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8th amendment referendum part 3 - Mod note and FAQ in post #1

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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,279 ✭✭✭NuMarvel


    SusieBlue wrote: »
    This was exactly my thoughts.
    To the OP, you should ask a neighbor to see if they have the leaflet and find out what the name of the group is. It doesn’t sound right to me.

    It's the leaflet that jumps out to me. Even allowing for this being a third party giving us a summary of something someone else looked at just the once, it doesn't resemble anything I've seen on the Yes flyers.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 40,916 ✭✭✭✭ohnonotgmail


    RobertKK wrote: »
    All I know is various experts in the field disagree, obstetricians who support abortion say abortion would have treated an undiagnosed infection...
    Other obstetricians disagree that abortion would have saved her life given

    From the inquest:
    The former pathologist added that in his opinion the baby and placenta would have been dead before the rapid growth of this infection. "This is why it is so important to remove this tissues so quickly once the baby is dead," he said.

    https://m.independent.ie/irish-news/courts/savita-died-from-rare-infection-29207124.html

    I asked very specific questions. perhaps you can answer what i asked instead of what suits you.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 40,916 ✭✭✭✭ohnonotgmail


    Defunkd wrote: »
    Seriously? Simon Harris wrote a policy paper outlining 21 proposals on how the Govt. intend to legislate should a Yes vote be achieved. A 12 week unrestricted period and when the pregnancy enters the second trimester, other criteria must be met.
    This was in every irish media source about 2 months ago. Are you simply trying to derail the thread or attempting to accuse people of making things up?

    but where does the proposed legislation mention 24 weeks? it mentions viability but not 24 weeks.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 961 ✭✭✭patrickSTARR


    frag420 wrote: »

    Simples really....if you want it to be. Not simple if you are an ignoramus and failure of a man!!

    Whether I agree with you or not, insults are not the best way to go in getting your point across.

    The target of these will just dig their heels in further. I should know


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 34,385 ✭✭✭✭gmisk


    RobertKK wrote: »
    But the Bishop was correct that for some rape victims, abortion can be worse than the rape.
    We had a woman who was raped say that.
    #TogetherForYes #TrustWomenIfSupportiveOfAbortion
    How lovely!....absolutely vile


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 23,495 ✭✭✭✭Billy86


    gmisk wrote: »
    How lovely!....absolutely vile

    What else would you expect at this point?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 33,771 ✭✭✭✭RobertKK


    January wrote: »
    More lies. Not against her will, against her parents will. She has stated that she didn't actually know she was having an abortion, she thought she was being brought to have the baby, she didn't understand pregnancy/birth/abortion. Not that she had the abortion against her will.

    . She said she didn’t even know what pregnant was when she was told she was pregnant.
    She said she would have given her child up for adoption and not aborted, but she was drugged to her eyeballs.

    This is her story

    In the days after the rape, social workers arrived at Mary's caravan in north Dublin and took her away. She believed she would be home again in 24 hours.
    She was taken to Mullingar and placed in foster care with another Traveller family. Slowly, the days turned into weeks, and the weeks into months. Before long, she realised nobody was coming to take her home.

    Around this time, she developed severe hunger pangs and frequent vomiting. She had no idea what was wrong until one day her foster mother took her to the local GP where she was asked for a urine sample.
    The next morning, she was told she was pregnant. She was bewildered. "I said: 'What's pregnant?'" she recalls. "They said 'you are having a baby'. I didn't understand how I could be. A few weeks later, they came and took me on a plane to London.
    "The next day, I was taken to a building. All I remember next was being wheeled on a trolley and screaming with the pain.

    "They gave me an injection, and when I woke up, the pain had gone. Eventually they told me the baby was dead."


    "My name – the C-case girl – is brought up on radio and TV all the time these days as if I'm an ad for abortion. The X-case girl never had an abortion in the end so we don't know how it would have affected her, but, for me, it has been harder to deal with than the rape.

    "It only really hits you after you have children. You never forget your missing baby. It plays on your mind every day. Any woman who has an abortion and then goes on to become a mother will know all about it afterwards.
    "I didn't want to become a mother at 13, but I realise now that baby didn't deserve to die. I would have loved to give her up for adoption to somebody who really wanted kids and couldn't have them. She'd be a teenager today and maybe we could be friends, even if she didn't call me mammy."


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,219 ✭✭✭Calina


    RobertKK wrote: »
    Thanks for that Robert, more of this stuff please.

    The more fence-sitters realise that the pro-life crew oppose abortion in rape cases the better.

    But the Bishop was correct that for some rape victims, abortion can be worse than the rape.
    We had a woman who was raped say that.
    #TogetherForYes #TrustWomenIfSupportiveOfAbortion

    The word 'some' is an argument in favour of repeal. For some it works for some it doesn't. But you want none to have access to safe abortion here.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 121 ✭✭Paranoid Bob


    but where does the proposed legislation mention 24 weeks? it mentions viability but not 24 weeks.
    Be reasonable.


    Viability is approximately 24 weeks. Surely there are better counter-arguments than to nit-pick between 'viabilty' and '24 weeks'?


