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Dispute with mod

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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 23,026 ✭✭✭✭Tell me how


    You're new here, hang around a bit and you'll see why the query provoked that response.



  • Posts: 436 ✭✭ [Deleted User]


    I'm not at all new. 😆

    The question was totally polite, respectful, and by a member who causes no trouble. 12 years a member and not a peep of hassle.

    Post edited by [Deleted User] on


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 23,026 ✭✭✭✭Tell me how




  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 15,837 ✭✭✭✭Goldengirl


    But disingenuously denying it . 🙄

    So many posters just using this thread to wum and get a dig at others . Shame to see every feedback thread going this way .And people wonder why the site is going downhill ? Being dragged down by continuous petty nonsense and circular arguments as within ..

    This thread was about moderation on CA originally .



  • Posts: 436 ✭✭ [Deleted User]


    Goldengirl, your comment about posters using the thread to wind up and get a dig in at others could apply to your puzzling "disingenuously denying it 🙄" snipe. Denying what? Angel Eyes is a member for 12 years, not a peep of trouble from her. Somebody else brought up the matter of transphobia, and Angel Eyes asked a question that was polite, respectful and even said to censor it if it was breaking the rules. And the person who originally brought up transphobia replied to her question. And that was it. No issue. It could have been left at that, but another member, after about 15 minutes, accused Angel Eyes of "demented anti trans sh1te". Where? How? It contained zero anti trans sentiment. I have asked where the anti trans parts were and no reply, despite numerous people seeing it. Angel Eyes is not a poster known for posting in bad faith. It really was not a nice thing to say to her - what was it supposed to achieve? And ironically it "dragged" talk about trans matters into the thread. Bringing me back to your comment about "getting a dig in". Also Angel Eyes WAS asking about moderation in response to another post about elements of moderation.

    The only response to me is a vague "you know the answer already". No, I don't know the answer already to my question asking what was the "demented anti trans sh1te" in Angel Eyes' post. Because there is none.



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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,655 ✭✭✭Ezeoul


    Angel Eyes asked a question that was polite, respectful and even said to censor it if it was breaking the rules. And the person who originally brought up transphobia replied to her question. And that was it. No issue. 

    Just like to point out that I was NOT the person who originally brought up transphobia in this thread.

    It was brought in by posters complaining that they had been issued warnings / bans in another CA thread.



  • Posts: 436 ✭✭ [Deleted User]


    Well I meant it was included in the shortlist on your post that Angel Eyes responded to. Not "originally" as in way back. Just how the conversation started, resulting in what she was accused of.

    Post edited by [Deleted User] on


  • Moderators, Recreation & Hobbies Moderators Posts: 22,557 Mod ✭✭✭✭Brian?


    In 2005 I’d been using the internet for over a decade. It was after the dotcom bubble had burst. That’s a complete mischaracterisation of the trend.

    they/them/theirs


    The more you can increase fear of drugs and crime, welfare mothers, immigrants and aliens, the more you control all of the people.

    Noam Chomsky



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 12,093 ✭✭✭✭Jim_Hodge


    Would you let Angel Eyes speak for themselves perhaps. More derailing and bickering back and forth saying nothing new. Did you not learn from the Mod's tidy up of the thread? Guess what posts were wiped!



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,278 ✭✭✭Backstreet Moyes


    It is precisely the reason I asked for a definition of transphobia by boards.

    The poster asked a question and said nothing transphobic and one of the gang of bullies who throw around racist and phobia etc to bully and insult posters in CA, showed what they do on a daily basis.

    This is what new users experience on this site by a handful of long standing posters who freely insult people without any actions against them hiding behind the phobes enabled by biased moderation.

    You will see the same posters talk about how they want to save boards while running anyone they disagree with off the site.

    Imagine being a new poster and a Cmod attacks you like that, would you think this is an inclusive place, not a hope.

    If you want to sort out CA, then stop allowing bullies hide behind phobes and action them for bullying.

    Boards biggest problem is a few long standing posters who are free to bully people who disagree with them and run away new posters.



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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,605 ✭✭✭Quantum Erasure


    There was a dispute resolution thread running that might have forced boards to acknowledge the edge cases of intersex athletes at least, but as that was only a thread ban and they are no longer an issue its been swept back under the carpet, for now.



  • Administrators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 15,556 Admin ✭✭✭✭✭Big Bag of Chips


    Ok. To try get things back on track, because I'll be perfectly honest, and I probably speak for a lot of the mods and admins, I stopped reading this thread a long time ago.

