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What was your biggest "get me out of here!" moment in a relationship?

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    #302
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    nice_guy80 wrote: »
    there should be a 'no discussion rule' on this thread

    state the facts and move on


    But what happens when the facts are not properly stated and people want clarification?


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    #303
    Baxterly13
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    Johnnio13 wrote: »
    This is quality gold!!

    Years ago had an American travelling Europe forgo her trip home because she thought I was her soul mate and life partner. This was after 2 hours sitting at the bar chatting. Thinking she was joking and 'cause the offer was there we got together that night but she went and changed her flights the next day and stayed 6months. Even got a job in the bar I worked in. But I left the job after 3 months because she would ask to work all the same shifts. She would continue to call to the house at all times of day or night. Left a copy of Serendipity on my door step and said it was about our future. Called me once from a night club in Galway to tell me she was going to bang some guy 'cause he looked like me. I see her occasionally around Dublin now working in Grand Canal Sq somewhere. I was only with her the once thank god. Bat-Sh%t...Good luck to anyone that has her now.

    had a another Northie one that wanted me to role play and follow her to the bathroom where upon she would leave the door open and I would walk in and ta-da see her showering, or so I thought. Didn't think this out fully. If a woman/man ever says this. Walk away people. Just walk away. That is an image I will never be able to wipe from my memory.

    Ah the curiosity, what was she doing? :-O


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    #304
    tara73
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    nice_guy80 wrote: »
    there should be a 'no discussion rule' on this thread

    state the facts and move on


    bahahaha, that's what I mean, this thread will sooner or later always mutate into a relationship issues thread, all the lunatics here..:P


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    #305
    beggars_bush
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    wow. just spotted this thread...


    anyway went out on two dates with a girl a few years back I met
    things went very well. I thought she was a lovely girl!
    on second date we landed back to hers and had a great night. best night ever

    on the third visit the condom we were using broke, unknown to both of us until after we had finished in bed
    she said 'don't worry, has happened to me plenty of times in the past, I usually just go and get the morning after pill'

    Left the next morning
    Never called her back


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    #306
    sligojoek
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    Not quite in keeping with the thread but:

    A friend of mine was getting down and dirty with a girl who was known to be obliging, so to speak. He pullled out a condom and proceeded to put it on. She said, "There's no need for that. Im on the pill." He said, "It's me I'm worried about, not you."
    Needless to say, there was no ride that night.


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    beggars_bush wrote: »
    wow. just spotted this thread...


    anyway went out on two dates with a girl a few years back I met
    things went very well. I thought she was a lovely girl!
    on second date we landed back to hers and had a great night. best night ever

    on the third visit the condom we were using broke, unknown to both of us until after we had finished in bed
    she said 'don't worry, has happened to me plenty of times in the past, I usually just go and get the morning after pill'

    Left the next morning
    Never called her back


    :confused:
    But sure what would you have preferred that she had your baby? Sure surely thats the logical thing to do in the case of a broken condom is to get the M.A.P? What the hell else could she do? She had the narrow escape here i think


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    #308
    GingerLily
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    zcorpian88 wrote: »
    Am I allowed to post two relationships??

    Feck it...

    First one, When she spent more time working on her phD than doing anything to maintain our relationship both emotionally and physically, not making up her absence for my birthday and again favoured working on her laptop all weekend and didn't blink an eyelid at me or apologise after I spend all day traveling to see her. Plus her attitude to wanting to start a family later in life was non-existent. Fine, be a no life robot then and live in the pocket of your supervisor for all I care. Plus her depression was generally sucking all the life and fun out of it, I can only be so understanding until there is nothing left in the relationship to enjoy.

    Second one, When her mother said to me on our first meeting "(ex's name) says you're the best shag she ever had!" I almost melted into the floor, mortified! Her family was the definition of dysfunction, all roaring at each other, mostly over nothing, this later followed the ex's general attitude towards her friends, her and a friends got to be exhausting to be around, everything is a slagging match with them and it's not even intelligent slagging, it's just who can rise each other the most in whatever pub or restaurant we're in until someone gets tick and makes a scene which was usually the ex that got angry, all I could do is sit there thinking "God... I'm too old for this s**t!" I was the eldest person at the table (27) everyone else was between 21-24, all behaving like a bunch of children, was like being in school again. I'm out!

    These stories are so familiar, it's as if I've read these stories a hundred times in a hundred different threads.........lol


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    Saipanne
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    beggars_bush wrote: »
    wow. just spotted this thread...


    anyway went out on two dates with a girl a few years back I met
    things went very well. I thought she was a lovely girl!
    on second date we landed back to hers and had a great night. best night ever

    on the third visit the condom we were using broke, unknown to both of us until after we had finished in bed
    she said 'don't worry, has happened to me plenty of times in the past, I usually just go and get the morning after pill'

    Left the next morning
    Never called her back

    Oh, you're telling this story on her behalf. Yes, she had a near miss there.


