Female orgasm through penetrative sex

eviltwin · 23-08-2019 10:31AM

Reviews and Books Galore wrote: »

I don't agree with that tbh. A lot of women enjoy a well endowed man as one part of the experience and there is no shame in it. If a man feels ashamed or insecure about his endowment, it's silly as a woman likes the man and not the unit.

Personally penis size is important. If a guy I liked turned out to be packing lightly I'd be disappointed. Shallow but there you go.

JohnnyFlash · 23-08-2019 10:34AM

JayZeus wrote: »

I’d say your head looks like a veiny Pringle’s can with aubergine on top.

In reality you probably have an entirely average cock and the libido of a middle aged overweight heavy drinker on beta blockers.

The only stiff one you hold in your hands is a neat whiskey down the pub.

Pintman Walter Mitty.

You seem very angry and tetchy this morning. Everything ok, pal?

EmmetSpiceland · 23-08-2019 10:37AM

JohnnyFlash wrote: »

You seem very angry and tetchy this morning. Everything ok, pal?

Probably on his 8th “round”, J. Can’t imagine the mood would be too good after cumming “dry”.

23-08-2019 10:40AM

EmmetSpiceland wrote: »

Probably on his 8th “round”, J. Can’t imagine the mood would be too good after cumming “dry”.

Wrong poster. Go back to square one.

23-08-2019 10:41AM

JohnnyFlash wrote: »

You seem very angry and tetchy this morning. Everything ok, pal?

You seem like you're taking offence. Middle aged fat wanker yourself, are you?

Feisar · 23-08-2019 10:48AM

eviltwin wrote: »

Personally penis size is important. If a guy I liked turned out to be packing lightly I'd be disappointed. Shallow but there you go.

Deep you mean surely?

Franz Von Peppercorn II · 23-08-2019 10:51AM

Wibbs wrote: »

Tantra. Suburban hippie edging with extra woo woo.

Nobody has time for that sh1te.

Wibbs · 23-08-2019 10:56AM

eviltwin wrote: »

Personally penis size is important. If a guy I liked turned out to be packing lightly I'd be disappointed. Shallow but there you go.

Nothing shallow about it ET. You like what you like. The "penis size doesn't matter" is, or can often be, a sop trotted out for a male audience to feel better about themselves. Like mentioned before different women get off on different things. Of my women friends down the years enough of them were disappointed when a guy they were with turned out to be packing lightly and they expressed a preference for larger.

Andreas77 · 23-08-2019 10:57AM

EmmetSpiceland wrote: »

I thought the “dry orgasm” was the one when you’re on your 7th or 8th “tug” of the day, and haven’t drank enough water, so when it comes time to “blow” all you get is dust.

Male is positioned on top of female during thrusts and has felt tingling or slight throbbing sensation around seminal vesicle, urethral sphincter, and territory of bladder. Light emissions are felt by the male but ejaculation is not yet inevitable. In order to lengthen own pleasure he has reached around and firmly pressed with thumb on frenulum. If the male has timed this correctly, he will experience orgasm without emission. Issue here is that procedure could take four to five minutes of stern pressure during which penis may reduce in rigidity. Possibility that male will become self conscious during rutting. Solution: male to withdraw and perform cunnilingus on female until his secretion withdraws back inside his body and he is ready to continue sexual activity.

the beer revolu · 23-08-2019 10:59AM

In reality, regarding penis size, I think the goldilocks factor comes into it.
But that's still subjective.

I've heard women lament a small penis and I've heard women express horror about the largness of a penis, too.

Dial Hard · 23-08-2019 11:01AM

the beer revolu wrote: »

In reality, regarding penis size, I think the goldilocks factor comes into it.
But that's still subjective.

I've heard women lament a small penis and I've heard women express horror about the largness of a penis, too.

Girth is more important than length, imo. Nobody wants a bruised cervix.

Reviews and Books Galore · 23-08-2019 11:01AM

eviltwin wrote: »

Personally penis size is important. If a guy I liked turned out to be packing lightly I'd be disappointed. Shallow but there you go.

I'd be tempted to do a study on penis size and overall percieved attractiveness/masculinity. As in, manipulate the visual size in regards to other attractive traits such as bicep, facial features and hair amount on head.

I imagine that an overweight balding man would be percieved as having more musculature if he had a large penis than if he had a small penis and the same might be true for a physicaly fit young man in reverse.

