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What do you find attractive?

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  • #32
    Dalomanakora
    Closed Accounts Posts: 608 ✭✭✭Dalomanakora


    A pulse :)


  • #33
    oceanman
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,782 ✭✭✭oceanman


    nice boobs
    nice ass
    nice smile
    not too much going on between the ears suits me fine...


  • #34
    andekwarhola
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,640 ✭✭✭andekwarhola


    Outside of the usual attractiveness thing (in itself, usually you have a type that you often end up disregarding), I can take a broad range of temperaments or personalities but I couldn't bear somebody that was mean spirited, spiteful or bitchy.

    Things like the way they dress, drive or their voice being a matter of attraction...well each to their own.

    Also I'd rather be single my whole life than date somebody that genuinely has a long laundry list of trivial requirements for a potential partner.


  • #35
    SEPT 23 1989
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 43,039 ✭✭✭✭SEPT 23 1989


    The total opposite of me and I married her


  • #36
    Try_harder
    Closed Accounts Posts: 3,681 ✭✭✭Try_harder


    Shoulders- defined shoulders


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  • #37
    northgirl
    Closed Accounts Posts: 4,434 ✭✭✭northgirl


    Chemistry, honesty & kindness. Straight up about their desires and expectations.


  • #38
    Paddy Cow
    Closed Accounts Posts: 6,576 ✭✭✭Paddy Cow


    vectorvictor wrote: »
    Indecisiveness and wont just answer a bloody question without overanalyzing and generally don't recognise what they have to offer and put themselves down with no reason and when they have loads to offer a potential partner.

    I would be of a state of my mind now where I know getting involved with an Irish girl would be hard work whereas an English girl would be uncomplicated and straightforward.
    I think Ireland and the UK are both passive aggressive societies. People are expected to be "nice" and aren't as assertive as say the Americans. You notice the difference big time in reality shows. In the UK ones it's all about the contestants being "nice" to each other and are major popularity contests. In the American ones they are ruthless and make pacts to get other's voted out. It's more important to be a go getter, than a do gooder. I've found Eastern Europeans and Russians to be quite frank and upfront. They don't tend to pussy foot around things.


  • #39
    eviltwin
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 17,495 ✭✭✭✭eviltwin


    Kindness


  • #40
    [Deleted User]
    Posts: 5,422 ✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    Wicked sense of humour and a keen emotional intelligence.


  • #41
    0cp71eyxkb94qf
    Closed Accounts Posts: 198 ✭✭0cp71eyxkb94qf


    A nice ass and an infectious laugh. Non-feminazi.


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  • #42
    ERG89
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 11,611 ✭✭✭✭ERG89


    Thick framed glasses.
    Dark hair & brown eyes combo.
    Fringe.
    Not being afraid to say anything even if others won't agree.
    I think thats basically Claudia Winkleman with glasses :o


  • #43
    KathleenGrant
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,790 ✭✭✭KathleenGrant


    Honesty, kindness and positivity. Negative people are hard work.


  • #44
    BilboBagOfCans
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 70 ✭✭BilboBagOfCans


    Glasses on a man also makes me weak!


  • #45
    arybvtcw0eolkf
    Closed Accounts Posts: 24,608 ✭✭✭✭arybvtcw0eolkf


    Sporty.. I find athlete women very attractive. But then I've always been involved in sports so probably not surprising.

    A girl who can be one of the lads, who laughs easily and doesn't take herself too seriously but who won't stand for sh*t if its thrown her way.

    These are the type of women whose company I enjoy.

    Sexually I've only eyes for one woman, and its not a wondering eye.


  • #46
    Wibbs
    Moderators, Science, Health & Environment Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 60,326 Mod ✭✭✭✭Wibbs


    Paddy Cow wrote: »
    I've found Eastern Europeans and Russians to be quite frank and upfront. They don't tend to pussy foot around things.
    +1 If a Russian lass asks you "does my arse look big in this?" she expects an honest reply, which can be both refreshing and terrifying. :D

    Many worry about Artificial Intelligence. I worry far more about Organic Idiocy.



  • #47
    ArchXStanton
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,912 ✭✭✭ArchXStanton


    Wibbs wrote: »
    Depends entirely on the lady in question and ones personal taste as far as padding goes.

    Nothing worse, than a one that has an arse like two chickens fighting inside a pillow case when she moves... Especially when they wear those tight trousers with "BABE" emblazoned on the arse of them.


  • #48
    Immortal Starlight
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,231 ✭✭✭Immortal Starlight


    Honesty.


  • #49
    Yer Da sells Avon
    Closed Accounts Posts: 3,737 ✭✭✭Yer Da sells Avon


    Hilarity.