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 406 ✭✭Defunkd


    but where does the proposed legislation mention 24 weeks? it mentions viability but not 24 weeks.
    Viability is generally achieved after the 23rd week. Does the legislation need to say the babies are usually born 9 months after conception before you'll accept that too? Stop acting the spaz.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 33,771 ✭✭✭✭RobertKK


    ....... wrote: »
    This post has been deleted.

    I deleted that bit as I was wrong to say it was a lie.

    The state gave her an abortion against her will and the bishop is correct that for some rape is worse than the abortion. Some tried to make it the bishop was not being truthful.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,279 ✭✭✭NuMarvel


    RobertKK wrote: »
    . She said she didn’t even know what pregnant was when she was told she was pregnant.
    She said she would have given her child up for adoption and not aborted, but she was drugged to her eyeballs.

    This is her story...

    So what changes would you like to see to minimise the chances of this happening again? And would any of them require the 8th to remain in place?


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,161 ✭✭✭frag420


    Whether I agree with you or not, insults are not the best way to go in getting your point across.

    The target of these will just dig their heels in further. I should know

    I hear what you are saying. However Robert has an opportunity to prove to us that he has some humanity and is not an ignoramus and a failure of a man. Its entirely up to him to prove me wrong by addressing the questions put to him. Especially the questions that debunk his many claims!!

    Of course now he will us this as a platform to spout more crap and tell the thread how he is being victimised. Well stop being a victim and own your beliefs and back then up with facts!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 25,948 ✭✭✭✭Neyite


    RobertKK wrote: »
    "My name – the C-case girl – is brought up on radio and TV all the time these days as if I'm an ad for abortion. The X-case girl never had an abortion in the end so we don't know how it would have affected her, but, for me, it has been harder to deal with than the rape.

    Sounds to me like the resultant publicity of the case and knowing she can never properly move on while there's always a possibility of a TV sound bite or newspaper article discussing her circumstances and her termination intruding into her life is what she finds hard.

    She was treated poorly by everyone. She was never given a choice or consulted, just people who 'knew better' deciding the outcome of her life.
    That's why choice matters.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 121 ✭✭Paranoid Bob


    ....... wrote: »
    This post has been deleted.
    I'm not making any of those arguments.


    gmail asked where the 24 weeks number came from, and I said it is approximately 'viability'.
    The only argument I'm making now is that arguing over the word 'viability' over the term '24 weeks' is nit-picking and I think it would be better to find more substantive counter-arguments.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 16,686 ✭✭✭✭Zubeneschamali


    RobertKK wrote: »
    the bishop is correct that for some rape is worse than the abortion. Some tried to make it the bishop was not being truthful.

    I am delighted to have the bishop say this loud and clear. They should put it on every lamp post.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,598 ✭✭✭robarmstrong


    Gintonious wrote: »
    https://www.newstalk.com/Bishop-of-Ossory-suggests-abortion-can-be-far-worse-than-rape

    And new levels of utter stupidity have been reached.



    A complete and utter moron.

    The Bishop should tell all the children that his buddies in the church diddled that abortion can be far worse than the abuse that they suffered at the hands of those riddled throughout the last god knows how many years and see how the grown-up abuse victims take his statement.

    Gobsh!te.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,279 ✭✭✭NuMarvel


    Neyite wrote: »
    Sounds to me like the resultant publicity of the case and knowing she can never properly move on while there's always a possibility of a TV sound bite or newspaper article discussing her circumstances and her termination intruding into her life is what she finds hard.

    She was treated poorly by everyone. She was never given a choice or consulted, just people who 'knew better' deciding the outcome of her life.
    That's why choice matters.

    The irony is, I've only heard of her circumstances when it's raised by anti-repeal supporters, not pro choice. When I hear Ms C, I think of C in the ABC v Ireland case in the ECHR.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 17,739 ✭✭✭✭kylith


    RobertKK wrote: »
    Bishop of Ossory suggests 'abortion can be far worse than rape'

    I hope more and more bishops wade into the debate. I hope every priest in Ireland spells out the bishop's position on rape, on contraception, on abstinence or the rhythm method, on fatal fetal abnormality in their sermons in detail between now and polling day.

    While it was nice to hear from the Vatican after the SSM referendum that gay marriage is "a defeat for humanity", I'd like everyone to be clear on their views before this one. No more hiding behind Iona, Cóir, Youth Defence and so on - lay it out for us what the Vatican really thinks.

    From a rape victim who had an abortion: “for me, it has been harder to deal with than the rape.”.



    https://m.independent.ie/lifestyle/health/ccase-mum-i-grieve-for-my-lost-baby-every-day-29241584.html
    As per that article: she did not know what was happening. she did not know the pregnancy was being terminated. She did not have a CHOICE at any stage of the proceedings. Of course she will be negatively effected.

    Can you show any proof that women who get a choice in the matter filing it more traumatic?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,785 ✭✭✭It wasnt me123


    goz83 wrote: »
    ......

    ...... What sort of dimwitted, numb-skull decides that it is ok to discuss abortions with someone elses 11 year old kid? .

