirl


    And men and women work in both ?

    Don't think you get me or else I don't get you .

    What do you think I was saying ?



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2, Paid Member Posts: 18,182 ✭✭✭✭Goldengirl


    Don't ask me..I never mentioned dedicated healthcare , just healthcare 😊

    Getting increasingly mysterious here .



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2, Paid Member Posts: 304 ✭✭Mother Shaboobu


    Men's health (e.g. prostate and testicular cancers, sperm count, impotence, premature ejaculation); women's health (OBGYN). 🤷‍♀️

    No ambiguity there. A situation where "gender" can't take precedence.



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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 41,198 ✭✭✭✭Mellor


    In the spirit of that Tickle/Giggle article, how does one define "women" in the context of "women's clothes" ?

    IMO, Women's clothes are clothes designed for women, sold in shops branded as women's clothes, or in the women's departments of clothes. Men's clothes are the same respectively for men.
    Those are very broad generalisations on the items of clothing, not the people who where them. Anyone, of any gender, if free to wear any clothes they want.

    The Tickle/Giggle story is about a TERF (her description) intentionally trying to exclude a trans woman from a community. It has nothing to do with cross dressing or clothing. Which was what I was raising above.

    And if there's an implication that clothing made for women is kinky, doesn't that imply that any woman wearing women's clothing that's borderline deviant?

    Those are you words. But that's a very old fashioned mindset.
    Every aspect of sex and sexuality is a kink. Everyone has kinks. Even is that kink is "vanilla sex with the lights off".
    Equating a kink with deviant behaviours is bizarre. Again, you words (that I don't think you actually mean).

    If somebody has a kink for "X", that mean's X is kinky to that person. It's not an absolute about X for anyone else, or in any situation.

    You could almost argue that she was "asking for it" if she gets wolf-whistled, hit on or worse …

    I don't think you can argue that at all. That's and incredibly strange view to hold.

    And are we still stuck in the 1920s "cross dressing" mentality or not? Because there's a fecking load of women in my family that are cross-dressers in that case, all of them regularly wearing jean when they go out in public - traditional working man's garb.

    I'd argue that "Jean's are men's clothes" is the 1920s view. Literally, the 1920s, given than jeans Jeans in a women's design were introduced in 1930s.

    Prior to that, they were men's working wear. But now Jeanswear is for both genders for almost a century. The fabrics, cuts, designs are different based on those designs. Claiming that any women's in jeans are wearing men's clothes is silly.

    Some women do choose to wear men's jeans (or means suits), as is their right. Those are more niche, though probably far easier to do so in public - as I'm sure you aware of.
    Maybe in future there will skirts specifically for men's in mainstream fashion (outside of kilts, sarongs, thawbs, etc) .



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 41,198 ✭✭✭✭Mellor


    I assume it's ignored because overwhelmingly the anti-trans movement is a relentless hate campaign designed to mobilise support for far right politics by deliberately focussing hatred on the most marginalised and smallest group in society.

    I agree that's a large part of it.

    They don't actually care that the logical upshot is that trans men with beards will enter women's toilets becauase the anti-trans movement is overwhelmingly led by men.

    In terms of online activity agaisnt it, it probably is mostly men. But not solely, I mean this is literally a thread in the Women's lounge (which I didn't realise initially), created by a women, taking about the women's centric issue.

    I'd assume it's ignored from that perspective, as it crumbles the arguement and view.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,617 ✭✭✭CelticRambler


    Maybe in future there will skirts specifically for men's in mainstream fashion (outside of kilts, sarongs, thawbs, etc) .

    I think you missed (all) the sarcasm in my post. You're way behind the times with that "in the future" statement: skirts and dresses designed for men have been around for nearly ten years, and there's been an exponential growth in the industry in the last five. That's why using any variation of the phrase "dudes in dresses" and associating it with kinky or deviant behaviour is an outdated notion. Anyone using that term in that way is showing themselves to be stuck in the past.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 41,198 ✭✭✭✭Mellor


    Do they? I was asked here and nobody answered. In fact it looked very much like it was actively ignored because if the difficulties is propose.

    ah, do you not see the issue there.

    a transman who has done all the work and very much presents as male, but he wouldn't be using the women's toilets anyway so it isn't actually a gotcha.

