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  • Posts: 32,956 ✭✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    JupiterKid wrote: »
    Erm - posts #96 and #97 for instance, where the posters are opining that women are not good workers? If that's not anti-women then I don't know what is.

    Look, I think that over-zealous feminism is not a good thing. I believe in equality of the sexes. But some of the posts in this thread seem like thinly veiled mysoginistic rants by posters who think perhaps winding the clock back 70 years would be a great idea. Do some men really get that intimidated by articulate, successful, professional women?:rolleyes:

    Would be sound if you could quote those posts yourself or is multi-quoting and thus multi-tasking too much of a stress for your gender?!:P

    Let's see. Here's #96
    When's the last time you came across woman who was above average at her job? Rarely. They get paid less because they are less good at the job. Qualifications and how long you've sat in the job mean nothing. It about performance. I get paid better than my female colleagues because I'm better at the job.


    Seems to me this poster is using personal experience as the crux of his/her point. They say ''I get paid better better than my female colleagues because I'm better at my job''. Maybe the poster hits targets more or rakes in more commission.

    However, I'm inclined to agree that the following part of the post is guilty of generalising;
    Modern females perform average or below in the workplace, and they can't seem to cook anymore!

    Less time moaning about rights and more time spent on skills development is what they need.

    Then the other post, #97 says;
    red ears wrote: »
    Where I work the people who completely rip the s**t out of the tea breaks are all women. They take more time off sick, more time spent at each others desks chatting. If that's typical (and i'm not saying it necessarily is) in other work places then it wouldn't surprise me if they struggle to negotiate higher pay-rises.

    The bolded part is all that matters here. red ears uses his/her own workplace experience exclusively to give an insight as to what it's like there and there only. How is that anti-women at all? It's describing what it's like in their job! The poster goes on to say, ''if that's typical and I'm not saying it is''. He/she is basically taking his/her own experiences and hypothesising.

    I feel the modern day ''feminist'' (and I use quotation marks purposely) is more interested in finding victimhood than they are in seeking equality.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 18,853 ✭✭✭✭silverharp


    Glenster wrote: »
    I thought posting hard facts might stop the rhetoric.

    But my post stating that there is a pay gap, that its mostly explained by two factors but exists even when these are removed, was seized on by you to make an ideological point.

    You did this by (wilfully?) misunderstanding what a margin of error was and in what situations it can apply.

    I live in the real world and in every job I've ever worked my boss has been a bloke. The cleaners have been birds. Doesn't seem fair.

    but we know men and women make different choices, you cant force them to make different choices. Take a hypothetical lets say a childcare worker makes €12 p/h and someone working for Dynorod makes €15 p/h. faced with this choice the mostly female childcare workers will say no thanks I prefer working in doors. the mostly male manual workers will say cool the extra money is worth a bit of discomfort.
    The "pay gap" would only make sense if men and women worked every profession 50/50 and both worked exactly the same hours. its clearly not the case. why are most cleaners women and why are most taxi drivers men for example ? there are no barriers to entry for either sex into either job.

    A belief in gender identity involves a level of faith as there is nothing tangible to prove its existence which, as something divorced from the physical body, is similar to the idea of a soul. - Colette Colfer



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,626 ✭✭✭Glenster


    silverharp wrote: »
    but we know men and women make different choices, you cant force them to make different choices. All humans make different choices

    Take a hypothetical lets say a childcare worker makes €12 p/h and someone working for Dynorod makes €15 p/h. OK

    faced with this choice the mostly female childcare workers will say no thanks I prefer working in doors. No

    the mostly male manual workers will say cool the extra money is worth a bit of discomfort. No


    The "pay gap" would only make sense if men and women worked every profession 50/50 and both worked exactly the same hours. By that definition the pay gap is 3%

    its clearly not the case. that men and women are evenly spread out among all jobs??? agreed

    why are most cleaners women and why are most taxi drivers men for example ?

    Gender normative stereotypes, in which society will pillory a man who applies for a job as a cleaner and the hirer will be less likely to offer them the job.

    Similarly when a woman applies for a job as a taxi driver issues such as safety or stereotypes as regards driving skill or ability to maintain a cab may prevent them getting fares.

    there are no barriers to entry for either sex into either job.

    No gender-specific barriers? false.
    .


