Why so few interracial relationships in Ireland?

Chris_Heilong · 16-04-2019 09:24PM

Can we stop calling people from Pakistan and India Asian, what are we British? Lets do it the American way.:p

kravmaga · 16-04-2019 09:24PM

noubliezjamais wrote: »

There's a lot of relationships between Irish and other Europeans (Spanish, English, Polish, French etc..), Americans and Canadians but I seldom see between Africans or Asians compared to the UK.

Is it an issue with racism or just Ireland hasn't been open to multi-racial immigration long enough like the US and UK.

Get a life will you ffs

Obvious Desperate Breakfasts · 16-04-2019 09:25PM

RWCNT wrote: »

I'm also curious about the ability to determine if people are Brazilian, Irish or Eastern European on sight.

True dat.

Archeron · 16-04-2019 09:28PM

You're taking home an Eskimo whether you like ir not

noubliezjamais · 16-04-2019 09:31PM

Lotus Flower wrote: »

The whole Irish women aren't as great as Polish/ Latvian/ Brazilian/ insert nationality thing crops up every now and again here. So tedious

In my experience, it's only unattractive Irish men/socially awkward men who say Irish women are ugly. Sure other ethnicities may be exotic, but there are definitely many stunning posh women who are of course difficult to get for the average man here giving the impression that they're "high maintenance"

Lotus Flower · 16-04-2019 09:36PM

noubliezjamais wrote: »

In my experience, it's only unattractive Irish men/socially awkward men who say Irish women are ugly. Sure other ethnicities may be exotic, but there are definitely many stunning posh women who are of course difficult to get for the average man here giving the impression that they're "high maintenance"

You see it time and time again here, about Irish women, about women in their 30s and beyond and so on. People have preferences, I get that, but you can have preferences without slating those who don't meet your criteria.

beejee · 16-04-2019 09:38PM

theguzman wrote: »

I myself have dated women from all over the world and am regarded as a bit of a womaniser in social circles, I am currently dating a beautiful Brazilian woman and have been in Brazil already, Latina women are amazing and remind me of a wild mustang, they are firey for sure but if you treat them well and tame them boy will you be rewarded. I have dated Mexican, Filipina, Thai, Iranian, Israeli, Polish, Czech and Russian and a few Irish and American's etc.

I can say by far that Latina women are by far the best, if you marry a Filipina you marry the family unless she has a good job. I was deeply involved with one when I was in the UAE before for over a year and very nearly married her, she dumped me for some weakling 8 stone lad from her own country, I met an amazing Mexican after and once you go Latina you can forget anything else coming close.

Irish women don't do it for me anymore, their expectations are way too high, and suffer badly from alcohol and don't midn their bodies. When I was younger and skint they had zero interest but as my financial fortunes changed later in life I can now see a golddigger a mile off. I must say that the greatest thing to happen to Ireland in recent times has been the massive waves of Latin immigration from Brazil to study English. Not only has it made landlords millionaires it has brought great vibrancy to the city-centre of Dublin and squeezed out alot of the welfare parasite class from rental accommodation also.

Very funny!

My overall observation of dating people from abroad is that its far, far easier. Its like setting the bar low enough that you can step over it.

All of a sudden, instead of actually needing to be an interesting and attractive person (attractive in every sense, not just physical), everything becomes a crutch.

step 1

"theres the halpenny bridge" oh wow!! "you see, at one point people had to pay...."

"In Ireland we eat STEW!" Oh, amazing!
"In galway we have the cliffs of Moher" Fantastic!
"Guinness" unreal!
"in Ireland we do THIS thing!" Oh charming!

Step 2

Hey, lets go to YOUR country, and repeat the same stuff above!

Step 3

Repeat steps 1 and 2 a couple times. Alternatively, skip straight to...

Step 4
Realise that if this person was the irish equivalent, you wouldn't be interested in the slightest. And ditto for the other person.

Had a couple of experiences like that when things are just mucking around. But there are a few people I know and theyre just repeat offenders.

Its a lowbar to make yourself/the other person more interesting, its a bit of self-selector when it goes on and on.

Low hanging fruit :P

buried · 16-04-2019 09:49PM

noubliezjamais wrote: »

In my experience, it's only unattractive Irish men/socially awkward men who say Irish women are ugly. Sure other ethnicities may be exotic, but there are definitely many stunning posh women who are of course difficult to get for the average man here giving the impression that they're "high maintenance"

It's only loudmouth eegits looking to get a rise that troll that absolute horse$hit.

In my experience its the same loudmouths, or so called "cheeky characters" what infest the pubs and nightclubs of this country that spew the exact same lame noise.

dxhound2005 · 16-04-2019 09:51PM

noubliezjamais wrote: »

In my experience, it's only unattractive Irish men/socially awkward men who say Irish women are ugly. Sure other ethnicities may be exotic, but there are definitely many stunning posh women who are of course difficult to get for the average man here giving the impression that they're "high maintenance"

Your experience would not be wide enough to draw any conclusions about Irish men in general. Another person might know a dozen unattractive awkward Irish men none of whom think Irish women are ugly.

Edgware · 16-04-2019 09:52PM

Go black and you'll never go back

dxhound2005 · 16-04-2019 09:54PM

Basically once a white woman dates a black man she's never going back to her family because they will disown her.

beejee · 16-04-2019 09:56PM

Edgware wrote: »

Go black and you'll never go back

Absolutely two very different ways to read that!

beejee · 16-04-2019 09:59PM

buried wrote: »

It's only loudmouth eegits looking to get a rise that troll that absolute horse$hit.

In my experience its the same loudmouths, or so called "cheeky characters" what infest the pubs and nightclubs of this country that spew the exact same lame noise.