    Why wouldn't/shouldn't he be using the women's?
    You just said transmen should use female spaces seeing as they are female. Yet, that is a transman, who has done the work. And you're saying they would use the male's. I assume the contradiction is apparent. I also commended you for stating the obvious. It's a shame other prolific poster don't share your honesty.

    A photo of a girl/woman who is gender non conforming would have made the point more honestly, and of course she should be able to use the women's toilets (and shouldn't use the men's).

    The parallel for transwomen is transman. I'm not sure what your definition of "gender non conforming" is. But many people would include all transwomen, transpeople as non conforming. In which case that transman, to them, is "a woman who is gender non conforming".

    And when a transwoman, who has made changes like the transman in the photo, uses women's toilets, I'm none the wiser. 

    Right, so transwomen who can pass for women, can use the women's toilets. That's not what you said above.

    I didn't post the image of the transman, but I don't think it was a gotcha. I think @Arseboxing was highlighting that it's not as black and white are people pretend. Which it does so well, as you contradictory logic demonstrates.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 41,198 ✭✭✭✭Mellor


    I didn't miss it. I was pointing the glaring hole in you logic. Most women wearing jeans are not wearing men's jeans. Refer to those jeans as menswear is disingenuous.

    To be clear I've expressed no issue anyone wearing any type of clothing. Is there an issue with the label women's clothes?
    You asked how does one define women's clothes, I gave you an objective definition, without implication. Feel free to offer a counter.

    You're way behind the times with that "in the future" statement: skirts and dresses designed for men have been around for nearly ten years, and there's been an exponential growth in the industry in the last five.

    How was that statement "behind the times". It's an accurate description of the current scenario. You might need to re-read it, you seem to miss a key word.
    Men's skirts exist, they are not mainstream, they are still quite niche.

    I'm have existed for far more than 10 years btw. Jean Paul Gautier had a men's skirt range in 1985. He, and others, have always such high fashion. But they simply aren't mainstream yet. That's a strange point to try disagree with.

     That's why using any variation of the phrase "dudes in dresses" and associating it with kinky or deviant behaviour is an outdated notion. Anyone using that term in that way is showing themselves to be stuck in the past.

    I believe the "dude in a dress" comment was directed at a transwoman, it certainly didn't come from me. Somebody else tried to parallel it with crossdressing. I was pointing out that both are very very different things - I assume you'd agree.

    I don't think anyone described it as deviant behaviour. Bizarrely, they inference was in your post (albeit facetiously).
    Respectively, I think you are inventing implications that didn't happen, in this thread at least.



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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,336 ✭✭✭Mr.Wemmick


    The emphasis is always shifted back because you can’t argue anything else sufficiently or succinctly. It’s like being at school.. with the one-liners: well you’re doing it too, lol

    Throwing insults back to source where they belong is well overdue.

    Like I said before: run along and try less tit for tat nonsense.

    ”I hate who steals my solitude without, in exchange, offering true company.” - F. Nietzsche



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,336 ✭✭✭Mr.Wemmick


    The title of the thread is well suited to discuss women’s rights. It’s a pity the “yeah but this is about trans” crowd jumped on to make it about trans, then continue to belly ache about it being about trans and wanting to change the title. Quite funny really.

    The female/male clothing point is very interesting in the way it is being misinterpreted. All clothes belong to all people, doesn’t matter who wears them. Such a strange point to get yourself wrapped up in, excuse the pun.

    Why are we seeing the disempowerment of women? Why is the female voice ignored, disregarded and their concerns tutted or waved away. To me there doesn’t seem to be any disagreement between the grass-roots women groups at all apart from the women who side with men, wholeheartedly I might add, on most if not all issues when it comes to listening or dealing with concerns. We’ve always had such women and to disguised it as women groups attacking each other is rather disingenuous.

