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    #3992
    tomwaterford
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    CarpeDiem85 wrote: »
    That lingering on shoite pisses me off. When I first tried internet dating, I was a bit green and learnt my lessons so now I have my own set of rules that I stand by. If meeting up is not suggested in the first 3-4 days of chatting, then I move on quick. If they try the sexting or dirty talk, bye bye. I'd like to think I can spot the time wasters a mile away now.

    Though the only thing is you could be cutting off someone who is new to Internet dating....though sometimes I do feel it's jumping the gun by maybe suggesting meeting up if you are only sending maybe 1msg a day??
    :)


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    #3993
    toastedpickles
    Closed Accounts Posts: 9,607 ✭✭✭toastedpickles


    heyday30 wrote: »
    How come toasted?

    Done my back in last night and spent most of it in hospital :o went to work today too and well yeah I'm a bit worse for wear :o


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    #3994
    Trebor176
    Registered Users Posts: 3,409 ✭✭✭Trebor176


    There's no point suggesting meeting, if few messages are exchanged a day. Personally, I prefer to wait a week or slightly more to suggest meeting, just to see how things will go. I'd just like to see how the conversation goes and, if it seems that things are going well, I'll ask. If there doesn't seem to be much of an effort her end, then that's that. I've always been afraid to ask about meeting up so early on. In past experiences, it has actually put her off.


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    #3995
    heyday30
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    toastedpickles wrote: »
    Done my back in last night and spent most of it in hospital :o went to work today too and well yeah I'm a bit worse for wear :o

    What were you doing last night 😜 that put ur back out eh?

    Seriously though ouch. U poor thing


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    #3996
    CarpeDiem85
    Closed Accounts Posts: 774 ✭✭✭CarpeDiem85


    tomwaterford wrote: »
    Though the only thing is you could be cutting off someone who is new to Internet dating....though sometimes I do feel it's jumping the gun by maybe suggesting meeting up if you are only sending maybe 1msg a day??
    :)

    Yeah I know what you mean. I think I like a good flow to a chat too, if that's not happening, we probably wouldn't get on well in real life. I was chatting to some guys for months and we maybe met up 2-3 times. I learnt from that, it was going nowhere so no point meeting again. Any good relationship I've been in was sparks flying from the get go and I'd like that again.


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    #3997
    toastedpickles
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    heyday30 wrote: »
    What were you doing last night 😜 that put ur back out eh?

    Seriously though ouch. U poor thing

    Doing silly things shall we say! :o

    I'll be ok soon i hope :)


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    #3998
    heyday30
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    toastedpickles wrote: »
    Doing silly things shall we say! :o

    I'll be ok soon i hope :)

    Oohhh silly things hmmm.

    Did you get pain reliefe or anything?


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    #3999
    toastedpickles
    Closed Accounts Posts: 9,607 ✭✭✭toastedpickles


    heyday30 wrote: »
    Oohhh silly things hmmm.

    Did you get pain reliefe or anything?

    mmhmm silly things :)

    I've nurofen plus!


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    #4000
    deise08
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    toastedpickles wrote: »
    Doing silly things shall we say! :o

    I'll be ok soon i hope :)

    And what silly things would that be?


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    #4001
    toastedpickles
    Closed Accounts Posts: 9,607 ✭✭✭toastedpickles


    deise08 wrote: »
    And what silly things would that be?

    You'd know ;) :pac:

    Ah no i decided to go kickboxing again for the first time in a few years and well it took its toll on me :o


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    #4002
    [Deleted User]
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    heyday30 wrote: »
    How are ye all tonight?

    Very content and calm, which is surprising considering how I was yesterday. :)


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    #4003
    heyday30
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    toastedpickles wrote: »
    mmhmm silly things :)

    I've nurofen plus!

    Ah you'll be grand so. Do a few stretches before next time 😜


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    #4004
    toastedpickles
    Closed Accounts Posts: 9,607 ✭✭✭toastedpickles


    heyday30 wrote: »
    Ah you'll be grand so. Do a few stretches before next time 😜

    Ah yeah I'll live :) Duly noted ;)


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    #4005
    tomwaterford
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    CarpeDiem85 wrote: »
    Yeah I know what you mean. I think I like a good flow to a chat too, if that's not happening, we probably wouldn't get on well in real life. I was chatting to some guys for months and we maybe met up 2-3 times. I learnt from that, it was going nowhere so no point meeting again. Any good relationship I've been in was sparks flying from the get go and I'd like that again.
    Only once ever I've had kinda sparks fly from the get go.(and she had to emigrate for work..after a few weeks :( )...usually takes me ages to get comfortable around people...if you know what I mean


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    #4006
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    tomwaterford wrote: »
    Only once ever I've had kinda sparks fly from the get go.(and she had to emigrate for work..after a few weeks :( )...usually takes me ages to get comfortable around people...if you know what I mean

    Same here, only had sparks flying on one occasion. Ended up taking me almost a year to get over her though, as much as it hurts for me to admit that.


