Wedding Issues

LynnGrace

OP, just to add, she won't change, and all that you can do is try to change how you react to her. I don't know if you have considered / had counselling but I think it would be helpful to you.

You have mentioned a few times that there will be war from your family if she doesn't get her way. Maybe not. Maybe they are being fed lines as much as you are.

It's awful to think that one of the significant people on your life who should be delighted for you and supportive of you, is instead treating you like this. You will be attempting now to break habits of a lifetime and while it is great that your fiancé is so supportive, talking to a professional person should definitely help.

I would query whether she should even be invited to the wedding, tbh. But that's not a discussion for now. Go, enjoy your dress fitting, and start the journey of freeing yourself from toxicity, step by step.

All the best.

jm92

Thank you for all the advice everyone ! Means a lot . Tomorrow is a special day for me . I want to keep it that way

miamee

OP have a lovely day tomorrow! It might be a good idea to switch off the phone for the day to ensure you get peace and quiet to savour the day. Let your mother in law or sister in law take any photos that are necessary on their phones and they can send them to you later

py2006

How was it?

dudara

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dudara