    People have legitimate complaints. People have legitimate suggestions. People, I assume by the fact you're all still here, want Boards.ie.

    So, there's new rules in the thread.

    • Offer suggestions
    • Offer constructive feedback
    • Anybody who says "Boards is dead/dying/sinking" etc will be given 5 points to activate a temporary siteban. It is now a forbidden phrase. We have heard it - for the past 15 years! So there's no need to repeat it. Repeatedly
    • DRP's get overturned. So no more discussion that they don't. Every decision isn't overturned. Obviously.
    • Moderators don't "circle the wagons" (let's add that to the forbidden phrase list). Moderators have been removed from their position due to abuse of it.
    • Anyone posting just to insult or take digs at the moderation and admin team will be given 5 points to activate a temporary siteban. There are very very many ways to express concerns. I suggest you find a new way. I am not banning complaints against moderators. Of course there will be issues. But express it without insults or cheap digs

    The above list is not exhaustive! But you get the idea. I don't want anyone coming back whinging that they didn't realise saying x, y or z wasn't allowed because it wasn't explicitly written down. You're all adults - I keep presuming - so really shouldn't need every single scenario of what is or isn't acceptable spelled out to you. If you think you're feeling particularly grumpy and need your fix of a cheap dig at an anonymous user or volunteer of a website, maybe wait until you're less grumpy and then word a response 😊

    Moderators support each other. The admin team support the moderating team. Of course they do. Why wouldn't they? But issues are discussed and complaints looked at. This is a volunteer post. Nobody is expected to take it on and then be left to stand alone against the abuse and demands thrown about so readily by some posters. There are decisions made at moderator level, by a team of moderators, that posters mightn't be happy with. That does not equal "circling the wagons". The admin and moderation team decide the rules. The posters must follow them. If anyone finds the rules too disagreeable they are free to leave the site. This is like any club. There are rules. If you don't like it we'd prefer if you found another 'club' rather than try to bend this one to suit your agenda.

    There are many many more posters than there are moderators. Moderators cannot possibly stay on top of every single post in every single thread. This is where we rely on reports. Not all reports will be actioned. People found to be abusing the report function will be (and have been) contacted to tell them to stop.

    All suggestions will be considered. Replies might not be given to every individual post but this thread should be used to compile a list of genuine suggestions for moderators to look at and consider. If there's too much whinging the suggestions will get smothered and the moderators will just ignore the thread.

    From this point on we are asking for constructive feedback, constructive criticism, genuine suggestions. Anything other than that will have you removed from this forum, and possibly from the site.

    Carry on......



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,278 ✭✭✭Backstreet Moyes


    Can we make the below that are used to gaslight threads as actionable by Mods.

    I am sure their others that can be added, I probably have broke some myself in the past.

    A consolidated list will help improve posting styles including my own.

    This thread is full of racists

    This thread is full of Nazis

    This thread is full of Transphobia

    This thread is full of homophobia

    This thread is full of the far right

    This thread is full of middle aged angry men

    Post edited by Backstreet Moyes on


  • Administrators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 15,556 Admin ✭✭✭✭✭Big Bag of Chips


    @Backstreet Moyes I take your point, but can you edit your post to just contain suggestions to the moderation team. Your post is aimed at the posters you're complaining about! And likely to tempt responses that will again descend into over and back arguing.

    Post edited by Big Bag of Chips on


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,278 ✭✭✭Backstreet Moyes




  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 46 Sorcha Dhuisigh _She_Her_


    Oh, absolutely! Let’s all "carry on" and take a moment to bask in the wisdom of your new "rules" (how original, by the way, love the whole ‘this is like a club’ vibe—just what an open forum needs, obviously). It's almost as if the definition of "constructive" is whatever doesn't make you uncomfortable, huh? No "cheap digs" allowed—unless they're coming from, say, a moderator? Brilliant. Let me just scramble for my pearls because I can practically feel the sincerity dripping off your "support each other" line. Really brings a tear to the eye, doesn’t it?

    But hey, good luck enforcing this enlightened strategy where we’re all supposed to applaud the mods’ "volunteer work" while gagged by whatever arbitrary rules get invented on a whim. And as for "rules," please, enlighten us more on this concept that you’re apparently just discovering. Don't worry, though—I'm sure the rest of us adults will figure out how to tiptoe around them. Or maybe, just maybe, we might look elsewhere when the whole "club" thing stops feeling like it’s run by people who enjoy the faint whiff of power just a bit too much.