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    Widdershins
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    beggars_bush wrote: »
    wow. just spotted this thread...


    anyway went out on two dates with a girl a few years back I met
    things went very well. I thought she was a lovely girl!
    on second date we landed back to hers and had a great night. best night ever

    on the third visit the condom we were using broke, unknown to both of us until after we had finished in bed
    she said 'don't worry, has happened to me plenty of times in the past, I usually just go and get the morning after pill'

    Left the next morning
    Never called her back

    Maybe she was trying to sound confident/experienced/cool about it. Plenty of times could mean twice. At least she took responsibility, however many times it happened in the past. I don't think having a past sex life makes someone less lovely.


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    beggars_bush wrote: »
    wow. just spotted this thread...


    anyway went out on two dates with a girl a few years back I met
    things went very well. I thought she was a lovely girl!
    on second date we landed back to hers and had a great night. best night ever

    on the third visit the condom we were using broke, unknown to both of us until after we had finished in bed
    she said 'don't worry, has happened to me plenty of times in the past, I usually just go and get the morning after pill'

    Left the next morning
    Never called her back

    What Was The issue here?


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    Widdershins wrote: »
    Maybe she was trying to sound confident/experienced/cool about it. Plenty of times could mean twice. At least she took responsibility, however many times it happened in the past. I don't think having a past sex life makes someone less lovely.

    Its gas the way some men are happy to shag all around them but expect their women to be first time virgins when they 'arrive in town'.

    Is it an ego thing?


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    #313
    hannible the cannible
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    bubblypop wrote: »
    What Was The issue here?

    She was a slut


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    hannible the cannible wrote: »
    She was a slut

    Loads of times could have meant it could have happened on a few occasions with her previous partner who could have been a long term boyfriend. Why shouldnt the girl have a sex life as long as she is taking precaution?


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    hannible the cannible wrote: »
    She was a slut

    Was she?
    Can you explain this?


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    #316
    bear1
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    Cutie18Ireland wrote: »
    When my best friend died and he never even asked how I was..

    Sure how could he? He was dead..


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    #317
    GingerLily
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    hannible the cannible wrote: »
    She was a slut

    I think using the word "slut" tells an awful lot more about who uses it then who's it's said about...


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    #318
    suicide_circus
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    GingerLily wrote: »
    I think using the word "slut" tells an awful lot more about who uses it then who's it's said about...
    Oh relax


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    #319
    bear1
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    That's the thread ****ed so.


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    #320
    Colser
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    bear1 wrote:
    That's the thread ****ed so.


    It's our time to get outta here moment.


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    #321
    beggars_bush
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    Deleted User wrote: »
    Its gas the way some men are happy to shag all around them but expect their women to be first time virgins when they 'arrive in town'.

    Is it an ego thing?

    nope
    I just wasn't quite sure that I wanted to be going out someone quite as promiscuous as she seemed to be.

    she was excellent in bed though, to be fair.


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    #322
    GingerLily
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    beggars_bush wrote: »
    nope
    I just wasn't quite sure that I wanted to be going out someone quite as promiscuous as she seemed to be.

    she was excellent in bed though, to be fair.

    Practice makes perfect so they say


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    beggars_bush wrote: »
    nope
    I just wasn't quite sure that I wanted to be going out someone quite as promiscuous as she seemed to be.

    she was excellent in bed though, to be fair.


    I suppose you'd know because you are comparing her to others you have slept with in the past or since......but wait......wouldnt that make you a bit of a slut? :P


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    #324
    JeffKenna
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    [Deleted User] wrote: »
    I suppose you'd know because you are comparing her to others you have slept with in the past or since......but wait......wouldnt that make you a bit of a slut? :P

    I don't think he ever called her a slut so it's a bit insulting to start using that term on him.


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    JeffKenna wrote: »
    I don't think he ever called her a slut so it's a bit insulting to start using that term on him.

    He didnt use that word tbf but he opted out because apparently the fact she suffered a broken condom on 'loads of occasions' he assumed that she may have been 'promiscous' (his term) and that was his rationale for bolting on her.


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    #326
    beggars_bush
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    Deleted User wrote: »
    I suppose you'd know because you are comparing her to others you have slept with in the past or since......but wait......wouldnt that make you a bit of a slut? :P

    Someone else used that term, not me


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    #327
    joeguevara
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    I hate the way when a girl has sex with loads of guys she's a slut but when a guy does it he's gay!


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    #328
    bobskii
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    when he started a fight a friends wedding.


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    beggars_bush wrote: »
    Someone else used that term, not me

    ive acknowledged that tbf you didnt. Still think you were mad to bail on her. She sounded nice :) Sure perhaps you done better, if so fair enough you are vindicated.


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    #330
    maninasia
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    I kill hippies in chips.
    Love it!!


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    joeguevara wrote: »
    I hate the way when a girl has sex with loads of guys she's a slut but when a guy does it he's gay!

    Oh, god... the tears :D:D:D:D


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