Cheating on a hen weekend :(

Yeah_Right · 02-08-2016 08:42PM

A drunken kiss isn't cheating. Then again I don't believe one-night stands to be cheating. I think they should be part of any healthy, happy relationship. As far as I'm concerned, it's only cheating if it's an ongoing affair.

02-08-2016 08:47PM

Did she kiss him on the willy?

Augme · 02-08-2016 09:14PM

Bandana boy wrote: »

Its not your beeswax keep your trap shut and drop the "I will let her off" superiority complex /moral high ground stuff .

Each to their own , but for me a drunken kiss at a hen is a small indiscretion.

Partner will not thank you for telling him and by you letting on that you know you put more pressure on him to do something about it , she might tell him she might not ,she could fess up and they get past it , you have no say in the matter either way.

The problem with this is that you have absolutely no idea what the partner will think about it.

the purple tin · 02-08-2016 09:36PM

Any male boardsie whose OH was on a hen do in Galway at the weekend will be feeling quite antsy at the moment.

anothernight · 02-08-2016 09:48PM

Don't get involved, OP. As you've seen in this thread, some people consider it cheating, some don't. Let the girl manage her own relationship. It's simply none of your business.

Shint0 wrote: »

It's easy for people to project their own moral framework onto other people's relationships but they might not know anything about the dynamics in a particular relationship.

This is so true. My fiancé has had a few "well-meaning" people (but not really) tell him I was supposedly cheating. He knew. Sometimes he was there.

Peist2007 · 03-08-2016 11:34AM

Deleted User wrote: »

In vino veritas is one of the great lies. At very best its a gross oversimplification of a hugely inconstant supposition. To state it as a fact is ridiculous.

Yeah, right.

Pat Mustard · 03-08-2016 11:48AM

DrPhilG wrote: »

Dirty tramp.

nocoverart wrote: »

Humans are vile OP! but you seem like a goodin. Wanna hook up the weekend? my wife is out of town.

magicmoves wrote: »

Did you take a few pictures?

glasso wrote: »

Did she kiss him on the willy?

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Posters can either discuss the topic at hand in a mature manner or this thread will be closed.

Airyfairy12 · 05-08-2016 12:16AM

spud82 wrote: »

Hey guys

We were on a hen weekend for the bank holiday in Galway for and one of my friends cheated on her boyfriend. I saw her kiss someone else, and it really annoyed me as her boyfriend is a good friend of mine too.

She said it was a drunken kiss and meant nothing,and she doesn't remember it and begged me not to tell. Obviously I won't.

I just feel so bad for him. Worst is as it was away from home and noone else saw bar me that knows them, means she'll get away with it. Why do people cheat on these hen weekends?? I just don't get it

Ive got friends like this, one of them is engaged with kids and she cheats on him nearly every time she goes out, she's gone on a girly holiday with some friends that sleep with everything, I can only imagine what she'll get up to. I'd never tell her partner, I think its best to keep out of their business and not stir the pot but I feel so bad for him.
My brothers ex girlfriend cheated on him right in front of me, that was awkward!

I learned the hard way years ago to just not say anything, you'll be the one to be made look bad, just stay out of it.

FortySeven · 05-08-2016 12:21AM

15 years in hotels watching hens and stags. You can't trust anyone. People are scum.

Airyfairy12 · 05-08-2016 12:25AM

FortySeven wrote: »

15 years in hotels watching hens and stags. You can't trust anyone. People are scum.

This is why I stay out of relationships, people are ****!

Pat Mustard · 05-08-2016 12:30AM

The discussion has run its course. Thread closed.

Cheating on a hen weekend :(

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