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The 8th amendment referendum - part 4

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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,029 ✭✭✭SusieBlue


    I can't fathom why yes voters are so confident of getting a result because of how things are looking online and on the streets etc. You seem to be underestimating the older generation of Ireland and the power with which they will come out to vote for this.

    I don't see anyone here overly confident. I think it will be extremely close either way, I'm not predicting anything higher than a 53% majority for the winning side.

    Either way, neither side are gonna win by much.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 20,216 ✭✭✭✭jimgoose


    NuMarvel wrote: »
    ...And the No campaign seems to have deflated in the same time...

    The "No" campaign has zip. Nada. Bobkes. Jack Shit. Except tea and sympathy, and be off with you to The England like a nice little cailín and get yourself sorted out for yourself there now where the nice people don't have to be looking at you, the dirt a' you. The veneer is painfully thin, and it is possible that people are now seeing through it. We live in hope.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 12,457 ✭✭✭✭Sardonicat


    NuMarvel wrote: »
    The Yes campaign in the last week seems to have definitely picked up steam. I'm seeing Yes badges everywhere on the way to work!

    And the No campaign seems to have deflated in the same time. I really was expecting something massively aggressive from them last week, but it hasn't materialised, and last week was a number of PR trip-ups for them. And that's persisting this week, with the hullabaloo over Sherlock's (non) appearance on Prime Time.

    Definitely, definitely, definitely not in the bag yet, but it's within our grasp. And I'm finding the debate last night to be a great opportunity to start chats for yes with work colleagues!

    My guess is that those behind the No campaign are fully expecting to loose and are currently regrouping and planning their lobbying campaign re legislation.

    The fun and games will really begin after the 8th is gone. Trust me. I was around in 83 and 92. You ain't seen nothin' yet.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,698 ✭✭✭PhoenixParker


    Cleft lip frequently occurs in conjunction with far more serious conditions. They all end up listed on the statistics and pro lifers seize on it as an example of the perfidity of women.

    And there may indeed be some women who feel tgey can't cope with the feeding difficulties, operations, and hospital visits that are needed with a cleft palate.

    Who knows and can judge what else is going on in her life better then her? Maybe she's a single mother with 4 kids, 1 autistic, no family support and miles from a hospital?

    Every case is different, every life story unique. Let women work with their doctor's and families to decide what is best.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 198 ✭✭BarleySweets


    Just her wrote: »
    Ok thanks for your reply. It's just this sentient argument comes up and Id like to know is there a point in arguing it or are yes voters for abortion regardless of sentience

    I’ve seen you bring up this sentience argument a lot. It smacks of you trying to derail the topic. What’s your angle here? I’d be interested in hearing your actual views on the issue.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 20,216 ✭✭✭✭jimgoose


    Sardonicat wrote: »
    My guess is that those behind the No campaign are fully expecting to loose and are currently regrouping and planning their lobbying campaign re legislation.

    The fun and games will really begin after the 8th is gone. Trust me. I was around in 83 and 92. You ain't seen nothin' yet.

    I look forward to them making even bigger gowls of themselves, and hopefully to a few getting arrested or taking a baton to the side of the noggin. I'm buying the popcorn. :D


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 20,216 ✭✭✭✭jimgoose


    woejus wrote: »
    Repeal is just the start of the fight, if passed...

    Some of these people are starting to piss me off a small bit. If it gets right bad Leo should deploy the army. You can't beat a 5.56mm NATO to the spleen to make even a nutter re-evaluate their priorities.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 19,166 ✭✭✭✭nullzero
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    And there may indeed be some women who feel tgey can't cope with the feeding difficulties, operations, and hospital visits that are needed with a cleft palate.

    You're not painting a particularly flattering picture of women there.
    How inconvenient to have to take a child to hospital for treatment.
    If somebody were to actually think that way then perhaps parenthood and by extension conception of a child is something they should avoid.
    That's the thing about being a parent, you come last every time, your own convenience isn't on the table once a baby is born.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,029 ✭✭✭SusieBlue


    nullzero wrote: »
    You're not painting a particularly flattering picture of women there.
    How inconvenient to have to take a child to hospital for treatment.
    If somebody were to actually think that way then perhaps parenthood and by extension conception of a child is something they should avoid.
    That's the thing about being a parent, you come last every time, your own convenience isn't on the table once a baby is born.

    Very useless advice to someone who is already pregnant. Hindsight, my friend.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2, Paid Member Posts: 40,083 ✭✭✭✭Hotblack Desiato


    Trasna1 wrote: »
    It does occur, not it may occur.

