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8th amendment referendum part 3 - Mod note and FAQ in post #1

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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 12,921 ✭✭✭✭Frank Bullitt


    https://www.newstalk.com/Bishop-of-Ossory-suggests-abortion-can-be-far-worse-than-rape

    And new levels of utter stupidity have been reached.
    Bishop of Ossory suggests 'abortion can be far worse than rape'

    A complete and utter moron.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 121 ✭✭Paranoid Bob


    where are you getting this figure of 24 weeks from?
    The proposed legislation allows for termination under limited circumstances up to 'viability'. Viability is generally agreed to be about 23 or 24 weeks.
    The legislation does not mention a number of weeks for that, but 24 weeks is a fair enough number.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 17,495 ✭✭✭✭eviltwin


    I can only speak for myself, Im still going to come here with my opinion and if things change for me or if something begins to pull me one way, its best to discuss it.

    I still have my reservations about voting yes, but I believe that its for the best for now.

    Thank you. I appreciate it's a difficult decision for you but fair play for thinking it through.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,363 ✭✭✭nozzferrahhtoo


    But we have no measure for how many post or read here, change their minds and do not post to say so. It is certainly a greater number.

    Yea very hard to estimate. I have had a number of users (not huge, like 5 or 6 maybe) PM me personally to tell me / thank me that their mind was changed by my posts and arguments.

    I can only assume others users are getting the same. Some probably a lot more than me, as I am far from special or wonderful in this regard.


  • Posts: 18,749 ✭✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    I still believe the life inside a human is precious and has the has the right to life, but not at the expense of my partners life or my daughters life.

    . When really and truly putting myself in the worst possible situations I would want the my partner or daughter to choose. I want them to feel loved, protected and safe.

    Wow, I am impressed & really happy that some of the issues raised made someone take a little bit of time to think it all through.
    Fair play Pat.
    I think the above short quote from your post sums up how most people feel.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 23,862 ✭✭✭✭January


    The proposed legislation allows for termination under limited circumstances up to 'viability'. Viability is generally agreed to be about 23 or 24 weeks.
    The legislation does not mention a number of weeks for that, but 24 weeks is a fair enough number.

    Limited circumstances are the magic words there. RobertKK and others have stated that it is effectively on demand up to 24 weeks.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 16,686 ✭✭✭✭Zubeneschamali


    Bishop of Ossory suggests 'abortion can be far worse than rape'

    I hope more and more bishops wade into the debate. I hope every priest in Ireland spells out the bishop's position on rape, on contraception, on abstinence or the rhythm method, on fatal fetal abnormality in their sermons in detail between now and polling day.

    While it was nice to hear from the Vatican after the SSM referendum that gay marriage is "a defeat for humanity", I'd like everyone to be clear on their views before this one. No more hiding behind Iona, Cóir, Youth Defence and so on - lay it out for us what the Vatican really thinks.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,029 ✭✭✭SusieBlue


    I can only speak for myself, Im still going to come here with my opinion and if things change for me or if something begins to pull me one way, its best to discuss it.

    I still have my reservations about voting yes, but I believe that its for the best for now.

    If it’s any consolation, I genuinely think most people start out with your position. I know I did.
    I’d love to be pro-life, it’s certainly the easier option to ‘save’ the unborn without a second thought for the circumstances women and families find themselves in.

    I know you haven’t made your mind up yet but at least you’ve opened your mind to other eventualities and perspectives.
    At least now no matter what way you choose to vote, you’ll have looked at it from both sides without a biased perspective and made a choice with all the available information.
    Fair play.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,279 ✭✭✭NuMarvel


    goz83 wrote: »
    The evening before last, I went for a short walk with my wife. The little ones were in bed and my son (15) and daughter (11) were still up. Anyway, my wife got a phone call from my son while we were out and he told us that one of the repeal the 8th canvassers had called to the door. My daughter had answered (that's a different discussion) the door to the woman who not only gave her a leaflet, but explained to her why women should be allowed to have abortions and how men are oppressing women. WTF?:mad: What sort of dimwitted, numb-skull decides that it is ok to discuss abortions with someone elses 11 year old kid? As an aside, we are expecting another child next week and this conversation upset my little girl. Shameful behaviour.

    My son read the leaflet and burned it, so I don't know who was canvassing and couldn't find the canvassers when we returned. My son quoted what the leaflet said. Just a taste of the tripe it contained; (and i paraphrase) "men have more right over their bodies than women even though they have less parts".

    These really don't sound like things a Yes canvasser would say or print in general, never mind to a young girl. But if they did, it really should be dealt with. This was either a very overzealous yes supporter, who should never be let out on a canvass again, or, more worryingly, a No campaigner masquerading as Yes.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,029 ✭✭✭SusieBlue


    NuMarvel wrote: »
    These really don't sound like things a Yes canvasser would say or print in general, never mind to a young girl. But if they did, it really should be dealt with. This was either a very overzealous yes supporter, who should never be let out on a canvass again, or, more worryingly, a No campaigner masquerading as Yes.

