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Women's rights under attack

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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2, Paid Member Posts: 24,348 ✭✭✭✭Tell me how


    and anyway I'd post that anywhere where a man comes to instruct me that my opinion about the risks to women's rights is wrong

    Maybe a public discussion board isn't the place for you.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 11,016 ✭✭✭✭volchitsa


    I've just answered this. It's not that he gave his opinion, it's because he informed me that I don't know what the "real " risk to women's rights were.

    And he thinks he does.

    Would you see anything wrong with a white person telling a black person that the "real" problem of racism wasn't what that person had just said, but something else entirely?



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 37,707 ✭✭✭✭o1s1n
    Master of the Universe


    I didn't say your opinions were wrong, I said I see the trans issue as a red herring. Is there something wrong with me having that opinion?

    So what is it then? Can men post on your thread? Or is this a soap box for you to vent about trans issues and we all have to sit here and silently listen and nod along in agreement?

    It would genuinely be interesting to have a conversation about the topic at hand but I don't think that's why the thread was created.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 11,016 ✭✭✭✭volchitsa


    Not "for having an opinion". For instructing me that I don't really know what the "real" threat to women's rights are.

    You wouldn't say that to a black person posting about certain aspects of racism. But you think it's fine to tell a woman she doesn't know what women's issues are.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 11,016 ✭✭✭✭volchitsa


    That's telling me I'm wrong.

    If we were in the US, you MIGHT have a point that women's rights are ALSO under attack from the right, but in Europe, and in Ireland in particular, that is not where the danger currently is.

    And I first came on here years ago to take part in the debate around abortion rights, (I'm for) so I do know how to recognise present threats from less urgent ones.

    In Ireland, the current threats to women are not mainly from the right.



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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 11,016 ✭✭✭✭volchitsa


    Nope, this is the third time now: it's for your arrogant belief that you have a better understanding of what women should be concerned about in Ireland than I do.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 37,707 ✭✭✭✭o1s1n
    Master of the Universe


    If a black person came on here telling me the real threat to people of colour was the trans issue then yes, I might have a thing or two to say in response to that. Something about not seeing the forest for the trees.

    I might not be a woman but I do have two sisters, a wife, a mother and am highly invested in their existence and worry about them - particularly given the direction the world is going and what they've been telling me they're worried about.

    Sorry if I trust what they say and their experience more than I trust someone who posts, ad nauseam, about a highly specific topic that in reality doesn't really impact very many people offline at all.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 11,016 ✭✭✭✭volchitsa


    And how is it a "red herring" exactly, when we have women being sexually assaulted in prisons by transidentifying men, a boy winning places in the female categories in multiple Irish dancing championships, or when nurses are suspended and threatened with losing their jobs for refusing to undress in front of transidentifying men, even ones who have no GRC?



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 37,707 ✭✭✭✭o1s1n
    Master of the Universe


    I am not getting into debating with you on the transgender topic as it's like debating someone religious about their religion. They are so in the trenches they cannot see passed it.

    There are far bigger issues in the world for women right now than any of the outliers you mentioned above. It would be great to discuss the overall topic at hand.

    Otherwise you've just basically created another trans thread.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 11,016 ✭✭✭✭volchitsa


    Why do you keep posting as though I'm making you debate me?

    I didn't force you join in.

    Did I?

    But if you want to discuss other aspects of women's rights, please do - just don't expect me to agree that anything else is a "red herring". There are other aspects, but if you're going to just jump up and down shouting "Big Bad Trump" well that's been done and has nothing to do with us over here in Europe anyway. Plus there are threads for that.

    I did respond to the poster who talked about women at work etc, so I'm perfectly happy to discuss other aspects. I'm not prepared to be told I'm being manipulated into believing in red herrings though. Not without pointing out how ridiculous it is for men to try to define what women are allowed to be concerned about.



