French author, 50, says he's incapable of loving a woman of 50

mzungu · 12-01-2019 12:34am

obby1 wrote: »

denial is a terrible thing.
open you eyes and mind, what i posted is true
if it is false it should be easy to shoot down, but it is the truth so one one can.
bitter single childless women in their 40's are everywhere, we all know this to be true, you probably know plenty, getting blotto on wine and then melancholy wash over them as they realise they chose the wrong path.
Feminism has screwed these women big time

There are way more men in their 40s that fit that description* tbh. Are you projecting here perchance?

*Granted it is a mindless stereotype regardless

obby1 · 12-01-2019 12:34am

Lotus Flower wrote: »

Does it really count as a different opinion when you're re-registering to post pretty much exactly the same thing as before?

what are you rattling on about?

obby1 · 12-01-2019 12:35am

mzungu wrote: »

There are way more men in their 40s that fit that description* tbh. Are you projecting here perchance?

*Granted it is a mindless stereotype regardless

never stated there was not
this whole discussion is about 40 year old women are not as attractive as women in their 20's
some posters are in denial of this fact

anewme · 12-01-2019 12:38am

obby1 wrote: »

denial is a terrible thing.
open you eyes and mind, what i posted is true
if it is false it should be easy to shoot down, but it is the truth so one one can.
bitter single childless women in their 40's are everywhere, we all know this to be true, you probably know plenty, getting blotto on wine and then melancholy wash over them as they realise they chose the wrong path.
Feminism has screwed these women big time

Harsh as it may sound, bitter people ranting such as yourself don't have any real impact on people's lives as there's no added value.

You must have had a few too many Chardonnays yourself.

dark crystal · 12-01-2019 12:39am

obby1 wrote: »

denial is a terrible thing.
open you eyes and mind, what i posted is true
if it is false it should be easy to shoot down, but it is the truth so one one can.
bitter single childless women in their 40's are everywhere, we all know this to be true, you probably know plenty, getting blotto on wine and then melancholy wash over them as they realise they chose the wrong path.
Feminism has screwed these women big time

Wine and melancholy is so 2013 dahling, it's gin and rabid man-hating now. Get with the program dude!

Anyway, what's a smart young buck like you doing on an internet forum on a Friday night anyway? You should be out sowing your wild oats and showing the young ladies what they're missing.

Did the parents ground you again?

Mrsmum · 12-01-2019 12:40am

LETHAL LADY wrote: »

It would appear, well from reading some posts, that only women age. The streets of Eire is packed with Redfords and Clooneys for the stale bread to ogle.
What about the very low hanging fruits, the inability (without the auld blue pills of course) to get and maintain an erection, the expanding waistline, and the hairline disappearing? Just some of the cruel gentleman's aging processes they can to look forward to.
Yer man is entitled to have his preference and will probably succeed and more luck to him if he does.

Bolded above led me to Google re the sex life of men as they age. Dear oh dear, not good news.

greencap · 12-01-2019 12:41am

glasso wrote: »

In fairness some guys have displayed bitterness in this discussion - one even said outright that that was the case with him.

.

To get past the inevitable name calling and sidetracking that inevitably happens when you speak about such topics.

Go on to any sensitive topic, political, social, or sporting, drop a few difficult truths.

See if you're not called x,y,z within a few posts. It absolutely will happen.

So better to just say yes I am a communist, racist, chelsea fan.
Rather than spend 8 pages explaining who you actually are.

Our instincts are wired certain ways thanks to evolution. And so we behave certain ways.
So society reflects all those instincts in all those people out there.

What does a cat do when you dangle a string?
Essentially the same thing almost every cat does 99.9% of the time.

Because that results in food. Which means cats with that instinct survive.

Who do women end up with?
Statistically men a good few years older, healthy, with solid predictable status, and with more income than the woman.

Because that results in well provided for babies, with a dependable male protector.

How much time does a young woman have in which to find such a man?
Well, not so much really. 10, 12, 15 years.

So the sorting process has to be pretty categorical and cut throat.
In the civil polite sense of course.

Just nature.

And when time runs out, and the tables get turned, egos get bruised in some cases.

Now while this author guy says he couldn't love a woman over 50 while at the age of 50 himself, I believe I will be able to. But hey, if thats how he's wired then its not much different to how women categorize young men, getting started in their lives.

our instincts are very utilitarian in this regard, its a case of 'what use is he/she to my procreation'

he's to weak to provide and protect.
she's too infertile to reproduce my genes.

