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What happens when a hypocrite gets a dose of their own medicine?

  • 11-08-2021 5:05pm
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    Not a rhetorical question.

    I genuinely want to know your experiences.

    Basically the question is, "what happens to a hypocrites brain when their own degeneracy backfires into their face"?

    i.e. they're forced to bear witness to the dog shit they subject others to on a whim and on a daily basis?

    It happened to me and another dude a couple years ago.

    I can't give details but essentially I thought his brain was going to melt, he literally went into "code red" mode.

    What ultimately happened was he basically "made nice" with me after he realized there was no way he could sway the situation in his favour (poisoning others minds against me etc), but under the surface I could always feel he was just waiting for a weakness to emerge so he could strike.

    It's the most bizarre thing, the degree of sugar coating and charades that goes on on the surface, where as the genuine motives underpinning the actions of so many are literally not a jot short of asinine.

    .....

    I will also add that, whilst I don't think I've ever intentionally gone out of my way to make a hypocrite eat their own crap, when it does in actual fact happen (by default) it feels like in an indirect way you're putting so many long standing wrongs to right (albeit the fallout can be tumultuous) - I guess that's only ever a good thing?



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  • Posts: 0 [Deleted User]


    Other things is, with far gone hypocrites, it's like their entire sense of self worth and thus almost physiological functionality depends on this deluded sense of self status, validation, ego?

    And when that's tampered with it effects them to their soul.

    For that reason I've always been super cautious about saying and doing certain things to expose some low lifes immoral actions, just cause I mean, who takes joy in making grief for another person (even if they deserve it)?

    And when it does happen it's only cause they push me right up to the line and it's either them or me, and I'm not about to placate someone whose actions distinctly victimize a weaker demographic, just to spare their feelings - period.

    Like that dude I mentioned above?

    I can't tell you the grief he used to cause to so so many other people just to indulge his own sense of grandeur.

    He tried to pull the same stunt with me and it basically bounced back and hit him square between the eyes - the dude almost went into a depression over it.

    It's a quandary for me, really; I don't like hurting anyone's feelings, I don't enjoy making anyone feel bad, life is hard and if something (even if its degenerative and hypocritical) makes someone feel a little better about what may otherwise be a difficult life in some respects, are there times when a dude should just stand back and say - "you know what? I'm gonna let you have that one"..... ?



  • Posts: 0 [Deleted User]


    I know Matt Serra's opinion at least:




  • Registered Users Posts: 6,412 ✭✭✭Jequ0n


    Are you having a discussion with yourself here?



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 18,900 ✭✭✭✭gormdubhgorm


    Can the OP not give us the general gist? At least? It all seems very generalised.

    Post edited by gormdubhgorm on

    Guff about stuff, and stuff about guff.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 16,930 ✭✭✭✭banie01


    I hope not, it'd be very hypocritical of him wouldn't it 🤔



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  • Registered Users Posts: 150 ✭✭Gary Scrod


    Quote from OP "It happened to me and another dude a couple years ago."

    You should probably stop revisiting trivial interactions from years ago.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 22,352 ✭✭✭✭endacl


    I remember this one time when this thing happened and now I can’t stop remembering it.



  • Posts: 0 [Deleted User]


    Trivial....

    lol, you're obviously out of touch.

    It was a case of condemnation where "loser leaves town".

    Wars have been fought over less.



  • Registered Users Posts: 150 ✭✭Gary Scrod




  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,572 ✭✭✭JeffKenna


    I hate hypocrites.

    After ruining my day now grrrr



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  • Posts: 0 [Deleted User]


    Really - no more anecdotes here at least?

    Let me give another.

    I used to work on this big ass job site but the consultancy sector for the project was actually located exactly adjacent to it so I was constantly in and out of their office space (about 40 or so cubicles, 10 or so side officies).

    You know how them office spaces with men and women get, it's one festering mess of sexual tension/innuendo.

    The receptionist was a big slut, no surprise there but everyone expects that.

    One of the consultants, young gal about 22, she was hot and basically had every dude in the place wrapped around her finger - for real, it was disgusting.

    Grown ass men wrapped around this little cooze's finger, was enough to make me sick; for real you'd see less depravity in a brothel.

    Anyways unfortunately I can't say I was Casanova enough back then to make the situation backfire on her (though she hated my guts so, obviously I was going the right direction).

    However I was kind of young then also so didn't really understand how this game was played but the manager for the trucking company that was hired by the firm, whatever he had the gals would just gravitate toward him.

    Whatever he said or did one day, it was like effortless, he called her out on her behaviour, basically exposed her for her crap.

    ....

    Maybe it was the public humiliation or what but, I kid you not, the next day she transferred to another office space (same job site but entirely different working crew).

    Not the damnedest thing? She could play the harlot for months on end, but the moment she meets a dude who can handle it and respond in kind she runs and hides.

