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Due August 2021

  • 15-12-2020 1:07pm
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    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,845 ✭✭✭


    First scan yesterday and measuring 6+6 which would give us a due date of August 3rd.

    I'm still on maternity leave with my first baby! A shock would be an understatement..we are still kind of coming to terms with this. Worried about so many things like how my employer will take it, if my little baby will feel like she isn't getting enough attention or has to grow up too quickly. Everyone says a sibling close in age is a great gift for her, but I just feel bad that she will have to share us so young.


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  • Moderators, Recreation & Hobbies Moderators, Social & Fun Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 6,914 Mod ✭✭✭✭shesty


    Antares, it doesn't matter what age your baby is, you will feel that way no matter what when the new baby is due.
    In some ways it is better because they will never know any different and in general the positives outweigh the negatives.
    It is a lot of work for mammy and daddy, but that will pass too!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 54 ✭✭uptheduffagain


    Hi! #2 on the way here too.

    My dates were giving me late July but had a private scan yesterday that put me at 6+5, which makes sense because I'm almost certain I ovulated late. Was such a relief to see heartbeat. Now have a due date of early August.

    Very nauseous and fatigued all day, not easy with a toddler but sure it's all part of it. Delighted and excited and wondering how I'm going to keep it a secret from family over Christmas... the absence of a wine glass in my hand will definitely be noted! :D

    Antares, that must be really tough but you'll get through it. Our friends had a similar age gap and they thought of it as getting the crap/sleepless nights era out of the way in one go! And their two are great pals now.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,845 ✭✭✭Antares35


    Hi! #2 on the way here too.

    My dates were giving me late July but had a private scan yesterday that put me at 6+5, which makes sense because I'm almost certain I ovulated late. Was such a relief to see heartbeat. Now have a due date of early August.

    Very nauseous and fatigued all day, not easy with a toddler but sure it's all part of it. Delighted and excited and wondering how I'm going to keep it a secret from family over Christmas... the absence of a wine glass in my hand will definitely be noted! :D

    Antares, that must be really tough but you'll get through it. Our friends had a similar age gap and they thought of it as getting the crap/sleepless nights era out of the way in one go! And their two are great pals now.

    Congratulations :) It's so exciting isn't it. I love hearing the heartbeat for the first time. I hear you re the wine. All this year I kept saying "at least this Christmas I can drink" - looks like I put the mockers on it. :D


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,091 ✭✭✭catrionanic


    I've not been on boards for ages and ages but here I am again.... knocked up again.... baby number 3 due 25th August! Loved boards for my previous babies so hoping to get back into it again.

    Congrats all!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 68 ✭✭AlwaysDoe


    Catrionanic I'm laughing reading your post because it's baby number three that's brought me back to boards too!!

    Due August 23rd, my older two will be four and a half and 20 months old at that stage.

    Congrats everyone, exciting times ahead!


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    Congratulations Antares! I’m due August 27th with my first - hope you don’t mind me asking but how far gone were you when you got your first scan? And did you get it done privately? I’m completely new to this and it’s hard to get info on it anywhere 🀔 I have been to my doctor but I’m not sure what I should be doing next 🙈


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 34 weirdcatlady


    Due my first 12th of August and booked in for my first scan the 27th of this month!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,845 ✭✭✭Antares35


    Congratulations Antares! I’m due August 27th with my first - hope you don’t mind me asking but how far gone were you when you got your first scan? And did you get it done privately? I’m completely new to this and it’s hard to get info on it anywhere 🀔 I have been to my doctor but I’m not sure what I should be doing next 🙈
    Congratulations Lily Rose! I got my first scan privately a few weeks ago. I was 8 weeks according to my dates, but they said I was measuring 6+6. I was a little worried because I knew our "accident" date and so the baby seemed a bit behind but she said since my last pregnancy was only a short while ago, my cycle probably hadn't regularised yet and ovulation was way late.