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 21,143 ✭✭✭✭El_Duderino 09


    If you feel offended by someone grabbing your ass, charge them. We all have that ability. Alas, men would likely be laughed out of the police station if we tried to charge a woman for such an offence. I shudder to think of trying to report that in my local police station.

    You've​ identified an inequality. Is the solution to that inequality to bring about a change where;
    A, women can't go to the police to press that charge or,
    B, men can go to the police to press that charge?
    C, opt for status quo, do nothing to improve the situation for men and complain that women have a right that men don't have.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,967 ✭✭✭✭Zulu


    Simply put, there is legislation in place to protect the citizen from being paid less for the same job when they have the same credentials. Instances in breach of this can be redressed and compensated through the courts.

    When broad sweeping and poorly considered surveys are carried out they appear to support the notion of a "pay gap", but these are so broad as to be meaningless - save to support a simplistic notion to further an agenda.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,626 ✭✭✭Glenster


    Omackeral wrote: »
    I feel the modern day ''feminist'' (and I use quotation marks purposely) is more interested in finding victimhood than they are in seeking equality.

    The first step in redressing inequalities is pointing out these inequalities.

    "Why are you pointing out how I'm oppressing you rather than never ever mentioning it and instead immediately and instantly dismantling the apparatus of thousands of years of oppression in secret while no-one is looking?"


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 18,853 ✭✭✭✭silverharp


    Glenster wrote: »
    .

    there are biological differences between men and women, this affects choices , if there are gender stereotypes its because they have biological influences. Even in feminist utopia Sweden they never got equal numbers of men and women to take engineering . why it this? because all things being equal and with no particular financial or cultural stresses men prefer working with things whereas women prefer people centered jobs or nurturing jobs like childcare and that is why you will never get women in large numbers working on oil rigs or mining metals from the ground nor will you see a large movement of men into working in creches

    A belief in gender identity involves a level of faith as there is nothing tangible to prove its existence which, as something divorced from the physical body, is similar to the idea of a soul. - Colette Colfer



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 21,143 ✭✭✭✭El_Duderino 09


    So when a person who is transgender is assaulted, is it a violation of women's rights or men's rights [...]

    Who's rights are being violated there exactly, because I'm lost now?

    That question only makes sense in the men's rights Vs women's rights paradigm. If you're​ interested in equal rights, then the question becomes easier meaningless


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,626 ✭✭✭Glenster


    Zulu wrote: »
    Simply put, there is legislation in place to protect the citizen from being paid less for the same job when they have the same credentials. Instances in breach of this can be redressed and compensated through the courts.

    When broad sweeping and poorly considered surveys are carried out they appear to support the notion of a "pay gap", but these are so broad as to be meaningless - save to support a simplistic notion to further an agenda.

    A pay gap exists and it is not just.

    Explaining why it exists and that there are systems in place where you can spend years and 100's of thousands to prosecute an employer who breaches it does not redress the problem.

    I don't understand the logic that, when faced with the fact that women are paid less than men, some people think it sorts out the issue by saying "this is why, therefore it doesn't matter".

    There is a reason why volcanos erupt, it doesn't mean its not an issue.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,626 ✭✭✭Glenster


    silverharp wrote: »
    there are biological differences between men and women, this affects choices , if there are gender stereotypes its because they have biological influences. Even in feminist utopia Sweden they never got equal numbers of men and women to take engineering . why it this? because all things being equal and with no particular financial or cultural stresses men prefer working with things whereas women prefer people centered jobs or nurturing jobs like childcare and that is why you will never get women in large numbers working on oil rigs or mining metals from the ground nor will you see a large movement of men into working in creches

    I don't think someone's opportunities should be limited by their biology. Doesn't seem fair.

    Also I'm not sure its fair to peg women as more nurturing than men. I'm pretty nurturing.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 18,853 ✭✭✭✭silverharp


    Glenster wrote: »

    I don't understand the logic that, when faced with the fact that women are paid less than men, some people think it sorts out the issue by saying "this is why, therefore it doesn't matter".

    There is a reason why volcanos erupt, it doesn't mean its not an issue.

    maybe you don't understand logic? choices and individual incentives make up the "wage gap" . you should look at male traits like innovation and risk taking or the male obsession with very narrow fields as to why they tend to work in a way which extracts the most green.
    Maybe if you spent some time looking at his with some biological inputs or look at evolutionary biology and psychology you would have a more rounded view, instead of resorting to gender studies talking points or the evil patriarchy.

