Punching a woman - Justified or not? - MOD WARNING FIRST POST

bumper234

Temptamperu wrote: »

It is foolish to chase after revenge and that doesn't make you a victim.

chasing after revenge does not

Standing there and taking it does.

pundy

cant wait to go out on saturday and start fights with some fat b!tches

Ray Palmer

gumbo1 wrote: »

You absolute scumbag! "Flooring a fat bitch" forany reason is never justified. I ccertainly hope that you got floored shortly afterwards!

When I was 12 there was this really irritating girl. She apparently "liked" me so was always trying to get my attention. Eventually I told her I really disliked her and not to bother me.

Her 14 year old sister arrived the next day and threw rocks at me and when she knocked me off my bike she came over and kicked me on the ground. I got up and punched her smack in the face.

A day later my mother calls me in and no happy as she had been told I attacked a girl. I told her what happened and she said I still had to apologise. She told me any girl at that age could be pregnant. Which is something I took to heart.

I then explained that this girl was a good foot taller than me and out weighed me by a few stone and was not like other girls. I said I would never apologise as she attacked me and I defended myself. My mother accepted that but did try to get me to say I was sorry.

Anyway time moved on and one of the brothers attacked me as revenge some 5 years later which I assure you he regrets to this day.

Anyway this woman is now still about 5 stone heavier than me and at least half a foot taller than me. She is also a very butch lesbian with a lot of tattoos and a motorbike. I always said she wasn't like other girls and if she attacked me now I still think she would have an unfair weight and height advantage.

What is funny is I shagged the sister who was the cause of all the problem as she grew up to be quite pretty.

I would resist hitting a woman but I would do it if they were a similar or larger size or build. The same with anybody but I don't really get into physical altercations.

MRnotlob606

kneemos wrote: »

Sound like you hate women.Are you gay?

A gay man has much more respect for a woman then that...

GenieOz

MRnotlob606 wrote: »

A gay man has much more respect for a woman then that...

Really, all of them?

MRnotlob606

Ray Palmer wrote: »

When I was 12 there was this really irritating girl. She apparently "liked" me so was always trying to get my attention. Eventually I told her I really disliked her and not to bother me.

Her 14 year old sister arrived the next day and threw rocks at me and when she knocked me off my bike she came over and kicked me on the ground. I got up and punched her smack in the face.

A day later my mother calls me in and no happy as she had been told I attacked a girl. I told her what happened and she said I still had to apologise. She told me any girl at that age could be pregnant. Which is something I took to heart.

I then explained that this girl was a good foot taller than me and out weighed me by a few stone and was not like other girls. I said I would never apologise as she attacked me and I defended myself. My mother accepted that but did try to get me to say I was sorry.

Anyway time moved on and one of the brothers attacked me as revenge some 5 years later which I assure you he regrets to this day.

Anyway this woman is now still about 5 stone heavier than me and at least half a foot taller than me. She is also a very butch lesbian with a lot of tattoos and a motorbike. I always said she wasn't like other girls and if she attacked me now I still think she would have an unfair weight and height advantage.

What is funny is I shagged the sister who was the cause of all the problem as she grew up to be quite pretty.

I would resist hitting a woman but I would do it if they were a similar or larger size or build. The same with anybody but I don't really get into physical altercations.

I think you might be a part of the problem

Amirani

MRnotlob606 wrote: »

I think you might be a part of the problem

I think it would be fair to assume that the shagging was consensual. How does that make him part of the problem?

jimgoose

Regardless of gender, anyone who punches me is quite likely to get one in return fairly lively, possibly with more back-spin than they were expecting.

Artful_Badger

MRnotlob606 wrote: »

A gay man has much more respect for a woman then that...

I believe the appropriate response to that post would have been.

Sine when did gay men hate women ?

Madam

I'm just surprised there were no doormen about and that he wasn't ejected (along with the punchee), or at least the police should have been called for the 'assaults' that took place:( I bet your mammy loves you OP:rolleyes:

suicide_circus

I defended myself against a drunk ex girlfriend who attacked me. Didnt punch her but sent her flying with a very violent push. Drew my arms back and shot two open hands into her shoulders as hard as I could. I was very angry and she had slapped punched and kicked me at that stage. She then started crying and telling me she loved me. We then had a serious ride. Toxic as fook. True story.

jimgoose

suicide_circus wrote: »

I defended myself against a drunk ex girlfriend who attacked me. Didnt punch her but sent her flying with a very violent push. Drew my arms back and shot two open hands into her shoulders as hard as I could. I was very angry and she had slapped punched and kicked me at that stage. She then started crying and telling me she loved me. We then had a serious ride.

Fight Sex. Daycint. :cool:

Legs.Eleven

pundy wrote: »

ah thats a sh!te comeback

Why would I need a comeback?

Legs.Eleven

pundy wrote: »

cant wait to go out on saturday and start fights with some fat b!tches

That's hilarious. 10/10 for wit.

Ray Palmer

MRnotlob606 wrote: »

I think you might be a part of the problem

Years after all events.

DeltaWhite

All I can say to the OP is - EW

I would honestly rather gauge out my own eyeballs rather than have you dance up to me in a nightclub.

Your attitude sucks bigtime, and I wouldnt even care if you looked like Tom Hardy - I'd rather DIE than have you within a mile radius of me..