    We went to the ultrasound clinic on Grafton st. I always find them really professional and they have very strict covid regulations in place to keep us all safe :) Their early scan can be done from as early as 6 weeks I believe.

    It's entirely up to yourself, some maternity hospitals will do a scan at the booking appointment (12-14 weeks) but some won't. It can be nice to have an earlier scan and just have that peace of mind that there's a heartbeat, the pregnancy is in the right place (not ectopic) and that there's just one! :D

    Have you registered with a maternity hospital yet?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,845 ✭✭✭Antares35


    Due my first 12th of August and booked in for my first scan the 27th of this month!

    Congratulations :)


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 34 weirdcatlady


    Antares35 wrote: »
    Congratulations :)


    Thanks exciting times ahead! Congrats to you too, you will have your hands full but so nice to have them so close in age!


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6 RubyJessie123


    Does anyone know in light of what’s going on if partners will be allowed into the first scan?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 34 weirdcatlady


    I have been told to attend alone for my 12 week, not sure if it will change for the 20 week scan. I hope so, i feel sad my partner cant share the experience.
    I seen the Rotunda changed their policy today that partners cant attend the 20 week scan because of the rise in cases.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 54 ✭✭uptheduffagain


    Congrats everyone!

    I'm hoping by the time that the 20 week scan is due (around mid/late March for me), the numbers will have dropped significantly again and partners will be allowed in. Fingers crossed.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,096 ✭✭✭xalot


    Hi All,

    Am cautiously joining after following you all for a week now! I had a private scan with my husband today and heartbeat looks strong (measuring 6+6 so due 31st August).

    It will also be my third baby, but 4th pregnancy - I had a missed miscarriage in October which resulted in a D&C at 8 weeks - so I'm a lot more nervous this time around.

    Am seeing my consultant in the Coombe next Monday so hopefully it's plain sailing from now on for all of us!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,845 ✭✭✭Antares35


    xalot wrote: »
    Hi All,

    Am cautiously joining after following you all for a week now! I had a private scan with my husband today and heartbeat looks strong (measuring 6+6 so due 31st August).

    It will also be my third baby, but 4th pregnancy - I had a missed miscarriage in October which resulted in a D&C at 8 weeks - so I'm a lot more nervous this time around.

    Am seeing my consultant in the Coombe next Monday so hopefully it's plain sailing from now on for all of us!

    Congratulations :)


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 54 ✭✭uptheduffagain


    How is everyone getting on? Hope you're all doing well.

    Had my first hospital appointment yesterday, thankfully all good and baby's growing well. Such a relief to have reached this milestone and be able to finally tell people! Due date still early August.

    Still suffering with fatigue and nausea here. Weeks 8-9 were especially bad, in hindsight I probably should have gone to the doc for something for the nausea, although I can feel it getting slightly better over the last few days so fingers crossed I'm coming out the other side of it now. Looking forward to the famous second trimester burst of energy!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,096 ✭✭✭xalot


    I'm 8 weeks today and nausea is at an all time high. Am looking to book my NIPT test as my consultant advised there are long waits at the moment.

    Had the harmony done last time but thinking Panorama this time as it can be done earlier, am just nervous as I'll be 40 when the baba arrives.

    Is anyone else getting it done and if so were you waiting long?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,845 ✭✭✭Antares35


    Had my booking appointment today, and everything went well. Due date is August 1st :D


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5 Lilalu


    Just seeing last posts, that some of you had already booking appointments. I am 12+2 today and my first visit would be only on 17th February (Coombe satellite clinic in Citywest)..... had my Panorama nipt done yesterday in Evie (Beacon,), they said that they are busy as never...


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 54 ✭✭uptheduffagain


    Hi August mamas, how are you all doing?

    I'm 15 weeks now and finally getting over the exhaustion and nausea, thank Christ! Although I've picked up a terrible headcold/sore throat that I was worried was Covid... we all had to have tests there the other day but they thankfully came back negative so reckon it's just a bad dose, made worse by the fact that I can't take any decongestant etc... arrgh!