    You're picking up on the wrong sense of the word 'may'.
    Shouldn't they legislate for it though seeing that it's happening? Argument sound familiar?

    What benefit would your proposed law provide?

    I'm partial to your abracadabra
    I'm raptured by the joy of it all



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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 16,644 ✭✭✭✭Zubeneschamali


    nullzero wrote: »
    This attitude is what could possibly cause a no vote to be carried. A lot of No voters don't agree with the situation as it stand and are happy for changes to be made that care for women in so called "hard cases", but aren't comfortable with a so called abortion on demand.

    Yeah, that's what they say.

    But in fact, all the prominent No folks were against the PoLDPA because it allows abortion in the hardest of hard cases, so actually, no I don't believe this at all.

    It's just something to say that sounds more reasonable than "The Bishop said so".


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2, Paid Member Posts: 36,770 ✭✭✭✭Penn


    jimgoose wrote: »
    The "No" campaign has zip. Nada. Bobkes. Jack Shit. Except tea and sympathy, and be off with you to The England like a nice little cailín and get yourself sorted out for yourself there now where the nice people don't have to be looking at you, the dirt a' you. The veneer is painfully thin, and it is possible that people are now seeing through it. We live in hope.

    As evident by many of them now claiming that they think abortion should be available in cases such as rape or FFA, but that this referendum goes too far so they're implying that if people vote No to this one, they won't stand in the way of another referendum allowing abortion under those circumstances.

    Of course, they would absolutely stand in the way of such and would use the No vote in this one as justification for it and claim that people don't agree with abortion full stop.

    Between that and the clusterf*ck of last night's PrimeTime situation, I think it's clear that they're panicking at this stage.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 19,166 ✭✭✭✭nullzero
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    Yeah, that's what they say.

    But in fact, all the prominent No folks were against the PoLDPA because it allows abortion in the hardest of hard cases, so actually, no I don't believe this at all.

    It's just something to say that sounds more reasonable than "The Bishop said so".

    So all No voters have exactly the same opinions on everything?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 198 ✭✭BarleySweets


    Sardonicat wrote: »
    My guess is that those behind the No campaign are fully expecting to loose and are currently regrouping and planning their lobbying campaign re legislation.

    The fun and games will really begin after the 8th is gone. Trust me. I was around in 83 and 92. You ain't seen nothin' yet.

    They can lobby all they like but if Yes wins they’ll have no leg to stand on. 12-weeks is the minimum limit required to be considered adequate abortion legislation, it’s also the maximum required to handle well over 90% of abortion scenarios. So the government have been broadly considerate here in picking that term limit. No lobbying can change those requirements.

    We just need to get everyone out voting. It’s tricky having it on a Friday in May because people who can’t make the polls before work will be awfully tempted to say ”Feck it, it’ll be grand, sure the No campaign collapsed this week” and skip voting after work once they see everyone else in the office head out for Friday evening dinner + beers after work. What’s more tempting, lounging in the sun boozing and gorging with your buddies, or traipsing across the city to vote? We all need to help that not be the case by encouraging as high a turnout as possible!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,279 ✭✭✭NuMarvel


    Mod: RocketRaccoon taking a short holiday and won't be posting in this thread again.

    In fairness, considering things ended for him in the Avengers movie, I think poor Rocket needs the holiday! :D:D.

    (Sorry, couldn't resist!)

    (Also, not a spoiler!)


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 19,166 ✭✭✭✭nullzero
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    SusieBlue wrote: »
    Very useless advice to someone who is already pregnant. Hindsight, my friend.

    That makes no sense.
    Aborting a child because of a disability or in this case a cleft pallet is something that is not being offered under the proposed legislation in this country.
    Are you espousing a view which allows terminations for these reasons? Surely we're skirting the edges of eugenics at this stage.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 31 WithTheRanks


    nullzero wrote: »
    If somebody were to actually think that way then perhaps parenthood and by extension conception of a child is something they should avoid.


    agreed, they should probably get an abortion


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 20,216 ✭✭✭✭jimgoose


    Penn wrote: »
    As evident by many of them now claiming that they think abortion should be available in cases such as rape or FFA, but that this referendum goes too far so they're implying that if people vote No to this one, they won't stand in the way of another referendum allowing abortion under those circumstances...

    <Goose clambers up on the roof of the County Hall with a megaphone, roars> STOP SCREWING AROUND WITH THE CONSTITUTION OVER WHAT IS A MATTER FOR THE LEGISLATURE!! :D


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 551 ✭✭✭Trasna1


    Sardonicat wrote: »
    My guess is that those behind the No campaign are fully expecting to loose and are currently regrouping and planning their lobbying campaign re legislation.