He/she has a terrible way of phrasing it, but there is certainly an observable truth about it. As I put it, its just "easier" to be going out with a non-irish person for simple reasons.

What that says about people on both sides of the relationship...whatever!

buried · 16-04-2019 10:05PM

beejee wrote: »

He/she has a terrible way of phrasing it, but there is certainly an observable truth about it. As I put it, its just "easier" to be going out with a non-irish person for simple reasons.

What that says about people on both sides of the relationship...whatever!

Ahh I don't know about that, your just setting a limit or a 'absolute' by thinking like that B. You can't just set some absolute for yourself and cut off some real potential to meet a Irish person based on nothing but simple reasoning, y'know?

You could miss out with that sort of absolute reasoning. I wouldn't be going for it IMO, but sure do what ya want yourself

beejee · 16-04-2019 10:14PM

buried wrote: »

Ahh I don't know about that, your just setting a limit or a 'absolute' by thinking like that B. You can't just set some absolute for yourself and cut off some real potential to meet a Irish person based on nothing but simple reasoning, y'know?

You could miss out with that sort of absolute reasoning. I wouldn't be going for it IMO, but sure do what ya want yourself

Ah youre picking me up wrong (understandable).

Very generally, its like comparing teenage "relationships" to adult relationships. One is easy-come/easy-go, what you might call "easy" in a lot of ways because it doesn't demand the complexities of adult life.

To me its like a case of growing up, being more mature and facing the difficulties of grown-up relationships.

The easy way, generally, is not the best choice.

In other words if I was single I wouldn't be rushing out to meet non-irish people, quite the opposite.

And theres no harm in mucking around when youre early 20's and so, its just fun.

My eyebrows raise when I see people constantly jumping from one foreign nationality to the next, always 6 months to a year long before the tourist-guide stuff runs its course, neverending.

Just observation

Rezident · 16-04-2019 10:26PM

Back in the real world, you will find that the Irish male will stick it absolutely anywhere he can. Perhaps alcohol cures ignorance. I went out with a Chinese girl for a year or so, was very pleasantly surprised at the purple vagina, it was beautiful.

And my female friends have definitely gotten jungle fever on more than one occasion. Never seen them with an Asian man now that you mention it but I'm not going to read anything into that, as Asians don't really seem to mix as much - where are all the Asians on a night out? ANS: in an Asian only place, walked in to on accidentally one night - the old Isaac Butts - 100% full of Asians, it was weird but I guess they prefer to no integrate as much.

OP sounds like Yuri Gagarin flying up into space and saying he can't see God therefore there is no God!

rgodard80a · 16-04-2019 10:47PM

noubliezjamais wrote: »

Is it an issue with racism or just Ireland hasn't been open to multi-racial immigration long enough like the US and UK.

Peoples attraction to another person is not subject to "racism" anymore than not being attracted to a granny is considered ageism.

theguzman · 16-04-2019 10:49PM

RWCNT wrote: »

I'm also curious about the ability to determine if people are Brazilian, Irish or Eastern European on sight.

I have a fantastic sense of geography, plus language recognition also. I was in a nightclub in Dubai two years ago and had been spying on a fair maiden for a bit, It was obvious she was central Asian and I penned her in as Kazakh, I approached her rather sheepishly and asked her what the weather was like in Almaty right now, it went down an absolute charm and her English was excellent. That was a very good night, turns out she was from Astana but her mother was from Almaty.

I think certain things just come naturally, especially if you spend enough time around airports and travelling the world, the more you study the human psyche and female mind the more interesting it gets. I can listen to a person talking I would be able to categorise them to their country fairly easy.

pinktoe · 16-04-2019 10:56PM

noubliezjamais wrote: »

Is it an issue with racism or just Ireland hasn't been open to multi-racial immigration long enough like the US and UK.

So if an Irish person isn't attracted to a certain race, they are automatically racist? How stupid are you OP?

Church on Tuesday · 16-04-2019 11:02PM

We tend to stick with our own, same if we go overseas.

An Irish person going out with a colored person is still seen as kinda odd, why I don't know.

noubliezjamais · 16-04-2019 11:04PM

pinktoe wrote: »

So if an Irish person isn't attracted to a certain race, they are automatically racist? How stupid are you OP?

I got less than 100 points last year on my LC so, I'm not the brightest bulb in the kitchen

SEPT 23 1989 · 16-04-2019 11:21PM

Purple vaginas

Jungle fever

Merciful hour

Strumms · 16-04-2019 11:31PM

SEPT 23 1989 wrote: »

Purple vaginas

Jungle fever

Merciful hour

I’m going to have to say a decade of the rosary.:eek:

Gimme A Pound · 16-04-2019 11:42PM

There are very few non white folk here.

Who you're in a relationship with (or not) has nothing to do with racism ffs.

kowloon · 16-04-2019 11:45PM

Your Face wrote: »

You see all sorts when you go outside.

That's what I'm afraid of.

condra · 22-06-2020 08:11PM

Short answer: Because Irish law discriminates against Irish citizens who wish to marry those from outside EU.

dartboardio · 23-06-2020 01:13AM

Not rocket science.

Ireland is a small country.

You see less variety.

Simple

John Doe1 · 23-06-2020 02:40AM

Ireland and especially outside of Dublin has few non-white people as a portion of the population compared to the UK and other wealthier European countries hence fewer inter-racial relationships.

It aint rocket science pal.

Also, there is nothing wrong with White Irish people intermarrying other White Irish people. It does not signify racism....

Quantum Erasure · 23-06-2020 05:16AM

A mate of mine is in a mixed marriage, he married a protestant

dwayneshintzy · 23-06-2020 05:19AM

condra wrote: »

Short answer: Because Irish law discriminates against Irish citizens who wish to marry those from outside EU.

How so?

Why so few interracial relationships in Ireland?

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