Partner watching porn

True. I feel like slitting my wrists every time I find myself in a group of people who are gossiping. Or talking about reality programs. If they were to talk about sex, I might find some interest. But I'd rather watch porn than gossip. I'd rather do anything than gossip tbh.

Maybe you'd be more interested in the artsy porn? That's more about senses, lighting, angles, etc. Usually "passionate" and nowadays 4K, you could count the bumps on the areola! Give it a whirl, but you may have to wade though the crap to find the good ones. MetArt is one.

And that's the thing, porn is so varied that there really is something for everyone, but only if you allow it. We need to be more open about sex in general if we want it to improve for everyone. Yeah, the most common sex searches are sometimes extreme and no indicative of real life, but there's "normal" stuff out there too. It's why OnlyFans is so popular imo, it's "normal" (well, a lot of it is, it also has it's weird).

I mean, yeah, if that's the porn you search for. But it's still only a small part of the whole pie. If young lads are watching that kind of porn and think that's how it is in real life, they have other issues!

Isn't there a danger though if they are exposed to this stuff when going through puberty that they will develop a taste for it that they would not otherwise. And that's when 'tastes' are generally established for life...

I would imagine that more men watch porn than women. But has it become more of a go to than it should be for solo sex? Smartphones make it very easy to access.

A good fantasy and prior experiences can be more satisfying to help things along. But perhaps porn is a more lazy option?

Spitting is probably some unfortunate circumsized US men. They need lube all the time because they have no foreskin, so there's some damage there. When there's no lube they need saliva or contact can be painful.

He had brewers droop because he was thinking he could have a heart attack in the saddle, cut the man some slack !!!!!

The fetishisation of different types of women "black" "asian" "mature" "big" on porn sites is just grim and not something that makes porn more accessible to me.

I don't have a problem with my partner watching porn. I know he does and I don't care. We don't watch it together because we are not into the same things and frankly, while I have watched porn, I've stopped,I don't like the porn sights. They are all geared towards men, even if they do have porn aimed at women on there (which I have found to be no different, tbh) . The amount if stuff that had to removed from sites a few years ago because it was either posted without consent or involved underage actors has also put me off using these sites. Not for me, but if it floats your boat and are happy with how a site is run, no business of mine.

I've never been one to kowtow, unless there is a discussion about boundaries first and safewords agreed 😉

If it was the other way around Tim would be accused of coercive and controlling behaviour.... Probably get jail.