If this author guy is catching grief from women on here, then maybe they should think to how they themselves classified/classify men.

Research has been done on this, changing job titles and incomes of sample men alters their attractiveness score.

So theres your high and mighty. How spiritual, how understanding, and human and sensitive. cold hard cash.

Are you capable of loving a low wage earning, low status man.

Do you think a woman who says she couldn't do so is all manner of scumbag?

Sardonicat · 12-01-2019 12:43am

obby1 wrote: »

the denial is palatable ,

What, like fresh crusty bread.?

I'm concerned you won't get your JC English at this rate. It's only a few months away now, you know. You really do need that thesaurus or you're fu**ed, boy.

Lotus Flower · 12-01-2019 12:47am

obby1 wrote: »

what are you rattling on about?

So you're not a poster who has re-registered a new account after posting on this thread under a different name with a similar writing style and almost the same message. Must be a coincidence then

obby1 · 12-01-2019 12:55am

Lotus Flower wrote: »

So you're not a poster who has re-registered a new account after posting on this thread under a different name with a similar writing style and almost the same message. Must be a coincidence then

circling the wagons, literally , dont like alternative view points, try brand me as someone else and get banned , pathetic.

Sardonicat · 12-01-2019 12:57am

obby1 wrote: »

Lotus Flower wrote: »

So you're not a poster who has re-registered a new account after posting on this thread under a different name with a similar writing style and almost the same message. Must be a coincidence then

circling the wagons, literally , dont like alternative view points, try brand me as someone else and get banned , pathetic.

You see, if you'd got that dictionary and thesaurus like we recommended we wouldn't have rumbled you so fast "Obby1"

obby1 · 12-01-2019 12:58am

Lotus Flower wrote: »

So you're not a poster who has re-registered a new account after posting on this thread under a different name with a similar writing style and almost the same message. Must be a coincidence then

i can categorically state as of this post i have only 27 posts on this site, all in the last few hours.
you and others dont like different options, no wonder you can't accept men prefer younger women, your world view is boxed of from feminism, you ilk are to be pitied

LETHAL LADY · 12-01-2019 12:59am

Another thing I'm slightly confused about is that the women (in their fresh bread phase) who were nasty towards men would still be hankered after by those who felt they were treated badly at the time. Gluten for punishment springs to mind if you pardon the pun.

Sardonicat · 12-01-2019 12:59am

Or perhaps English isn't your first language?

obby1 · 12-01-2019 1:00am

Sardonicat wrote: »

You see, if you'd got that dictionary and thesaurus like we recommended we wouldn't have rumbled you so fast "Obby1"

sardonic and cat, perfectly sums up the lonely life of a single 40 something feminist

anewme · 12-01-2019 1:02am

Very poor language and communication skills can make posts difficult to interpret.

Lotus Flower · 12-01-2019 1:03am

obby1 wrote: »

the denial is palatable , it is seeping through the screen.
a fare statement, a woman would prefer a 6" man over a 5" man, no one would deny this.
so why is it so hard for the female posters to accept a man would prefer a younger woman?

Doubt many women would choose men with a height of 5 or 6 inches, to be fair. Now, 5'10" or 5'11", etc, that's a different story

Or maybe you're referring to penis size?

Sardonicat · 12-01-2019 1:04am

obby1 wrote: »

Sardonicat wrote: »

You see, if you'd got that dictionary and thesaurus like we recommended we wouldn't have rumbled you so fast "Obby1"

sardonic and cat, perfectly sums up the lonely life of a single 40 something feminist

Except I'm not single. That would be you.
Why are you so mean, child? I'm trying to help you improve your status so you can avoid us mouldy bread rolls and have your pick of freshly baked (and pass your Junior Cert English)

Sardonicat · 12-01-2019 1:05am

Lotus Flower wrote: »

obby1 wrote: »

the denial is palatable , it is seeping through the screen.
a fare statement, a woman would prefer a 6" man over a 5" man, no one would deny this.
so why is it so hard for the female posters to accept a man would prefer a younger woman?

Doubt many women would choose men with a height of 5 or 6 inches, to be fair. Now, 5'10" or 5'11", etc, that's a different story

Or maybe you're referring to penis size?

The shorter the jockey, the longer the whip (so they say).

obby1 · 12-01-2019 1:07am

anewme wrote: »

Very poor language and communication skills can make posts difficult to interpret.

years of drinking wine to numb the pain of being sold a feminist lie, will catch up with you, will kill of brain cells left right and centre.