But, there is some truth to the whole 'a good man is hard to find' and I don't think a guy needs to worry too much in regards to long term prospects and penis size.

Wibbs wrote: »

Nothing shallow about it ET. You like what you like. The "penis size doesn't matter" is, or can often be, a sop trotted out for a male audience to feel better about themselves. Like mentioned before different women get off on different things. Of my women friends down the years enough of them were disappointed when a guy they were with turned out to be packing lightly and they expressed a preference for larger.

I do agree, but there also be an anti pornography element going on and, I feel silly saying this, a bit of sex shaming/ slut shaming or something that I can't quite put my finger on. I dunno, I've just noticed a strange amount of shaming of female sexuality in regards to enjoying men in popular female enjoyment niches such as fanfiction or erotica. It sounds vague, but it's really more of a vaugue theory that I can't quite articulate.

Wibbs · 23-08-2019 11:02AM

Andreas77 wrote: »

Male is positioned on top of female during thrusts and has felt tingling or slight throbbing sensation around seminal vesicle, urethral sphincter, and territory of bladder. Light emissions are felt by the male but ejaculation is not yet inevitable. In order to lengthen own pleasure he has reached around and firmly pressed with thumb on frenulum. If the male has timed this correctly, he will experience orgasm without emission. Issue here is that procedure could take four to five minutes of stern pressure during which penis may reduce in rigidity. Possibility that male will become self conscious during rutting. Solution: male to withdraw and perform cunnilingus on female until his secretion withdraws back inside his body and he is ready to continue sexual activity.

What the jaysus?

Franz Von Peppercorn II · 23-08-2019 11:02AM

Andreas77 wrote: »

Male is positioned on top of female during thrusts and has felt tingling or slight throbbing sensation around seminal vesicle, urethral sphincter, and territory of bladder. Light emissions are felt by the male but ejaculation is not yet inevitable. In order to lengthen own pleasure he has reached around and firmly pressed with thumb on frenulum. If the male has timed this correctly, he will experience orgasm without emission. Issue here is that procedure could take four to five minutes of stern pressure during which penis may reduce in rigidity. Possibility that male will become self conscious during rutting. Solution: male to withdraw and perform cunnilingus on female until his secretion withdraws back inside his body and he is ready to continue sexual activity.

Sounds romantic. I’ll give that a try.

Wibbs · 23-08-2019 11:04AM

Reviews and Books Galore wrote: »

But, there is some truth to the whole 'a good man is hard to find'

"A hard man is good to find" Mae West

Anus Von Skidmark · 23-08-2019 11:08AM

Day Lewin wrote: »

Cripes, its only a willy, every man has one.

I raise you one Eoin McLove.

Feisar · 23-08-2019 11:15AM

"Yer hurting me"

Best compliment I ever got! and just to add I wouldn't have a weapon of ass destruction or anything.

23-08-2019 11:16AM

Wibbs wrote: »

What the jaysus?

Yeah, oddball weirdo nonsense.

Shoot, rest, go again. Like real men, not this arseholery of the highest order.

All thumbs up arses for your pleasure, death grip and finger pressure to smother a shot.

Weird as fück. Just be a man, stop sticking fingers up your arses and worrying about whether you should lick or suck your missus' clit and how many kinds of orgasms she can have.

Strange AF carry on.

EmmetSpiceland · 23-08-2019 11:25AM

Andreas77 wrote: »

Male is positioned on top of female during thrusts and has felt tingling or slight throbbing sensation around seminal vesicle, urethral sphincter, and territory of bladder. Light emissions are felt by the male but ejaculation is not yet inevitable. In order to lengthen own pleasure he has reached around and firmly pressed with thumb on frenulum. If the male has timed this correctly, he will experience orgasm without emission. Issue here is that procedure could take four to five minutes of stern pressure during which penis may reduce in rigidity. Possibility that male will become self conscious during rutting. Solution: male to withdraw and perform cunnilingus on female until his secretion withdraws back inside his body and he is ready to continue sexual activity.

Sorry, A, but I couldn’t recommend any of that form of delayed gratification, “edging” I believe is what the kids call it.

I’ve posted about it before but I know a guy who used to “dabble” in that sort of thing. He left the frenulum alone and stopped the flow at the perineum, the “barse”, area.

I won’t get into the whole story but the long, and short, of it is that he’d “position” himself over an area of frame at the end of his bed and press himself down to “edge” himself.

