How many sexual partners have you had so far?

AlabamaWorley

sbsquarepants wrote: »

You're going to fúck yourself next?:D

Walked right into that one!

midlandsmissus

Gnobe wrote: »

No because I don't want them to think I'm weird. I know they'll think I'm weird.

I just don't think I'm good enough frankly. So do them a favour by not bothering.

Gnobe this is depression all over. Alot of us have had it it.

This is a symptom of the disease.

Believe me no-one is thinking of you like you think of yourself. Try to see that these thought patterns are the symptom of a disease, and it is not true that people are thinking you are weird/ not good enough. It is YOU thinking this, not them.

Personally I'd prefer a person with little experience rather than some-one who'd been with hundreds.

Knowing some-one has been with alot of women doesn't make any woman go wow.

Pedant

Gnobe wrote: »

No because I don't want them to think I'm weird. I know they'll think I'm weird.

I just don't think I'm good enough frankly. So do them a favour by not bothering.

Gnobe, I think you're lucky to be a virgin, in my opinion. It's something to be valued and not thrown away so easily. Think of your virginity as a precious jewel. Would you give it to a hooker that you'll never meet again? I wouldn't. You should preserve it for someone you love. Virginity has always been a symbol of purity and youth.

Honestly, I think loosing your virginity should be the least of your worries. I think you are in the midst of another more serious issue. For reading you post, I think you may be experiencing depression, other posters have mentioned this already. You're thinking too much about your inadequacies and flaws and making them dominate your thoughts rather than your attributes. Once you eliminate your negative mindset and depression, you'll have more confidence and self-esteem to tackle other issues that may be worrying you, like getting a girlfriend, etc... You need counseling and to go out and socialise with friends more. If you've social anxiety there's ways around that too. I think I have social anxiety disorder (not diagnosed) but there's ways to cure that.

midlandsmissus

Pedant wrote: »

Gnobe, I think you're lucky to be a virgin, in my opinion. It's something to be valued and not thrown away so easily. Think of your virginity as a precious jewel. Would you give it to a hooker that you'll never meet again? I wouldn't. You should preserve it for someone you love. Virginity has always been a symbol of purity and youth.

Honestly, I think loosing your virginity should be the least of your worries. I think you are in the midst of another more serious issue. For reading you post, I think you may be experiencing depression, other posters have mentioned this already. You're thinking too much about your inadequacies and flaws and making them dominate your thoughts rather than your attributes. Once you eliminate your negative mindset and depression, you'll have more confidence and self-esteem to tackle other issues that may be worrying you, like getting a girlfriend, etc... You need counseling and to go out and socialise with friends more. If you've social anxiety there's ways around that too. I think I have social anxiety disorder (not diagnosed) but there's ways to cure that.

Basically underneath it all we're all the same, anxious, worried, thinking we're not good enough.

We're human beings.

Depression sets in when you start to seperate yourself from the human race and think you are the only person thinking/feeling like this.

midlandsmissus

Pedant wrote: »

Gnobe, I think you're lucky to be a virgin, in my opinion. It's something to be valued and not thrown away so easily. Think of your virginity as a precious jewel. Would you give it to a hooker that you'll never meet again? I wouldn't. You should preserve it for someone you love. Virginity has always been a symbol of purity and youth.

Honestly, I think loosing your virginity should be the least of your worries. I think you are in the midst of another more serious issue. For reading you post, I think you may be experiencing depression, other posters have mentioned this already. You're thinking too much about your inadequacies and flaws and making them dominate your thoughts rather than your attributes. Once you eliminate your negative mindset and depression, you'll have more confidence and self-esteem to tackle other issues that may be worrying you, like getting a girlfriend, etc... You need counseling and to go out and socialise with friends more. If you've social anxiety there's ways around that too. I think I have social anxiety disorder (not diagnosed) but there's ways to cure that.

Pedant you sound like a lovely person .

smileyj1987

I would say the number for me is around 45 or thereabouts , lets just say some of them weren't very desirable the next morning :(

Scanlas The 2nd

Gnobe wrote: »

Scanlas The 2nd wrote: »

What have you done so far in your pursuit of sex? Do you talk to women?

No because I don't want them to think I'm weird. I know they'll think I'm weird.