You sound like a total dirtbag and honestly - would not be surprised if youre single and alone... deffo deserve it.

Gannicus

DeltaWhite wrote: »

All I can say to the OP is - EW

I would honestly rather gauge out my own eyeballs rather than have you dance up to me in a nightclub.

Your attitude sucks bigtime, and I wouldnt even care if you looked like Tom Hardy - I'd rather DIE than have you within a mile radius of me..

You sound like a total dirtbag and honestly - would not be surprised if youre single and alone... deffo deserve it.

Holy crap!!!

:eek::eek::eek::eek::eek::eek::eek::eek::eek::eek::eek::eek::eek:

Strongly worded would be an understatement.

MRnotlob606

suicide_circus wrote: »

I defended myself against a drunk ex girlfriend who attacked me. Didnt punch her but sent her flying with a very violent push. Drew my arms back and shot two open hands into her shoulders as hard as I could. I was very angry and she had slapped punched and kicked me at that stage. She then started crying and telling me she loved me. We then had a serious ride. Toxic as fook. True story.

Well Constructed, I like the Build-up and the plot twist towards the end 10/10, Would read again.

DeltaWhite

Big Steve wrote: »

Holy crap!!!

:eek::eek::eek::eek::eek::eek::eek::eek::eek::eek::eek::eek::eek:

Strongly worded would be an understatement.

What can I say - his thread caught me on a bad day

pundy

Legs.Eleven wrote: »

Why would I need a comeback?

ah nevermind. you'll never understand

yawhat!

Ur a dirty scumbag and hope you don't reproduce. Its never okay to hit women unless they are trying to chop your cock off with a hedge cutters!

Tony EH

jamo2oo9 wrote: »

When she fell, she looked like the twin towers falling...

Ahem...inside job...

pundy

yawhat! wrote: »

Ur a dirty scumbag and hope you don't reproduce. Its never okay to hit women unless they are trying to chop your cock off with a hedge cutters!

well he never said it was a woman... it was a fat b!tch

Un Croissant

DeltaWhite wrote: »

All I can say to the OP is - EW

I would honestly rather gauge out my own eyeballs rather than have you dance up to me in a nightclub.

Your attitude sucks bigtime, and I wouldnt even care if you looked like Tom Hardy - I'd rather DIE than have you within a mile radius of me..

You sound like a total dirtbag and honestly - would not be surprised if youre single and alone... deffo deserve it.

On the other hand, you sound delightful.

MRnotlob606

we should just never use violence

RDM_83 again

Actually though people are saying his response should have been less instinctive and he should have got the bouncers to intervene, which I agree would have been sensible, the attacker was (if this a truthful account but I have no more reason to disbelieve this than the various other backslapping stories on AH) clearly a very violent woman, my brothers wife treated a woman in A&E with a punctured/collapsed lung from a stamp with a high heel shoe the initial punch could have been just the start if he hadn;t intervened.

bumper234

MRnotlob606 wrote: »

we should just never use violence

Nice dream.

Potatoeman

RDM_83 again wrote: »

Actually though people are saying his response should have been less instinctive and he should have got the bouncers to intervene, which I agree would have been sensible, the attacker was (if this a truthful account but I have no more reason to disbelieve this than the various other backslapping stories on AH) clearly a very violent woman, my brothers wife treated a woman in A&E with a punctured/collapsed lung from a stamp with a high heel shoe the initial punch could have been just the start if he hadn;t intervened.

A gentleman never hits a lady but she wasn't a lady.

on the river

Potatoeman wrote: »

A gentleman never hits a lady but she wasn't a lady.

never hit a women regardless of the situation. the best policy is to fart in her face. that will give a clear message your taking none of her rubbish.

Czarcasm

jamo2oo9 wrote: »

So I was out last night with the lads, few pints and shots were had and then I went straight for the dancefloor looking to settle for my score for the night. As I was going through different women on the floor, I danced with them for a bit to see if they were interested. If not, I'd move on to the next one. At one stage, there was a "fat bitch" (should say well-built tall girl..) and I didn't want to look like an arsehole, ignoring her so I danced with her for a bit but moved on as I wasn't interested.

Next I met my friend so I started chatting up with her until suddenly, I was pushed aside by this fat bitch I danced before and she floored my friend. Gave my friend a bloody nose so I reacted instantly and decked her in the face. When she fell, she looked like the twin towers falling. I never met this cúnt before and I was lost at why did she punch my friend for no reason. Jealousy?


Was that punch I threw justified or did I step over the line?

For someone who doesn't want to look like an arsehole, you went the wrong way about it, on a number of counts. Like so many of these threads though, the OP is usually found to be economical with the truth, and something tells me you think you were justified regardless of whether anyone figures you behaved like a scumbag or not.

None of that matters now as what's done is done, but for future reference, you shouldn't be so worried whether a girl thinks you're an asshole or not for not dancing with her. Punching her lights out on the other hand, well, I assume you won't be making a habit of it, so I'd chalk it down and move on, and certainly don't start any more threads boasting that you hit a woman. There will always be somebody that will validate your behavior, but is that really a standard you want to set for yourself?

"Well the internet told me it was ok"...

Very childish attitude, and not one that's ever gone well for anyone.