Anyone else the outcast of their group of friends?

A Pint of Goo

Mutant z wrote: »

I always felt like I didn't fit in with the group I used to hang around with so I no longer associate with them and haven't done so for a long time do I have regrets maybe but you just have to shrug your shoulders move on and accept it as part of life.

Did you go on to make a new group of friends?

Mutant z

endacl wrote: »

Mutant z wrote: »

I always felt like I didn't fit in with the group I used to hang around with so I no longer associate with them and haven't done so for a long time do I have regrets maybe but you just have to shrug your shoulders move on and accept it as part of life.

I guessing that the difference with you is that you had no problem forming and maintaining relationships with a new circle of friends and acquaintances?

Actually that couldn't be further from the truth but you know what i would rather not hang around with people who just use you for when they need you true friendship unfortunately is very hard to come by someone who has your back no matter someone you can completely trust and confide in I've never had that kind of friendship with anyone.

A Pint of Goo

endacl wrote: »

I've always found him/her to be very reasonable on here.

Oh I'm sure he's a great guy. Just funny he's brought it up twice now. Perhaps I'll make a thread about my favourite cheese and he'll pop up to say 'S that figures. It's a fact only psychos like that type of cheese, here look at what he thanked.'

5rtytry56

The Monday morn misery porn thread.
No ordinary poo thread so. (Bit like Mexican food poo)
The lone Range goo.

anewme

A Pint of Goo wrote: »

Oh I'm sure he's a great guy. Just funny he's brought it up twice now. Perhaps I'll make a thread about my favourite cheese and he'll pop up to say 'S that figures. It's a fact only psychos like that type of cheese, here look at what he thanked.'

I find your views very concerning and worrying.

Particularly in light of what has happened over the last two weeks in Ireland.

Anyone who likes a post stating that men kill because women don't put out is an oddball. Why were you the only one to like it?

Did you also call anyone who disagrees with Formula Grid Women a "fat fckn feminist."?

I think you did.

You can't hold views like these which the majority of people find negative and repulsive and then wonder why people are avoiding you.

Yer Da sells Avon

What is it they say about friends...? A friend will help you move house. A good friend will help you move a body.

I have two good friends.

A Pint of Goo wrote:

On one hand I sort of accept this as I'm drawn to people like Charles Bukowski who were loners and didn't have much need for other people. On the other hand it's a bit sad not to be part of the gang.

Well, if you find it sad not to be part of the gang, then you clearly do need other people. So maybe consider ditching the Charles Bukowski, loner aesthetic and find ways of becoming more open around people. Because as John Donne (who was better than Bukowski) said, no man is an island. I know Paul Simon disagreed, but he openly admits to being still crazy (even after all these years, which is ridiculous). Sorry, what was the topic again? It's late and I should be in bed.

riffmongous

A Pint of Goo wrote: »

I'm not trolling though.

Yeah yeah..

But here, in real life do you talk about the same stuff you post about? And the same way? Cause you sound like a reverse 'sjw'..all agenda and social politics stuff the whole time, hard to make real friends as an adult if that's all you go on about

A Pint of Goo

anewme wrote: »

I find your views concerning.

Particularly in light of what has happened over the last two weeks in Ireland.

Anyone who likes a post stating that men kill because winen on't put out is an oddball. Why were you the only one to like it?

Did you also call anyone who disagrees with Formuka 1 Grid Women a fat fckn feminist.?

I think you did.

You can't hold views like these which the majority of people fibd negative and repulsive and then wonder why people are avoiding you.

Okaaaay you're offended, I get it. Maybe you'll get a medal. I don't see the need to bring this up in two random threads I've started.

And yes, I do think that those who are against F1 pit girls are gross fat jealous feminists.

And one more thing, the girl I'm after in work loves my dark humour. So guess what, women aren't all delicate snowflakes who need to be protected!

anewme

A Pint of Goo wrote: »

Okaaaay you're offended, I get it. Maybe you'll get a medal. I don't see the need to bring this up in two random threads I've started.

And yes, I do think that those who are against F1 pit girls are gross fat jealous feminists.

And one more thing, the girl I'm after in work loves my dark humour. So guess what, women aren't all delicate snowflakes who need to be protected!

I think you've answered the question you asked in this thread all by yourself!

A Pint of Goo

riffmongous wrote: »

Yeah yeah..