    Does anyone know if Holles Street is still letting partners in for the anomaly scan? Their website was last updated on Dec 9th and says they are, but that was before this Level 5 ****e and it's very strange that the Rotunda/Coombe have stopped and Holles Street are continuing to let them in.

    Lilalu, I'd hoped that the pandemic would mean that less people would be having babies and that'd mean less waiting times - but my first booking appt last month was just as busy! No baby bust in Ireland, it seems :D


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,845 ✭✭✭Antares35


    Hi August mamas, how are you all doing?

    I'm 15 weeks now and finally getting over the exhaustion and nausea, thank Christ! Although I've picked up a terrible headcold/sore throat that I was worried was Covid... we all had to have tests there the other day but they thankfully came back negative so reckon it's just a bad dose, made worse by the fact that I can't take any decongestant etc... arrgh!

    Does anyone know if Holles Street is still letting partners in for the anomaly scan? Their website was last updated on Dec 9th and says they are, but that was before this Level 5 ****e and it's very strange that the Rotunda/Coombe have stopped and Holles Street are continuing to let them in.

    Lilalu, I'd hoped that the pandemic would mean that less people would be having babies and that'd mean less waiting times - but my first booking appt last month was just as busy! No baby bust in Ireland, it seems :D

    Love your username! :D I'm 15 weeks too, 16 on Sunday. Still haven't told anyone except OH (and all of Boards haha). I know I should tell my boss but I keep putting it off, only just back from mat leave!

    I got a letter from NMH for the anomaly scan and it said to go alone, but that letter was issued back in mid Jan so not sure if it's up to date. Usually if you email the outpatients clinic they are quick to respond. :)


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 54 ✭✭uptheduffagain


    Antares35 wrote: »
    Love your username! :D I'm 15 weeks too, 16 on Sunday. Still haven't told anyone except OH (and all of Boards haha). I know I should tell my boss but I keep putting it off, only just back from mat leave!

    I got a letter from NMH for the anomaly scan and it said to go alone, but that letter was issued back in mid Jan so not sure if it's up to date. Usually if you email the outpatients clinic they are quick to respond. :)

    I must get onto them and ask, so. Hopefully they are. I got the same letter but then the website says otherwise.

    Not planning on telling my boss until after the 20 week mark, at least!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 54 ✭✭uptheduffagain


    This thread is fierce quiet these days :)

    Hope everyone is doing well. My bump has well and truly popped, nearly 19 weeks now so no hiding it! I'm feeling mostly grand, bump feels quite heavy some days which I don't remember on my first, but feeling loads of movement which is lovely. I'm a bit concerned with the weight gain so far. I've put on just over a stone which seems a bit much for this early in the pregnancy, from everything I've read... eek. The carbfest and crisps that I indulged in during the first trimester is coming back to haunt me! I put on 2.5 stone with #1, so trying to make a good effort not to reach for crap mindlessly now.

    Otherwise I'm looking forward to my big scan in a couple of weeks, getting that done and finding out the sex. Is everyone else planning to find out? I'm too much of a control freak not to know :D


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,096 ✭✭✭xalot


    I've already found out sex as I had a panorama test a few weeks ago. Having my 3rd boy. Delighted that he's healthy but a little sad that I'll never get to experience having a daughter, this is definitely our last baby.

    My all day nausea has finally eased and have a bit more energy, even went for a light jog today. Wasn't pretty but glad I'm feeling up to it. Really trying to keep my weight in check this time, at 15 week's I'm only 2kg up so I'm happy with that. It's so hard not to just eat sugar in the evenings when I would usually have had a glass of wine.

    Has everyone told their work yet? I'm remote working so haven't said anything yet, really should just bite the bullet and get it out there, dont know why I'm so nervous....


