Article: "men are too willing to forget marriage vows when they are away"

BillyMitchel

whoopsadaisydoodles wrote: »

But of course her husband would never do that.

Her husband gave the babysitter one when he came back from the pub.

Was just a horrible read, even come the end of it I was like is that it. I've seen teenagers write better on bebo.

TheLastMohican

Suceed wrote: »

Remarks about her looks and intelligence, and calls to meme her picture.

Good to see online bullying is alive and well.

Are you serious? This is a rubbish story by a pretty run-of-the-mill hack. If it had been penned by a male ........ insinuating that women play around willy nilly, you no doubt, would be castigating the writer.

lockon...

I'll leave this here

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tP8581wEEFM

HTML5!

lockon... wrote: »

I'll leave this here

Ah well that's it then.

Some guy cheats and all men are cheaters?

Good point well made. :rolleyes:

Grayson

lockon... wrote: »

I'll leave this here

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tP8581wEEFM

That does sound very put on.

AnonoBoy

I'm pretty impressed at how on the ball they are at deleting comments. Mine was gone within 2 minutes.

Kudos Cork Indepedent commentator deleter dudes.

Why don't they just disable comments?

admiralofthefleet

lockon... wrote: »

I'll leave this here

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=V4dDZPqcBf8

judgefudge

lockon... wrote: »

I'll leave this here

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tP8581wEEFM

Haha Jesus. What a tosspot. Thankfully most men aren't like that.

Abi

suicide_circus wrote: »

Havnt spent that much time in Cork but cant see how you would live a "Sex & the City" lifestyle there...

I've no issue with Cork or any other county in the country. I take issue however, that someone is paying her to publically embaress herself, while trying to make a career as a columist. This outdated 'girl about town' shyte is vomit inducing, and cringe worthy writing.

That shït needs to go, and come up with some original ideas for what I assume she is trying to appeal to a twenty something audience, and lose the half-brained ideas that men are the only gender that cheats.

It's pathetic, and of course it was going to annoy people with those juvenile blinkered accusations.

One reaps what they sow, and if it is journalistic respect shes looking for shes going the wrong way about it.

AnonoBoy

I've read a few of the articles by her on that site.

She's got no future as a writer - no style, no way with words and nothing interesting to say. Clunky nonsense which I can only hope for her sake she dashes off in one go and doesn't bother to read over even once.

Here's what she had to say in the three other articles I read boiled down into one sentence:

"Chat up lines are mostly sh*t"
http://corkindependent.com/20121206/healthbeauty/what-not-to-say-to-your-next-girlfriend-S55464.html

"Don't f*ck people you work with at the Christmas party."
http://corkindependent.com/20121213/healthbeauty/dont-dip-your-nib-in-the-office-ink-S55933.html

"I watched Catfish on TV and don't like online dating."
http://corkindependent.com/20130124/healthbeauty/catfish-S58158.html

Riveting stuff I'm sure you'll agree.

lockon...

lockon... wrote: »

I'll leave this here

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tP8581wEEFM

OMG there is a part 2 to this story

https://soundcloud.com/niallboylanatnight/follow-up-with-dave-who-got

Suceed

TheLastMohican wrote: »

Are you serious? This is a rubbish story by a pretty run-of-the-mill hack. If it had been penned by a male ........ insinuating that women play around willy nilly, you no doubt, would be castigating the writer.

If I were to bother would be castigating the writing and to some extent the writer, but I wouldn't be making disparaging remarks about his looks or his intelligence.

admiralofthefleet

admiralofthefleet wrote: »

I just asked them why on their facebook page

They have just replied to ya

http://www.facebook.com/corkindependent/posts/10151310843798953?comment_id=24709387&notif_t=feed_comment_reply

cantdecide

http://corkindependent.com/20130207/news/girls-weekend-away-S58921.html#comment-793859990

Article updated with all comments added.

https://www.facebook.com/corkindependent/posts/138413722993634?comment_id=214081&notif_t=share_reply

Wompa1

Everybody here that has viewed the article and commented just gave this lady views. I have not read it, nor do I intend to.

