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This is my Redemption Arc

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  • Registered Users Posts: 6,580 ✭✭✭ Swashbuckler


    Hopefully the little one is feeling much better. Its a tough balancing act being a Dad isnt it!



  • Registered Users Posts: 2,670 ✭✭✭ Annie get your Run


    I've just had a conversation with a work colleague who was balking at the idea of restrictions lifting tomorrow so you are not alone. I have mixed feelings on it. I think from a mental health perspective it will help many who are suffering badly. Some serious illnesses that have gone untreated will start to rear their head unfortunately. I was a fan of keeping my distance long before covid so I'll be sad to see that go, can already see people not moving aside on paths etc, even the little throat clear that would send them diving isn't working any more 😀. Hopefully it all works out but I guess we will have to wait and see.

    Interesting comments on the progression run, will keep that in mind to incorporate in a few months when the fitness improves.



  • Registered Users Posts: 214 ✭✭ E.coli



    I agree with the mental health aspect though I fear we are replacing short term for long term implications in that regard based on studies into the neurological implications of long covid etc. Not dismissing genuine mental anguish of many during all this just from my perspective environmental stressors are more controllable that physiological. I think fact that Long covid as well as the pressure health system is already under (nothing has changed there and this will only compound the issues)is just gonna lead to such a deterioration of relative health for many in society on a wide scale for a generation.

    In terms of the progression it's a type of session I always found to come easy (as if working into the run helps) but for me it ticks alot of boxes - discipline (holding back each mile so you can accelerate for the next, patience, focus (changing pace each mile) and unknowingly tend to get a decent amount of time at near tempo efforts



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  • Registered Users Posts: 361 ✭✭ babacool


    Would you not just take a really, good long break from running/ training and make sure to be well rested so you can spend quality time with the family?


    no pressure on going out for runs but only going if suits like for a parkrun or so? Sure you may loose fitness completely and gain a bit in weight but quality of life may improve?! And at some point it will get easier and sure you might be late 30s then but will still have plenty of time to run fast.


    it’s probably the only advice I can offer to you when it comes to running which is enjoy those few precious years with the kids by being fully awake and fit and not falling on to the couch exhausted from life and still trying to fit in a run 🙂.



  • Registered Users Posts: 361 ✭✭ babacool


    🙂 looking forward to seeing your parkruns on strava then! And always…. Always avoid politics! It’s pointless!



  • Registered Users Posts: 214 ✭✭ E.coli


    Will definitely be racing as well just won't be holding out for PB's

    Ha its a Zero sum game no one wins.



  • Registered Users Posts: 6,580 ✭✭✭ Swashbuckler


    I get what you mean about running being a positive influence. In theory babacools advice makes sense. I just know if running was taken out of the equation id probably be a much worse dad and husband!

    Plus we can't underestimate the need for time alone. When you have work and family making demands on you all the time I think it's important to have something for just you. Don't get me wrong I love my job and my family but running is the only time where nobody demands anything from me except myself.



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  • Registered Users Posts: 361 ✭✭ babacool


    Just to make this clear, I didn’t suggest to fully stop but stop training. Still go out for a run but not with the intention of “I have to get a training run in”. It’s a different mindset. 🙂


    other than that, I agree. My wife is happier when I go for a run, just not sure if that’s a good or bad thing 🤔😁. Think we are all in the same boat here.



  • Registered Users Posts: 214 ✭✭ E.coli



    My missus has slowly come around, used to get a few passive aggressive remarks around running being top priority long before kids, that changed to encouragement to get out and run over recent months. Too much of a good thing when I am around the house constantly :p



  • Registered Users Posts: 361 ✭✭ babacool


    Well, I got those comments until I got the stress fracture. After that it was like “go for a run. You are unbearable when not running!” 😁

    and since she now goes for runs too she understands the benefit of it. As long as family and especially the kids don’t suffer from it and see their dad. 😉



  • Registered Users Posts: 214 ✭✭ E.coli


    Same as. God help them if we ever decided to take up team sports :D Mind you I am sure the attitude will change back as training progresses, such is life haha.

    Absenteeism is non existent so far after 3 years much to the detriment of my running (and my sleep haha)



  • Registered Users Posts: 2,074 ✭✭✭ healy1835


    I often tell my wife, 'This is what you signed up for' as I head out the door on a LR. Knowing of course that we got together, bought a house, got married and were two kids in before I started running 😁 I wouldn't like to post some of her replies...



  • Registered Users Posts: 361 ✭✭ babacool


    I see a separate thread coming: how to avoid an angry partner and still go for a run!



  • Registered Users Posts: 214 ✭✭ E.coli



    TBF pretty sure I ended first date with my missus by stating "I gotta head off and get my run done" perhaps it's built up resentment since then 🤣



  • Registered Users Posts: 2,670 ✭✭✭ Annie get your Run


    😱😱😱 that women deserves a medal!! I'd say to be fair she had no idea - you should have sent her a link to your log(s) to read before 2nd date 😂



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  • Registered Users Posts: 4,193 ✭✭✭ squinn2912


    Just been catching up on this thread and I must disagree with the first comment - lots of people will see this story as inspirational! If you don’t mind the question - a 20min 5k with little recent training suggests a quare runner when you were training and the fact you can easily work out your running type paces indicates a well informed person. So what are some of the PB times from your running days?

    I’m impressed by how soon you’ve got yourself into those progression runs and your last miles are at a good canter anyhow from where I’m standing. Looking forward to keeping an eye on this one and I hope Boards gives you some impetus to get you out running as part of a healthy you in 22!



  • Registered Users Posts: 214 ✭✭ E.coli


    Haha I think the fact we had met about 8 years previously on first go around (Must have made an impression in the Gaeltacht) bought me a lot of good grace 😂



  • Registered Users Posts: 214 ✭✭ E.coli


    Those were the days pre social media when talking to strangers on the internet made you a weirdo we were just ahead of the curve (or looking back in hindsight with twitter and FB these days perhaps they were right all along 🤣



  • Registered Users Posts: 4,193 ✭✭✭ squinn2912


    Beast of a runner then!! 2018 isn’t that long ago after 6 weeks training I reckon you;ll be starting to get right back to it. You know your job anyhow so I’m sure you’ll do it in a way that keeps you healthy! I think this log will turn into quite a comeback story!



  • Registered Users Posts: 361 ✭✭ babacool


    Wait what?! So you did sabotage my training to hold me back so I wouldn’t beat all of those times except the Marathon one 🤪



  • Registered Users Posts: 361 ✭✭ babacool


    30% increase in mileage if my math isn’t too off with fewer days available to run. Somewhat of a jump 🤔.


    And I like your 145sec hill reps 😂. Not 45, not 90 but 145! Massive hill that must be!


    3*(4-3-2-1) 😍 my fav… miss that one. Best of luck with all of it!



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