This went on for awhile and he’d boast to us about how he could “outlast” any of us with a real woman. Of course, we were a long way from that but still. One time he got over zealous and really care down hard on the frame. He did some internal damage to his “urinary” tract. An ambulance was called and a lame excuse about “slipping and falling” was professed.

To this day the guy has to go in for, what he calls, a “re-bore” every few years. Of course, now it’s all because of some “hero” story of a bad tackle in a soccer match but I know the real reason. I know.

Andreas77 · 23-08-2019 11:45AM

Urethra has become an open wound with secretions which tries to heal by rebinding. Interesting. Which size gauge they use?

Andreas77 · 23-08-2019 11:46AM

Urethra has become an open wound with secretions which tries to heal by rebinding. Interesting. Which size gauge they use?

Wibbs · 23-08-2019 11:48AM

Andreas77 wrote: »

Urethra has become an open wound with secretions which tries to heal by rebinding. Interesting. Which size gauge they use?

It's like reading a bot with autism.

Deebles McBeebles · 23-08-2019 11:49AM

The mention of a "re-bore" has me squirming in my seat. Jesus Christ.

EmmetSpiceland · 23-08-2019 11:53AM

Andreas77 wrote: »

Urethra has become an open wound with secretions which tries to heal by rebinding. Interesting. Which size gauge they use?

Never got into that level of detail with if I’m honest, A. My take on it was it was down to a “scar tissue” build up but that’s just me.

Either way, it sounds like an uncomfortable “procedure”. One I, personally, wouldn’t be volunteering information of at social gatherings.

Porklife · 23-08-2019 12:03PM

I think how much you fancy the guy comes into play (so..many...puns..must resist). I was so attracted to my last boyfriend that I'd almost cum just thinking about him and when he'd touch me I'd melt but it was for him moreso than what he was doing to me.
I have an ex who I hate who was useless in bed and the idea of him repulsed me. Nothing he did could have made me cum. Attraction and sexual chemistry definitely comes into it. When you fancy someone you want to cum for them and with them.

Franz Von Peppercorn II · 23-08-2019 12:29PM

EmmetSpiceland wrote: »

Never got into that level of detail with if I’m honest, A. My take on it was it was down to a “scar tissue” build up but that’s just me.

Either way, it sounds like an uncomfortable “procedure”. One I, personally, wouldn’t be volunteering information of at social gatherings.

And yet you know. Was it his urinary tract that was affected by the way or was that a euphemism.

Addle · 23-08-2019 01:02PM

Feisar wrote: »

"Yer hurting me"

Best compliment I ever got! and just to add I wouldn't have a weapon of ass destruction or anything.

That might not be for the reason you’d like to think...
Babies fit out of there... there’s not much it can’t handle if appropriately prepared.

Anus Von Skidmark · 23-08-2019 01:09PM

Addle wrote: »

That might not be for the reason you’d like to think...
Babies fit out of there... there’s not much it can’t handle if appropriately prepared.

Jaysus, hopefully it's not a certain architect (with a liking for doing a bit of stabbing during sex) posting from prison! :eek:

Porklife · 23-08-2019 01:10PM

Just to add and to take the pressure of the lads, it doesn't really matter anyway, for me anyway. The best sex I've ever had was with a holiday fling in Berlin many moons ago and I still think about him. He didn't make me cum. For me it was the whole sexual experience, from looking at him cross the room to gazing into his eyes as he talked to slowly unbuttoning his shirt and kissing him It was incredible. Having an orgasm is a bonus but it doesn't really matter. Kissing someone you fancy is almost better than sex sometimes. Anticipation, fantasy, teasing, chemistry. All these magic ingredients make a far sweeter pie than climaxing!
So lads, don't worry about it too much is my point. I fear every woman on here may lynch me now...eekk

selwyn froggitt · 23-08-2019 01:11PM

Andreas77 wrote: »

Male is positioned on top of female during thrusts and has felt tingling or slight throbbing sensation around seminal vesicle, urethral sphincter, and territory of bladder. Light emissions are felt by the male but ejaculation is not yet inevitable. In order to lengthen own pleasure he has reached around and firmly pressed with thumb on frenulum. If the male has timed this correctly, he will experience orgasm without emission. Issue here is that procedure could take four to five minutes of stern pressure during which penis may reduce in rigidity. Possibility that male will become self conscious during rutting. Solution: male to withdraw and perform cunnilingus on female until his secretion withdraws back inside his body and he is ready to continue sexual activity.

Is that you Sting?

Female orgasm through penetrative sex

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