Belfast rape trial - all 4 found not guilty Mod Note post one

yourdeadwright

I I see Coppinger referring to her as a rape saviour, How can a TD be so stupid to do this when the guys where not found guilty,
Do these people forget about the like of the Guilford 4 who at the time the English would have #ibelived we have courts of law for a reason so people get a fair trail ,

Sofiztikated

Irishrebe, you're guilty of generalising about men as much as you are blaming Men™ for about women.

I've been in situations that I've felt threatened, by both men and women. It happens, regardless of your gender, and regardless of the gender of the person threatening you. **** sake, it happens, and the other person might not even know you are feeling threatened.

And ask any man, which would he rather get between, 2 men squaring off on each other, or 2 women? It's humans that have the propensity for great harm, not a single gender.

Have a look in your local paper. The one that reports on the local courts. Men are up for assaulting other men all the ****ing time. You think the average bloke isn't has nothing to fear, or less to fear than women? Claiming "my victimhood as a woman is greater than your victimhood as a man," is based on your past history clouding your judgement.

And the chats between women can be very bit as vile as mens. One night at a party, my wife showed my sister a picture of Jensen Ackles, and that started a 15 minute "pfwaorr"ing session, and included this quote from my wife, a regular Irish 30 year old woman (She's more than regular, I think she's the business, but you know what I mean), "I'd ****ing ruin him, he wouldn't walk right for a month." And she'll admit when she's chatting with her bestie, it gets graphic.

(I've jumped from page 164(ish) to reply, so I've missed a bit, just wanted to say this.)

pumpkin4life

Lads get drunk at party.

Rugby lads more attractive to wans than most men so women are more likely to do something crazy with them. Something the vast majority of men will never experience.

Everyone has too much to drink, no one really has any idea what is going on but looks more consensual than forced based on the evidence of the holding the door open wan.

Woman in question feels used/regrets what happened, rationalizes (whether it was or not) that it was rape, because she did something that is frowned on by society in some shape or form.

Case gets pushed forward because some high end up people want it pushed.

The lads get their reputation destroyed, this woman gets her reputation destroyed and everyone loses. Another sad page in a sad story.

Lesson? Maybe people should listen to George Hook more and this kind of thing won't happen to people.

SAMTALK

All i'm hearing in the last day or so is how there are rallies being held all over the country in support of the girl (and other issues ) and how this case will stop a lot of cases being reported.

In my mind it will also cause a lot of false reports to happen because some people would thrive on all this attention and controversy .

pumpkin4life

SAMTALK wrote: »

All i'm hearing in the last day or so is how there are rallies being held all over the country in support of the girl (and other issues ) and how this case will stop a lot of cases being reported.

In my mind it will also cause a lot of false reports to happen because some people would thrive on all this attention and controversy .

That's the danger.

Victim culture on women (#metoo, #Ibelieveher) makes women look for threats that aren't there and lads get destroyed as a result. Sad thing is is that it destroys the words of women who have been sexually abused and raped.

Sidebaro

SAMTALK wrote:

In my mind it will also cause a lot of false reports to happen because some people would thrive on all this attention and controversy .

Yes, I can see women lining up to be labelled a slut and a liar on a nationwide scale.

SAMTALK

Sidebaro wrote: »

Yes, I can see women lining up to be labelled a slut and a liar on a nationwide scale.

Id imagine they wouldnt be thinking like this !

pjohnson

Sidebaro wrote: »

Yes, I can see women lining up to be labelled a slut and a liar on a nationwide scale.

Unnamed women while the accused get no such anonymity.

Guy:Incognito

cloudatlas wrote: »

as soon as there is a point made about this case that posters don't want to engage with there are flights of fancy, 'what if dara was a man' 'what if the complainant was a man' look at this other case, just look over there not here at what's going on here. It's becoming boring.

People pontificating about how they know better than the jury in the case or the judge or how they "know" they were guilty or how innocent people shouldn't be allowed to resume their careers and should have their lives ruined because of false allegations or defaming innocent people online because they can hide in the mob or marching based on half arsed twitter hashtags and very little actual information . Is long past becoming boring.


Focus your energy on people that have actually committed crimes if that's what you want to do with your life and leave people that have be fairly tried to get on with their lives.

There's a lot wrong with pursuing people based on your own I'll informed opinions, ignoring any evidence.

FrancieBrady

Sidebaro wrote: »

Well if they're unnamed then they won't get all that juicy attention so no point falsely accusing somebody so.

Preserving only the complainant's anonymity makes it a no loss situation for somebody with a grudge.

They have nothing to lose whereas the sad 'no smoke without fire' stigma ruins the accused with the bonus that they might be found guilty.

That has to looked at and the procedure changed.

Fr Tod Umptious

pjohnson wrote: »

Unnamed women while the accused get no such anonymity.

People again seem to be mixing up a false accusation and a not guilty of rape verdict.

This was not a false accusation.

27-year-old Jacinta O’Connor of 3 Steele Row, Killorglin in the past few weeks has been convicted and given a sentence for a false accusatio of rape.


That's her name out there in public, anyone who wants to call her a slut and a lier may do so.

Guy:Incognito

Sidebaro wrote: »

Yes, I can see women lining up to be labelled a slut and a liar on a nationwide scale.

Stop a random person on the street. Do you reckon it's more likely they'll know paddy Jackson was tried for rape or the name of the girl from the UK who's details were never in the press?

goz83

Sidebaro wrote: »

What kind of attention do you perceive they were seeking so?