    A belief in gender identity involves a level of faith as there is nothing tangible to prove its existence which, as something divorced from the physical body, is similar to the idea of a soul. - Colette Colfer



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,967 ✭✭✭✭Zulu


    Glenster wrote: »
    A pay gap exists and it is not just.
    A pay gap exists between the people sat on either side of me, and myself. You say it isn't just. Why? Simply because it exists??
    Explaining why it exists and that there are systems in place where you can spend years and 100's of thousands to prosecute an employer who breaches it does not redress the problem.
    Hyperbole aside - yes it does. And it does it in the fairest way possible.
    I don't understand the logic that, when faced with the fact that women are paid less than men, some people think it sorts out the issue by saying "this is why, therefore it doesn't matter".
    Well it's sensible to consider "why" this might exist. Personally I don't understand the logic of ignoring the reasons. Frankly, it's foolish, ill conceived and dangerous to ignore the reasons.
    There is a reason why volcanos erupt, it doesn't mean its not an issue.
    Certainly. And were you to live on the slopes of that Volcano wouldn't you like to understand why it erupts? Or would you prefer to just cry about it not being fair that other mountains don't?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,967 ✭✭✭✭Zulu


    Glenster wrote: »
    I don't think someone's opportunities should be limited by their biology. Doesn't seem fair.
    Genuinely? Should we disband the mens 100m and introduce a gender neutral quota? What would you do when the men keep winning? Introduce a further handicap??

    In more general terms, I worry about the impact of the "everyone's a winner" mindset; "medals for all!" :(
    Life is not fair. And you'd be best set to accept that.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 18,853 ✭✭✭✭silverharp


    Glenster wrote: »
    I don't think someone's opportunities should be limited by their biology. Doesn't seem fair.

    fair has got nothing to do with and to make it "fair" would destroy society and make more people miserable. Everything you buy for instance has something from the ground like metals etc. are you suggesting that women should be forced to be miners 50/50 with men? even though women wouldn't want to do the job and if they were forced to their productivity would be lower?


    Glenster wrote: »
    Also I'm not sure its fair to peg women as more nurturing than men. I'm pretty nurturing.

    as dads maybe but most men wouldn't want to be paid to looks after infants and toddlers

    A belief in gender identity involves a level of faith as there is nothing tangible to prove its existence which, as something divorced from the physical body, is similar to the idea of a soul. - Colette Colfer



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,499 ✭✭✭Carlos Orange


    Glenster wrote: »
    I don't think someone's opportunities should be limited by their biology. Doesn't seem fair.

    All people are is biology.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,626 ✭✭✭Glenster


    Zulu wrote: »
    A pay gap exists between the people sat on either side of me, and myself. You say it isn't just. Why? Simply because it exists??

    I think your gender shouldn't be a contributing factor to how much you are paid, that's why its unjust.

    Hyperbole aside - yes it does. And it does it in the fairest way possible.

    Has the issue of murder been addressed because there a legal systems in place to punish murderers?

    Well it's sensible to consider "why" this might exist. Personally I don't understand the logic of ignoring the reasons. Frankly, it's foolish, ill conceived and dangerous to ignore the reasons.

    I agree its logical to look at the reasons, that was the first thing I did, but just because you've explained why something is happening doesn't mean its not happening. What's foolish and Illogical is to react to the news that there is a pay gap partly because women aren't managers and to respond to that by saying "Grand then, there's not really a pay gap at all then"

    Certainly. And were you to live on the slopes of that Volcano wouldn't you like to understand why it erupts?

    Again that was the first thing I did

    Or would you prefer to just cry about it not being fair that other mountains don't?

    I don't think I'd cry, I would tell people that the mountain is erupting and that its impacting a lot of people, then I'd lobby whatever agency is in charge of dealing with the mountain to put sufficient controls in place to either stop the mountain erupting or reduce the damage caused if the mountain erupts again.

    All the while doing this I would continually draw attention to the damage that the eruptions cause by citing specific instances of damage in order to ensure that the issues doesn't become forgotten and gets swept under the rug
    .


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 23,495 ✭✭✭✭Billy86


    Something really interesting that was pointed out to me by wibbs I think it was a good while back is that while there is (or at the time was) a 14% difference in the pay gap between men and women, women under 30 without children were actually earning 30% more than their male counterparts.

