My daughter is getting married and her bridesmaid has been called for Jury duty...what's best to do?

BBOC

Hello all, as the title says does anybody have any idea how she can get out of this situation, please

tdf7187

She can try to get out of it but I would be sceptical if attending a wedding even as a bridesmaid (unless perhaps it was her own) would be considered as a valid reason. Probably no harm in trying.

G_R

From citizens information:

The County Registrar or the trial judge can excuse you if they are satisfied that there is 'good reason' to do so.

They're only human, I'm sure they'll allow it. Courts service site says to provide proof along with your request.

J. Marston

Doctor's note?

TheRepentent

I have been on 2 jusy duties in the last 6 years...both times the judges allowed people to leave with valid but not really important requests.....The bridesmaid should be ok (and it is also a possibilty she might not get picked anyways) .

Mrs OBumble

Choose another bridesmaid, who isn't so inconveniently encumbered.

Harsh? Yup - but you asked in After Hours.

Try the Legal forum for a more sympathy response.

BBOC

Thanks for your replies. I had mentioned to my daughter that she might not get picked alright but that's a bit late then.

She may be best submitting her reason and see how she gets on unless she knows a doctor well.

Thanks again.

Buddy Bubs

It's very very easy to get out of jury duty. You might have to lie but who cares.

Letter from work saying your absence will cost other people's jobs

Covid reasons, don't want to be inside with strangers

Full time carer for a family member

BBOC

https://www.boards.ie/discussion/comment/117900983#Comment_117900983

She can't do that because everything is set up and she's also her niece.

Thanks for your input anyway.

BBOC

https://www.boards.ie/discussion/comment/117901002#Comment_117901002

Thank you....lots to think about there.

silliussoddius

Back in the day I received a jury duty notice that clashed with a wedding. I sent a copy of my invitation to the relevant address (I may have received this instruction after talking to someone at the relevant department), went to the wedding and the wheels of justice moved on.

.42.

Maybe she used the excuse of jury duty to get out of being a bridesmaid at the wedding.

o1s1n

https://www.boards.ie/discussion/comment/117901218#Comment_117901218

Oooooh, The plot thickens.

bmc58

https://www.boards.ie/discussion/comment/117900957#Comment_117900957

What? Get the doctor and herself up for contempt of court! Can't see the doc giving a cert in this instance.

Quantum Erasure

Getting out of jury duty is easy. The trick is to say you're prejudiced against all races.

For Forks Sake

Have the wedding ceremony in the courthouse.

Problem solved

Seriously, any half-plausible excuse will get you out of jury duty (work commitments, holiday booked, carer for family member etc)

munsterdevil

Jury summons is delivered by unregistered post. All the bridesmaid has to say is, she didn't get it. Almost half of people notified for duty don't turn up anyway.

Sy Kick

https://www.boards.ie/discussion/comment/117901274#Comment_117901274

'Prejudiced against all races'

This is paradoxical. If you equally disdain or disqualify every group then you judge them all equally and fairly.

Dr. Greenthumb

https://www.boards.ie/discussion/2058209142/my-daughter-is-getting-married-and-her-bridesmaid-has-been-called-for-jury-duty-whats-best-to-do

Just tell her to say she's not vaccinated. Easiest excuse out there at the moment.

corner of hells

OP , the solution is this thread, print it off and send it to the courts.Maybe throw in an invite for the judge to the afters.

Alternatively , the night before the wedding , burn the court house to the ground.

Obviously , don't print off this thread , if you do a bit of arson.

Allinall

She should do her civic duty, and fullfill her legal obligation.

Its only a wedding.

Andrewf20

Id say the judge will excuse her. They seem fairly sound in my experience.

italodisco

I went back to my old apartment after 1 year of leaving as a resident messaged me on Facebook to say there's a mountain of mail in the hall for me.

Lone behold there was a jury duty letter, I missed it by 7 months. So basically a no show.

3 years later and I've never heard from them again.

Tyrone212

My friend went to his GP to get out of it. Said he had anxiety. Got a note and that was it.

Mrs OBumble

https://www.boards.ie/discussion/comment/117901110#Comment_117901110

A niece? Should be a flower girl then, not a bridesmaid.

