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"Significant" numbers of babies remains actually found

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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 32,634 ✭✭✭✭Graces7


    minibear wrote: »
    The nuns will probably eventually "remember" that a priest actually officiated at interments into this pit/tomb/septic tank.
    I really do hope that there will be a lot less than 800 remains in the site, because the babies were worth so much more as adoptees to be "sold". The nuns were running a business and it was all about profit so we can only hope that they looked after their interests.

    Is it known how many different doctors were involved on the death certs?
    is it known what kind of testing is planned on the remains?
    If they've already done C14 dating on some of the bones, do they intend to date them all and will they DNA test them so that each individual can be reinterred?
    The religious orders bank accounts should be frozen and the money taken from them to pay for this testing and their re-burial and the headstones for every single child buried there.

    I think it's difficult for some people to appreciate the grip that the church had on this country at times. In the 1930's my father in law's mother died when he was a child. His father wanted to keep the children and raise them himself but they were forcibly taken from the home and put into various institutions around the country. My father in law ended up in Letterfrack but was lucky enough at age fourteen to be sent to work for a farmer who treated him like his own child. He was friends with another child in Letterfrack who, after some minor misdemeanour was beaten so badly he died. They claimed he died from TB. Yet after all this, my father in law still can't understand why we won't baptise our daughter. He buys The Irish Catholic (i find it fairly poor fodder for lighting a fire) and he goes to mass when he can.

    If you can bear it, "Song of a Raggedy Boy" is on youtube.

    Many of the orders have already feathered their nests with brand new purpose built retirement homes costing millions. And when they are allgon under Canon Law their money and property will go to Rome not Ireland.

    I have no quarrel with anyone going to mass. or believing. The problem is that those who abused were not following the teachings

    Interesting many of the leading Nazis went to Mass also. Anyone can go to mass.

    Doing so in deep faith is a great thing.I envy him.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 32,634 ✭✭✭✭Graces7


    One thing I often wonder too is did the priests and nuns join the priesthood and orders because they were inherently bad people and knew it was an outlet for their sheer evilness or did they just get caught up in a culture of bullying and cruelty. I know there were good priests and nuns too but were muted as soon as they spoke out at all ala The Spotlight film.

    No. As I said yesterday, many were conscripted from dirt poor families as that way the family knew that they would be fed and cared for all their lives and buried.

    They were desperate folk, and they did all the hard work in the huge convents and were as helpless as others to change things.

    Many of the Murohy and ryan findings point out how the children were always so grateful for any small kindesses shown them and that often there was one sister who was kind.

    The elite believed in what they were doing and that they were right.

    Same as today .

    And the ones who objected were treated like dirt themselves and ejected finally. Still a good few exiled sisters rattling around today


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 32,634 ✭✭✭✭Graces7


    infogiver wrote: »
    But undertakers have to be paid and graves purchased. The CoCo were paying for the keep of the girls and their babies, were they going to pay for the funeral arrangements too?

    No they don't. They had land. As we see. Undertakers for what? To lay the bodies out? To this day, Sisters lay out their own dead.

    What arrangements? They had gardeners, field hands to dig the graves. Tiny graves too.

    And the Orders had money

    The Bon Secours? They buried I think 12 of their sisters there, and when they moved, they exhumed them and reburied them and a fine monument erected

    Now THAT cost..That really cost.

    So they walked away, nb with the profit from the sale of that land, leaving nearly 800 little ones like that?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,318 ✭✭✭Wompa1


    A lot of thoughts running through my brain the last couple of days.

    My mother was not Irish and not Catholic. When they moved us to Ireland, my mother converted to Catholicism. She did her communion the same day my sister did. My dad did not attend, in fact he never went to mass and has been strictly against organized religion during my entire life.

    YET! He made sure my mother converted to catholicism and that we were raised catholic by her to put on the image for others in the village and to please my grandparents, who pressured my parents about my mother not being catholic.