    A big part of the problem is clearly the lack parental leave (with it almost entirely being distributed as maternity leave), meaning that if a couple in their 20s had a child today the woman in the relationship would statistically be earning more money and thus would be classified as the primary breadwinner and one would imagine more likely to have better prospects moving forward. However because of an antiquated law that could surely be changed with very little effort or controversy, if they wanted to raise the child from a young age she would have to be the one to do so, harming not only the family's immediate income but also her career prospects moving forward (and by extension, the family's future income). It really is quite irritating to think about, not least because unlike controversial issues like abortion etc where politicians unfortunately have personal career concerns impacting their decisions or lack of action, all that is holding this back is laziness in terms of acting.

    It also seems to point to the fact that the market is correcting itself to a great extent, related to women attending college and upskilling more so than in previous generations, but also to employers being less likely to discriminate against women for career opportunities and pay rates based on gender. That is a very, very good sign in and of itself... but it is being hindered in no small part by them having to take six months out of work after having a child (or hiring someone to look after the baby, which for personal and financial reasons many don't see as an option), which is such an easy change to make that I really can't see any sizable demographic (even those that oppose anything simply for the sake of opposing it) being able or likely even interested to make any decent argument against.

    If the couple want the mother to take the most/all of the parental leave as is currently the case, they can continue to do so. If they feel the father doing so would be a better idea, they could choose that option too. If they wish to split it, they could do that too. Or if they wish to continue to work and hire someone to mind the baby, that could also be an option.

    Not to say that would immediately solve everything or even be of much use to those who this has already effected, but it's such an easy answer to safeguard against it in future and makes absolutely zero sense to have not been implemented long ago.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,626 ✭✭✭Glenster


    silverharp wrote: »
    fair has got nothing to do with and to make it "fair" would destroy society and make more people miserable.

    I respectfully disagree that redressing an injustice would destroy society.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,967 ✭✭✭✭Zulu


    Glenster wrote: »
    I think your gender shouldn't be a contributing factor to how much you are paid, that's why its unjust.
    And I'd agree. That said, perhaps the reason the person sitting beside me is getting paid less has nothing to do with gender.
    If women are paid less than me because of their gender, this is addressable through the justice system.
    If women are paid less than men for other reasons, perhaps there's a good reason for this (eg:less competitive, work less hours, working different roles ).
    Has the issue of murder been addressed because there a legal systems in place to punish murderers?
    What do you mean "has it been addressed"? Did you raise the issue other than now? Whats the issue you wish addressed? It's illegal.
    I agree its logical to look at the reasons, that was the first thing I did, but just because you've explained why something is happening doesn't mean its not happening.
    True, but if it's explaining that it's not happening due to "gender" but to other reasons, then it's not problematic in my (and most of society's) opinion.


    BTW: the way you reply makes it very difficult to respond to you.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,626 ✭✭✭Glenster


    Zulu wrote: »
    Genuinely? Should we disband the mens 100m and introduce a gender neutral quota? What would you do when the men keep winning? Introduce a further handicap??

    In more general terms, I worry about the impact of the "everyone's a winner" mindset; "medals for all!" :(
    Life is not fair. And you'd be best set to accept that.

    I don't particularly want everyone to get medals.

    Though I wouldn't be protesting with placards if they did.

    I don't have a problem with men being paid more if they're better, just not because they're men.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 18,853 ✭✭✭✭silverharp


    Glenster wrote: »
    I respectfully disagree that redressing an injustice would destroy society.

    its not an injustice , its just a difference. why are you assuming that men and women are the same when its clear they aren't. Is it an injustice that some men excel in fields like IT which appeal to the male brain? To make society "fair" in your sense would mean forcing men to be less productive so society would lose out because stuff wouldn't get done or innovation would slow down. Society is in a sweet spot at the moment, women aren't kept out of the workforce and everyone is free to compete for jobs/income in the way that works for them
    Im amazed you cant see it and you are a man?

    A belief in gender identity involves a level of faith as there is nothing tangible to prove its existence which, as something divorced from the physical body, is similar to the idea of a soul. - Colette Colfer



  • Posts: 5,094 ✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    Zulu wrote: »
    However, as a father of two, I took a month unpaid leave (because leave parental or otherwise wasnt available to me) to be there for the first month of my children's lives. I did the night feeds for those months so my wife could recover and rest.