    This is where JKRowling hits the nail squarely on the head when she speaks up for working class women being silenced across communities and in employment. All working class women hear the truth in what she says, no disagreement there only lots of silence and fear of job loss and punishment.

    JKR is also currently helping to raise the alarm over the plight of women in Afghanistan who continue to be ignored by the international community. Afghanistan is a county drunk on misogyny, unbelievable what they're doing to women and girls.

    ”I hate who steals my solitude without, in exchange, offering true company.” - F. Nietzsche



  • Moderators, Social & Fun Moderators Posts: 8,116 Mod ✭✭✭✭circadian


    It’s a pity the “yeah but this is about trans” crowd jumped on to make it about trans, then continue to belly ache about it being about trans and wanting to change the title.

    Did you read the OP?



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,095 ✭✭✭skallywag


    Found your opening post very interesting / relevant, and was certainly enthusiastic about contributing.

    Lost interest then immediately when you decided to go down this route.

    Do not pretend you have any interest in any meaningful discussion.

    Pity.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2, Paid Member Posts: 2,895 ✭✭✭aero2k


    Perhaps it is you that is not interested in meaningful discussion - you haven't laid out any arguments or opinions. The OP gave one example of how not being allowed to speak the truth (i.e. call a man a man) affects women's ability to protect their rights - it's pretty obvious that you can't complain about the presence of a man in a women's changing room or sporting event if the official line is that's not a man, it's a woman, and we know this because they say they are a woman.

    There was nothing in the OP or any responses that required the discussion of women's rights to be restricted to trans issues. Besides, it's not trans issues which cause an infringement on women's rights, it's the lies/gaslighting/obfuscation/poor legislation that goes with the ideology.

    I also think healthcare is an area where women aren't best served. I have an interest in how informed consent is often absent or sub-optimal in the area of psychotropic medication - these drugs are prescribed to women about twice as often as men, and the evidence base supporting their safety and efficacy is not as sound as it's made out to be by official guidelines or psychiatric associations. We used to lock up women when their behaviour didn't conform to societal norms, now we just sedate them it seems.

    @Former Former Former If you knew me at all, you'd know I have an almost anaphylactic reaction to the use of "patriarchy" in the context you've used it. Yes, historically men held all the power in society, and the victims of this were 100% of women and 99.999% of men. Nowadays I think the concept presents women as oppressed and men, particularly white men, as oppressors. Anything bad that happens to a woman can be attributed to this patriarchal society it seems. I think it robs women of agency. It happens in other areas too - the left seem to love the idea.

    I lived in Nigeria in the late 80's long before the phrase "white privilege" was in common use. I recall the contrast between the opulent wealth of the residents of Victoria Island and the deprivation of my early life in inner city Dublin. I would have loved to be on the other side of that equation growing up. It was just an accident of birth though, and society gave me every opportunity to have a better life, some of which I managed to take advantage of. We have to be careful when assigning blame to systematic oppression, rather than just life choices, and this applies to the current male vs female culture wars.

    @CelticRambler I very much agree with the benefits to children of having good role models of both sexes growing up - these don't necessarily have to be family members - teachers, sports club coaches etc can help too.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 11,016 ✭✭✭✭volchitsa


    Well obviously that's your prerogative, but I will just say that even though I haven't ever seen you on any of the other threads about women's issues which I've previously contributed to and in some cases set up, and by no means all about women's rights as regards transgender activism, I still wouldn't dream of concluding from that that you have zero interest in women's rights in general. So I would have hoped for the same from you since you presumably don't know me either.

    However if you really do need to carry out a purity test before you contribute anything meaningful, please do feel free to look at, for example, threads that I've set up in the past. I think it will be clear that my interest in women's issues is not limited to the threats posed by trans ideology. But I do think that in Ireland, that is a major issue these days - not because it's a massive issue day to day for most women, but because if we don't pay attention now we are going to find ourselves in the position of women in Australia who are banned from having single sex groups even for lesbians, and where a woman who was sexually assaulted in prison by a trans cellmate was initially dismissed before a women's group did finally get onboard.