I just don't think I'm good enough frankly. So do them a favour by not bothering.

You're quite clearly not weird. The only way to get better at talking to women is to keep doing it. Focus on having fun and amusing yourself, it will take a while to get over your nervousness but the more you talk to women the less they'll scare you, they're just people, probably worrying about what others think of them.

bb1234567

I prefer weird people anyway ,more interesting than normal people:)

smileyj1987

Scanlas The 2nd wrote: »

You're quite clearly not weird. The only way to get better at talking to women is to keep doing it. Focus on having fun and amusing yourself, it will take a while to get over your nervousness but the more you talk to women the less they'll scare you, they're just people, probably worrying about what others think of them.

That is some good advice and another solid rule is make them laugh . I swear to god it will work . Every GF i have ever had in my life was down to my ability to make them laugh .

Lord Bafford

Pedant wrote: »

Gnobe, I think you're lucky to be a virgin, in my opinion. It's something to be valued and not thrown away so easily. Think of your virginity as a precious jewel. Would you give it to a hooker that you'll never meet again? I wouldn't. You should preserve it for someone you love. Virginity has always been a symbol of purity and youth.

Honestly, I think loosing your virginity should be the least of your worries. I think you are in the midst of another more serious issue. For reading you post, I think you may be experiencing depression, other posters have mentioned this already. You're thinking too much about your inadequacies and flaws and making them dominate your thoughts rather than your attributes. Once you eliminate your negative mindset and depression, you'll have more confidence and self-esteem to tackle other issues that may be worrying you, like getting a girlfriend, etc... You need counseling and to go out and socialise with friends more. If you've social anxiety there's ways around that too. I think I have social anxiety disorder (not diagnosed) but there's ways to cure that.

LoL!:pac:

Lord Bafford

smileyj1987 wrote: »

That is some good advice and another solid rule is make them laugh . I swear to god it will work . Every GF i have ever had in my life was down to my ability to make them laugh .

I've just read some of your posts and none of them are particularly funny?

Pedant

Lord Bafford wrote: »

LoL!:pac:

Someday, you might loose your precious jewel too.

Lord Bafford

Pedant wrote: »

Someday, you might loose your precious jewel too.

Why would I want to lose something so precious? :pac:

I hope you were being sarcastic when you typed that drivel.

Pedant

Lord Bafford wrote: »

Why would I want to lose something so precious? :pac:

So you're implying you haven't lost your precious jewel already. That's cool. Thanks for telling us.

Lord Bafford

Pedant wrote: »

So you're implying you haven't lost your precious jewel already. That's cool. Thanks for telling us.

You've flipflopped from overtly stating that an intact virginity is "precious" and such people are "lucky", to insinuating that they are in fact losers.

You, sir, have been exposed. :pac:

Pedant

Lord Bafford wrote: »

You've flipflopped from overtly stating that an intact virginity is "precious" and such people are "lucky", to insinuating that they are in fact losers.

You, sir, have been exposed. :pac:

Fine, have your precious...

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Iz-8CSa9xj8

msg11

Gnobe wrote: »

No because I don't want them to think I'm weird. I know they'll think I'm weird.

I just don't think I'm good enough frankly. So do them a favour by not bothering.

Lad, this is no way to be thinking. Don't go out and try to talk to every girl you meet. But if one is staring you right in the face, ask her how are ye doing? You never know, she might be having a bad day and want to unload on someone, then you get chatting for the whole night, get her number at the end, then meet up during the week for a meal/cinema then the cycle continues on. If she reacts bad, take it with a pinch of salt, it happens to everyone, some girls are pure fools. Thankfully after a while ye can spot them a mile away.

Could end up in a relationship, all started with a How are you doing? Your just over thinking the whole situation. Sit down with yourself, look at your good sides, see where your going wrong, change it and never go back to it. You'll only get out of this mindset by trying and it's up too yourself to make the change. Don't worrie about your looks or social issues, work on your good sides and feel good about yourself. But try, all you can do it try.

Getting a hooker won't change this at all, you'll in fact make it worse cause you'll see that getting a hooker is the easy way out in all this and eventually you'll be twice as bad.

The Big Red Button

Deleted User wrote: »

How many sexual partners have you had from boards.ie :eek:

I shagged a boardsie this morning! :cool:

He wouldn't be my first boardsie, either ...