Now as a man i wonder , why aint washed up single, childless feminists passing on knowledge of where they went wrong to the younger generation of women, help them avoid the same mistakes?

obby1 · 12-01-2019 1:08am

Sardonicat wrote: »

Except I'm not single.

aha a millitant lesbian man hater

dark crystal · 12-01-2019 1:08am

obby1 wrote: »

sardonic and cat, perfectly sums up the lonely life of a single 40 something feminist

And yet here you are, in the prime of manhood, banging away on a keyboard instead of a young wan of a Friday night.

Sardonicat · 12-01-2019 1:10am

obby1 wrote: »

Sardonicat wrote: »

Except I'm not single.

aha a millitant lesbian man hater

Nope. Sorry to disappoint.

obby1 · 12-01-2019 1:11am

dark crystal wrote: »

And yet here you are, in the prime of manhood, banging away on a keyboard instead of a young wan of a Friday night.

im a married man

ceadaoin. · 12-01-2019 1:12am

obby1 wrote: »

aha a millitant lesbian man hater

Oh ffs.

Sardonicat · 12-01-2019 1:13am

obby1 wrote: »

anewme wrote: »

Very poor language and communication skills can make posts difficult to interpret.

years of drinking wine to numb the pain of being sold a feminist lie, will catch up with you, will kill of brain cells left right and centre.

It's time for you to lay off the Liebsfraumilch.

Sardonicat · 12-01-2019 1:14am

obby1 wrote: »

dark crystal wrote: »

And yet here you are, in the prime of manhood, banging away on a keyboard instead of a young wan of a Friday night.

im a married man

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obby1 · 12-01-2019 1:15am

LETHAL LADY wrote: »

Another thing I'm slightly confused about is that the women (in their fresh bread phase) who were nasty towards men would still be hankered after by those who felt they were treated badly at the time? Gluten for punishment springs to mind if you pardon the pun.

a challenge
a spite ride.
a pump and dump

LETHAL LADY · 12-01-2019 1:17am

obby1 wrote: »

a challenge
a spite ride.
a pump and dump

Sounds delightful altogether

Sardonicat · 12-01-2019 1:19am

obby1 wrote: »

LETHAL LADY wrote: »

Another thing I'm slightly confused about is that the women (in their fresh bread phase) who were nasty towards men would still be hankered after by those who felt they were treated badly at the time? Gluten for punishment springs to mind if you pardon the pun.

a challenge
a spite ride.
a pump and dump

Would none of the above entertain you more than demonstrating your semi literate ranting skills on a Friday night?

dark crystal · 12-01-2019 1:19am

obby1 wrote: »

im a married man

Ah g'way outta that....sure you'd need special dispensation to marry at your age. Not even the Junior Cert behind ya.

obby1 · 12-01-2019 1:20am

Sardonicat wrote: »

Ha Ha Ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha. ..

was 35 when i married my 28 year old wife, 3 happy healthy children later, she is a happy healthy woman, now a few of her single 40 something, childless female friends, there not so happy, bitter cold hearted is what they are, the only emotion is the odd occasion the wife tells me they where sobbing about how they fcuked up their life, by chasing a career and should have had a family

obby1 · 12-01-2019 1:21am

Sardonicat wrote: »

Would none of the above entertain you more than demonstrating your semi literate ranting skills on a Friday night?

tis a saturday morning where i am

ceadaoin. · 12-01-2019 1:26am

obby1 wrote: »

was 35 when i married my 28 year old wife, 3 happy healthy children later, she is a happy healthy woman, now a few of her single 40 something, childless female friends, there not so happy, bitter cold hearted is what they are, the only emotion is the odd occasion the wife tells me they where sobbing about how they fcuked up their life, by chasing a career and should have had a family

What are you doing with a post wall woman, have you not traded up yet?

obby1 · 12-01-2019 1:32am

dark crystal wrote: »

Ah g'way outta that....sure you'd need special dispensation to marry at your age..

here i a tip for the young men reading this,
always go straight for the hottest woman in any situation , the 10, the fact is you are going to get shot down 99 times out of 100, it might as well be by beautiful women and not the stuck up munters with a high opinion of themselves.
Set a standard, lets say a 7, under no circumstances settle for anything less, if you are seen with munters the 10's will automatically believe you know you are only worthy of munters, you will be brander a looser. Forget about the hot women ever taking interest in you after you are associated with munters, the 10 will not want to be in the same category.
Those hot women who dismissed you when in there 20's will be singing a different tune when they are in early 30's single and childless.