    My brother and I were forced by my dad to become altar boys. The local priest at the time had a nickname: Happy hands. This nickname was being thrown around by the parents in the f*cking town...they were letting a guy who they joked about being a child molester hang around their kids. Never saw him do anything, rumors stemmed from his previous parish. He got moved from our parish after only a year or two.

    I remember a different priest took over around the time of my classes confirmation. He would come in and ask our teacher to step out. He would turn red in the face yelling at us about being sinners and going to hell.

    The telling bit of all of this for me is that my father who is not at all religious didn't speak out and didn't protect his own kids from the scumbag church despite his own experiences. He also subjected his wife to that BS. Not enough that she moved to rural Ireland in the 80's for him then she had to go through all of that because he wanted his parents acceptance.

    These creeps still run the schools and can use religion as criteria for accepting children. We need to make sure our generation is the change. No more looking the other way or trying to keep mammy and daddy happy. People can have their religion, they can still have their churches and mass but they need to be kept the feck out of everything else. No place in schools, no place in policy making, no parish priest going around from house to house for "visits"



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 32,634 ✭✭✭✭Graces7


    ceadaoin. wrote: »
    I didn't know that, it's quite shocking. A lot of older people probably left school early and that might skew the figures somewhat?

    That's besides the point though because these institutions were paid by the government to raise and educate these children. If this girl was unable to read after 16 years in their care then that says a lot.

    Well, look at who created the education system here?

    Literacy also has always been low priority in farming circles.

    My previous 2 rural landlords were illiterate. The first could barely sign his own name. Yet he was the richest man in the county. Buitl each of his family mansions;cattle famer.

    The second could barely read. I think he was dyslexic, undiagnosed. Again a farmer

    They were taken out of school early to work on the farm


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,893 ✭✭✭Bullocks


    One thing I often wonder too is did the priests and nuns join the priesthood and orders because they were inherently bad people and knew it was an outlet for their sheer evilness or did they just get caught up in a culture of bullying and cruelty. I know there were good priests and nuns too but were muted as soon as they spoke out at all ala The Spotlight film.

    I wonder about this aswell , how did so much bad happen ? Was there any good priest / nun or were loads of them bad and knew joining up that it was a good lifestyle to hide their sadist ways or did alot of them get pressured into joining up and then take their frustration at their life out on easy victims ?
    Either way I dont see how there were any good ones even if they didnt abuse children they must still have known what was going on and thats as bad

    How members of the clergy not been murdered by victims down through the years I do not know :mad:


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,746 ✭✭✭Flippyfloppy


    infogiver wrote: »
    Colser wrote: »
    Do you honestly believe that they couldn't afford to bury the babies in a dignified fashion?

    To have funerals and individual graves for every child who died? No of course they couldn't afford it. How do you suggest they could have afforded it?

    Probably with all the cash they made from the illegal child trafficking for one, there was also money coming in for the upkeep of the children that the nuns weren't spending on their food or medicine because the kids were malnourished and dying of minor illnesses. Parents were also required to pay a hefty fee to take the women in the first place, maybe that could of gone towards a funeral fee? Or the money the nuns made from the mothers and older kids made from doing the Laundry. That could of paid, seeing as the weren't actually using any of it towards the residents upkeep.

    Instead what you have is at least 796 unreported,internally 'dealt with' bodies of vulnerable young children in a mass grave, that has been DENIED knowledge of because of the fact it was wrong on many levels.

    Children who were dying off at a rate far higher than the national average. Why, with all that money those women and children should have been the best looked after and well fed people in the country, instead of the contrary. Who was enjoying all that profit?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,955 ✭✭✭Sunflower 27


    Graces7 wrote: »
    They had and have abundant money. Period. And burial of course. Oh but then the little ones were illegitimate so no consecrated ground for them.

    No excuse. None. Starving to death then dumping? You are defending that?

    NB I would never have stayed in a set up like that. Period.