    Ask me she should have transferred out of the country, not just to another office space.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 13,508 ✭✭✭✭ArmaniJeanss


    One trick is to tell 'em stories that don't go anywhere



  • Registered Users Posts: 997 ✭✭✭Mike Murdock


    @JohnJoeJames What did that girl say or do that makes her a hypocrite? You have not elaborated.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,408 ✭✭✭corner of hells


     "So I Tied An Onion To My Belt Which Was The Style At The Time" , this always works some of the time too.



  • Registered Users Posts: 12,716 ✭✭✭✭TheValeyard


    What the fcuk is all this shite?

    All eyes on Kursk. Slava Ukraini.



  • Posts: 0 [Deleted User]


    Define hypocrisy:

    Practicing or advocating for something oneself personally, which one will condemn outwardly when practiced or advocated by someone else.

    i.e. this gal loved to play the harlot.

    But when she herself got played like a harlot she lost her mind.

    They give it but can't take it, and when forced to take it either run and hide, or pull depraved BS to try and undermine the person who gave it to them.



  • Registered Users Posts: 6,412 ✭✭✭Jequ0n


    You do not understand the meaning of hypocrisy.

    how tragic.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,511 ✭✭✭KildareP


    This sounds like a topic for LiveLine, talk to Joe, 1850715815



  • Registered Users Posts: 2,109 ✭✭✭The Raging Bile Duct


    I think the OP needs to work on his issues in relation to women.



  • Registered Users Posts: 997 ✭✭✭Mike Murdock


    But your story mentions nothing about her publicly or privately condemning slutty behaviour (no mention of her calling out the the receptionist you call a "slut" for instance) whilst behaving the same herself. If either is the case, which I doubt very much now!

    Being called out for being a "harlot" in public and losing her mind is not hypocrisy.



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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,453 ✭✭✭Ray Palmer


    I really don't think people understand what a hypocrite is judging the posts here.


    a hypocrite would be a car driver giving out about cyclists breaking the rules of the road while breaking the rules of the road themselves. They don't really get a comeuppance because they just don't ever believe they are wrong.

    The girl wasn't a hypocrite in the case above she was just badly behaved and got treated the same. She is only a hypocrite is she claims he did something and it was wrong but the same as her. Still not a comeuppance for being a hypocrite



  • Posts: 0 [Deleted User]


    *sigh*

    This is in response to you and the above posters.

    Staying with the cooze example, she claimed to be some nasty gal knowing that no dude in that environment has the mineral to actually call her out on it.

    Then some legit Casanova put her to the test, exposed her and she ran off to cry about it - probably out of shame, lol.

    This is the strict meaning, but it's generally used in terms of being a self contained contradiction as a means to attain status/validation/empowerment/ego-trip through immoral behavior.

    They get exposed then run off a throw a sissy fit.

    Obviously it's ya'll that struggle with semantics and comprehension (no offense).



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 11,398 ✭✭✭✭Collie D


    Yes, OP. Everyone else is the problem



  • Registered Users Posts: 373 ✭✭markw7


    Confusion aside with what an actual hypocrite is, in my experience they tend to not even acknowledge their own hypocrisy and change the subject, lose the plot and start going off on one or engage in some serious mental gymnastics.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,531 ✭✭✭HBC08




  • Registered Users Posts: 373 ✭✭markw7


    Oh and 'cooze', back to New Jersey with ya Mr Soprano!



  • Moderators, Category Moderators, Social & Fun Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 24,063 CMod ✭✭✭✭Ten of Swords


    Then what happened op? C'mon, don't leave us hanging here





  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,453 ✭✭✭Ray Palmer


    Wow. You have yet to show she was a hypocrite and it is a hissy fit. She was a harlot and some guy called her out on it and she took offense. I don't know how you consider this as a hypocrite reaction. Where is she doing something contra to what she says??????



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,367 ✭✭✭JimmyVik


    I think i have found the most pointless thread ever.

    See what comes out of updating boards.

    You find sh1te like this instead of the good stuff



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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,408 ✭✭✭corner of hells


    What are you on about ?

    This is shaping up to be one of the best threads ever .



  • Registered Users Posts: 150 ✭✭Gary Scrod


    You say "probably out of shame" and "Whatever he said or did one day".

    You have no idea what he said or did. For all you know he could have sexually harassed her or worse.

    What mental age are you, OP?



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,536 ✭✭✭touts


    Joined a company a few years ago where there was this absolute pair of bitches that made everyone's life a misery. A young one who divided her time between bullying all around her and crying if anyone challenged her on her behaviour. An old one who egged on the young one in the hope that she would get promoted if she was the only one able to control the young one and was protected by using the young one as her instrument and therefore not getting her hands dirty. They got away with it because they thought if anyone tried to bring them down they would bring that person down first with bullshit allegations of bullying and harassment. They also had a bit of a gang who feared/supported them and would gang up on anyone who tried to stand up to them. So they thought they were untouchable.

    I put up with their behaviour for about a year. Then got another, better, job. Went to HR and said I was leaving because of those two (when in reality it was because I had a better job). Laid out a document listing everything they had done in my time there with emails and other evidence to back up the whole story and resigned. The two bullies never saw it coming. The old wan was out the door (without the safety net of a job lined up as I had) before my notice period ended and the young wan was banished to obscurity and left a few months later.