You will have your pick of them, they know the clock is ticking, and you as the man hold all the cards

obby1 · 12-01-2019 1:33am

ceadaoin. wrote: »

What are you doing with a post wall woman, have you not traded up yet?

she was fine as can be when i put a ring on it

Sardonicat · 12-01-2019 1:36am

obby1 wrote: »

dark crystal wrote: »

Ah g'way outta that....sure you'd need special dispensation to marry at your age..

here i a tip for the young men reading this,
always go straight for the hottest woman in any situation , the 10, the fact is you are going to get shot down 99 times out of 100, it might as well be by beautiful women and not the stuck up munters with a high opinion of themselves.
Set a standard, lets say a 7, under no circumstances settle for anything less, if you are seen with munters the 10's will automatically believe you know you are only worthy of munters, you will be brander a looser. Forget about the hot women ever taking interest in you after you are associated with munters, the 10 will not want to be in the same category.
Those hot women who dismissed you when in there 20's will be singing a different tune when they are in early 30's single and childless.

You will have your pick of them, they know the clock is ticking, and you as the man hold all the cards

Stop banging the keyboard so hard. It might wake up your mammy. And post wall women get very cranky when they don't get their sleep.

Sardonicat · 12-01-2019 1:38am

obby1 wrote: »

Sardonicat wrote: »

Would none of the above entertain you more than demonstrating your semi literate ranting skills on a Friday night?

tis a saturday morning where i am

Narnia?
Westeros?

obby1 · 12-01-2019 1:50am

lovely stuff
the feminist have been silenced
they have no reply to the facts i posted
feminism has sold a lie to women
getting married having kids is prison, working to make someone else rich is freedom
these single childless 40 somethings now know they fcked up following a false religion
the feminist wasted her youth and looks working, when she should have been finding a man and starting a family.
the married 40 something woman re-enters the work force, she finds these bitter harpies full of anger
the sad part is they are the architects of their own misfortune
the married woman goes home to her children every evening, the harpies go home to drink cheap wine
a french man states a fact, younger women are more attractive, the bitter feminist blows a fuse
the truth hurts

Lotus Flower · 12-01-2019 1:52am

obby1 wrote: »

here i a tip for the young men reading this,
always go straight for the hottest woman in any situation , the 10, the fact is you are going to get shot down 99 times out of 100, it might as well be by beautiful women and not the stuck up munters with a high opinion of themselves.
Set a standard, lets say a 7, under no circumstances settle for anything less, if you are seen with munters the 10's will automatically believe you know you are only worthy of munters, you will be brander a looser. Forget about the hot women ever taking interest in you after you are associated with munters, the 10 will not want to be in the same category.
Those hot women who dismissed you when in there 20's will be singing a different tune when they are in early 30's single and childless.

You will have your pick of them, they know the clock is ticking, and you as the man hold all the cards

Awww, bless. Spelling needs a bit of work but props for imagination. Not a bad effort at all, keep it up and you might get a D in English (ordinary level)

Lotus Flower · 12-01-2019 1:56am

obby1 wrote: »

lovely stuff
the feminist have been silenced
they have no reply to the facts i posted
feminism has sold a lie to women
getting married having kids is prison, working to make someone else rich is freedom
these single childless 40 somethings now know they fcked up following a false religion
the feminist wasted her youth and looks working, when she should have been finding a man and starting a family.
the married 40 something woman re-enters the work force, she finds these bitter harpies full of anger
the sad part is they are the architects of their own misfortune
the married woman goes home to her children every evening, the harpies go home to drink cheap wine
a french man states a fact, younger women are more attractive, the bitter feminist blows a fuse
the truth hurts

Hi again, DS86DS!

pq0n1ct4ve8zf5 · 12-01-2019 2:00am

Sardonicat wrote: »

Narnia?
Westeros?

Manosphere, I think you'll find.

A magical world where every woman is either a 20-something high value piece o' puss or a 40+ shrivelled up old cat loving bitter bitch, and every man an Everyman victim of *gasp* feminism or a woke hero who sees through it.

Distinguishable from the real world by...well, everything.