    100%. The nuns didn't even regard the children as human.. I cannot imagine how anyone could feast away, lining their pockets as children perish around them. This is one horrendous black mark in Ireland's history that needs to be acknowledged. Those poor children that lived such a short time to experience nothing but pain. Utterly heartbreaking.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 17,181 ✭✭✭✭Grayson


    Even the poorest of people wouldn't have chucked a child's body into a sewer. To suggest that nun's wanted to do the right thing, but couldn't because of money, is just stupid. It's a sewer. At the very least they could have dug a small grave.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,318 ✭✭✭Wompa1


    Bullocks wrote: »
    I wonder about this aswell , how did so much bad happen ? Was there any good priest / nun or were loads of them bad and knew joining up that it was a good lifestyle to hide their sadist ways or did alot of them get pressured into joining up and then take their frustration at their life out on easy victims ?
    Either way I dont see how there were any good ones even if they didnt abuse children they must still have known what was going on and thats as bad

    How members of the clergy not been murdered by victims down through the years I do not know :mad:

    Can't be true for all BUT women who committed to celibacy to become a nun, who obviously would never have children of their own were to care for other people's children. How many didn't want their own children because they didn't have the desire to be a mother? Imagine not wanting kids, having no feeling toward them and then being surrounded by children who need attention the most....


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,893 ✭✭✭Bullocks


    100%. The nuns didn't even regard the children as human.. I cannot imagine how anyone could feast away, lining their pockets as children perish around them. This is one horrendous black mark in Ireland's history that needs to be acknowledged. Those poor children that lived such a short time to experience nothing but pain. Utterly heartbreaking.

    The sad thing is that the church will do anything not to admit/acknowledge or apolagise for what happened
    They had less feelings than animals to be able to let this happen in their lives


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,893 ✭✭✭Bullocks


    Wompa1 wrote: »
    Can't be true for all BUT women who committed to celibacy to become a nun, who obviously would never have children of their own were to care for other people's children. How many didn't want their own children because they didn't have the desire to be a mother? Imagine not wanting kids, having no feeling toward them and then being surrounded by children who need attention the most....

    Children are children whether you want them yourself or not , it is a monster that doesnt feel like caring for a sick child and can leave them die when they could have tried harder and given them a life they're entitled to ,like every child is


  • Moderators, Social & Fun Moderators, Paid Member Posts: 14,071 Mod ✭✭✭✭JupiterKid


    The more I read through this thread the angrier I get.

    The Catholic Church has damaged so many people, so many families. I walked away from the church back in 1993 when I was 18 and I have never looked back. I think there are actually relatively few families in Ireland that the church haven't negatively affected in one way or another. The monstrous and wicked, vile things they did to vilnerable people, and small children being the most vulnerable of all, are just sickening.

    After 25 years of revelations of large scale abuse and corruption and pure rottenness, I thought that could not hear anything that would shock me any further. But the more we peel off the mask, the uglier the real face of the church and yes, Irish society until recently becomes. Hideous.

    The only thing that keeps me from pure despair is the knowledge that the church in Ireland is fatally wounded - it is in terminal decline.

    And Ireland isn't the only country these "mother and baby" misery prisons operated in - I'm sure there are similar tales from the USA, Continental Europe, Canada, South America and Australia to name a few waiting to be revealed.

    Sickening.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,955 ✭✭✭Sunflower 27


    Bullocks wrote: »
    The sad thing is that the church will do anything not to admit/acknowledge or apolagise for what happened
    They had less feelings than animals to be able to let this happen in their lives

    True, they may not apologise, but the world will know what went on here and remember. It will be documented in history now.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,955 ✭✭✭Sunflower 27


    Grayson wrote: »
    Even the poorest of people wouldn't have chucked a child's body into a sewer. To suggest that nun's wanted to do the right thing, but couldn't because of money, is just stupid. It's a sewer. At the very least they could have dug a small grave.

