Senior officer - married - sexual misconduct

No there are not. Because on the face of it, what you report is going on, is not illegal in civil or military law. And I'm dying to know in what context you believe it creates a security risk. He's not a secret agent, presumably!

Now, I'm not saying I agree with what he's doing, but I would say this:

A) This is none of your business. This is two adults behaving in a way they choose to behave, that is not illegal.

B) If you decide to make it your business and if it occurs to you to try and damage his military career by spreading information irrelevant to his military career, out of spite, be prepared to face very serious legal consequences for potential reputational damage and loss of potential earnings. He would nail you to the wall, figuratively speaking.

Have you any idea how dangerous it is calling something sexual "misconduct", that clearly is no sort of sexual assault or crime? I mean it's so reckless of you its incredible.

Probably best not to mention it again.

Why do you care?

I think you should cc the 4 of them and guys CO in that email you are on about. CC the busiest busy body on their residents association too.

Make sure to come back and let us know how it goes.

Whats the name of this movie?

Assuming this is not a windup or trolling if the DF were to take action against all the personnel who are "playing away from home" they'll never get any other work done.

Tell your sister in law or don't tell her, that's your choice. Reality is noone will give a fcuk about hubby's job.

It is the DF so the reality is, like any military, when they are on deployment somewhere the chances are they are doing a bit of covering on the side. Especially likely since a lot of them would be uniformed alphas so they would have plenty opportunity while off duty.

Now look, in reality this is none of yours nor none of the DF's business. Anyone drilling around outside of their marriage is not the business of their employer. You can't sack someone for riding.

I think OP needs to relax about the whole security and blackmail risk, revealing locations of checkpoints.

FFS, this is the Irish DF, not a Tom Clancy novel.

Maybe he will be blackmailed to reveal the locations of the stock of sandbags for use during floods. Or blackmailed to reveal how much diesel they pilfer out of army vehicles for their own use.

Lads It's grand to have a laugh and a joke at someone else's expense, but what if this guy is the person who has the Keys for the square?

Then we'll see who's laughing.

Having an private affair with a woman, not a member of the DF, could never in a million years be construed as conduct prejudicial to good order and discipline.

It'd be like charging him under that provision for being a vegetarian or being fond of scuba-diving, a total nonsense notion concerning personal choice around an issue that is not an offence.

To the OP again, if you push this, it will end worse for you than it will for the Officer.

Its a civil matter in the sense that its not a military matter.