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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2, Paid Member Posts: 18,187 ✭✭✭✭Goldengirl


    While I don't see it as a problem if volchitsa wants to discuss it here and agree that it is not a good look men telling women what they should discuss and where , I do agree that the last thing I as a woman and a feminist want to read or interact with is yet another transgender bashing thread . Especially as it is such a minority issue in this country.

    Let's face it @volchitsa there are so many other women's rights under attack it's a shame to devote this to such a minority issue .

    So ..Can the thread title please be changed to women's rights under attack because of transgenderism , or did you just want to draw people in with the general and misleading thread title ?



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 11,016 ✭✭✭✭volchitsa


    No I'm perfectly happy to discuss all aspects of women's rights being threatened. I think I've shown that by the fairly long and (I think) thoughtful post I made in response to someone who posted about women/mothers having to work.

    I think anyone who's being honest here will respond with their opinions, rather than by decreeing that much of the OP was a red herring. That's offensive, and you'll notice that the poster has posted multiple posts yet not actually discussed the issue other than his first 'Big Bad Right Wing' post - that's not discussion.

    Oh and telling me I'm drunk.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2, Paid Member Posts: 18,187 ✭✭✭✭Goldengirl


    So why are you concentrating on transgender issues .

    Frankly at the moment, with women's issues in the toilet here and so many young women being turned off the idea of feminism by people yelling stridently about what are very much not mainstream women's issues , yet another thread talking about this is just a pain in the proverbial.

    When if you separate this issue from the thread , I will happily engage , thanks .



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 11,016 ✭✭✭✭volchitsa


    If a black person were able to cite multiple instances of where trans issues had come in direct conflict with black people's civil rights, they'd have a point though. But that's not what's happening and that's why your attempt at rewriting the analogy doesn't work.

    As for the women in your life - it's obvious that your opinions are pretty fixed on this, so maybe they don't tell you every single thing that they think?



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,336 ✭✭✭Mr.Wemmick


    Oh dear me.. it’s like a misogynist’s drive through. Telling women they’ve more important things to worry about and then getting pissed at a women when the same old tedious come-backs are discarded as piss poor.

    The big male soap box to tell women how to think and what to say.

    You’ve gotta laugh. The belittling cracks me up.



    ”I hate who steals my solitude without, in exchange, offering true company.” - F. Nietzsche



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 11,016 ✭✭✭✭volchitsa


    I posted about transgender issues in the OP because I was told by a mod that we couldn't talk about them in the mass shooter thread, and that this would be a better place to discuss them.

    I don't see a problem with the title. As I said, if people want to bring in other aspects I'm fine with that.

    As long as they don't try to shut down parts of the discussion they don't like. Saying the OP is a red herring was exactly that: an attempt to close down the discussion, not to open it up.

    As he's shown by his complete absence of anything else to say after that, other than personal attacks.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2, Paid Member Posts: 18,187 ✭✭✭✭Goldengirl


    Why were you raising the issue in the mass shooter thread for goodness sake 🫣?

    I think the title is misleading seeing as you want to discuss transgenderism , as I have said in my earlier post .

    "As long as they don't try to shut down parts of the discussion they don't like. Saying the OP is a red herring was exactly that."

    Are you implying I am trying to shut down the discussion ? Who is they ?

    I think you know I want you to clarify the title and then you would get all the discussion you want about transgenderism which is what the conversation will be brought back to , like you have done in previous threads , like for instance the mass shooter thread as you say yourself .

    It is disingenuous to keep posting under this title really.

    But sure have at it ..I am out .



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 11,016 ✭✭✭✭volchitsa


    I wasn't talking about you. You didn't use the expression red herring, did you? So I'd have thought it was obvious what I was referring to.

    As to the link with the recent mass shootings, it's relevant to women's rights in that recent mass shootings are apparently being recorded as crimes committed by women. As I explained in the OP.

    It's a wide subject with multiple aspects. If you don't like the title, I can't help that.

    But do feel free to bring in other aspects of women's rights.