    This was exactly my thoughts.
    To the OP, you should ask a neighbor to see if they have the leaflet and find out what the name of the group is. It doesn’t sound right to me.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 33,771 ✭✭✭✭RobertKK


    Calina wrote: »
    Question: would Savita have died the way she did if she had been given a termination at the time she requested one?

    She did not have sepsis at that point.

    The HIQA report says if her condition had not been mismanaged the outcome may have been different.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 23,109 ✭✭✭✭ELM327


    RobertKK wrote: »
    The HIQA report says if her condition had not been mismanaged the outcome may have been different.
    The HIQA report did not have the jurisdiction to make any comments on the 8th amendment.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 40,916 ✭✭✭✭ohnonotgmail


    The proposed legislation allows for termination under limited circumstances up to 'viability'. Viability is generally agreed to be about 23 or 24 weeks.
    The legislation does not mention a number of weeks for that, but 24 weeks is a fair enough number.

    so you are just assuming 24 weeks? Why not just say viability?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,618 ✭✭✭erica74


    Gintonious wrote: »
    https://www.newstalk.com/Bishop-of-Ossory-suggests-abortion-can-be-far-worse-than-rape

    And new levels of utter stupidity have been reached.



    A complete and utter moron.

    :mad:


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 40,916 ✭✭✭✭ohnonotgmail


    RobertKK wrote: »
    The HIQA report says if her condition had not been mismanaged the outcome may have been different.


    any chance you could answer the questions i asked earlier?

    Do you deny that she would not have developed sepsis if she had been given the abortion she requested when she requested it? Do you deny that the 8th was the reason that her request was denied?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 33,771 ✭✭✭✭RobertKK


    Bishop of Ossory suggests 'abortion can be far worse than rape'

    I hope more and more bishops wade into the debate. I hope every priest in Ireland spells out the bishop's position on rape, on contraception, on abstinence or the rhythm method, on fatal fetal abnormality in their sermons in detail between now and polling day.

    While it was nice to hear from the Vatican after the SSM referendum that gay marriage is "a defeat for humanity", I'd like everyone to be clear on their views before this one. No more hiding behind Iona, Cóir, Youth Defence and so on - lay it out for us what the Vatican really thinks.

    From a rape victim who had an abortion: “for me, it has been harder to deal with than the rape.”.



    https://m.independent.ie/lifestyle/health/ccase-mum-i-grieve-for-my-lost-baby-every-day-29241584.html


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 16,686 ✭✭✭✭Zubeneschamali


    The proposed legislation allows for termination under limited circumstances up to 'viability'. Viability is generally agreed to be about 23 or 24 weeks.

    "Viability" does not mean a healthy bouncing baby, either. Even in the NICU, half those babies will die, and 1/3 of the survivors will have serious health issues.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,219 ✭✭✭Calina


    RobertKK wrote: »
    Calina wrote: »
    Question: would Savita have died the way she did if she had been given a termination at the time she requested one?

    She did not have sepsis at that point.

    The HIQA report says if her condition had not been mismanaged the outcome may have been different.

    That is not an answer to the question I asked.

    She asked for a termination before her condition was such that it had to be managed. Woukd she have died of sepsis if she had been given a termination before she developed sepsis?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 16,686 ✭✭✭✭Zubeneschamali


    RobertKK wrote: »
    From a rape victim who had an abortion: “for me, it has been harder to deal with than the rape.”.

    Thanks for that Robert, more of this stuff please.

    The more fence-sitters realise that the pro-life crew oppose abortion in rape cases the better.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 23,109 ✭✭✭✭ELM327


    RobertKK wrote: »
    From a rape victim who had an abortion: “for me, it has been harder to deal with than the rape.”.



    https://m.independent.ie/lifestyle/health/ccase-mum-i-grieve-for-my-lost-baby-every-day-29241584.html
    This is as good for the YES side, as John McGuirk's meltdown and those idiots outside the maternity hospitals.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 33,771 ✭✭✭✭RobertKK


    any chance you could answer the questions i asked earlier?

    All I know is various experts in the field disagree, obstetricians who support abortion say abortion would have treated an undiagnosed infection...
    Other obstetricians disagree that abortion would have saved her life given

    From the inquest:
    The former pathologist added that in his opinion the baby and placenta would have been dead before the rapid growth of this infection. "This is why it is so important to remove this tissues so quickly once the baby is dead," he said.

    https://m.independent.ie/irish-news/courts/savita-died-from-rare-infection-29207124.html


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 33,771 ✭✭✭✭RobertKK


    ELM327 wrote: »
    This is as good for the YES side, as John McGuirk's meltdown and those idiots outside the maternity hospitals.

    Giving underage girls in state care an abortion against their will because the state knows best?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 23,862 ✭✭✭✭January


    RobertKK wrote: »
    Giving underage girls in state care an abortion against their will because the state knows best?

    More lies. Not against her will, against her parents will. She has stated that she didn't actually know she was having an abortion, she thought she was being brought to have the baby, she didn't understand pregnancy/birth/abortion. Not that she had the abortion against her will.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 121 ✭✭Paranoid Bob


    "Viability" does not mean a healthy bouncing baby, either. Even in the NICU, half those babies will die, and 1/3 of the survivors will have serious health issues.
    Yes.