    We've already had at least three violent male prisoners held in Limerick Women's prison, something that's been first ignored then minimised by the mainstream media, with the usual kneejerk allegations of far right extremism being used against the few journalists who tried to report on it. Do we really have to wait until a woman is raped by a transwoman in the female estate before it becomes acceptable to point out the problem without being abused for daring not to be kind?

    Secret payout revealed for female inmate sexually assaulted by transgender killer image.png image.png

    And that's just one example.

    So you know, when I started a thread in the Ladies' Lounge about this, and immediately found myself being stalked on here too, by posters who regularly follow me around trying to shut me down, I won't apologise for using a well-known meme to illustrate yet another instance of mansplaining. I mean, a man coming onto the Ladies Lounge to tell a woman that her opinion about what the present threats to women's rights are is wrong is a pretty classic illustration of that.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,095 ✭✭✭skallywag


    I am not stalking you, in fact I believe we have never engaged up until this point?

    That will not be changing going forward either, considering your childish responses.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,095 ✭✭✭skallywag


    I am not going to lay out arguments or opinions when I am conversing with someone who post like a child.

    The OP made if blatantly clear with this class of response that there was to genuine interest in genuine discussion

    If that were to change, who knows.

    Let's come back again in 2029 and take another look.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 11,016 ✭✭✭✭volchitsa


    Absolutely this.

    Moreover on the first page of the thread, when a poster made a point about young couples needing two jobs to get by and the effect that has on families, if I had only been interested in trans to the exclusion of everything else, I wouldn't have responded as I did to that post - and indeed I think I was the only poster who did that. Some of those complaining about the motivations they've attributed to me responded very aggressively to that poster. Which is ironic.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 11,016 ✭✭✭✭volchitsa


    I wasn't talking about you. I don't think I've ever seen you before. I was referring to the poster to whom I responded with that meme. I'm fairly sure that's actually clear in the post.

    Perhaps you need to read posts a little more carefully?



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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,095 ✭✭✭skallywag


    Do you honestly expect people to engage with you when you post / react like this?



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 11,016 ✭✭✭✭volchitsa


    You had entirely misread that post as well as accusing me of childishness - how do you expect me to react? By apologising for your misunderstanding?

    As for whether or not you post on the thread, well I'd be interested in a single substantive post from you, but so far all your posts here have been mere personal attacks. So if that's how you intend to post, do feel free to post elsewhere.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 11,016 ✭✭✭✭volchitsa


    What's your point here? That it's not very important if the person getting threatened has done something horrible?

    She was in prison - that's usually an indication that she's probably not the most upstanding person in the world - but here's the thing: that doesn't reduce society's obligation to ensure her safety while in prison all the same. Not even slightly.

    And you've ignored that on the same occasion a female prison officer was also assaulted and threatened with a rape that would leave her unable to ever bear children - or maybe you think that by choosing to work in the prison system, that's par for the course?



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,095 ✭✭✭skallywag


    How have I misread it? It is there in black and white for everyone to see?

    An adult who is genuinely interested in intelligent discussion is not going to post in such a manner. Nobody will engage with you in a substantive way while you respond the way that you did in post #7 (highlightend above).

    As for suggesting that I post elsewhere, I believe that you yourself are the one who has had issues recently?

    All a pity, since it would be an interesting discussion to have, if you had any real interest.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 11,016 ✭✭✭✭volchitsa




  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 43,671 ✭✭✭✭Boggles


    A prison guard wasn't physically assaulted, nor was there a charge of physical assault.

    society's obligation

    True, a jury of her peers found her not guilty on all 4 charges.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 11,016 ✭✭✭✭volchitsa




  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 43,671 ✭✭✭✭Boggles


    What I said was factually correct.

    What you said wasn't.



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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2, Paid Member Posts: 18,182 ✭✭✭✭Goldengirl


    Ok but it has nothing to do with my comment on people working in healthcare .



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