Ficheall

Apt location?

(and pun intended, I think)

MarkR

When you say "partners", does that mean willing? *kicks duct tape under bed*

bb1234567

bb1234567 wrote: »

I prefer weird people anyway ,more interesting than normal people:)

Until they tie you up and shove a banana up yer arse you mean.

Nothingbetter2d

xxxJennyxxx wrote: »

Ok I'll take one for the team and ride you :P

Gnobe wrote: »

Naw you can do better me.

I suspect I'm going to be like this for the rest of my life, I'm just socially inept and I hate it. I don't want to keep feeling sorry for myself, but it does bother me how I'm born like this. I suppose people like me aren't meant to procreate so maybe its science and natural selection doing its job I guess. Its hard to accept though but probably the awful truth.

I'm 26 in august, I'm hardly going change now.

xxxJennyxxx wrote: »

To be honest, virgins are great, I've been with a fair few, and there are pleanty of women who think the same as me.
We like to see a virgin as someone who needs a bit of breaking in and who they can teach stuff too, and for me personally I enjoy showing men the ropes when it comes to a bedroom, some men think they know if all. it also gives me great satisfaction when he finally gets it right, makes it all the more special.

Gnobe you lucky devil get in there Poor ould hardonraging has been chasing xxxjennyxxx for months with no sucess.

Send pics and videos when you become a man :D

just remember to play this song in your head after you've done the deed and are walking home

shopaholic01

MarkR wrote: »

When you say "partners", does that mean willing? *kicks duct tape under bed*

RVP 11 wrote: »

Until they tie you up and shove a banana up yer arse you mean.

Something you want to tell us boys;)? We won't judge .........each to their own and all that ...........

Hardonraging

Nothingbetter2d wrote: »

Poor ould hardonraging has been chasing xxxjennyxxx for months with no sucess.

:rolleyes::rolleyes:

She's playing hardball... but i'll charm her with chloroform

shopaholic01

Hardonraging wrote: »

:rolleyes::rolleyes:

She's playing hardball... but i'll charm her with chloroform

Rohypnol, Hardon, rohypnol.

Fighting Irish

Gnobe wrote: »

Naw you can do better me.

I suspect I'm going to be like this for the rest of my life, I'm just socially inept and I hate it. I don't want to keep feeling sorry for myself, but it does bother me how I'm born like this. I suppose people like me aren't meant to procreate so maybe its science and natural selection doing its job I guess. Its hard to accept though but probably the awful truth.

I'm 26 in august, I'm hardly going change now.

lol you'll be grand

Hardonraging

shopaholic01 wrote: »

Rohypnol, Hardon, rohypnol.

I want her to remember tho :rolleyes::rolleyes:

Glimmerdog

It's very easy to slice 100 + birds. It takes a commitment over a number of years but as a young lad you will easily get through 20 per year for 5 years if that's what you are aiming for

Glimmerdog

msg11 wrote: »

Lad, this is no way to be thinking. Don't go out and try to talk to every girl you meet. But if one is staring you right in the face, ask her how are ye doing? You never know, she might be having a bad day and want to unload on someone, then you get chatting for the whole night, get her number at the end, then meet up during the week for a meal/cinema then the cycle continues on. If she reacts bad, take it with a pinch of salt, it happens to everyone, some girls are pure fools. Thankfully after a while ye can spot them a mile away.

Could end up in a relationship, all started with a How are you doing? Your just over thinking the whole situation. Sit down with yourself, look at your good sides, see where your going wrong, change it and never go back to it. You'll only get out of this mindset by trying and it's up too yourself to make the change. Don't worrie about your looks or social issues, work on your good sides and feel good about yourself. But try, all you can do it try.

Getting a hooker won't change this at all, you'll in fact make it worse cause you'll see that getting a hooker is the easy way out in all this and eventually you'll be twice as bad.

Haha nice advice Don Juan. I'd say you are a serious hit the ladies

Glimmerdog

Glimmerdog wrote: »

It's very easy to slice 100 + birds. It takes a commitment over a number of years but as a young lad you will easily get through 20 per year for 5 years if that's what you are aiming for

Anything's possible in Holland.