    They saw the babies as waste and the lowest of the low. Can't help but think they got a kick out of disposing of them in a sewer with no regard at all.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 981 ✭✭✭Bishopsback


    This was an appalling event in our history, an appalling indictment of the catholic church, an appalling indictment of Irish society at the time.
    My wife and I had our first pregnancy out of marriage, though we were married when our first was born, and it caused great upheaval in both families at the time, in the early eighties.
    We always wonder what it would have been like 40 years earlier.
    Thankfully we are no worse off, but as a parent my heart goes out to anyone who was involved in anything like this.
    Unfair comparison maybe, but all I can compare it to in my mind is concentration camps.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 32,634 ✭✭✭✭Graces7


    Wompa1 wrote: »
    Can't be true for all BUT women who committed to celibacy to become a nun, who obviously would never have children of their own were to care for other people's children. How many didn't want their own children because they didn't have the desire to be a mother? Imagine not wanting kids, having no feeling toward them and then being surrounded by children who need attention the most....

    Can we distinguish here please , between monastic celibacy in eg the Poor Clares, and what happened with these conscripts?

    Monastic celibacy is a chosen thing, carefully monitored and trained. It is to give all of yourself to Jesus without the ties of children etc. A positive not negative.

    The Church calls only the enclosed contemplative orders "Nuns" : the other eg Mercies, are Religious Sisters.

    Most of the Sisters in these times were conscripted. And did nto see choice as we do ..

    In neither case though would there necessarily be the lack of maternal feelings . Often far from it.

    But they had no training. No idea. and were bound by Obedience.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 32,634 ✭✭✭✭Graces7


    Clearly these folk do not know the Bible..

    Last summer I took folk to visit the Windmill at Blennerville. Saw the huge millstones propped against the wall...and thought these words

    " It would be better for them to be thrown into the sea with a millstone tied around their neck than to cause one of these little ones to stumble."

    The words of Jesus.

    When there is such a dichotomy between Church and Jesus?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 32,688 ✭✭✭✭ytpe2r5bxkn0c1


    Graces7 wrote: »
    Can we distinguish here please , between monastic celibacy in eg the Poor Clares, and what happened with these conscripts?

    Monastic celibacy is a chosen thing, carefully monitored and trained. It is to give all of yourself to Jesus without the ties of children etc. A positive not negative.

    The Church calls only the enclosed contemplative orders "Nuns" : the other eg Mercies, are Religious Sisters.

    Most of the Sisters in these times were conscripted. And did nto see choice as we do ..

    In neither case though would there necessarily be the lack of maternal feelings . Often far from it.

    But they had no training. No idea. and were bound by Obedience.

    Sorry, I can't make any sense out of that. Conscripted nuns?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,220 ✭✭✭jackboy


    Graces7 wrote: »
    Can we distinguish here please , between monastic celibacy in eg the Poor Clares, and what happened with these conscripts?

    Monastic celibacy is a chosen thing, carefully monitored and trained. It is to give all of yourself to Jesus without the ties of children etc. A positive not negative.

    The Church calls only the enclosed contemplative orders "Nuns" : the other eg Mercies, are Religious Sisters.

    Most of the Sisters in these times were conscripted. And did nto see choice as we do ..

    In neither case though would there necessarily be the lack of maternal feelings . Often far from it.

    But they had no training. No idea. and were bound by Obedience.
    Since the Nuremburg trials, using 'following orders' as an excuse is no longer tolerated.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,681 ✭✭✭Fleawuss


    Stop baptizing children if you don't believe ALL their stuff. Stop getting married in their churches. Stop filling in the religion your parents gave you on census forms and hospital forms.

    Start phoning your TD complaining about Religious control of schools. Religious influence in what is taught. Religious ideas in health issues. Start building a secular republic where ALL religions are treated as private expressions of an individual and have no impact on the provision of state services.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,933 ✭✭✭smurgen


    I will not be getting married in a church and will not have any future children involved in the church.****ing shower of creepy scumbags.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 17,495 ✭✭✭✭eviltwin


    I wonder if anyone here was in mass this morning if they would let us know was this story and those little children acknowledged in anyway?