    The proposed legislation is actually quite conservative; requiring delivery at this stage.
    It says that if the child has a 50/50 chance of surviving, even with serious health problems, then abortion is not an option.


    There is a lie being put out there that our government is proposing a liberal free-for-all abortion service. That is not true; abortion is available under limited conditions after 12 weeks, and once the child has a 50% chance of surviving then abortion is not permitted.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 33,771 ✭✭✭✭RobertKK


    Thanks for that Robert, more of this stuff please.

    The more fence-sitters realise that the pro-life crew oppose abortion in rape cases the better.

    But the Bishop was correct that for some rape victims, abortion can be worse than the rape.
    We had a woman who was raped say that.
    #TogetherForYes #TrustWomenIfSupportiveOfAbortion


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 16,686 ✭✭✭✭Zubeneschamali


    RobertKK wrote: »
    From the inquest:
    The former pathologist added that in his opinion the baby and placenta would have been dead before the rapid growth of this infection. "This is why it is so important to remove this tissues so quickly once the baby is dead," he said.

    I do not think that means what you think it means.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 16,686 ✭✭✭✭Zubeneschamali


    RobertKK wrote: »
    But the Bishop was correct that for some rape victims, abortion can be worse than the rape.

    Great, keep it up!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,598 ✭✭✭robarmstrong


    RobertKK wrote: »
    From a rape victim who had an abortion: “for me, it has been harder to deal with than the rape.”.



    https://m.independent.ie/lifestyle/health/ccase-mum-i-grieve-for-my-lost-baby-every-day-29241584.html

    Oh look, I can pull up cases of raped women who had an abortion who don't regret it.

    https://www.pregnancychoicesdirectory.com/peoplesstories/abortion/2263/i-had-an-abortion-after-being-raped
    Would I really want a reminder of what happened staring at me everyday? Would I ever tell this child about his/her father? Not to mention the mental and emotion stress I'd go through. So I got an abortion without my parents ever knowing. Now, over a year later, I don't regret it. I won't lie though, I think about it all the time. But I'm trying to let it go, I can't hold on to the past forever. Next year my now 'fiancée' and I are moving in together, and we're going to try to have a child of our own. I now have something to look forward to.

    https://rewire.news/article/2012/10/26/survivor-an-illegal-abortion-why-it-is-important-to-keep-abortion-legal/
    I can tell you, though, that I would have gotten a hundred illegal abortions before carrying that monster’s offspring and going through labor, even to give the child away. That would have been the unkindest cut of all.

    For women and girls, safe legal abortions are essential. While many will choose a different path than I with their pregnancies, having that choice is essential.

    This coming from someone who was raped also.

    We gonna go tit for tat?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 406 ✭✭Defunkd


    where are you getting this figure of 24 weeks from?
    Seriously? Simon Harris wrote a policy paper outlining 21 proposals on how the Govt. intend to legislate should a Yes vote be achieved. A 12 week unrestricted period and when the pregnancy enters the second trimester, other criteria must be met.
    This was in every irish media source about 2 months ago. Are you simply trying to derail the thread or attempting to accuse people of making things up?


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,161 ✭✭✭frag420


    NoVoter wrote: »
    I don't agree - as the treatment of the 'dissenting' Yes voter last night shows, many in the Yes camp here will not tolerate any deviation from the party line. My primary identity here is known to people in my workplace - a workplace that is 100% on message with every 'progressive' social issue and where 21st century 'tolerance' is in full effect - i.e. it would not be a wise career move to dare to admit voting No.

    But surely its worth it if you get to save thousands of innocent potential lives no!? Why be so selfish, looking to maintain your career and lifestyle to the detriment of potential lives, you are a sick sick person!!

    Sure what if your colleagues found out about your stance on the 8th, maybe you lose your job and career. Rest agreed there is plenty of support out there for you, unemployment benefit is a good start, don't worry, you will be looked after the same way the NO side tell women they will be looked after they have a child!

    Lastly, RobertKKK!! Your ignorance of the Savita story is astounding. I have decided to make it easy for you. Now if you cant get it this time then we know you are an ignoramus and sad excuse for a man!!

    Say your daughter (if you have one, or wife) was driving along a country road. She has just had the car in for a service. Now when she left the car into be serviced she mentioned that the breaks seemed a bit off and could they pay extra attention to that area. When driving homesShe is within the speed limits, taking every precaution available to be safe on the road. . Well as it happens on her way home the breaks fail (despite her asking them to make sure they are fine) and she skids and crashed head first into a tree and dies from the impact.

    Now Robert, who do you blame for her death? Was it the garage that did not do as asked Re her brakes or perhaps whoever planted the tree as it was that impact that killed her? Because in the Savita case you are essentialy blaming the tree for killing her when if the doctors had looked at her breaks(gave her the termination she requested) then they would not have failed and she would not have hit the tree!!

    Simples really....if you want it to be. Not simple if you are an ignoramus and failure of a man!!


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