    The fun and games will really begin after the 8th is gone. Trust me. I was around in 83 and 92. You ain't seen nothin' yet.
    I disagree. Without the 8th these groups will be marginalised and deemed irrelevant to the discussion. Aside from the hardcore, this will fizzle out -although they may reform under an anti assisted dying campaign, which will probably be the last conservative domino to fall.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,029 ✭✭✭SusieBlue


    nullzero wrote: »
    That makes no sense.
    Aborting a child because of a disability or in this case a cleft pallet is something that is not being offered under the proposed legislation in this country.
    Are you espousing a view which allows terminations for these reasons? Surely we're skirting the edges of eugenics at this stage.

    No, I'm not. At all.
    I'm saying talking about how women should have avoided conception in the first place is absolutely useless advice to someone who is already pregnant.
    The horse has bolted.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 19,166 ✭✭✭✭nullzero
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    agreed, they should probably get an abortion

    They could just not get pregnant.
    Or should they have abortion after abortion until they have that goldilocks "just right" pregnancy?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,698 ✭✭✭PhoenixParker


    nullzero wrote: »
    You're not painting a particularly flattering picture of women there.
    How inconvenient to have to take a child to hospital for treatment.
    If somebody were to actually think that way then perhaps parenthood and by extension conception of a child is something they should avoid.
    That's the thing about being a parent, you come last every time, your own convenience isn't on the table once a baby is born.

    I agree, for me hospital visits and the extra care would be inconvenient but not remotely abortion worthy

    but as I outlined can also see where a woman's specific and individual circumstances might render dealing with the medical treatment for a cleft lip not just difficult but virtually impossible.

    As such I personally believe we should trust women to decide.

    The legislators don't agree with me btw. Cleft lip won't fall within the proposed grounds for abortion after 12 weeks.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 19,166 ✭✭✭✭nullzero
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    SusieBlue wrote: »
    No, I'm not. At all.
    I'm saying talking about how women should have avoided conception in the first place is absolutely useless advice to someone who is already pregnant.
    The horse has bolted.

    I'm saying that if you have the attitude that a baby should be aborted for having a cleft pallet then you have no business making the decision to conceive in the first place.
    I never mentioned what you're talking about.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 41,168 ✭✭✭✭ohnonotgmail


    nullzero wrote: »
    You're not painting a particularly flattering picture of women there.
    How inconvenient to have to take a child to hospital for treatment.
    If somebody were to actually think that way then perhaps parenthood and by extension conception of a child is something they should avoid.
    That's the thing about being a parent, you come last every time, your own convenience isn't on the table once a baby is born.

    you still haven't provided a source to support your claim that women are having abortions because the child has a cleft lip.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 23,862 ✭✭✭✭January


    Some women may already have a child with a disability and wouldn't be able to raise another. Life is not black and white. It's not about 'inconvenience' open your eyes and see there is grey everywhere.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 19,166 ✭✭✭✭nullzero
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    I agree, for me hospital visits and the extra care would be inconvenient but not remotely abortion worthy

    but as I outlined can also see where a woman's specific and individual circumstances might render dealing with the medical treatment for a cleft lip not just difficult but virtually impossible.

    As such I personally believe we should trust women to decide.

    The legislators don't agree with me btw. Cleft lip won't fall within the proposed grounds for abortion after 12 weeks.

    You are clearly wrong, there is a difference between cleft lip and pallet BTW.

    Some of the posting here is bizarre.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 198 ✭✭BarleySweets


    nullzero wrote: »
    So all No voters have exactly the same opinions on everything?

    Going by this thread they’ve all got very similar opinions alright, no matter how they word them they all boil down to one or many of very few common threads:


    - sluts should keep their legs closed

    - only a few girls ever have to deal with rape/incest so why bother introducing legislation for the rest of us

    - abortion promotes promiscuity

    - sure stop looking at the hard cases that die or end up crippled, look at the ones who went through hard cases and ended up fine with a bouncing babby in their arms

    - the man in my church says God hates abortion and loves babies, and therefore I believe that you and Irish society as a whole should do what the man in my church says because he talks to God, don’t you know

    - abortion will be a genocide on white Irish babies


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,110 ✭✭✭123balltv


    I'll be voting YES if for only for fetal syndrome/ rape etc

    Healthy babies NO never.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 19,166 ✭✭✭✭nullzero
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    you still haven't provided a source to support your claim that women are having abortions because the child has a cleft lip.

    I didn't claim it. Someone else did and I said I found it highly unlikely that is would be true.

    Jesus H Christ, can you not follow what's going on?


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