  • #50
    Jessie Belle
    Closed Accounts Posts: 74 ✭✭Jessie Belle


    10 inches.
















    I spelled fingers incorrectly again didnt I?:/


  • #51
    andekwarhola
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,640 ✭✭✭andekwarhola


    ERG89 wrote: »
    Thick framed glasses.
    Dark hair & brown eyes combo.
    Fringe.
    Not being afraid to say anything even if others won't agree.

    Your brain must not be able to process all the concurrent love you feel when you walk into any bar in Dublin filled with people in their 20s.


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  • #52
    Junkyard Tom
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,116 ✭✭✭✭Junkyard Tom


    ERG89 wrote: »
    Thick framed glasses.
    Dark hair & brown eyes combo.
    Fringe.
    Not being afraid to say anything even if others won't agree.

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7hyIlrfGR5g


  • #53
    Carlingford Locked
    Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 84 ✭✭Carlingford Locked


    Wibbs wrote: »
    +1 If a Russian lass asks you "does my arse look big in this?" she expects an honest reply, which can be both refreshing and terrifying. :D

    **Generalisation alert** Have you ever actually been with a woman™?


  • #54
    Triceratops Ballet
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,894 ✭✭✭Triceratops Ballet


    When someone is intelligent, curious and passionate when they talk, when they're just "switched on" and engaged I find it very attractive, and that makes up for a lot for me looks wise. Also someone who doesn't underestimate me, can keep up, and doesn't project their baggage or insecurities on me (big ask I know)

    Physically in an ideal scenario, tall, long ish hair, broad good shoulders, great thighs, nice hands... I don't want much!

    In reality most of the men I've dated, have been way more on the nerdy side and look nothing like the above so the 1st paragraph is most relevant.


  • #55
    mickmackmcgoo
    Users Awaiting Email Confirmation Posts: 950 ✭✭✭mickmackmcgoo


    Eyes that light up.
    Cheeky smile
    Long legs a bonus


  • #56
    DrPhilG
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 12,947 ✭✭✭✭DrPhilG


    Aside from the usual, long hair is my weakness. The likes of Angelina Jolie in her prime, or Salma Hayek any time were/are absolutely gorgeous with their hair down.

    Obviously that's just one aspect. Stick a long hair wig on Theresa May and it ain't cutting it. But my point is that long hair is often the first thing I'll notice when a pretty girl walks past.


  • #57
    AMKC
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 17,875 ✭✭✭✭AMKC
    Ms


    Someone open minded,

    Caring,

    honest,

    straightforward,

    no bulsh'it,

    good sense of humour just like myself :)

    Someone that loves pets and dogs.

    Someone adventurous and willing to try new things,

    Someone to just enjoy life with,

    Yep that's all folks.

    Live long and Prosper

    Peace and long life.



  • #58
    _Kaiser_
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 29,270 ✭✭✭✭_Kaiser_


    Ah damn.. I had a post all written up, but accidentally clicked back on the phone..

    What I like in a woman :
    - relaxed, upfront attitude and sense of humour. Ideally you can be completely comfortable with each other
    - knows herself and her own mind and what she wants and can express it
    - can hold a conversation about more than soaps, social media or celebrity shyte
    - nice eyes, cheeky smile and cheeky streak to go with it
    - curves. The wafer thin look does nothing for me.

    Turn offs :
    - drama, game playing or hot and cold nonsense
    - drug use or excessive alcohol consumption
    - not a big fan of tattoos, especially if they've loads of them. Same applies to multiple piercings or "loud" hair colours
    - high maintenance princesses. I like to treat someone right and do nice things for them anyway, but no interest in being an ATM either.

    I don't want much, do I? As it's AH though, PM me ladies :p


  • #59
    PuppyMcPupFace
    Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 255 ✭✭PuppyMcPupFace


    Tall, athletic build, three days stubble and by God am putty!!!!


  • #60
    Super-Rush
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 19,473 ✭✭✭✭Super-Rush


    Can the op please expand on the driving part?


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  • #61
    [Deleted User]
    Posts: 21,740 ✭✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    Triceratops Ballet wrote: »
    When someone is intelligent, curious and passionate when they talk, when they're just "switched on" and engaged I find it very attractive, and that makes up for a lot for me looks wise. Also someone who doesn't underestimate me, can keep up, and doesn't project their baggage or insecurities on me (big ask I know)

    I'm impatient, selfish, a little insecure. I make mistakes, I am out of control and at times hard to handle. But if you can't handle me at my worst, then you sure as hell don't deserve me at my best.


    :D


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