AnonoBoy

Wompa1 wrote: »

Everybody here that has viewed the article and commented just gave this lady views. I have not read it, nor do I intend to.

You go girl! :pac:

Fight the power!

Monty - the one and only

Wompa1 wrote: »

Everybody here that has viewed the article and commented just gave this lady views. I have not read it, nor do I intend to.

I couldn't get passed the first paragraph. I had looked at the thread first and thought it couldn't be that bad... I was right. It's far worse.

Wompa1

AnonoBoy wrote: »

You go girl! :pac:

Fight the power!

Oh You! Teehee

More seriously though, my resolution last year was to no longer click on articles or sites about a-holes that don't deserve the attention. No Jedward, Justin Bieber, One Direction, Big Brother etc. Views equate to popularity.

The King of Moo

Some entirely real comments on the article left by genuine members of the public:

Originally posted by "Tamara"
Great article! Look forward to read more of your work. You're my hero!

Originally posted by "Lisa"
Great story! Girls watch out for your men when they go away with the lads. Innocent sounding golf weekend may be anything but!

Originally posted by "Casandra"
Yes I must agree with this Sandra. It seems like men are less likely to stick to their vows. I worry
other half sometimes and if he is cheating. I don't know what I'd do if he did.
U are right when you say that trust might not even be there any more. It's hard to know what men are
really doing when they are away on their business trips or golfing.
Very seldom do I not wonder what my husband could be up when he is away gallivanting about with
a bunch of other 'lads' and and what they get up to when they are alone with other women. 'Lad' culture is
juvenile.
If it makes things better for you Sandra I think that us women are more honest and less likely to have
sex with another man while married.I do think think women wouldn't involve themselves if the knew that the
man was married or in a relationship as so many of us fear the same thing happening to us.
On the other hand it takes two to tango and when infidelity occurs it does involve another party, but it is
usually carried out under the pretence that both parties are single.
Like, if what you say is true (and I fear it to be) then men seem be actively seeking affairs with the lying
devious intention that it doesn't matter that they are married or not and that is unacceptable.
Your article really compounded an inkling I've been having for a while. Thanks hun.
p.s. hope your love life sorts itself out.

Originally posted by "Sandra"
Brilliant article! Sums up 99% of men!

Martyn1989

The King of Moo wrote: »

Some entirely real comments on the article left by genuine members of the public:

Casandra knows her stuff, what an intelligent and articulate individual.

AnonoBoy

I think I might have posted that Tamara one actually.

The King of Moo

AnonoBoy wrote: »

I think I might have posted that Tamara one actually.

I thought they were all written by staff members .

On the bright side, you could make a living as a freelance shill writing positive comments for hated journalists.

Toto Wolfcastle

And Sandra is a Boardsie too. From earlier in the thread:

The_Gatsby wrote: »

"Brilliant article! Sums up 99% of men!"

Posted the above comment posing as a woman named Sandra. Currently awaiting moderation...

EDIT: I didn't even realise the author of the article was called Sandra. I'm so good at this

The King of Moo

Bobblehead Panda wrote: »

And Sandra is a Boardsie too. From earlier in the thread:

Hhm, I suppose I could argue I can't be expected to remember that long ago.

It seems I can't tell the difference between fake enthusiasm meant to take the piss and fake enthusiasm meant to present the appearance of agreement.

Bravo to all you fake commenters. Casandra must be real though. No-one ould be bothered to write that much for a fake comment.

tdv123

I'm pretty skeptical anyone actually hit on here in the first place.

hatrickpatrick

I don't find sexism like this quite as irritating as the fact that if you reversed the genders you'd probably get sued.
Equality my ass.

seenitall

hatrickpatrick wrote: »

I don't find sexism like this quite as irritating as the factthat if you reversed the genders you'd probably get sued.
Equality my ass.

Eh, not so fast.

Have a read of this (with special attention paid to the conclusion in the last paragraph):

http://galwayindependent.com/stories/item/4642/2012-45/No-more-Mr-Nice-Guy

Has he been sued? I don't think so.