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 9,005 ✭✭✭pilly


    Cdosrun wrote:
    I was near to closing my account here beause of of these trolls.


    They're like gremlins. Don't feed them and they'll go away. If they really don't have any empathy for the relatives of those poor children who were thrown in a pit then there's something lacking in them.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,544 ✭✭✭Samaris


    infogiver wrote: »
    If you had been in charge what would have happened to the dead children, taking everything into consideration, and how would you have paid for these arrangements?
    Well, given money was expected (£100) for "caring" for these women and children (if the woman could not afford this fee, she worked it off in the convent), plus the money from adoptions, plus any tithe money or donation money, I am sure that somewhere in there, there would have been the cash to ensure that a child wasn't dying every fortnight for the entire length of the places opening. (Yes, I am sure that it didn't actually work out like that, some probably died in waves. That makes it all better, doesn't it). I think there would also have been the money to dig a series of graves with even one headstone commemorating that nearly eight hundred children lay there.

    I rather suspect that yes, if the effort had been made, it could have been done.

    Bullocks wrote: »
    I wonder about this aswell , how did so much bad happen ? Was there any good priest / nun or were loads of them bad and knew joining up that it was a good lifestyle to hide their sadist ways or did alot of them get pressured into joining up and then take their frustration at their life out on easy victims ?
    Either way I dont see how there were any good ones even if they didnt abuse children they must still have known what was going on and thats as bad

    How members of the clergy not been murdered by victims down through the years I do not know :mad:
    Sorry, I can't make any sense out of that. Conscripted nuns?

    I suspect that "conscription" answers both of these. Many women did become nuns because their families felt that having a child in the ministry (priest for preference, but nun also respected) was essential for social standing. It was also a useful solution for women who hadn't managed to catch a husband and was thus a drain on the family's finances. On top of that, you appear to have had a very heirarchial structure where wealth and breeding told. So two sets of religieuses, the lesser of which did the heavy work. It was controlled absolutely by the Mother Superior and if she was a decent woman, it probably ticked along okay. If she wasn't...

    If you were taken from your family and put to work somewhere at an early age with a hundred and one rules to follow, imprisoned in a convent and literally the only people lower than you were the wretched women who come in having broken the laws of the land (well, the laws of religion) to which you are expected to be devoted, and there's so many of them.. Yes, I can see how either a passive woman whose had all the spirit taken out of her or a frustrated, resentful woman, would either obey absolutely and trust to God's will (remembering that Obedience was one of the top three rules), or take out their anger on these people who are actually below her on the pecking order.

    On top of that, the whole business is enforced by the senior nuns, the Mother Superior AND the State outside. And you have nowhere to go as an exiled nun.

    It doesn't excuse it. But it might explain it.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 892 ✭✭✭BlinkingLights


    Wompa1 wrote: »
    Can't be true for all BUT women who committed to celibacy to become a nun, who obviously would never have children of their own were to care for other people's children. How many didn't want their own children because they didn't have the desire to be a mother? Imagine not wanting kids, having no feeling toward them and then being surrounded by children who need attention the most....

    I'm male, and I'm not a father but I think I've a hard wired instinct to protect and look after kids. It would go against every fibre of what it is that makes me human or even mammalian to allow a kid to suffer or go without food.

    It's totally abnormal to treat babies, kids, teens and vulnerable adults the way these absolute monsters did.

    I'd have thought all normal humans share that same instinct to protect children and look after people generally?

    I couldn't imagine putting my own needs ahead of a baby? I mean FFS, I'd put myself at risk to rescue someone.

    It's why I can't get my head around this. It really must have taken one hell of a twisted view of the world for them to have just turned on children, women and vulnerable people generally like this.

