Irish Youtuber - cold shower punishment for 2 yr old

dickangel · 19-08-2019 01:49PM

Jesus, yet another thread has descended into absolute tedium. There should be a limit on how often someone can post in a single thread.

Sardonicat · 19-08-2019 01:49PM

ILoveYourVibes wrote: »

No you can't. You could charged.

Are you trying to tell me a parent can't hold a running child back from the road or lift her and hold her against her will? Please enlighten us with another of your informative links

19-08-2019 01:50PM

ILoveYourVibes wrote: »

Well you can't even restrain them now. It would be illegal. So you don't worry.

of course you can restrain children.
how would you keep them in a car seat or pushchair?

ILoveYourVibes · 19-08-2019 01:50PM

Any use of physical force banned.

ILoveYourVibes · 19-08-2019 01:50PM

Deebles McBeebles wrote: »

And he's a parent and a social worker?

Yup. And a dr of child psychology.

Its what it says on his site anyway.

shesty · 19-08-2019 01:51PM

Ah here.Those quotes you are stating need context.

That was about a just-turned two year old boy who they were toilet training.(very early to toilet train-another day's argument). He recommended a number of other ways to deal with the problem in addition to cleaning.He said "some parents recommend" cold water showering...he did not actually recommend it as a solution himself.And he noted that it is a common and yuck problem.

I seriously doubt he would advocate deliberate cold showering of a toddler as a solution.Anyone who has toilet trained kids knows that it just doesn't work that way.

19-08-2019 01:51PM

ILoveYourVibes wrote: »

Any use of physical force banned.

lol
of course you can restrain children, bit of common sense now please!

Sardonicat · 19-08-2019 01:51PM

ILoveYourVibes wrote: »

Any use of physical force banned.

Show me were it's illegal to place a struggling child into a car seat or buggy against its will.

Deebles McBeebles · 19-08-2019 01:53PM

ILoveYourVibes wrote: »

Yup. And a dr of child psychology.

Its what it says on his site anyway.

In DCU you said was it?

ILoveYourVibes · 19-08-2019 01:53PM

bubblypop wrote: »

of course you can restrain children.
how would you keep them in a car seat or pushchair?

Using excessive force to do those.

ILoveYourVibes · 19-08-2019 01:53PM

Deebles McBeebles wrote: »

In DCU you said was it?

that is the one.

Try mars too.

Sardonicat · 19-08-2019 01:54PM

Deebles McBeebles wrote: »

In DCU you said was it?

I thought it was UCD?

What kind of professor is he again?

ILoveYourVibes · 19-08-2019 01:55PM

Sardonicat wrote: »

I thought it was UCD?

What kind of professor is he again?

-_-

retro:electro · 19-08-2019 01:55PM

Anyway, I thought long gone are the days were we tried to traumatise the bad behaviour out of children. It’s something I thought almost everyone was on the same page about but judging by this thread there are clearly some purveyors of harsh treatment for children. At that age, positively enforcing behavioural changes is the only way it should be done. If this isn’t heeded then professional help should be sought to see are there any underlying issues at play. I read elsewhere that this poor kid is fearful of showers in general now. Well done parents, remove one negative behaviour by introducing another. Slow clap. I wonder how they’ll punish her out of that one.
Never liked this family to begin with due to how they shill out the most precious and vulnerable years of their children’s lives for views.

Deebles McBeebles · 19-08-2019 01:55PM

Sardonicat wrote: »

I thought it was UCD?

What kind of professor is he again?

Nah, DCU. He's a doctor of adult psychology I believe. No kids himself.

lawred2 · 19-08-2019 01:55PM

Weird thread

ILoveYourVibes · 19-08-2019 01:57PM

lawred2 wrote: »

Weird thread

I don't know why it even started???

The poster who started it has very few posts which is suspicious.

Sardonicat · 19-08-2019 01:58PM

Deebles McBeebles wrote: »

Nah, DCU. He's a doctor of adult psychology I believe. No kids himself.

And a Social Worker.