    I'm looking for praise, or flowers to be thrown at me, but you really rilled my feathers with your flippant comments - not every man chooses to be so uninvolved.

    But men generally have a choice, and women generally don't have a choice. That is the distinction. I suspect this will continue for as long as women alone are the only ones who can give birth to, and breastfeed, babies. The post I responded to viewed maternity leave as a holiday for women: 'Sick of seeing female colleagues getting a six month paid holiday to have a child while I'm slaving in the office with no option for the same.'

    It's not, and it's disingenuous to argue that men do not have more choice than women on this issue. They do. That the vast majority of men choose to stay working outside the home after childbirth indicates their working preferences. Given this, it's a bit rich for the above male poster to, without irony, state that it is maternity leave that is a 'six-month paid holiday'.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,626 ✭✭✭Glenster


    silverharp wrote: »
    its not an injustice , its just a difference. why are you assuming that men and women are the same when its clear they aren't. Is it an injustice that some men excel in fields like IT which appeal to the male brain? To make society "fair" in your sense would mean forcing men to be less productive so society would lose out because stuff wouldn't get done or innovation would slow down. Society is in a sweet spot at the moment, women aren't kept out of the workforce and everyone is free to compete for jobs/income in the way that works for them
    Im amazed you cant see it and you are a man?

    Absolute horsesh*t.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,967 ✭✭✭✭Zulu


    Glenster wrote: »
    I don't have a problem with men being paid more if they're better, just not because they're men.
    Well on this, at the very least, we can agree.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 18,853 ✭✭✭✭silverharp


    Glenster wrote: »
    Absolute horsesh*t.

    not an argument...I win, well played sir!...well played!

    A belief in gender identity involves a level of faith as there is nothing tangible to prove its existence which, as something divorced from the physical body, is similar to the idea of a soul. - Colette Colfer



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,047 ✭✭✭optogirl


    Looking forward to some parity. Sick of seeing female colleagues getting a six month paid holiday to have a child while I'm slaving in the office with no option for the same.


    Whose fault is that? Not your female colleagues anyway.

    A six month paid holiday? Troll be trolling


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,245 ✭✭✭myshirt


    How come we only hear from the women shouting loud for all the air conditioned office jobs?

    Where are the women who want equality in the jobs as rubbish collectors, landscapers, landfill operators, sewer inspectors, portapotty cleaner, or proctologists even?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,967 ✭✭✭✭Zulu


    But men generally have a choice, and women generally don't have a choice. That is the distinction.
    My "choice" as you put it, was to take a month unpaid leave. I could only do this as I had a contract which gave me the opportunity to do it. I risked losing that contract. I got "lucky". How many men have that opportunity? Damn all I'd suggest.
    By your argument women could "choose" to turn down mat. leave and return to work after a short period of recovery (all going well in childbirth).
    I suspect this will continue for as long as women alone are the only ones who can give birth to, and breastfeed, babies.
    Breastfeeding isn't a straightforward option. Sometimes it happens, sometimes it doesn't. But that's an aside, it will continue as long as men are deprived parental leave. Give couples a choice - give 9 months parental leave to the couple to work out amongst themselves. ....and come up with a system that works for self-employed (good luck with that).
    ...it's disingenuous to argue that men do not have more choice than women on this issue. They do.
    They don't. It's daft to argue they do. You'd compare 2 weeks to maternity leave in all seriousness? Really??


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 18,853 ✭✭✭✭silverharp


    myshirt wrote: »
    How come we only hear from the women shouting loud for all the air conditioned office jobs?

    Where are the women who want equality in the jobs as rubbish collectors, landscapers, landfill operators, sewer inspectors, portapotty cleaner, or proctologists even?

    careful there, air conditioning is sexist I believe, that blew up as an issue a year or 2 back, its a nighmare :D

    A belief in gender identity involves a level of faith as there is nothing tangible to prove its existence which, as something divorced from the physical body, is similar to the idea of a soul. - Colette Colfer



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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,047 ✭✭✭optogirl


    myshirt wrote: »
    How come we only hear from the women shouting loud for all the air conditioned office jobs?

    Where are the women who want equality in the jobs as rubbish collectors, landscapers, landfill operators, sewer inspectors, portapotty cleaner, or proctologists even?

    Fuc*ing everywhere


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