    Anyway, happy circle-the-wagons-ing!

    __________________________________________

    Warned: First 5 points temp site ban. Although I suspected I gave this poster exactly what they were looking for.

    Post edited by Big Bag of Chips on


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 23,026 ✭✭✭✭Tell me how


    I think that anyone who has spent time in the threads where such comments are used, or in other threads on fairly evocative topics, will have seen similar comments referring to Wokists, SJW, Leftists, Liberals etc etc etc.

    A lot of the terms have been used directly at or about me. I've had PM's using them to describe me. I've never reported such a PM and I've never lost a wink of sleep over being called something because someone is attempting to denigrate or undermine my beliefs.

    I do understand that it is frustrating to see threads full of the accusations of these things so I don't do that either. But I will call out behaviour that is reflective of these practices for what it is, but I've done this directly only a handful of times in my time here and I've been here a while.

    Turn off safe search on Twitter and enter some slur words and just watch the flood of information that will be presented to you since the new owner decided that particular types of free speech are more important than others. I had a video presented to me on Tik Tok of an AI image of a young lady holding a black baby which appeared to be hers. The girl was crying and 3 white men around her were laughing extravagantly and point their fingers at her. The caption read, 'In 2024 is once again acceptable to do this!!!' I reported the post and they account and received an update saying it did not violate the terms of the app. Sunday night, unsearched for, I was shown a video on Twitter of people in America on various boats in some sort of a parade. They had Nazi Flags, and Trump flags on the same boats. The audio on the video had people calling from boat to boat saying. 'No more N words in America'. That is happening in public, in 2024.

    We are living in a world with growing sentiment along these lines. That is a plain and simple fact. In the US, the ongoing Presidential election is incredibly revealing for some of the sentiments that are personally held by people involved in it and last Sundays rally will be analysed for decades for the rhetoric that was used. One speaker, specifically, themselves said that 'it was said to them after coming back from Israel (and seeing Bibi) that they couldn't take the Nazi gig, but they took it' They said that, they implied the gig was Nazi in at least tone and they didn't counter that point, they enforced that they attended despite that being the case. In the UK, the ongoing Conservative leadership contest is being fought between two people who have taken several strong steps to the right not to mention the increase in sentiment around the Reform party and the impact that led to in recent riots. In Ireland, we've our mini-me versions of right wing agitators using language and symbols associated with 1930's Germany. Again, that is a fact.

    So if these sentiments exist in society, if they appear to be growing in their expressions, how likely is it that this wouldn't be reflected in Boards content, if not directly, then indirectly? And if this were to be the case, should it not, or can it not be highlighted? I would have a big problem if that were the case, and I say that without suggesting it is a frequent or widely held belief or tone on here, but I do feel it does exist, and is present at times.

    I absolutely agree that these terms shouldn't be thrown around lightly, but am completely against the terms being seen as solely gaslighting and actionable by mods as a flat out approach.

    The question about trans people last night engendered the response it did because at this point, it is 'usually' a loaded question. There are vastly more appropriate locations that exist online to inform someone seeking to be informed than either asking anonymous individuals to give their description or to goad a representative of the site in to doing so, probably, I expect, so that that response could then be used to justify future comments in a kind of 'gotcha' type moment.

    And frequently we see people adopt a 'hey I'm just asking a question' attitude when they know they have thrown a grenade in to a room. And occasionally there will be innocent/genuine questions about contentious topics, but usually if that is the case and someone sees an evocative response, they'll back away and do research elsewhere. What we saw last night was an attempt to provoke a particular type of conversation which has been held time and again on here and always with the same pattern, response and outcome. Hence the immediate response to the question.

    TLDR: What happens if we ban calling people Nazi's/racists/homophobes/transphobes and a Nazi/racist/homophobe/transphobe comes in to a thread look to spread their ideology?



  • Moderators, Entertainment Moderators, Social & Fun Moderators Posts: 20,608 Mod ✭✭✭✭Leg End Reject


    100% this, and get rid of the obvious trolls and wums who arrive en masse to trot these out.

    On a positive note, Necro is a great addition to CA. I saw a fair few posts actioned in one thread yesterday and the reasoning added was concise and without condescension.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,278 ✭✭✭Backstreet Moyes


    Their is a lot here and I am just heading back from lunch.

    Like I said their are more than i listed that should be considered.

    On your last point I would report the posts and if someone was really out of order then I would suggest sending a pm to a mod.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 11,817 ✭✭✭✭EmmetSpiceland


    For this to be enacted the site will have to remove the “quirk” where you cannot call a racist “a racist” without getting a warning.