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,845 ✭✭✭Antares35


    That's great to hear Xalot :) I've the big scan coming up next week. Haven't told anyone yet except obviously OH and a few close friends. Haven't told work and I keep waking up saying to myself Ill tell them today but I just feel so bad. I know they will be very nice about it but that makes me feel worse :D

    I'm convinced we have another girl on the way, just have a feeling but who knows! Definitely find out next week. Although I'd love the surprise of finding out just when he or she arrives, but I don't have the patience!

    I feel like I can't relax and enjoy the pregnancy until I get telling my boss out of the way.

    Also worried about weight gain as I didn't lose baby weight from my first! And definitely feeling heavier and weighed down more this time. I'm 19 weeks but feel the same way I felt at about 30 weeks on my first. Definitely if we weren't WFH work would have guessed by now!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 54 ✭✭uptheduffagain


    I feel like I'm having another boy too, I'll be very surprised if it's a girl! I know what you mean xalot, I would love to experience being a mother to a daughter as this will most likely be our last child, too - so maybe my subconscious is protecting me from that sadness by convincing me I'm having a boy! Either way, will just be relieved to have another healthy baba so I'm not thinking too much about it.

    Had to tell work last week because there's stuff going on in the company that was worrying me - they were fine about it. I only took 7 months with my first, so I'm looking to take a bit longer with this one. I'm self-employed to a degree so it will all be at my own expense, and I'm a bit worried about taking longer and then trying to get my foot back in the door post-covid... but trying to remind myself of the important things in life. Looking back now I feel like I went back to work too soon after my son was born, but it couldn't be helped at the time.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,091 ✭✭✭catrionanic


    xalot wrote: »
    I've already found out sex as I had a panorama test a few weeks ago. Having my 3rd boy. Delighted that he's healthy but a little sad that I'll never get to experience having a daughter, this is definitely our last baby.

    My all day nausea has finally eased and have a bit more energy, even went for a light jog today. Wasn't pretty but glad I'm feeling up to it. Really trying to keep my weight in check this time, at 15 week's I'm only 2kg up so I'm happy with that. It's so hard not to just eat sugar in the evenings when I would usually have had a glass of wine.

    Has everyone told their work yet? I'm remote working so haven't said anything yet, really should just bite the bullet and get it out there, dont know why I'm so nervous....

    I think it is very normal to feel this way, although it is a bit taboo so people feel they can't say it. I'm expecting our third. We don't know the sex, but it is our last baby and we have two little boys already. I would love a little girl - have always wanted to be a girl mom - so I'm actually not going to find out the sex because I'm worried ill be disappointed.

    I am 16 weeks now and feeling surprisingly okay, minus some pelvic girdle pain issues. I had the covid vaccine yesterday (healthcare worker) so am very much a bit worse for wear today. I cant imagine pregnancy makes the side effects any easier!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 556 ✭✭✭Kerry25x


    I had the covid vaccine yesterday (healthcare worker) so am very much a bit worse for wear today. I cant imagine pregnancy makes the side effects any easier!

    Happy to hear of other pregnant ladies having the vaccine. I had no side effects but can imagine they'd be much worse stacked on top of pregnancy symptoms!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 34 weirdcatlady


    Has anyone got their dates for their 20-week scan yet? I'm 19 weeks now and haven't heard anything!


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 54 ✭✭uptheduffagain


    Has anyone got their dates for their 20-week scan yet? I'm 19 weeks now and haven't heard anything!

    I'd get in touch with your hospital to check, if that's the case? I have mine next week and have had the date for it pretty much since my 12 week booking appointment.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 76 ✭✭Bambinoonboard


    Hell all,

    Is it normal to experience cramping in what I think is my left ovary at 5-6 weeks? Always seems to be in my left. Also had a plenty of diarrhea today. I haven't been eating anything different as such. My appetite is decreased. I know this is a August 2021 thread but I didn't want to start a November one until I hopefully get positive news Thursday.

