What's the craic (pun intended) with anal sex?

With anal I assume men always were a condom? Or do people go without, which is kinda weird considering what usual comes out of the anus

Not into it myself. It feels like a hollow hole, like I may as well be putting it in the wall, and you get all the same sensations from doing vaginal doggy. As someone said, a vagina is like a custom built home for a dick: it's wet, it's warm, it's...welcoming. There's a lot of fun to be had down there, don't get me wrong, but just anal in particular doesn't do it for me and is generally painful for girls so there's nothing to be gained by them putting up with that.

I think it's one of the things porn has glorified because it seems taboo and, from talking to other lads I know who like it, I think there's a power thing at play too rather than it being physically pleasurable in that they enjoy getting someone to do something that's uncomfortable because it's an ego boost. Now that's not a judgement/criticism, if that gets off two consenting adults more power to them. I've just never had anyone be able to explain to me sufficiently why they actually enjoy it and what exactly makes it good for them.

Zorya wrote: »

How do you know what kind of orgasm is most intense, you don't have a vagina I don't know if a man's orgasm is more intense than a womans

(Ahem....Whispers Multiple, though )

I wasn't talking about female orgasms. I meant, for me, an orgasm from anal stimulation (entry in my ass) is much more intense than say, a regular handjob or blowjob orgasm.

neonsofa wrote: »

There's a lot of nerve endings there. It can also indirectly stimulate the clit (the internal part like) and the g spot. There is also the full feeling. Plus some people enjoy pain with their pleasure.

So there's that.

That's fair. Like I said, if two consenting adults enjoy it, have at it and good for them! I'd do it if a girl was really into it and wanted to, I'd do it like. It's just, for me, it's like having a 5-star hotel right with all modcons next to an abandoned shack and choosing to stay in the shack.

leggo wrote: »

That's fair. Like I said, if two consenting adults enjoy it, have at it and good for them! I'd do it if a girl was really into it and wanted to, I'd do it like. It's just, for me, it's like having a 5-star hotel right with all modcons next to an abandoned shack and choosing to stay in the shack.

It's okay I'm not trying to convince you :pac:

Just explaining that it's actually physically pleasurable for many women and not just about "putting up" with it for the mans pleasure or whatever.

ginandtonicsky wrote: »

These threads make me feel like a conservative aul wan for being happy with a bit of old fashioned vanilla missionary with someone you fancy the pants off.

BOOOORRRRIIIINNNNNGGGGGGG!!

Only joking!
I enjoy that too, but it’s nice to try something different at times too

ginandtonicsky wrote: »

These threads make me feel like a conservative aul wan for being happy with a bit of old fashioned vanilla missionary with someone you fancy the pants off.

To be fair, there's a lot to be said for that. I know a lot of the early-20's people I've been with think they're the absolute **** for wanting to do different positions, but it's not like porn and either doesn't necessarily feel as good or can be awkward to setup (although if you're with someone you're comfortable with, that can be a laugh too). As with everything else, if you did the same thing every night it'd be boring and repetitive, but the classics are classics for a reason!

Porklife wrote: »

Well, I did it and it was better than I had expected. He seemed to really love it which made it more pleasurable for me. That said, I won't be rushing to do it again but I did like it. I had to stop a few times but overall the slight pain was weirdly nice.

Talk about TMI of a Christmas eve
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