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Bullies. How far would you go for revenge?

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    #62
    dd972
    Closed Accounts Posts: 2,563 ✭✭✭dd972


    Often wonder what it's like in bullies heads to make them such c**ts, hit one in a pub and got chucked out about 5 years after school, bit of a Piaf situation, je ne regre....


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    #63
    bilbot79
    Registered Users Posts: 1,989 ✭✭✭bilbot79


    Vengeance.leads to the dark side


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    #64
    Liam McPoyle
    Closed Accounts Posts: 14,846 ✭✭✭✭Liam McPoyle


    timthumbni wrote: »
    A guy who used to bully me at school has recently came back into my life arena.

    I'm contemplating reversing the favour on him now I'm older. Should I let bygones be bygones?

    I hate bullies. Always did.

    Has anyone any bully stories from school and how you dealt with them?

    Roll him up in a carpet and throw him off a bridge.


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    #65
    ongarboy
    Registered Users Posts: 5,201 ✭✭✭ongarboy


    I think if you are still consumed by hatred for a bully and hell bent on revenge, then you are still letting the bully control your feelings and effectively letting them still win. If you can move beyond that and not let the bully affect you through the constant hate and need for revenge then you are winning. That would be the best revenge!

    I'm not saying that it is easy to do that. I still tense up when I encounter a school bully in the street from more than 25 years ago and get annoyed at myself that I can still feel that way but it just shows what a destructive impact bullying can have. I guess in some way, I'm still trying to put it behind me but I do not wish ill will towards him as that just wouldn't make me happier at all.


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    #66
    MacauDragon
    Registered Users Posts: 217 ✭✭MacauDragon


    Forgive and forget and walk away.



    Then after 10 meters remember life's too short.


    Tyre iron to the back of the knee.


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    #67
    The_Kew_Tour
    Registered Users Posts: 34,069 ✭✭✭✭The_Kew_Tour


    Never been in fight before or after, but kicking lumps out of a bully that made my life hell for few years in school was great feeling.

    And I would do it again


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    #68
    Mesrine65
    Closed Accounts Posts: 3,969 ✭✭✭Mesrine65


    “The best revenge is to be unlike him who performed the injury.” Marcus Aurelius


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    #69
    DEFTLEFTHAND
    Registered Users Posts: 16,500 ✭✭✭✭DEFTLEFTHAND


    Most of the ignoramuses dropouts who bullied people in my school have ended up with no lives. That's good enough for me.

    You reap what you sow.


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    #70
    Agent Smith
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    Saul T Nutzz wrote: »
    Roll him up in a carpet and throw him off a bridge.


    I get that reference.


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    #71
    MacauDragon
    Registered Users Posts: 217 ✭✭MacauDragon


    Mesrine65 wrote: »
    “The best revenge is to be unlike him who performed the injury.” Marcus Aurelius

    You alive him dead ?


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    #72
    Riddle101
    Registered Users Posts: 8,393 ✭✭✭Riddle101


    If he's older he's probably changed now, maybe he's a better person now so not worth seeking revenge on. But if he's still the same as he used to be and starts bullying you again then by all means, you're allowed to stand up for yourself.


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    #73
    The Raptor
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,433 ✭✭✭The Raptor


    There was always someone that had it in for me. All throughout my 20s. To this day, they still try and have a go and I'm in my thirties. Is revenge ok for someone nasty that won't give up.


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    #74
    Capt'n Midnight
    Moderators, Recreation & Hobbies Moderators, Science, Health & Environment Moderators, Technology & Internet Moderators Posts: 90,966 Mod ✭✭✭✭Capt'n Midnight


    tomwaterford wrote: »
    Poison him slowly
    Do not do this :eek:






    They'll just develop an immunity.


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