    Also pregnant women?!? I'd have thought that in most people's heads that you have an instinct to protect the pregnant and make sure that they're helped?
    I just can't even imagine how anyone could bully and abuse women like that.

    It's a fundamentally human trait to help and protect other humans.

    These "things" clearly cast away any shred of their own humanity in some kind of utterly twisted notions of punishing sinners or something. Utterly sickening really when you consider just what went on in those places.

    It's even worse when you consider that people couldn't have not known about it and did nothing.

    It's just indefensible behaviour, yet you'll still have various diehard loyalists to the organisation who will attempt to defend it.

    I'm just fed up hearing excuses.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 32,634 ✭✭✭✭Graces7


    Samaris wrote: »
    Well, given money was expected (£100) for "caring" for these women and children (if the woman could not afford this fee, she worked it off in the convent), plus the money from adoptions, plus any tithe money or donation money, I am sure that somewhere in there, there would have been the cash to ensure that a child wasn't dying every fortnight for the entire length of the places opening. (Yes, I am sure that it didn't actually work out like that, some probably died in waves. That makes it all better, doesn't it). I think there would also have been the money to dig a series of graves with even one headstone commemorating that nearly eight hundred children lay there.

    I rather suspect that yes, if the effort had been made, it could have been done.

    I suspect that "conscription" answers both of these. Many women did become nuns because their families felt that having a child in the ministry (priest for preference, but nun also respected) was essential for social standing. It was also a useful solution for women who hadn't managed to catch a husband and was thus a drain on the family's finances. On top of that, you appear to have had a very heirarchial structure where wealth and breeding told. So two sets of religieuses, the lesser of which did the heavy work. It was controlled absolutely by the Mother Superior and if she was a decent woman, it probably ticked along okay. If she wasn't...

    If you were taken from your family and put to work somewhere at an early age with a hundred and one rules to follow, imprisoned in a convent and literally the only people lower than you were the wretched women who come in having broken the laws of the land (well, the laws of religion) to which you are expected to be devoted, and there's so many of them.. Yes, I can see how either a passive woman whose had all the spirit taken out of her or a frustrated, resentful woman, would either obey absolutely and trust to God's will (remembering that Obedience was one of the top three rules), or take out their anger on these people who are actually below her on the pecking order.

    On top of that, the whole business is enforced by the senior nuns, the Mother Superior AND the State outside. And you have nowhere to go as an exiled nun.

    It doesn't excuse it. But it might explain it.

    That is a bleak and thankfully outtdated view of religious life samaris.

    IIt can be and often is a joyous and fruitful giving of self to God, but that applies more to the enclosed and contemplative orders.

    Thankfully it has returned to being that for the few who enter. A way oflife like no other

    What happened here in the wake of the decision by Rome after the famine was a travesti of that holy life.

    The church was set on large numbers in the priesthood and active religious sisters. As large as could be.

    It all hinges on that campaign; look up Paul Cardinal Cullen and read this clearly

    I used the word conscription as opposed to vocation.

    When you have ten children and the priest and two sisters are at your door asking which of your children you were giving to God? They were well dressed, well fed, clean and offering a permanent home and food etc to some of the brood clamouring for food....

    Like the old "join the navy and see the world" campaigns.

    There would have been some for whom it was a blessing

    Oh and they took them in from 15 onwards by the way. Later that got raised to 18 lower limit.

    Back street young women, , tough and grateful. A safe place to live and work, which it was.

    Holy Obedience again is a fine and lovely thing, in the right hands, and in the enclosed orders it worked well.
    But it is also the most easily abused of the Vows.

    And yet there is in the Irish temperament a willingness to cave in to authority? Wonder how far that goes back.

    I am explaining here that i have a special interest here. As a highly qualified academic specialising in monastic and ecclesiastic history and life I came to Ireland with a new book ( my 5th) on the Catholic Church in Ireland in the early decades of the 21st century commissioned.

