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One sided intimacy

LegacyUser · 2020-01-02 02:57:56

I've been married to my wife almost ten years now. I love her but I'm worried that she hasn't been attracted to me for some time now. For the past five years I can only remember one occasion (3 years ago) when she has initiated sex. Prior to that it would have been around 50/50. It always feels to me that she is responding…

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#92 09-01-2020 09:32PM

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I'm in a similar situation, unless I initiate it, there is no intimacy. I've now stopped initiating, I'm going to see how long it goes.

We've been together nearly 20 years, have no kids, but own a house together.

We've had the chat a few times over the last few years, but it keeps going back to square one, and I've had enough. We don't even argue over it anymore, we just seem to be friends that live together. She seems happy with that situation - I'm not.

I'm going to spend the next few months getting my financial affairs in order, then I think we'll be going our separate ways.

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#93 10-01-2020 10:56AM

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Soupandpoitin, that kind of post is below the standard expected in PI, and it's not advice.

I think this thread has run its course, so I am locking it.

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