    Actually I was interested in your claim that

    "so many young women being turned off the idea of feminism by people yelling stridently about what are very much not mainstream women's issues"

    because I get the impression from talking to young women that they are in fact turned off by the official "feminist" groups in Ireland being so obviously establishment stooges, more concerned with parrotting the "correct" progressive opinions than about ordinary people's lives. And young women not being safe in changing rooms is actually one of those things that affects them.

    But as I said earlier, the housing crisis is a far bigger issue, but the exact same problem arises: the left in Ireland, who one would think should be trying to solve that are as often landlords of multiple tenancies as anyone on the right. So it's in their interests to keep the media focused on all the other "safe" stuff that won't upset the apple cart for them.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 37,707 ✭✭✭✭o1s1n
    Master of the Universe


    No mention of immediately shutting me down with mansplaining type memes and accusing me publicly of stalking, no?

    Amazing that.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 28,501 ✭✭✭✭drunkmonkey


    I think she was kinda smitten by the stalking, maybe I read that wrong as well : )

    You’re right though, the trans thing is just noise, not a major issue, just good for clicks.



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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,336 ✭✭✭Mr.Wemmick


    women’s rights are just noise though, just good for clicks..

    Oh please tell me to mansplain so I can cut you off.. just like a game of noughts and crosses.

    Thanks for the chuckle - love reading a bit of misogynist shite before bed, lol.

    ”I hate who steals my solitude without, in exchange, offering true company.” - F. Nietzsche



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 11,016 ✭✭✭✭volchitsa


    Yep this is exactly the problem: silly little women apparently don't know what the "real" threats to women are, and with their silly little heads they get distracted by "noise" instead of by the real problems - which of course (what a coincidence!) are exactly the things the men care about.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 37,707 ✭✭✭✭o1s1n
    Master of the Universe


    Can you point out where Drunkmonkey said 'womens rights are just noise?'

    As I'm sure they actually said 'the trans thing is just noise'.

    A sad attempt to try to inject some more faux misogyny into this thread.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 37,707 ✭✭✭✭o1s1n
    Master of the Universe


    'silly little women'? Are you speaking for all women now?

    I am fairly sure women aren't actually a hive mind and when you're going off on one of your trans things you're simply speaking for yourself.

    Either way, I'll move along from your new trans thread as I do find this all very tedious. Perhaps it will help keep it all in the one place.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2, Paid Member Posts: 18,187 ✭✭✭✭Goldengirl


    Believe me I am only interested in what affects women in their daily lives at home and at work .

    "And young women not being safe in changing rooms is actually one of those things that affects them."

    Really ? How many people are affected by this in our country ?

    I would think that any women accusing another of being a "feminist stooge" is either a right wing shill ( you brought the left vs right in to the debate !) trying to undermine women's rights / strong women who speak their minds , or a person who has not lived through any real threat to their mental or physical health.

    How many people in Ireland have suffered at the hands of a trans female vs how many have suffered at the hands of men they know ?

    Now the latter is a real issue and worth discussing .

    If you are interested in feminist issues why would you be speaking to undermine the only agencies that speak for women ?

    They are not perfect I admit , but they are better than leaving the discussion to people who go on endlessly about imported culture wars and do not focus on the actual.main issues for Irish women .

    Like rising sexual violence against women higher than any other country in the EU , treatment of rape victims in courts , social media algorithms directing young men to sites that seek to alienate and teach misogyny .

    Why not discuss those issues or are they too eh .. left wing ?

    You infer that women's rights groups here are not fit for purpose ...because in truth they don't agree with anti-trans views, isn't that the crux of it ?

    By your own posts you have been posting about foreign mass shooters … Only after probing , mind you about your intentions for this thread . How is that relevant here ? In Ireland ? A footnote maybe but not happening here .

    Your title leads people to the discussion under false pretences and this type of feminist debate is so niche .

    Your thread though, so I suppose you can post whatever you like and as long as nobody disagrees it's all good eh ?

    I simply ask you to clarify the title so people don't mistakenly fall into this thread thinking it will be relevant to the average woman in Ireland .