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    #4007
    CarpeDiem85
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    tomwaterford wrote: »
    Only once ever I've had kinda sparks fly from the get go.(and she had to emigrate for work..after a few weeks :( )...usually takes me ages to get comfortable around people...if you know what I mean

    Yeah I'd be like that too normally but when I met my ex, we hit it off straight away and I felt like I'd known him my whole life. I would love to feel those Sparks and how comfortable I felt with him again. I normally feel shy.


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    #4008
    tomwaterford
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    Karsini wrote: »
    Same here, only had sparks flying on one occasion. Ended up taking me almost a year to get over her though, as much as it hurts for me to admit that.

    :(

    That's a pity!!


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    #4009
    tomwaterford
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    CarpeDiem85 wrote: »
    Yeah I'd be like that too normally but when I met my ex, we hit it off straight away and I felt like I'd known him my whole life. I would love to feel those Sparks and how comfortable I felt with him again. I normally feel shy.

    You'll get there carpe :)

    Though like it's not just wans is be like that with...even lads my own age I know/work with....took me nearly a year to be comfortable and I work with them most days....


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    #4010
    Autosport
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    Evening all, Have I missed much ??


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    #4011
    CarpeDiem85
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    tomwaterford wrote: »
    You'll get there carpe :)

    Though like it's not just wans is be like that with...even lads my own age I know/work with....took me nearly a year to be comfortable and I work with them most days....

    I'd be a slow burner like that too. How did your other date go or do you want to say ;)


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    #4012
    toastedpickles
    Closed Accounts Posts: 9,607 ✭✭✭toastedpickles


    So I've tomorrow off, in a desparate attempt for some company, whos wants to do something tomorrow? :pac: I have a moderately built car, 40 euro and just under half a tank of fuel


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    #4013
    CarpeDiem85
    Closed Accounts Posts: 774 ✭✭✭CarpeDiem85


    toastedpickles wrote: »
    So I've tomorrow off, in a desparate attempt for some company, whos wants to do something tomorrow? :pac: I have a moderately built car, 40 euro and just under half a tank of fuel

    Disneyland Paris?


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    #4014
    toastedpickles
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    CarpeDiem85 wrote: »
    Disneyland Paris?

    It's a date :D


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    #4015
    CarpeDiem85
    Closed Accounts Posts: 774 ✭✭✭CarpeDiem85


    toastedpickles wrote: »
    It's a date :D

    J'adore! Polish up the Saab :)


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    #4016
    toastedpickles
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    CarpeDiem85 wrote: »
    J'adore! Polish up the Saab :)

    way ahead of you :)


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    #4017
    Autosport
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    Oh la la :D


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    #4018
    tomwaterford
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    CarpeDiem85 wrote: »
    I'd be a slow burner like that too. How did your other date go or do you want to say ;)

    Went well (I taught anyway)
    We were meant to meet up sat night when she was out with friends....but I was too wreaked to go out after work

    So texted her to enjoy herself and what not...then was too busy Sunday/forgot to text her...and mentioned this to someone who kinda gave out to me for being flaky!!


    So kinda snapchatd/whatsapped during the week and sure we're half meant to meet up this weekend....I dunno though...kinda fizzling out abit tbh


    It's a pity really as she's wicked sound and very pretty......just I dunno like....I get the feeling she's just being polite msging back...maybe she's too sound!!




    *im going to be eaten by cats when I die aren't I :(:(


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    #4019
    CarpeDiem85
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    toastedpickles wrote: »
    way ahead of you :)

    You can swing by the Eiffel Tower while you're at it.


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    #4020
    toastedpickles
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    CarpeDiem85 wrote: »
    You can swing by the Eiffel Tower while you're at it.

    Oh i can now? :pac:


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    #4021
    Trebor176
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    tomwaterford wrote: »
    Went well (I taught anyway)
    We were meant to meet up sat night when she was out with friends....but I was too wreaked to go out after work

    So texted her to enjoy herself and what not...then was too busy Sunday/forgot to text her...and mentioned this to someone who kinda gave out to me for being flaky!!


    So kinda snapchatd/whatsapped during the week and sure we're half meant to meet up this weekend....I dunno though...kinda fizzling out abit tbh


    It's a pity really as she's wicked sound and very pretty......just I dunno like....I get the feeling she's just being polite msging back...maybe she's too sound!!




    *im going to be eaten by cats when I die aren't I :(:(

    Don't think too negatively. Maybe if you do get a chance to go out again at the weekend, you'll both end up having a great time, and who knows where things may lead.


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