(Really disappointed with the quality of after-hours-advice being given so far! Anyone would think this is the place for serious discussions. )

BBOC

Thank you everybody and for a bit of a laugh also.

Mrs. O Bumble......her niece, my granddaughter is in her twenties so your calculations are all wrong so a bit too old to be a flower girl.

Thanks again everybody....plenty of food for thought here.

sporina

i don't think you need to worry - I was called for Jury duty but had a trip booked and so could not go - told them that and no questions asked.. and I am sure that being Bridesmaid beats a trip abroad - I suggest your daughter's bridesmaid submits her reason and you all get on your enjoying the preparations ☺️

Capt'n Midnight

Take out a hit. No defendant = no trial.

StupidLikeAFox

https://www.boards.ie/discussion/comment/117901218#Comment_117901218

Maybe she is on trial for murder and too embarrassed to say

StupidLikeAFox

Tough choice though - either way she'll get to watch some poor unfortunate handed a life sentence

Just tell them that you arse for a head and a head for an arse.

ItIl confuse the hell out of them that they won't question it for fear of discrimination.

wotzgoingon

I was called for Jury duty once and sent a letter that I wrote myself telling them I was mentally unwell and wouldn't have the mental capacity to sit through a court case.

einn32

Should be fine I'd say.

Contact the court clerk and tell them the reason she can't attend and they will excuse her

JimmyVik

I got out of Jury duty for attending a wedding.

Seriously, they will have plenty of other people there for jury duty.

They know a bridesmaid cant really get out of a wedding. It will be fine.

Just contact whoever it says to contact and have your wedding invitation if they ask, but they probably wont even ask.

lisasimpson

Is the bridemaid down on your daughters green folder as witness? If so get a copy of it as proof and should be no problem at alll

Samuri Suicide

https://www.boards.ie/discussion/comment/117901816#Comment_117901816

OGrumble, you should stick to the legal / HR / grumble threads.....(attempted) humour definitely ain't your thing.

GreeBo

https://www.boards.ie/discussion/comment/117901409#Comment_117901409

Hmm, yunno with a bit of fine tuning and some comic timing, this could be turned into a joke!

😐️

Fandymo

https://www.boards.ie/discussion/2058209142/my-daughter-is-getting-married-and-her-bridesmaid-has-been-called-for-jury-duty-whats-best-to-do

She should do her civic duty. She isn't an integral part of the wedding.

Immortal Starlight

Just ask the doctor for a letter saying she’s sick and that’ll be the end of it. My doctor does this for anyone that needs it no problem.

Mister Vain

It shouldn't be a problem. I was called for jury duty which clashed with a holiday I had booked and had no issue getting out of it.

Larbre34

Depends on the humour the Judge is in. I was selected for a jury about 5 years ago, and during the selection the first three parents that said "mid term next week Judge, I've no one to mind the kids" were fine and were dismissed, but the fourth and firth weren't so lucky because there weren't many jurors left and the Judge's obligation was to fill them. That trial went on for 7 weeks.

My advice would be to shred the letter and never think about it again. The Courts Service have no actual clue where people live, they just send them to last known address from the voters register, when many have moved on and not updated yet. In reality they never hear back from between 30 and 40% of juror summonses and they absolutely do not have the resources to chase those thousands up.

boardlady

I work in the industry and it is really easy to be excused. Just tell her write a letter giving all the details, dates etc. They don't want people serving on juries who would be so anxious to get out of it that they will make up convoluted excuses! I'm sure the letter will suffice. Tell her to get the letter off asap and not to worry about it after that. And to enjoy the wedding!

Stone Deaf 4evr

As the old phrase goes 'I wouldnt want my fate in court decided by anyone who was too dumb to get out of jury duty'.

BBOC

Lisasimpson: she is on that document and I never thought of that so thank you very much for mentioning it.

Sorry my quote doesn't seem to work.

Thanks to everybody else and also for the laughs.

Gregor Samsa

Turn up at the court with a black hood and a noose screaming “GUILTY!!! GUILTY!!!” at everyone.

padd b1975

https://youtu.be/94zkBGm1IoU

Something like this maybe?