    Totally unacceptable. Does anyone think this is ok?

    I don't think a child should be exposed to this aggressive and sick style of canvassing. ........

    No I don't think its acceptable and I'm a very vocal Yes voter. I had this discussion last week in relation to Mass. The Bishop of Ossory had told priests to mention save the 8th and abortion during mass. we are in the middle of communion season.

    Discussing this subject in front of children is totally unacceptable, whether at your door or in mass. Children should at all times be sheltered from adult conversation - and this matter is only for adults IMO.

    Any chance you could contact the together for yes in your county and tell them. I would hope it would be a one off but probably not. They need to have a talk to all their canvassars about when to hand out leaflets. In fact, the first question should have been is mum or day there and if the answer was no, they should have said no problem, we'll call back when they are. Close the door now and don't open it to strangers. Thats what I would have said.

    I hope this canvassar has not put you off voting Yes.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 37,213 ✭✭✭✭Hotblack Desiato


    You admitted in your first post that you are a re-reg, presumably banned or thread banned under your previous identity.

    Having two accounts is not allowed on boards, but the mods appear to have taken a holiday. Several thread-banned posters posting away merrily the last two days, posts reported including links to the mod posts thread-banning them! No action taken.

    I'm partial to your abracadabra,

    I'm raptured by the joy of it all.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 25,948 ✭✭✭✭Neyite


    kylith wrote: »
    As per that article: she did not know what was happening. she did not know the pregnancy was being terminated. She did not have a CHOICE at any stage of the proceedings. Of course she will be negatively effected.

    The same lack of choice that women routinely face in Ireland every day when seeking a termination but their distress is dismissed by all the pro-life supporters as irrelevant.

    Funny that.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 37,213 ✭✭✭✭Hotblack Desiato


    goz83 wrote: »
    What sort of dimwitted, numb-skull decides that it is ok to discuss abortions with someone elses 11 year old kid? As an aside, we are expecting another child next week and this conversation upset my little girl. Shameful behaviour.

    My son read the leaflet and burned it, so I don't know who was canvassing and couldn't find the canvassers when we returned. My son quoted what the leaflet said. Just a taste of the tripe it contained; (and i paraphrase) "men have more right over their bodies than women even though they have less parts".

    I can tell you for a fact that was not a Together for Yes canvasser or leaflet.

    Please get hold of a copy of the leaflet from your neighbours if possible, and inform T4Y of what is going on. Edited to add: T4Y will know exactly which houses in your area they called to, who called, and when, it is all written down and sent back to HQ. I am sure they will tell you they were nowhere near your house at the time. T4Y do not allow inexperienced canvassers to call to houses alone and do not speak to minors.

    I smell either a false-flag operation or a VERY overzealous, naive student who needs a good dose of cop-on administered, stat.

    I'm partial to your abracadabra,

    I'm raptured by the joy of it all.



  • Closed Accounts Posts: 695 ✭✭✭beefburrito


    Im voting no for definite

    If there's a yes...

    There's going to be some S H I T storm in a few year's down the road.

    When genetic science gets more advanced, if someone doesn't want a gay kid, bisexual, intellectualy challenged or adhd kid they'll have the option of aborting it.

    More than a few of the people voting yes wouldn't be here now if this came through.

    Im voting no because I'm here to protect the life of people who in some of your shoes won't have a future.

    Get the plane or ferry off to England, it's probably less than half a week's minimum wage return.

    The hypocrisy of it all, women I know year's ago who were thinking of aborting their kids who now dote on their brats are voting yes.

    But yet they were thinking of killing their own, I guarantee half of ye on this thread wouldn't be here if there was abortion in Ireland 30 year's ago.

    Im grateful for life, I know a few women who had bad experiences and kept their kid's.

    They'ed die for their boys and girls.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 37,213 ✭✭✭✭Hotblack Desiato


    Is it?
    I just looked at the together4yes donations page. They have a checkbox self-attestation that the donor is a citizen of or permanent resident in Ireland, but the personal details form will accept billing addresses anywhere in the world.


    A checkbox self-attestation is a very weak sort of control.

    I had to supply an address and corresponding valid Eircode.

    NuMarvel wrote: »
    "Thanks be to God your mum was pro life or your mum would have ended up like this"

    A poster hanging on the railings of a school. Just in case you thought No voters and campaigners couldn't get much lower.

    https://twitter.com/Dailigh/status/994689066301116420

    Truly despicable. Whoever printed that should be ashamed of themselves, whoever thought putting that up was a good idea must be of unsound mind but whoever printed it is worse if anything.

    A GP-led service is about more than just handing out pills. The concerns raised by the union representative in that article look quite reasonable and realistic and should not be summarily dismissed because they are inconvenient.

    GPs are in dispute with the government over money. They have been for years. They have blocked every new initiative until they get a payoff. They did this with the free GP visits for under sixes, once they get a few more quid their way they (the god botherers aside) will be fine with handing out abortion pills too.

    I'm partial to your abracadabra,

    I'm raptured by the joy of it all.



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