    Apparently I was a hated man by a small section on the factory floor for a while after I left as their gang adjusted to life without their leaders but met some others a few months later who said what I had done changed their work lives for the better and the atmosphere was unbelievably better. Was even asked would I consider coming back but the pay was too low.



  • Posts: 0 [Deleted User]


    Well yeah, there's obviously communal confusion when it comes to how to define certain behavioral types.

    Engaging in immoral behavior and then crying wolf when they're exposed = hypocrite.

    To anyone who suffers confusion on the matter, just take my word for it.

    In fact feel free to use it as a frame of reference in future; if someone says, "do you know what a hypocrite is?", you have my permission to use the above definition.

    ......

    Go with God.



  • Posts: 0 [Deleted User]


    Which?

    With the cooze?

    I never hung about to find out. I basically rinsed that company for a years salary (+benefits) then caught the next jet out of there (with a glowing reference from my super to boot).

    Last I saw her she was hanging off the scrotum of some absolute dork (but fresh out of college whizz kid consultant) who was unquestionably destined to have future relationships with TS/TV's but was pulling down world class bank.

    i.e. typically status chaser/gold digger.

    Not exactly uncommon, but seeing her getting exposed was magical.

    My conclusion?

    The world needs more legit Casanova's.



  • Posts: 0 [Deleted User]


    "Hissy" huh?

    Well, way to pont that out - cause clearly I'm the one on shaky linguistic territory. (/sarcasm)

    Okay, last time but I'll break it down into baby steps:

    1) she exhibits exploitative immoral behavior

    2) eventually she has to lock horns with a dude who's actually more depraved that she is and he "sons" her (belittles/exposes)

    3) for all her "billy bad girl" antics and condescension-to/exploitation-of the "weaker" gender, when she's put in that position, suddenly the behavior she formerly endorsed and used to her advantage is now a mortal sin and she's crying bloody murder.

    She practiced one thing, preached another.

    If you can't rationalize that as being hypocrite then go and demand a refund from your homeschool tutor, they clearly failed to do their job adequately.

    Post edited by [Deleted User] on


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  • Posts: 3,801 ✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    I'm eating me breakfast, Kate.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,941 ✭✭✭growleaves


    Ah now I get it.

    What is TS/TV's?



  • Posts: 3,801 ✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    Okay, last time but I'll break it down into baby steps:

    1) she exhibits exploitative immoral behavior

    That in itself is not hypocritical behaviour, unless she had previously said she was opposed to flirting, which itself is not immoral behaviour.

    2) eventually she has to lock horns with a dude who's actually more depraved that she is and he "sons" her (belittles/exposes)

    That he is more flirtatious, or whatever, than her is not hypocritical behaviour on her part either.

    3) for all her "billy bad girl" antics and condescension-to/exploitation-of the "weaker" gender, when she's put their position suddenly the behavior she formerly endorsed and used to her advantage is now a mortal sin and she's crying bloody murder.

    She seemed to be embarrassed rather than crying bloody murder.

    She practiced one thing, preached another.

    What did she preach exactly?

    If you can't rationalize that as being hypocrite then go and demand a refund from your homeschool tutor, they clearly failed to do their job adequately.

    Let me rationalise something for you - it seems that while she flirted with a lot of people she didn't like you at all. I think this is what is driving your angst.



  • Registered Users Posts: 6,412 ✭✭✭Jequ0n


    You learn something new every day



  • Posts: 0 [Deleted User]


    A woman trapped in a mans body with/without hormones.



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  • Posts: 0 [Deleted User]


    "Flirtatious" hmmm?

    .....

    Have you really been this sheltered all your life?

    .....

    Actually, don't tell me - sometimes the less said the better.

    Perhaps AH is simply too out of touch to adequately relate to this topic? (no offense)



  • Posts: 3,801 ✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    You are the one who is suggesting mere flirtatiousness here, if you have more details of what you call the "cooze" did to upset your strange misogynistic 1950's moral code then post it.

    To be honest your whole story makes no sense anyway, and clearly you have no idea what a hypocrite is.



  • Registered Users Posts: 8 UnvaxedCitizen


    Tres bizarre OP tres bizarre



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  • Posts: 0 [Deleted User]


    It's times like this when I ask myself "what would Jesus do?"

    I have visions of Jesus going around calling everyone hypocrites.



  • Registered Users Posts: 8 UnvaxedCitizen


    That would itself make him a hypocrite as he was supposed to be a most generously forgiving soul



  • Posts: 0 [Deleted User]


    Maybe that's why the OP is upset. Might just be a case of needing forgiveness/or accepting an apology. Maybe Jesus forgave her already, who knows?



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,417 ✭✭✭.G.


    Some absolute shite gets posted in AH all the same.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,034 ✭✭✭tabby aspreme


    Any pics of this immoral Harlot, OP



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