Thus sort maybe

https://nypost.com/2017/08/25/woman-heading-to-prison-after-falsely-accusing-15-men-of-rape/

Ulysses Gaze

Fr Tod Umptious wrote: »

People again seem to be mixing up a false accusation and a not guilty of rape verdict.

This was not a false accusation.

27-year-old Jacinta O’Connor of 3 Steele Row, Killorglin in the past few weeks has been convicted and given a sentence for a false accusatio of rape.


That's her name out there in public, anyone who wants to call her a slut and a lier may do so.

Suspended Sentence

To ape the current outrage on Twitter. #gendersentencinggap

Assetbacked

Fr Tod Umptious wrote: »

People again seem to be mixing up a false accusation and a not guilty of rape verdict.

This was not a false accusation.

27-year-old Jacinta O’Connor of 3 Steele Row, Killorglin in the past few weeks has been convicted and given a sentence for a false accusatio of rape.


That's her name out there in public, anyone who wants to call her a slut and a lier may do so.

Equally, the woman has not proved that she was not lying. I’m not saying she should, I’m just saying that your logic in claiming that it was not a false accusation is equally applicable to make the assumption that she is lying. We don’t know.

SAMTALK

Sidebaro wrote: »

What kind of attention do you perceive they were seeking so?

The same attention that the girl in question is getting , the "i believer her", the rallies, the social media

Sidebaro

FrancieBrady wrote:

Preserving only the complainant's anonymity makes it a no loss situation for somebody with a grudge.

If you are found out to be falsely accusing somebody then I don't imagine it's a no loss situation.

goz83

Fr Tod Umptious wrote: »

People again seem to be mixing up a false accusation and a not guilty of rape verdict.

This was not a false accusation.

27-year-old Jacinta O’Connor of 3 Steele Row, Killorglin in the past few weeks has been convicted and given a sentence for a false accusatio of rape.


That's her name out there in public, anyone who wants to call her a slut and a lier may do so.

I didn’t see that one plastered all over the news tbh. Anyone else?

It must not have got much publicity

Sidebaro

Guy:Incognito wrote:

Stop a random person on the street. Do you reckon it's more likely they'll know paddy Jackson was tried for rape or the name of the girl from the UK who's details were never in the press?

Exactly, nobody knows who she is so why was the poster claiming that people will falsely accuse someone just to get the attention?

FrancieBrady

Sidebaro wrote: »

If you are found out to be falsely accusing somebody then I don't imagine it's a no loss situation.

That is true, but it is a clearly (look at those caught) a risk people are taking.

Sidebaro

goz83 wrote:

Thus sort maybe

They seek the attention of going to jail?

spookwoman

Ulysses Gaze wrote: »

Suspended Sentence

To ape the current outrage on Twitter. #gendersentencinggap

nope no gender gap here Remember the guy who raped his girlfriend while she slept, he got a suspended sentence.
http://www.thejournal.ie/rape-sentence-appealed-norway-2487585-Dec2015/

Mrs Shuttleworth

sightband wrote: »

He is sad and pathetic, a lot of that stock are and live in a protected bubble where they are treated like gods and have a very skewed pereception of real life and how to treat people. Private school rugby lads in my experience are a bunch of arseholes. You are still getting and growing numbers of former students of south dublin private schools who are in their mid forties fat slobs on the terraces of donnybrook drunk midday for some meaningless teenage schools game of rugby and it descends to violence, that in my opinion defines pathetic. The whole Ross o Carrol Kelly series of satire isn’t too far from the truth.

I was in college in TCD with a load of these types and the atmosphere in the class was toxic.

There's tremendous pressure on women to be sexually active, at all ages but particularly in the late teens/early twenties to keep up with the gang and the belief that if don't you won't find a partner later on. I'm convinced that that period contributed in no small way to me becoming asexual in adulthood and I don't find men sexually attractive at all now.

This case and what has come out reinforces that belief. The only fault of the girl here is being stupid enough to sleep with such muck in the first place.

Sidebaro

SAMTALK wrote:

The same attention that the girl in question is getting , the "i believer her", the rallies, the social media

Don't forget the labelling of slut and liar.

Sidebaro

FrancieBrady wrote:

That is true, but it is a clearly (look at those caught) a risk people are taking.

You are assuming she falsely accused them.

SAMTALK

Sidebaro wrote: »

Exactly, nobody knows who she is so why was the poster claiming that people will falsely accuse someone just to get the attention?

Sorry maybe I didnt explain well enough. I meant "general" attention of the case not the personal.

goz83

Sidebaro wrote: »

They seek the attention of going to jail?

I see it more like how many lives could she ruin before being caught. The fact that she was believed so many times should be seen as the screaming bias towards women in such cases. Similar story with custody rights. Who gets the kids, the house, the dog?

Sidebaro

goz83 wrote:

I didn’t see that one plastered all over the news tbh. Anyone else?

goz83 wrote:

It must not have got much publicity

What national team does she represent?

Guy:Incognito

Sidebaro wrote: »

Exactly, nobody knows who she is so why was the poster claiming that people will falsely accuse someone just to get the attention?

People do things for all sorts of reasons. Some are just crazy.

Anyone who has worked in retail for any length of time will know how many ****ing lunatics there are walking the streets. Most are fully functioning people 99% of the time.

Guy:Incognito

Sidebaro wrote: »

Don't forget the labelling of slut and liar.

Who is being labelled a slut and a liar? Have you a name...................