Bad omens on a first date?

KikiDee · 27-06-2016 04:03PM

Robsweezie wrote: »

Rude to the service staff.

Huge +1 to this!

Also, when he tells you he models himself on Fr Jack Hackett...just why??

Cina · 27-06-2016 04:12PM

KikiDee wrote: »

Also, when he tells you he models himself on Fr Jack Hackett...just why??

that's alarmingly specific.

kupus · 27-06-2016 04:15PM

When she says ...she thinks she loves you already....
Make like Christ on a bike. Pedal. Pedal fast and don't look back it doesn't matter if they look like the best thing since sliced bread. Just get the hell out of dodge.

KikiDee · 27-06-2016 04:15PM

Cina wrote: »

that's alarmingly specific.

You know what's worse?? I actually stayed for the rest of the date

Boom_Bap · 27-06-2016 04:16PM

'Lie on this alter and give your allegiance to satan'

It happens alot more than you would think.:D

corner of hells · 27-06-2016 04:17PM

Get Real wrote: »

Boom. This. No matter who you are this is a huge reflection on your personality regardless.

I have on occasion been places with large groups and certain people would be as nice as pie talking to the group and then a sudden cold, condescending and angry tone to waiters etc.

I always think why the sudden bi***iness to someone you don't even know and who is being polite to you?

Suffice to say I keep a distance. I don't even think they realise they're doing it, and their lack of respect to other human beings is a huge insight into their inner thoughts and personality.

On a date, and this happens, I drop her. Even new acquaintances, lads etc, I stay polite but would't be overly eager to be associated.

When she uses "boom" in conversation.

KikiDee · 27-06-2016 04:19PM

corner of hells wrote: »

When she uses "boom" in conversation.

Doesn't make your heart go boom no?? Couldn't resist

RayM · 27-06-2016 04:22PM

When she flags down a passing taxi, jumps in and says "Drive, just fuckin' drive!"

Boom_Bap · 27-06-2016 04:23PM

corner of hells wrote: »

When she uses "boom" in conversation.

She can use me any way she wants.

mickmackmcgoo · 27-06-2016 04:24PM

When her phone beeps and she casually tells you her mother and one of her friends are on the way to join ye for a drink !

GavRedKing · 27-06-2016 04:31PM

When they turn up and say "Isnt it weird that we're either going to end up together for the rest of our lives or we might never see each other again, lets hope its the first one"

Eeeeeehhhhhhhhhh.

corner of hells · 27-06-2016 04:33PM

Boom_Bap wrote: »

She can use me any way she wants.

If she got "bap" in the conversation as well I might be impressed , well no I wouldn't actually.

ampleforth · 27-06-2016 04:43PM

Cina wrote: »

Cinema on a first date?

Amateur.

I was young...

selastich2 · 27-06-2016 04:47PM

When they bring their ex

smash · 27-06-2016 05:02PM

"I can be a bit of a c*nt when I get drunk"

She didn't dissapoint.

anitaca · 27-06-2016 07:40PM

messy tessy wrote: »

When he says "let's share dessert!" I think "let's never see each other again!"

you're not into romance

s4uv3 · 27-06-2016 07:43PM

anitaca wrote: »

you're not into romance

Nuh uh. Romance is staying the fcuk away from my hot choc fudge brownie thank you very much :pac:

livedadream · 27-06-2016 07:55PM

brown shoes and a black suit hahaha i kid i kid...
worst one for me was meeting in a cafe where i knew the owner, he clicked his fingers to get the waitresses attention.

took all my might not to get up and leave that instant.

ToddyDoody · 27-06-2016 08:15PM

When they give out to you, probably not good.

nkav86 · 27-06-2016 08:23PM

livedadream wrote:

brown shoes and a black suit hahaha i kid i kid... worst one for me was meeting in a cafe where i knew the owner, he clicked his fingers to get the waitresses attention.

Hate brown shoes! Besides that, the rudeness to staff drives me crazy, clicking fingers is the height of ignorance dunno how you managed to stay! Had a girl once that didn't know who Jane Austen was or any of the books, even the films, not a huge issue but said a lot about our compatibility for me

aaronjumper · 27-06-2016 08:46PM

She introduces you to her parents.

27-06-2016 08:55PM

Robsweezie wrote: »

Rude to the service staff.

Absolutely the best indication of a horrible person.

"The true measure of a man is how he treats someone who can do him absolutely no good." Samuel Johnson

Words to live by.

I was chatting to a guy at a party and we were getting along really well and he asked me out and I agreed, and shortly after he asked me how 'open-minded' I am...while licking his lips and doing little grunts.

Nearly had a widdle trying to suppress the laughter - and the horror for that matter. It was the grunts that did it.

The One Doctor · 27-06-2016 08:58PM

When she uses her sister's photo. She made an airship look skinny in her own photo.

27-06-2016 09:07PM

Ah I remembered one! I was working with a guy from another city and he asked me out about a week before he was due to leave. On the night he arrived at my door pale as a sheet and shivering. I asked him if he was too ill to go out and he insisted that he was good to go. We went to a lovely restaurant and sat down, and as the evening went on he looked sicker and sicker, and eventually when we stood up he collapsed and an ambulance was called.

He was admitted and treated for a serious infection, I had to vacate his hotel room and pack up his stuff, pick his mother up from the airport, finish his work for him, sort out his flights, shop for pj's and other stuff he needed in hospital...no romance in the end but we're good pals now. And I get to say I put a guy in hospital on our first date.

So obvious signs of illness would be a no-no.

Keane2baMused · 27-06-2016 09:29PM

When, on your first date the guy cries because he doesn't like the thought that there may not be an afterlife.

Good talk.

beks101 · 27-06-2016 09:32PM

Someone that's hung up on their ex (i.e mentions them more than once) or speaks ill of any of his exes. Serious no-no. I'd just think "that could me one day".

Biggest one would be someone who is mean though. Instant turn-off.

27-06-2016 09:33PM

Badmouthing exes is a big one. Same with badmouthing family members - fair enough if you're well acquainted but airing dirty laundry of any kind on a first date is a no-no.

wakka12 · 27-06-2016 09:37PM

beks101 wrote: »

Someone that's hung up on their ex (i.e mentions them more than once) or speaks ill of any of his exes. Serious no-no. I'd just think "that could me one day".

Biggest one would be someone who is mean though. Instant turn-off.

Thought that would be a given

Archeron · 27-06-2016 10:58PM

When she orders fava beans and a nice Chianti to go, then asks if you'd mind if you both eat back at her place.

tomwaterford · 27-06-2016 11:20PM

Arrange to meet for a cup of coffee/tea and chat

and they turn up at the wrong costa

Bad omens on a first date?

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