    Im awaiting early pregnancy scan this Thursday and have miscarried before in the past which I found out at EPS. Feeling v relaxed and continuing to walk jog (1 min of each for a half hour) a few times a week to help ease my anxieties about it.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,096 ✭✭✭xalot


    Hell all,

    Is it normal to experience cramping in what I think is my left ovary at 5-6 weeks? Always seems to be in my left. Also had a plenty of diarrhea today. I haven't been eating anything different as such. My appetite is decreased. I know this is a August 2021 thread but I didn't want to start a November one until I hopefully get positive news Thursday.

    Im awaiting early pregnancy scan this Thursday and have miscarried before in the past which I found out at EPS. Feeling v relaxed and continuing to walk jog (1 min of each for a half hour) a few times a week to help ease my anxieties about it.

    Yes, it's very normal to have period like cramping up until 8 weeks, it's your uterus stretching. They can be quite strong. I've also had an upset tummy off and on, am putting it down to hormone changes. If you're concerned though you should speak with your GP. Best of luck with your scan on Thursday, I know its a very anxious time.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,096 ✭✭✭xalot


    Has anyone got their dates for their 20-week scan yet? I'm 19 weeks now and haven't heard anything!

    What hospital are you with? I'm the coombe and got my 20week appointment just after my booking appointment. I'd definitely get onto them, sounds like an admin error.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 34 weirdcatlady


    Rang this morning and it was an admin error so I'm booked for Thursday week, thank god I rang! I'm with the Coombe but had my first app with the midwives so think everything got lost inbetween!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 34 weirdcatlady


    Hell all,

    Is it normal to experience cramping in what I think is my left ovary at 5-6 weeks? Always seems to be in my left. Also had a plenty of diarrhea today. I haven't been eating anything different as such. My appetite is decreased. I know this is a August 2021 thread but I didn't want to start a November one until I hopefully get positive news Thursday.

    Im awaiting early pregnancy scan this Thursday and have miscarried before in the past which I found out at EPS. Feeling v relaxed and continuing to walk jog (1 min of each for a half hour) a few times a week to help ease my anxieties about it.


    Hope everything works out for you on Thursday and you get good news! X


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 54 ✭✭uptheduffagain


    Hell all,

    Is it normal to experience cramping in what I think is my left ovary at 5-6 weeks? Always seems to be in my left. Also had a plenty of diarrhea today. I haven't been eating anything different as such. My appetite is decreased. I know this is a August 2021 thread but I didn't want to start a November one until I hopefully get positive news Thursday.

    Im awaiting early pregnancy scan this Thursday and have miscarried before in the past which I found out at EPS. Feeling v relaxed and continuing to walk jog (1 min of each for a half hour) a few times a week to help ease my anxieties about it.

    I had a sharp-ish pain on and off in my right ovary in the early stages of my first pregnancy. It didn't bother me as such, but it was noticeable. It turned out that I had a cyst on my ovary which is pretty common, it was monitored throughout the pregnancy and got a bit bigger, but didn't cause any problems at all. It could be something like that? Good luck with the scan!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,845 ✭✭✭Antares35


    Hi girls, had my scan last week (at 20+5) and all is well thank god, and we've another little girl on the way..I'm delighted - two girls so close in age. OH is obviously happy everything is well but I think he's going through an adjustment to the idea that he will never have a son. He feels bad for even feeling that way, but I told him it's normal and we can't beat ourselves up over how we feel!

    Does anyone recall having breast pain (just one sided) during pregnancy? I don't recall it from last time tbh, and I just have this niggly little thought that maybe I should book in for a mammogram just in case. I know I'm not in the at risk age group, but I drank heavily in my younger years and am always nervous about the long term effects truth be told. I don't know if they can even do them during pregnancy?