    As I was and am also living the solitary life that has always been valued within the church, I was welcomed and doors opened.

    During the years I lived in parishes, talked in depth to priests, visited orders.

    That was just before it all started; the abuse revelations.

    The first was Goldenbridge. A good neighbour then had a sister in the Mercies; Their excuse was no money and that was when I started to wonder.

    Then people started seeking me out to tell their experiences... unimaginable suffering

    And from then to now. Every order, every diocese. Every planned chapter scrapped.

    Needless to say there will be no book now.

    I knew a long while ago re the babies. A relief that it is in the open now . And there is far more to come. Knew re the seminaries too.

    I have met some wonderful nuns and priests along the way. I lived years near a Poor Clare convent. Good holy women of deep faith and compassion and helpless against what was happening. True religious life. Priests just home from eg Africa, bewildered at what they found here.

    I believe in religious life. What happened in the earlier years was not that.

    Hence the word conscription. The women had little choice between joining and living on the streets.

    To see a whole convent of habited women in procession was an amazing and moving sight.

    Now almost all gone.

    One of the first Mercy Sisters I ever met explained.. " we were called into being to establish hospitals and schools. Now the State has taken that over and we have an ageing population of sisters to care for and that is a work in itself "

    A crying shame they damaged so many vulnerable ones on the way


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,274 ✭✭✭Mr.Wemmick


    pilly wrote: »
    They're like gremlins. Don't feed them and they'll go away. If they really don't have any empathy for the relatives of those poor children who were thrown in a pit then there's something lacking in them.

    You could easily be talking about the religious members of various organizations/orders across Ireland. Sister or Father Troll.. with a few surreptitiously scattered across boards, I'd say.

    As far as the poor nuns/clergy not having any money to bury dead children, lol!
    How much richer were the church/religious orders in the 40s/50s/60s? Did the wretched poor families, who we know lived in every corner of Ireland at that time and were significantly worse off, throw their dead into pits? Or ditches maybe? Perhaps they will find the remains of starved nuns in with the children too, being so poor they might've thrown each other in after death and kept it quiet. Bless!

    “Female is real, and it's sex, and femininity is unreal, and it's gender.

    For that to become the given identity of women is a profoundly disabling notion."

    — Germaine Greer



  • Closed Accounts Posts: 40,059 ✭✭✭✭Harry Palmr


    Fleawuss wrote: »
    Stop baptizing children if you don't believe ALL their stuff. Stop getting married in their churches. Stop filling in the religion your parents gave you on census forms and hospital forms.

    Start phoning your TD complaining about Religious control of schools. Religious influence in what is taught. Religious ideas in health issues. Start building a secular republic where ALL religions are treated as private expressions of an individual and have no impact on the provision of state services.

    This is what's maddening - the Catholic Church in Ireland has a rap sheet of crimes against common decency and humanity as long as you like yet people troop in every Sunday and play along with the social infrastructure they have a measure of control over.

    This must stop or nothing changes. That there are good people in the Church doesn't matter, they inhabit a evil organisation.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,215 ✭✭✭Samsgirl


    eviltwin wrote: »
    I wonder if anyone here was in mass this morning if they would let us know was this story and those little children acknowledged in anyway?

    I was supposed to take my 5yr old to mass this morning to sing in the choir but after reading this entire thread I couldn't stomach it. Mr Sam has taken her -against my wishes. I will ask him when they get back.
    We live in rural Tipperary and the church is still held in high regard here. My inlaws refuse to hear the truth.
    There was a priest in the parish where I grew up who was 'moved on' when abuse allegations came to light. Imagine my surprise to find him in Mr Sams Aunts house saying mass and being around young children.
    I told them of the abuse in Waterford but they accused me of making up lies and continually invited this man into their home.
    Six months ago this priest was arrested over similar incidents in Limerick.
    Not a word said. The church still has power in parts of Ireland. People are just blind.


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