    As I unfortunately did .



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2, Paid Member Posts: 2,896 ✭✭✭aero2k


    I agree with your comments on the tradwives thing though I'm not sure if the root cause is purely extremist conservative and/or fundamentalist religious thinking. I reckon a lot of people have spotted a giant bandwagon and have jumped aboard, lured by the prospect of $$$.

    As for trans being a red herring, I totally disagree. The numbers may be small, in absolute and % terms, but the harms are not. In the last couple of years we've seen:

    Internal documents and recordings showing that WPATH is a highly unethical organisation with no medical/ scientific credibility. This is huge as national health organisations worldwide have relied on them for guidance.

    The Cass Review final report clearly outlining the lack of evidence behind life altering medical interventions on young people.

    Joanna Olson Kennedy being sued.

    A man punching a woman in the face, and being awarded for his efforts with an Olympic gold medal.

    Female rape victims being forced to interact with males in Edinburgh rape crisis centre.

    People losing jobs for trying to stand up against the erosion of women's rights.

    The likes of J.K. Rowling being demonised for telling the truth.

    More of a school of whales than a herring I think, or perhaps a cluster of red flags.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,482 ✭✭✭witchgirl26


    Personally I don't think that women's rights are being eroded by trans people in general. Are there specific bad eggs? Yes. Is that the case no matter the gender in society? Eh yes - why do you think we have prisons. I think it's something that is still being worked out how it's managed in certain settings due to the fact that the openness of it is relatively new.

    I have a trans niece who is genuinely one of the nicest, most gentle people I know. She is also one of the most mature in that she's not rushing her transition but taking her time.

    I would genuinely see more issues with what is happening in America with the erosion of bodily autonomy for women as being more concerning than a trans woman using the same bathroom as me.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,336 ✭✭✭Mr.Wemmick


    Deflection: partisan nonsense, our side against yours. Far right against far left amounts to same thing - weaponising it which either way fits.
    Neither side adds value or worth. It comes across as incredibly tedious and lazy when women’s rights are simply that: women’s rights. Rights inclusive of all - especially fetish men in female spaces, health services, elderly & disability care.. Sport safety and fairness in schools, colleges, Universities across all levels of community and professional levels is bang on point.

    My feminism vs your feminism is the exact same as above. Lazy pedantic clap-trap. Equality and respecting all rights is paramount. No group can over ride or erase another’s rights, end of. It’s that’s simple. Women are choosing to say no as is their right.

    The transparent whataboutery arguments of the other “bigger” and “better” threats to women are laughable when the misogynists have done nothing about that either. Other than to score weak points in a lazy off hand insulting way.

    Crikey.. I could write the responses myself at this stage it has become that predictable.

    ”I hate who steals my solitude without, in exchange, offering true company.” - F. Nietzsche



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,792 ✭✭✭Former Former Former


    This isn't a thread about women's rights, it's a thread about trans people. I have no idea why anyone would think they are the same. While you might think trans people are freaks (or even just pretending), their impact on the daily lives of 99% of women (and men) is precisely zero.

    What is interesting is the anti-trans posters here seeing the Trump administration and MAGA movement in the US as leading the charge for "women's rights", when actually they have been relentlessly doing the opposite, most notably in terms of contraception and abortion rights.

    As the father of two girls, I'd be far more concerned about the probability of right-wing Christian conservatism affecting their basic rights (as was also the case in Ireland for so long) than the probability of them having to wrestle a tranny in PE class.



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  • Moderators, Category Moderators, Arts Moderators, Sports Moderators, Paid Member Posts: 55,567 CMod ✭✭✭✭magicbastarder


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    but…

    As far as I know, men are entitled to join in here

    colour me confused…

    anyway. i will state that my wife (like other female posters have mentioned) finds the obsession with trans issues very, very tedious. because as a woman, they don't affect her. many, many people who claim to be interested in women's issues and women's rights only seem to focus on the trans issue so as far as she's concerned, their motivations are incredibly suspect.



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