    Can't believe how fast the time is flying, hope you are all doing well.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,845 ✭✭✭Antares35


    Hell all,

    Is it normal to experience cramping in what I think is my left ovary at 5-6 weeks? Always seems to be in my left. Also had a plenty of diarrhea today. I haven't been eating anything different as such. My appetite is decreased. I know this is a August 2021 thread but I didn't want to start a November one until I hopefully get positive news Thursday.

    Im awaiting early pregnancy scan this Thursday and have miscarried before in the past which I found out at EPS. Feeling v relaxed and continuing to walk jog (1 min of each for a half hour) a few times a week to help ease my anxieties about it.

    I remember having pulling type pains early on, hard to describe them but there's definitely a lot going on there early on! Fingers crossed :)


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,096 ✭✭✭xalot


    Antares35 wrote: »
    Hi girls, had my scan last week (at 20+5) and all is well thank god, and we've another little girl on the way..I'm delighted - two girls so close in age. OH is obviously happy everything is well but I think he's going through an adjustment to the idea that he will never have a son. He feels bad for even feeling that way, but I told him it's normal and we can't beat ourselves up over how we feel!

    Does anyone recall having breast pain (just one sided) during pregnancy? I don't recall it from last time tbh, and I just have this niggly little thought that maybe I should book in for a mammogram just in case. I know I'm not in the at risk age group, but I drank heavily in my younger years and am always nervous about the long term effects truth be told. I don't know if they can even do them during pregnancy?

    Can't believe how fast the time is flying, hope you are all doing well.

    Yes, I've had shooting type pains on my right side, dont think it's anything to be concerned about but maybe discuss with your gp.

    I'm having my third boy and it's difficult to explain the mixed emotions, I'm so happy that he's safe and healthy and will be loved to bits but separately sad that I'll never have the girl experience. I dont think it's anything your husband should feel guilty about - there can be a lot of shaming with gender disappointment from people who just dont understand- but we're complex beings with complex emotions and we're allowed to grieve experiences that we will never have.

    That's my two cents anyway!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 76 ✭✭Bambinoonboard


    Hello ladies,

    Thanks so much for the replies. The countdown is on. I'm beginning to feel a little anxious, as the past 2 days have been nothing but a delight - no nausea / cramps etc., constipated, but definite food aversions and sickness to smells at an all time high. I am looking forward to tomorrow for sure on the flip side and deep down excited.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 76 ✭✭Bambinoonboard


    I had a sharp-ish pain on and off in my right ovary in the early stages of my first pregnancy. It didn't bother me as such, but it was noticeable. It turned out that I had a cyst on my ovary which is pretty common, it was monitored throughout the pregnancy and got a bit bigger, but didn't cause any problems at all. It could be something like that? Good luck with the scan!

    It might well be... Maybe something to note to the doc is right. Thank you, and thanks all for advice!!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 54 ✭✭uptheduffagain


    xalot wrote: »
    Yes, I've had shooting type pains on my right side, dont think it's anything to be concerned about but maybe discuss with your gp.

    I'm having my third boy and it's difficult to explain the mixed emotions, I'm so happy that he's safe and healthy and will be loved to bits but separately sad that I'll never have the girl experience. I dont think it's anything your husband should feel guilty about - there can be a lot of shaming with gender disappointment from people who just dont understand- but we're complex beings with complex emotions and we're allowed to grieve experiences that we will never have.

    That's my two cents anyway!

    Totally agree with this! Had my scan this week and I'm having another boy. I'm so relieved and grateful that he's healthy, and obviously he'll be loved beyond measure - but there is that small twinge of sadness that I won't have the different experience of raising a girl. It's just like a door being closed to you. Anyway. I'll get over it! And I'm delighted that my little boy will have a little bro.