Sardonicat · 12-01-2019 2:00am

Lotus Flower wrote: »

obby1 wrote: »

here i a tip for the young men reading this,
always go straight for the hottest woman in any situation , the 10, the fact is you are going to get shot down 99 times out of 100, it might as well be by beautiful women and not the stuck up munters with a high opinion of themselves.
Set a standard, lets say a 7, under no circumstances settle for anything less, if you are seen with munters the 10's will automatically believe you know you are only worthy of munters, you will be brander a looser. Forget about the hot women ever taking interest in you after you are associated with munters, the 10 will not want to be in the same category.
Those hot women who dismissed you when in there 20's will be singing a different tune when they are in early 30's single and childless.

You will have your pick of them, they know the clock is ticking, and you as the man hold all the cards

Awww, bless. Spelling needs a bit of work but props for imagination. Not a bad effort at all, keep it up and you might get a D in English (ordinary level)

No imagination for spewing 20 yo PUA nonsense. It's an F from me .

dark crystal · 12-01-2019 2:02am

obby1 wrote: »

lovely stuff
the feminist have been silenced
they have no reply to the facts i posted
feminism has sold a lie to women
getting married having kids is prison, working to make someone else rich is freedom
these single childless 40 somethings now know they fcked up following a false religion
the feminist wasted her youth and looks working, when she should have been finding a man and starting a family.
the married 40 something woman re-enters the work force, she finds these bitter harpies full of anger
the sad part is they are the architects of their own misfortune
the married woman goes home to her children every evening, the harpies go home to drink cheap wine
a french man states a fact, younger women are more attractive, the bitter feminist blows a fuse
the truth hurts

obby1 · 12-01-2019 2:08am

Tommy Kind Parakeet wrote: »

Manosphere, I think you'll find.

A magical world where every woman is either a 20-something high value piece o' puss or a 40+ shrivelled up old cat loving bitter bitch, and every man an Everyman victim of *gasp* feminism or a woke hero who sees through it.

Distinguishable from the real world by...well, everything.

she was smoking hot when i married her at 28, she is now early 40's a happy well adjusted mother of 3, still hot stuff.

i imagine all of the 40 something feminist harpies posting in this discussion are drinking a carton of Lidl wine through a straw, hating on life

obby1 · 12-01-2019 2:12am

Sardonicat wrote: »

No imagination for spewing 20 yo PUA nonsense. It's an F from me .

had to google PUA, a sad indictment of this time, women so poisoned by feminism , they have walled of there natural urges to follow the feminist lie, men have to resort to trickery to pull

Lotus Flower · 12-01-2019 2:17am

obby1 wrote: »

she was smoking hot when i married her at 28, she is now early 40's a happy well adjusted mother of 3, still hot stuff.

i imagine all of the 40 something feminist harpies posting in this discussion are drinking a carton of Lidl wine through a straw, hating on life

Is your "wife" not wondering why you're spending your Saturday on Boards spewing bile instead of being with her and your kids?

Lotus Flower · 12-01-2019 2:21am

Answer: of course she's not wondering because she doesn't exist :pac:

Also, not in my 40s and don't drink, sorry to disappoint again

ceadaoin. · 12-01-2019 2:48am

obby1 wrote: »

she was smoking hot when i married her at 28, she is now early 40's a happy well adjusted mother of 3, still hot stuff.

i imagine all of the 40 something feminist harpies posting in this discussion are drinking a carton of Lidl wine through a straw, hating on life

Where are they? I'm not single, am a mother and not in my 40s and although I have been known to drink wine through a straw (keeps the teeth white), never from a carton. Maybe all that will change once I get post wall though who knows

Calina · 12-01-2019 9:21am

obby1 wrote: »

its slowly starting to dawn on women that feminism as sold to them has been a lie.
get married, stay at home and raise children, well thats bad, you are trapped, a prisoner.
go to work for 40 hours a week in a office, in a job you hate, making money for your boss, thats real freedom ladies
now these women who went full feminist are in mid 30's , single and childless, their looks are fading and they are competing with 20-30 year old younger prettier girls for the attention of men, its a loosing game, of course they can become easy, a sure thing and get male attention, but not the ring on the finger they crave.
Next they claim they have left the party scene behind, fact is it was not your choice, you just dont get invited anymore.
in their 40's now, alone and bitter, you know feminist BS has screwed your life but to proud to admit you where wrong, at least older men pass on advice to younger men, but older women perpetrate the lie, they want to have more women join their miserable ranks

The advice I pass on is it is better to be comfortable in yourself than being beaten up by your life partner. What screwed my life was Catholic guilt but ymmv.

I am not miserable. You sound it though.

French author, 50, says he's incapable of loving a woman of 50

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