But here, in real life do you talk about the same stuff you post about? And the same way? Cause you sound like a reverse 'sjw'..all agenda and social politics stuff the whole time, hard to make real friends as an adult if that's all you go on about

I will mock feminists and sjws from time to time. But i'll also talk about birds and football as well like most lads.

A Pint of Goo

anewme wrote: »

I think you've answered the question you asked in this thread all by yourself!

Oh please enlighten me St Pious. Actually don't bother. Just go away and join a knitting circle.

riffmongous

A Pint of Goo wrote: »

I will mock feminists and sjws from time to time. But i'll also talk about birds and football as well like most lads.

Those are shallow topics though, you'll get mates but not friends. Get some more social hobbies, relax, drop the attitude at the start and go for it

Yer Da sells Avon

A Pint of Goo wrote: »

But i'll also talk about birds and football as well like most lads.

What's your favourite kind of bird? I've always liked sparrowhawks. And great tits, obviously. Can't beat great tits.

anewme

A Pint of Goo wrote: »

Oh please enlighten me St Pious. Actually don't bother. Just go away and join a knitting circle.

Stop blaming me for your shortcomings.

Take responsibility for yourself.

anewme

Hapax Legomenon wrote: »

What's your favourite kind of bird? I've always liked sparrowhawks. And great tits, obviously. Can't beat great tits.

swallows.

jaxxx

anewme wrote: »

Stop blaming me for your shortcomings.

Take responsibility for yourself.

Maybe I'm reading this wrong, but I sense a lot of pent-up sexual chemistry between you two

[insert dead meme 'still a better love story than Twilight']

anewme

jaxxx wrote: »

Maybe I'm reading this wrong, but I sense a lot of pent-up sexual chemistry between you two

[insert dead meme 'still a better love story than Twilight']

Have me laughing here.

Nope he's only a young fella and I'm an Owlone.

Not a fat fckin owlone, but an owlone all the same.

Last time I saw 30 was on some hall door.

BeerWolf

Are you your own outcast if you have no friends?

Irish Guitarist

I'm a 42 year old man and my best (to be honest only) friend is a 67 year old Scottish woman who lives here. On the surface we don't have that much in common but we get along great.

My advice would be to not overlook anyone as a potential friend.

5rtytry56

OP , Irish society can tend to be very cliquey. Thus, when a circle of friends disintegrates, like yours, you simply will have to branch out. Irish Guitarist last sentence is the operative for you here!

anewme

At that age, people are getting married, settling down etc, and its quite common I would think for a circle of friends to change a lot and drift apart at that stage.

People are getting more confident as well, and given their spare time is precious, will spend it with those they value.

Agree with Irish Guitarist, great outlook to have.

c68zapdsm5i1ru

Very few school groups remain close friends into adulthood. People's lives change, their interests change, they move away, meet new people etc. It's not being an 'outcast' it's just a natural moving on in life.

Obviously it's nice if a group that were really close at school, retain that tight group friendship all through life. But it's very rare.

jigglypuffstuff

OP starts thread about being an outcast

People start to talk to him, and are slated in the process

OP, try calming down a little

I'm a total outcast. I don't drink , smoke, party, take drugs, eat out, involve myself in any social activities or generally do anything outside of what I enjoy myself. In Ireland that's the equivalent of being invisible

I have friends...we just never spend any time together anymore...it's part of growing up imo. You'll get an odd conversation here and there but generally people's lives are not filled with free time once they get older. And how they spend it varies greatly.

My leisure time is spent reading, researching, exercising, meditating and spending time with my immediate family and partner (visiting places etc)

anewme

pone2012 wrote: »

OP starts thread about being an outcast

People start to talk to him, and are slated in the process

OP, try calming down a little

I'm a total outcast. I don't drink , smoke, party, take drugs, eat out, involve myself in any social activities or generally do anything outside of what I enjoy myself. In Ireland that's the equivalent of being invisible

I have friends...we just never spend any time together anymore...it's part of growing up imo. You'll get an odd conversation here and there but generally people's lives are not filled with free time once they get older. And how they spend it varies greatly.

My leisure time is spent reading, researching, exercising, meditating and spending time with my immediate family and partner (visiting places etc)

There is a thread on after hours on “should prostitution be Legalized”

Please read the comments OP’s comments about disabled people and people who have facial disfigurements.

It should go a long way to answering this question for himself.

endacl

anewme wrote: »

There is a thread on after hours on “should prostitution be Legalized”

Please read the comments OP’s comments about disabled people and people who have facial disfigurements.

It should go a long way to answering this question for himself.

S’ok. He’s been cast out.

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