    Antares35, I had (and still occasionally have) the odd breast pain twinge for about a year after having my first. I wasn't concerned as it was never consistent, no other symptoms and I assumed it was something like the hormones/milk ducts in my breasts getting back to normal. I did have a breast cancer scare around this time last year though (which is loads of fun at the start of a pandemic, I can tell you) - so if you're worried, there's no harm in mentioning it to your GP to put your mind at rest?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 244 ✭✭bytheglass


    Hey ladies, I’m due for my anomaly scan soon in St Luke’s in Kilkenny. Are partners allowed attend the scans now?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,096 ✭✭✭xalot


    bytheglass wrote: »
    Hey ladies, I’m due for my anomaly scan soon in St Luke’s in Kilkenny. Are partners allowed attend the scans now?

    They are in the Coombe but you'll have to check with the hospital directly. Had mine yesterday (they were running very late and was waiting 2 hours, didn't get finished until after 8pm) but all went well thankfully. Starting to feel very real now.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,091 ✭✭✭catrionanic


    Hey girls, highly emotional day here yesterday as we had our anomaly scan, everything is perfect, and we found out that our third and final baby is a girl. I have hardly stopped sobbing since!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 76 ✭✭Bambinoonboard


    Congratulations caitrionanic!!! What relieving news for you both. Best of luck with the rest of your pregnancy. Sobs of happiness, joy and thanks, I'm sure. :)


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,845 ✭✭✭Antares35


    Congratulations Catrionanic :) it's such a relief isn't it.

    Is anyone else worried about these reports coming through about covid related placentitis? I've tried explaining the risk to everyone in our house, and OH is being very good not seeing anyone etc but my parents who have recently been vaccinated are getting careless. I think maybe because they're vaccinated they have a feeling of being invincible, but I've tried telling them they could still spread it.

    My dad will "just pop out to woodies for a tin of paint" or do his big shop online and then "just pick up some fresh bread in Dunnes". I don't want to take a hard line with them but I really feel very strongly that they are putting my baby at risk :(


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 76 ✭✭Bambinoonboard


    Antares35 wrote: »
    Congratulations Catrionanic :) it's such a relief isn't it.

    Is anyone else worried about these reports coming through about covid related placentitis? I've tried explaining the risk to everyone in our house, and OH is being very good not seeing anyone etc but my parents who have recently been vaccinated are getting careless. I think maybe because they're vaccinated they have a feeling of being invincible, but I've tried telling them they could still spread it.

    My dad will "just pop out to woodies for a tin of paint" or do his big shop online and then "just pick up some fresh bread in Dunnes". I don't want to take a hard line with them but I really feel very strongly that they are putting my baby at risk :(


    Hi Antares,

    Firstly, I feel like I'm barging in not my own territory here - I'm not an August due date woman, but November, so hope it's OK to still comment, hehehe..

    Oh, I haven't heard anything about it. I've tried searching on Google but searches werent great. Is it different to the still birth statistics?

    I know what you mean re older people being a bit careless. It's very hard as I'm pretty sure one set would disrespectfullu laugh at ya for being "cautious" and well, protective and responsible, and the other person is just utterly oblivious to the dangers of it. Very difficult when dealing when alternative mindsets and standards.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,091 ✭✭✭catrionanic


    Yes it is definitely a worry. I was actually interviewed about it on the news last night!!! Funny enough. Im a healthcare worker too so extra exposed. I've had one vaccine but god knows what's gonna happen with the second now with the astrazeneca fiasco.

    My tentative plan is just to shield from 36 weeks. I feel like it is impossible to control all risk factors, especially with children in school.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,845 ✭✭✭Antares35


    Yes it is definitely a worry. I was actually interviewed about it on the news last night!!! Funny enough. Im a healthcare worker too so extra exposed. I've had one vaccine but god knows what's gonna happen with the second now with the astrazeneca fiasco.

    My tentative plan is just to shield from 36 weeks. I feel like it is impossible to control all risk factors, especially with children in school.

    It's definitely a concern, first time around we didn't have this problem. I've had an argument with my parents because they're planning to meet relatives tomorrow and they just don't care if they bring covid back to the house! I honestly feel like telling them we will need to isolate for two weeks if they go ahead with it. :(


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