They keep his ideas on file
In the filing cabinet.

ILoveYourVibes · 19-08-2019 01:58PM

Deebles McBeebles wrote: »

Nah, DCU. He's a doctor of adult psychology I believe. No kids himself.

Stop trolling.

19-08-2019 01:59PM

ILoveYourVibes wrote: »

The poster who started it has very few posts which is suspicious.

I dont think you're in a position to call anyone's post count suspicious.

PS don't supersoak your kids in freezing water, it's cruel.

ILoveYourVibes · 19-08-2019 01:59PM

Sardonicat wrote: »

And a Social Worker.

They keep his ideas on file
In the filing cabinet.

You have just been a troll this entire thread. Its just entertaining for you.

ILoveYourVibes · 19-08-2019 02:01PM

Omackeral wrote: »

PS don't supersoak your kids in freezing water, it's cruel.

Throws children in freezer.

Deebles McBeebles · 19-08-2019 02:02PM

Omackeral wrote: »

I dont think you're in a position to call anyone's post count suspicious.

PS don't supersoak your kids in freezing water, it's cruel.

At least shell out for some lemonade if you absolutely have to supersoak your kids.

Dr. Jordan Sherry of Trinity would tell you the same.

ILoveYourVibes · 19-08-2019 02:03PM

Deebles McBeebles wrote: »

At least shell out for some lemonade if you absolutely have to supersoak your kids.

Dr. Jordan Sherry of Trinity would tell you the same.

Very sour lemonade i want their eyes to water.

Sardonicat · 19-08-2019 02:03PM

Deebles McBeebles wrote: »

At least shell out for some lemonade if you absolutely have to supersoak your kids.

Dr. Jordan Sherry of Trinity would tell you the same.

No, I don't think you can give em sugar in any form now. Just cold water. To drink only.

ILoveYourVibes · 19-08-2019 02:04PM

Sardonicat wrote: »

No, I don't think you can give em sugar in any form now. Just cold water. To drink only.

Yes no sugar... it causes dying.

SusieBlue · 19-08-2019 02:07PM

shesty wrote: »

Ah here.Those quotes you are stating need context.

That was about a just-turned two year old boy who they were toilet training.(very early to toilet train-another day's argument). He recommended a number of other ways to deal with the problem in addition to cleaning.He said "some parents recommend" cold water showering...he did not actually recommend it as a solution himself.And he noted that it is a common and yuck problem.

I seriously doubt he would advocate deliberate cold showering of a toddler as a solution.Anyone who has toilet trained kids knows that it just doesn't work that way.

So his comments weren't even in the context of a child enaging in fecal smearing and ingesting, but a child who was struggling with toilet training having accidents?

It doesn't take an expert or a genius to notice those two scenarios are worlds apart.

ILYV is being EXTREMELY disengeneous by misrepresenting those comments to support her own agenda.

anewme · 19-08-2019 02:07PM

Ahhhhhh ffs.......................what kind of painful rubbish has yet another thread descended into?

Every thread is going like this, till people just shut off and can't bear any more ****e talk.

It's ruining boards.

Every thread is like an AMA Ask me Anything with one poster.

Or rather ITYE (I'll Tell You Everything (whether you want me to or not))

ILoveYourVibes · 19-08-2019 02:08PM

anewme wrote: »

Ahhhhhh ffs.......................what kind of painful rubbish has yet another thread descended into?

Every thread is going like this, till people just shut off and can't bear any more ****e talk.

It's ruining boards.

Every thread is like an AMA with one poster.

SOrry.

ILoveYourVibes · 19-08-2019 02:09PM

SusieBlue wrote: »

So his comments weren't even in the context of a child enaging in fecal smearing and ingesting, but a child who was struggling with toilet training having accidents?

It doesn't take an expert or a genius to notice those two scenarios are worlds apart.

ILYV is being EXTREMELY disengeneous by misrepresenting those comments to support her own agenda.

Yeah right.
And what agenda???

Irish Youtuber - cold shower punishment for 2 yr old

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