    It would be far better if posters just owned what they post and stand by it. This sort “first they came for the racists” stuff is, simply, risible.

    EmmetSpiceland: Oft imitated but never bettered.

    “It is not blood that makes you Irish but a willingness to be part of the Irish nation” - Thomas Davis



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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,569 ✭✭✭Cordell


    What happens if we ban calling people Nazi's/racists/homophobes/transphobes and a Nazi/racist/homophobe/transphobe comes in to a thread look to spread their ideology?

    We are on a discussion forum so we should be able (and willing) to discuss things we don't agree upon, not have them silenced.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,278 ✭✭✭Backstreet Moyes


    As I said I am talking about people gaslighting by not calling out racists but saying the thread is full of racists.

    I have no problem if someone is posting racist posts and is called out on it.

    The mods may prefer you report it instead though.



  • Moderators, Category Moderators, Science, Health & Environment Moderators, Social & Fun Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 41,595 CMod ✭✭✭✭ancapailldorcha


    Ultimately, it comes down to a request for censoring views the author doesn't like. Either we agree and let anyone add things they think they should be banned or we expect people to appreciate that some people disagree with them and they need to accept that. In the latter scenario, they can read the things they don't like, not read said things or use the tools of the site to avoid them, namely the ignore list.

    The foreigner residing among you must be treated as your native-born. Love them as yourself, for you were foreigners in Egypt. I am the LORD your God.

    Leviticus 19:34



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 23,026 ✭✭✭✭Tell me how


    On your last point I would report the posts and if someone was really out of order then I would suggest sending a pm to a mod.

    And I would suggest that posters do that to the posts/terms you are suggesting should be actionable and let the mod assess both the report and the context before carrying out any action. Though I do appreciate mods can't be focused as much as some people might feel is necessary, though with more active mods, this would be less and less of an issue hopefully.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 23,026 ✭✭✭✭Tell me how


    Is calling someone a Nazi/racist etc silencing them?

    Note, my post was responding to someone calling for the action by mods with respect to various statements, is that not a direct suggestion at silencing someone?



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,569 ✭✭✭Cordell


    Then I mush have misread your post, it looked like you were asking for more bans, not less :) My bad.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,418 ✭✭✭Flaneur OBrien


    Boil that down though. Would we not have to allow people be to outwardly homophobic, for example? If they truly believe that homosexual relationships are against/God/Allah/Nature/Whatever-you're-having-yourself, shouldn't they be allowed say that? The argument for allowing such homophobia would be that their argument could be countered against, but apparently the homophobes would not have a duty to respond.

    I think boards needs to get off the fence on a lot of these issues. I want to believe I know where boards.ie as a discussion forum stands on issues, but since the takeover, I'm no longer sure. There are definitely posters who have been around a long time, that wouldn't have lasted a wet week in the mid 2000's.

    I keep banging my head off the wall with this, but I would love to know what the plans are for boards. Are there any?



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 16,598 ✭✭✭✭MisterAnarchy


    The Harris-Trump election thread is a perfect example of this.

    Posters of an opposing view are labelled Trump supporters and gaslighted, baited and trolled on a constant basis.

    Its a very basic strategy, just say Trump supporters or centrists are racists, fascists, mentally retarded, rape sympathisers, or whatever insult takes your fancy.

    Its clear what the intent is and who the remarks are aimed at, its other posters on the thread. Its not subtle.

    This is abhorrent and bullying behaviour and should be stamped out.



  • Moderators, Category Moderators, Science, Health & Environment Moderators, Social & Fun Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 41,595 CMod ✭✭✭✭ancapailldorcha


    I see no reason why religion should be a fair justification for bigotry. That's just me talking of course. Homophobia is already against the rules though, no?

    As for your last point, I have no idea.

    The foreigner residing among you must be treated as your native-born. Love them as yourself, for you were foreigners in Egypt. I am the LORD your God.

    Leviticus 19:34



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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 11,817 ✭✭✭✭EmmetSpiceland


    I, personally, think another “issue” going on in the site is people taking general comments, very, personally.

    If I were to say ‘Twitter is full of racists and weirdos’ and a user has a Twitter account, they seem to take it as a personal attack, but if they are not a racist, or a weirdo, they shouldn’t be getting upset and if they are, well, that backs up the claim.

    EmmetSpiceland: Oft imitated but never bettered.

    “It is not blood that makes you Irish but a willingness to be part of the Irish nation” - Thomas Davis



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